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So what would you chuck in the fuck it bucket?
Today I’m throwing in fake friends, my ex hubby and the bloody rain!!
Come and fill my bucket ( not a euphemism) 
and get rid of all the negative shit in your life that’s not worth worrying about | |||
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"We used to call it 'circular file 13'. " We had a file 13 in one of my previous jobs | |||
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"There’s not much in my life to throw in it in all honesty… Just the fact that I might be facing a payment of c. £5000 for a full electrical re-installation at my brother’s house. That my parents left him. Plus arrears of missed council tax payments. I feel sick whenever the thought comes to my mind- every 30 seconds or so. So yeah, I’ll chuck that im the fuck it 🪣 bucket" Why are you responsible for your brother's house? The council should give you the opportunity for a payment plan that would make the council tax arrears easier to deal with assuming they're your responsibility | |||
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"There’s not much in my life to throw in it in all honesty… Just the fact that I might be facing a payment of c. £5000 for a full electrical re-installation at my brother’s house. That my parents left him. Plus arrears of missed council tax payments. I feel sick whenever the thought comes to my mind- every 30 seconds or so. So yeah, I’ll chuck that im the fuck it 🪣 bucket Why are you responsible for your brother's house? The council should give you the opportunity for a payment plan that would make the council tax arrears easier to deal with assuming they're your responsibility " Good question. Everyone asks me that.
My brother is somewhat vulnerable. Depression, etc. no welfare system where he lives/we are from, so I support him financially since my parents died. I don’t have to, but … I do. I feel I have to. The toxicity of a Latin American upbringing I suppose. | |||
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"There’s not much in my life to throw in it in all honesty… Just the fact that I might be facing a payment of c. £5000 for a full electrical re-installation at my brother’s house. That my parents left him. Plus arrears of missed council tax payments. I feel sick whenever the thought comes to my mind- every 30 seconds or so. So yeah, I’ll chuck that im the fuck it 🪣 bucket Why are you responsible for your brother's house? The council should give you the opportunity for a payment plan that would make the council tax arrears easier to deal with assuming they're your responsibility Good question. Everyone asks me that.
My brother is somewhat vulnerable. Depression, etc. no welfare system where he lives/we are from, so I support him financially since my parents died. I don’t have to, but … I do. I feel I have to. The toxicity of a Latin American upbringing I suppose. "Ah I get it. I'm sorry I didn't mean to pry. I have Spanish relatives and have witnessed this first hand, to the extent that a fully fit, physically able adult man was living in a woman relatives flat, she was giving him €100 a month and he complained that it wasn't enough. It would be laughable if it wasn't tragic. | |||
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"There’s not much in my life to throw in it in all honesty… Just the fact that I might be facing a payment of c. £5000 for a full electrical re-installation at my brother’s house. That my parents left him. Plus arrears of missed council tax payments. I feel sick whenever the thought comes to my mind- every 30 seconds or so. So yeah, I’ll chuck that im the fuck it 🪣 bucket Why are you responsible for your brother's house? The council should give you the opportunity for a payment plan that would make the council tax arrears easier to deal with assuming they're your responsibility Good question. Everyone asks me that.
My brother is somewhat vulnerable. Depression, etc. no welfare system where he lives/we are from, so I support him financially since my parents died. I don’t have to, but … I do. I feel I have to. The toxicity of a Latin American upbringing I suppose.
Ah I get it. I'm sorry I didn't mean to pry.
I have Spanish relatives and have witnessed this first hand, to the extent that a fully fit, physically able adult man was living in a woman relatives flat, she was giving him €100 a month and he complained that it wasn't enough. It would be laughable if it wasn't tragic. "Exactly. It’s so bad that it is laughable, really! And people outside the situation can’t see why I have such sense of obligation. 
I’ll chuck that into the bucket. Latin culture toxic traits, haha | |||
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"There’s not much in my life to throw in it in all honesty… Just the fact that I might be facing a payment of c. £5000 for a full electrical re-installation at my brother’s house. That my parents left him. Plus arrears of missed council tax payments. I feel sick whenever the thought comes to my mind- every 30 seconds or so. So yeah, I’ll chuck that im the fuck it 🪣 bucket Why are you responsible for your brother's house? The council should give you the opportunity for a payment plan that would make the council tax arrears easier to deal with assuming they're your responsibility Good question. Everyone asks me that.
My brother is somewhat vulnerable. Depression, etc. no welfare system where he lives/we are from, so I support him financially since my parents died. I don’t have to, but … I do. I feel I have to. The toxicity of a Latin American upbringing I suppose.
Ah I get it. I'm sorry I didn't mean to pry.
I have Spanish relatives and have witnessed this first hand, to the extent that a fully fit, physically able adult man was living in a woman relatives flat, she was giving him €100 a month and he complained that it wasn't enough. It would be laughable if it wasn't tragic.
Exactly. It’s so bad that it is laughable, really! And people outside the situation can’t see why I have such sense of obligation.
I’ll chuck that into the bucket. Latin culture toxic traits, haha "Do that. I hope you get it all sorted | |||
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"Guys who stop talking to you for weeks, and then say hi out of the blue expecting to just carry on chatting like before - as if they got bored with you but then decided you'll do to chat with when they're bored Guys who moan they're not getting any fun, and then ask what you're up to and do you fancy meeting - as if you're their last resort and they think you'll happily meet up with them Guys who say they want to meet but say they don't have the time, and then you see they have put a 'meet up now' event on - they're obviously not that interested but like to make out they are I would have said put 'guys' in the bucket but not all guys are bad, it's just some of them hahaha" It would have to be a pretty big bucket 🤣 | |||
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"Guys who stop talking to you for weeks, and then say hi out of the blue expecting to just carry on chatting like before - as if they got bored with you but then decided you'll do to chat with when they're bored Guys who moan they're not getting any fun, and then ask what you're up to and do you fancy meeting - as if you're their last resort and they think you'll happily meet up with them Guys who say they want to meet but say they don't have the time, and then you see they have put a 'meet up now' event on - they're obviously not that interested but like to make out they are I would have said put 'guys' in the bucket but not all guys are bad, it's just some of them hahaha It would have to be a pretty big bucket 🤣" Yep, that's the problem 😂😂😂 | |||
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"I want to throw my down mood in there please. I hate feeling sorry for myself so I want to throw it in there and burn it " It's ok to have days like that, sometimes it's needed. Sending big hugs 🤗 | |||
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"Guys who stop talking to you for weeks, and then say hi out of the blue expecting to just carry on chatting like before - as if they got bored with you but then decided you'll do to chat with when they're bored Guys who moan they're not getting any fun, and then ask what you're up to and do you fancy meeting - as if you're their last resort and they think you'll happily meet up with them Guys who say they want to meet but say they don't have the time, and then you see they have put a 'meet up now' event on - they're obviously not that interested but like to make out they are I would have said put 'guys' in the bucket but not all guys are bad, it's just some of them hahaha It would have to be a pretty big bucket 🤣 Yep, that's the problem 😂😂😂" 🤣🤣 | |||
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"My fuck-it bucket (list) is the things I still want to do! I definitely don't want to mix it up with your Room 101 bucket 😂😂😂 Loving these responses though 👌 I too would like to contribute RAIN IN AUGUST???" It needs banning!! | |||
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"I was umming and ahhing whether or not to post, but seeing as Cookie has kindly created this safe place for us all to share our negative shit then... I'd like to throw ME in please. Well, not all of me...just the bits that aren't working properly at the moment, which would be my bone marrow and lymph nodes. For the past 18 months they have been producing too many neutrophils and lymphocytes (white blood cells). When my GP retired last year, the incoming GP was concerned no one had picked-up on my elevated blood results (I've been having FBC's every 6 months since having sepsis in 2019, and melanoma '22). She contacted the haematologist I was treated by previously. They've said I need a JAK2 mutation test, by way of a bone marrow aspiration, to find out what's going on. I'm now just waiting for a date to go in. I'm not too worried about the procedure. Pain-wise they say it's about the same as when I had the epidural for my son's caesarean, so...hey ho 🤷♀️ Sorry for rambling x " hope you're health improves soon, sounds horrific  | |||
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"I was umming and ahhing whether or not to post, but seeing as Cookie has kindly created this safe place for us all to share our negative shit then... I'd like to throw ME in please. Well, not all of me...just the bits that aren't working properly at the moment, which would be my bone marrow and lymph nodes. For the past 18 months they have been producing too many neutrophils and lymphocytes (white blood cells). When my GP retired last year, the incoming GP was concerned no one had picked-up on my elevated blood results (I've been having FBC's every 6 months since having sepsis in 2019, and melanoma '22). She contacted the haematologist I was treated by previously. They've said I need a JAK2 mutation test, by way of a bone marrow aspiration, to find out what's going on. I'm now just waiting for a date to go in. I'm not too worried about the procedure. Pain-wise they say it's about the same as when I had the epidural for my son's caesarean, so...hey ho 🤷♀️ Sorry for rambling x " I’m glad you’ve contributed Sending you so much strength and love I’m on week five of chemo and radiotherapy every day and Id happily chuck that in the bucket. I also need a bone marrow aspiration too Let’s both chuck the bits of us that are not working into the bucket | |||
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"How bigs ya bucket? "It’s quite a size | |||
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"People who say they want to meet but don’t put equal effort into getting to know you. " 100% this | |||
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"People who say they want to meet but don’t put equal effort into getting to know you. 100% this " Also agree  | |||
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"Meets. They're overrated. I can cum in 30 seconds and cry myself to sleep perfectly fine on my own. No unrequited messages, no rejection, no terrible sex, no brainer really 🤷🏽♂️" 🤣🤣 i just read my life currently.... why did i join this again? | |||
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"I’m glad you’ve contributed Sending you so much strength and love I’m on week five of chemo and radiotherapy every day and Id happily chuck that in the bucket. I also need a bone marrow aspiration too Let’s both chuck the bits of us that are not working into the bucket " Thank you Cookie, your words are very much appreciated. Sending love and strength back to you 🫶 When I had the melanoma treatment, I left Fab for a whole year. In hindsight, I wish I hadn't. Having read your posts these last few weeks, filled with so much positivity, I'm going to stick around and continue participating in this crazy but brilliant, supportive community...whatever the outcome and next steps are 😊 Here's to throwing our non-working bits into the fuckit bucket. Cheers 🥂 | |||
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" Eggs, I hate eggs" What's wrong with eggs?? 😱 | |||
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"Guys who stop talking to you for weeks, and then say hi out of the blue expecting to just carry on chatting like before - as if they got bored with you but then decided you'll do to chat with when they're bored Guys who moan they're not getting any fun, and then ask what you're up to and do you fancy meeting - as if you're their last resort and they think you'll happily meet up with them Guys who say they want to meet but say they don't have the time, and then you see they have put a 'meet up now' event on - they're obviously not that interested but like to make out they are I would have said put 'guys' in the bucket but not all guys are bad, it's just some of them hahaha It would have to be a pretty big bucket 🤣" You're gonna need a bigger bucket 🪣. | |||
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"I was umming and ahhing whether or not to post, but seeing as Cookie has kindly created this safe place for us all to share our negative shit then... I'd like to throw ME in please. Well, not all of me...just the bits that aren't working properly at the moment, which would be my bone marrow and lymph nodes. For the past 18 months they have been producing too many neutrophils and lymphocytes (white blood cells). When my GP retired last year, the incoming GP was concerned no one had picked-up on my elevated blood results (I've been having FBC's every 6 months since having sepsis in 2019, and melanoma '22). She contacted the haematologist I was treated by previously. They've said I need a JAK2 mutation test, by way of a bone marrow aspiration, to find out what's going on. I'm now just waiting for a date to go in. I'm not too worried about the procedure. Pain-wise they say it's about the same as when I had the epidural for my son's caesarean, so...hey ho 🤷♀️ Sorry for rambling x " 🫂 | |||
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