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By *iss.Bella OP   Woman
6 days ago

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Will you ever go unlos forever?

Or are you one of the OG forumites that have been around for longer than the dodgy furniture and decor?

Do you leave / return often?

What will determine, for you, when it's time to go unlos forever?

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By *acey_RedWoman
6 days ago

Liverpool

I don't think I will ever go UNLOS. My profile will just be abandoned and derelict like Chernobyl.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
6 days ago

North West


"I don't think I will ever go UNLOS. My profile will just be abandoned and derelict like Chernobyl."

Or hidden away like a long lost ancient city waiting to be excavated by archaeologists

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
6 days ago

your head

Probably at some point. Eventually I will have had enough and just walk away or ill just get too old 😂

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
6 days ago

Glasgow / London


"I don't think I will ever go UNLOS. My profile will just be abandoned and derelict like Chernobyl."

You and I both, Lacey.

I’m no quitter. But one day I just won’t bother logging in again.

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By *lessandra_BWoman
6 days ago

Here, There & Everywhere

In 7 years, this is my 3rd reincarnation. The longest I was away, was 1 year. The shortest, a few weeks. I'd like to think I won't go UNLOS again but, never say never 🤷‍♀️😊

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By *acey_RedWoman
6 days ago

Liverpool


"I don't think I will ever go UNLOS. My profile will just be abandoned and derelict like Chernobyl.

Or hidden away like a long lost ancient city waiting to be excavated by archaeologists "

Exactly. If you dig deep enough you might find a rusty buttplug.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
6 days ago

Gloucester

Firstly it took me far too long to work out what UNLOS was lol!

Secondly probably I will at some point but I’ve only just starred to have conversations with people I am genuinely interested in talking to on here so who knows maybe I’ll stay for the chat and forums.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
6 days ago

Ends

I will go unlos forever at some point. At the moment I feel like it’s soon because of personal life stuff. But if not then I think 30 feels like a good age to sign off at.

I’ve not been on the forums long I think I started posting in Covid. I go and come back all the time though. To be honest it’s mostly just when my personal life is getting on top of me or when someone has said something I cannot stand and I need to cool off .

My forever unlos feels like it’s coming soon. I just feel like I’ve done the forums, I’ve done the social hosting, done the swinging thing, it’s just all not as much me anymore. I prefer relationships, I prefer connections. And there’s better places to find non monogamous partners. And there’s places I can find more of my people.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
6 days ago

Ends


"I don't think I will ever go UNLOS. My profile will just be abandoned and derelict like Chernobyl."

Like NSA Chick. She was hottttt

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By *exxyyDy11Man
6 days ago

North West


"I don't think I will ever go UNLOS. My profile will just be abandoned and derelict like Chernobyl.

Or hidden away like a long lost ancient city waiting to be excavated by archaeologists

Exactly. If you dig deep enough you might find a rusty buttplug."

Oh so Atlantis does exist after all

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By *sWyldWoman
6 days ago

Edinburgh

I have been here more years than I care to count, however I'm sure my final UNLOS day will come at some point.

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By *avexxMan
6 days ago

cheshire

wont be long now,,,way way to old,,

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By *estructionDollyWoman
6 days ago

The Deep Dark Woods

I've been on fab with this profile for about 4 years but only really lurked the forums til about a year ago where I started posting regularly.

I doubt I'll ever go UNLOS, when I want a break I just hide my profile and stop logging in. I want it keep my verifications/friends.

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By *ruella DeThrillWoman
6 days ago

Essex

Yeah. I definitely will. I’ve UNLOSed once. Wasn’t quite my time. But I know what my signs are, my limits. And once I reach them I will go.

I don’t want to be the Bob Dylan of fab and outstay my performative peak.

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By *ealitybitesMan
6 days ago

Belfast

This is my 4th profile in 9 years but the one which has lasted the longest.

This one has existed since early 2019 but I haven't been meeting since the start of 2020 for personal reasons.

I didn't log in to my last profile for just over a year and came back long enough to delete it because there was too much of other people's drama linked to it.

I had 30 plus verifications but wanted a blank slate and created this profile within a week of deleting that one.

Fab has never been anything more than a hobby and I only use the forums so I could quite easily just disappear quietly.

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By *acey_RedWoman
6 days ago

Liverpool


"I've been on fab with this profile for about 4 years but only really lurked the forums til about a year ago where I started posting regularly.

I doubt I'll ever go UNLOS, when I want a break I just hide my profile and stop logging in. I want it keep my verifications/friends. "

Problem is the people who left the verifications leave. That's what happened to many of my favourite ones.

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By *aizyWoman
6 days ago

west midlands

I take breaks and hide my profile, I have always thought though if I go UNLOS it is because I am not coming back.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
6 days ago

Glasgow / London


"I don’t want to be the Bob Dylan of fab and outstay my performative peak."

Or peaks.

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By *ruella DeThrillWoman
6 days ago

Essex


"I don’t want to be the Bob Dylan of fab and outstay my performative peak.

Or peaks. "

Very clever

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
6 days ago

Glasgow / London


"Problem is the people who left the verifications leave. That's what happened to many of my favourite ones."

You and I both, Lacey.

Wait, that’s twice now. JINX.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
6 days ago

North West


"Yeah. I definitely will. I’ve UNLOSed once. Wasn’t quite my time. But I know what my signs are, my limits. And once I reach them I will go.

I don’t want to be the Bob Dylan of fab and outstay my performative peak."

You'll be blowing in the wind when that happens 😉

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By *orbidden eastMan
6 days ago

london dodging electric bikes

I don’t think I ever go UNLOS. I can’t afford to do it to verifications and it took a long time to get.

I would just probably remain incognito for a few weeks, maybe months and that’s about it really or just disappear and sea of sausages

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By *Effy-Woman
6 days ago

Fife

I go UNLOS all the time. I get fed up/bored and take a break. Sometimes it weeks or months, until I get FOMO and come back.

I don’t think my little journey is nearing its end any time soon, I will leave for good at some point though.

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By *dam1971Man
6 days ago

Bedford


"I don't think I will ever go UNLOS. My profile will just be abandoned and derelict like Chernobyl.

You and I both, Lacey.

I’m no quitter. But one day I just won’t bother logging in again."

Probably that for me too. I don’t think I’ve deleted my profile on other forums, there’s still posts I made from the late 90s kicking around (if the forum is still there). I just won’t be a part of it at some point.

Not the cheeriest subject, is it?

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By *exxyyDy11Man
6 days ago

North West


"I go UNLOS all the time. I get fed up/bored and take a break. Sometimes it weeks or months, until I get FOMO and come back.

I don’t think my little journey is nearing its end any time soon, I will leave for good at some point though. "

It'll be a sad day for humanity when you eventually leave though.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
6 days ago

Stratford

Been tempted a few times the last couple of months but I’d probably just hide my profile and keep in touch with those I talk to on other platforms

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By *oeBeansMan
6 days ago

Derby

I always thought I'd be the type to have a profile on here and once I left, that was it. I did end up leaving under rather abrupt circumstances but I've always felt that if I ever found the right person, I could easily leave this site for good. It's just taken a little bit longer than anticipated from when I first joined.

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By *orny IrishMan
6 days ago

Rural Wiltshire

Not sure. I have been here on and off for quite some time. So not likely for now.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
6 days ago

Glasgow / London


"I don’t think my little journey is nearing its end any time soon, I will leave for good at some point though. "

As long as there are pictures of your bum on the Internet, I don’t really mind what username you’re going by at the time …

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By *ayRyuMan
6 days ago

Harrogate

Call me yoyo currently. But I imagine I'm got a certain age and accept I'm on the scrap heap by then.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
6 days ago

Reading

I purposefully chose a username that conveyed a temporary status. I'll definitely UNLOS.

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By *estinysswingersCouple
6 days ago

Worsley

Been here for over 15 years. Don’t think we’re going anywhere anytime soon.

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By *itgingermanMan
6 days ago

Rotherham

I must be brand new 😂 what does

That stand for?

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
6 days ago

North West

I don’t know. I’m sure at some point I’ll just be too old or maybe just not want to be here. But at the moment I’m still having an absolutely wonderful time. 🤩

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
6 days ago

North West


"I must be brand new 😂 what does

That stand for? "

User No Longer On Site

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By *itgingermanMan
6 days ago

Rotherham


"I must be brand new 😂 what does

That stand for?

User No Longer On Site"

Got you 😜

I was one of those. Joined years ago, set up account then forgot about it totally as got into a relationship

Found again only when it said email already in use 😱 the banter is my level 😜🤪😏

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
6 days ago

Hereabouts

I've been here for 13 years, since I was 18. I don't think I've ever gone UNLOS. I disappeared for a few years with a hidden profile and it seems most of the forumites from back then have disappeared. Sadly some of my favourite people from the forum have died. Way back, I was thegirlnextdoor, but changed to _rcticfoxxx one day after a forum post about changing usernames.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
6 days ago

Reading

I intend to find out what happens here when you reach 100.

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By *et and WillingCouple
6 days ago

Nuneaton


"I must be brand new 😂 what does

That stand for?

User No Longer On Site"

Thank got someone said , nearest we could find when we serched was "United Nations Law of Sea" 🤣🤣

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By *rSuave88Man
6 days ago

Mirfield

I will disappear when the time is right and I move on to the next chapter

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By *estructionDollyWoman
6 days ago

The Deep Dark Woods


"I've been on fab with this profile for about 4 years but only really lurked the forums til about a year ago where I started posting regularly.

I doubt I'll ever go UNLOS, when I want a break I just hide my profile and stop logging in. I want it keep my verifications/friends.

Problem is the people who left the verifications leave. That's what happened to many of my favourite ones."

Yeah that's happened with some already 😢

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By *eliWoman
6 days ago

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Yes, one day I probably will. I don't know why but it'll happen.

I've never unlosed before - I hide my profile or don't log on, it's what works for me.

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By *andadbodMan
6 days ago

Liverpool

been on and off this site for over 20 years now, not planning to leave again, regaining those verifications is an absolute ball ache 😂

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
6 days ago

little house on the praire

Ive never gone unlos in 19 years but I do take breaks from time to time. One day I will take a break and not log on again

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By *a LunaWoman
6 days ago

o o OO o o

I think I’m reaching that point to be honest. I just have no interest in it anymore, I stay for the forums, but the sexual Olympics one upmanship is starting to wear thin.

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By *viatrixWoman
6 days ago

Redhill

I’ll be a little old lady at 80 still logging in 😂😂😂😂

Might still be getting some, who knows… 😈😈😈😈

But I’ve never felt the need to go UNLOS

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
6 days ago

Manchester(ish).

I've not gone unlos, but I've been very close to shutting my account down or leaving it hidden.

I chose to stay, cos of forum folks x

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By *orny IrishMan
6 days ago

Rural Wiltshire


"I've not gone unlos, but I've been very close to shutting my account down or leaving it hidden.

I chose to stay, cos of forum folks x "

And a lot of us forum folk are glad you stay. 😉

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
6 days ago

Basingstoke

No... I'm leaving my profile here forever, even if it's hidden, so that when I'm old and no longer able to do the things I've loved doing with the wonderful people I've met here, and I no longer look the way I look now, I can log in, look at my pictures, read the lovely verifications (assuming everyone else hasn't gone UNLOS) and reminisce to my heart's content.

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By *acey_RedWoman
6 days ago

Liverpool


"I think I’m reaching that point to be honest. I just have no interest in it anymore, I stay for the forums, but the sexual Olympics one upmanship is starting to wear thin."

You mean you're not impressed by me javelining a dildo into someone's butt?

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By *isteramazingMan
6 days ago

London

I have when I've had a long term FWB.

Forever? Yes, if there's no reason to come back, which is either:

a) I'm dead

b) I'm over 50 (people have a strange thing about that age boundary)

c) I'm getting an all you can eat wild oats buffet at home

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
6 days ago

BRIDPORT

There are a few I wish would go UNLOS

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
6 days ago

somewhere, someplace

Never unlos'd, if i ever wanted to I'd probably just hide my profile, and pop up and scare the lot of you every now and again 😂

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By *ecky and justCouple
6 days ago

Godalming

Been here 10 years, can’t see us leaving ever.

We’ll eventually just fade away.

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By *ookie46Woman
6 days ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Been here eight years and I haven’t yet. In my head I told myself I’d do it when I turn sixty so a little while yet

I just hide if life or things are getting too much

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By *cflirtyMan
6 days ago

clanfield

I've been there... Chernobyl

Well as close as your allowed

Very eery

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By *partharmonyCouple
6 days ago

Ruislip


"Will you ever go unlos forever?

Or are you one of the OG forumites that have been around for longer than the dodgy furniture and decor?

Do you leave / return often?

What will determine, for you, when it's time to go unlos forever? "

All of us will go UNLOS forever eventually. 🪦

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By *awty nannaWoman
6 days ago

sheffield


"wont be long now,,,way way to old,,"

Crikey I`m ancient if you`re too old ,,,,

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
6 days ago

Central

17 yard or so, just 1 UN and will be here until I can't login, I guess

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
6 days ago

Voldsøy

We probably won't go UNLOS. I'll just hide our profile and never log in again at some point, maybe. Up until the last group social, I was ready to throw the towel in. It reeled me back in. We'll see how it goes. I have made some friends who I keep in contact with elsewhere so it wouldn't be the end of the world.

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By *es not the MessiahMan
6 days ago

3rd rock from the sun

Probably

Probably not

Depends how I feel and how much I want to piss people off

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By *EAT..85Woman
6 days ago

Nottingham

I've deleted once in 6 years. I tend to just wander off as standard though. The function showing when you last logged in is handy for anyone that knows/watches you on here to see that you're simply not in a Fab-state of mind and not logging in.

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By *eroLondonMan
5 days ago

Soho

I'll probably UNLOS once I've bonked half of the eligible forum women. The remaining half will have to be woo'd in the afterlife.

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By *olo180Man
5 days ago

Greater London


"Will you ever go unlos forever?

Or are you one of the OG forumites that have been around for longer than the dodgy furniture and decor?

Do you leave / return often?

What will determine, for you, when it's time to go unlos forever? "

Now I’m in and hooked and have made friends I don’t think I can ever leave….i don’t want too either

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By *orphia2003Woman
5 days ago

Tonypandy.

Probably at some point, but most likely just stop logging in.

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By *effdelightMan
5 days ago

Grimsby


"I don't think I will ever go UNLOS. My profile will just be abandoned and derelict like Chernobyl."
Holy fuck you're one sexy lady x

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By *rdenites2Couple
5 days ago

Leicestershire

Don’t even know what unlos is

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
5 days ago

Up North

I’m pretty sure I will go unlos at some point but I’m not sure what the trigger will be. In the meantime I’ll just keep hiding my profile whenever I feel like I need a mini break.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
5 days ago

Maidstone

I go unlos fairly often. Then i decide i need the sex in my life and I can't get it elsewhere so I end up back here. Sigh.

Maybe one day i won't have a need to be trawling the sex sites looking for something more fulfilling than a wank.

Maybe when I'm ready to find something more I'll go for good.

Or if I get to crazy cat lady status.

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By *andadbodMan
5 days ago

Liverpool


"Don’t even know what unlos is "

User No Longer On Site

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By *peedyGMan
5 days ago

Telford


"Don’t even know what unlos is

User No Longer On Site"

Glad i wasn't the only one who didn't know what it meant 😂.

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By *weetWithATw1stWoman
5 days ago

MiddleofMyStreet


"Will you ever go unlos forever?

Or are you one of the OG forumites that have been around for longer than the dodgy furniture and decor?

Do you leave / return often?

What will determine, for you, when it's time to go unlos forever? "

Been on and off here for years... usually leave for a break then come back (forgetting i can hide account etc haha...

i doubt i will unlos forever until im 6ft under...

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By *ubikslongswordMan
5 days ago

Rubiksville

I mean I've been in and out of the forums over the past 15 years I doubt I'd ever disappear forever

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By *ad NannaWoman
5 days ago

East London

I will, eventually.

I'm spending less and less time thinking about sex, and I'm too tired most of the time to type conversations.

I'm assuming it will only get worse.

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By *ear NecessitiesMan
3 days ago

The woods

When I turn 55 as a single. For me that's my stop point and will just focus on other sites or with partner only.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
3 days ago

Den of Iniquity

Maybe the day after my 60th ...

Sorry you've gotta put up with me for 9 more years 😏

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By *eeKeeGeeMan
3 days ago

Barnet


"Will you ever go unlos forever?"

I always think that's it, I've left, but then i come back. This time I managed nearly a year away.


"Or are you one of the OG forumites that have been around for longer than the dodgy furniture and decor?"

Not me


"Do you leave / return often?"

Yes. It's an addiction. Better go and sign in to the Priory.


"What will determine, for you, when it's time to go unlos forever? "

I always think that's it, I'm out of here but ... so who knows!

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By *parkle1974Woman
3 days ago

Leeds

I always said around the age of 55 but I'm spending more time on other platforms these days so that time may come a lot sooner.

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