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Lots of people often talk about it running the friendship. I’m curious, are you still friends with any FWBs who you no longer have sex with? Or did the friendship end when the benefits ended?

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By *oelMan
7 days ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

"Lots of people often talk about it running the friendship. I’m curious, are you still friends with any FWBs who you no longer have sex with? Or did the friendship end when the benefits ended? "

Usually it's a compromise, one or the friends either wants more or wants monogamy and it will break up with time when one side gets more or what they want. I think this is more ideal from a male point of view, it's less likely to be sustainable

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By *sStephenPickle OP Man
7 days ago

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"Lots of people often talk about it running the friendship. I’m curious, are you still friends with any FWBs who you no longer have sex with? Or did the friendship end when the benefits ended?

What if you both just want to be fwbs. And then you just no longer want to have sex anymore and want to just be friends. Do you think you can transition to platonic friendship again

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By *teveinYorkMan
7 days ago

Pocklington

Friends? Friends? Go on give me a clue.

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
7 days ago

Durham

We are both still friends with some that we've either slept with, or played with in some form, in the past. Most of them would be a no-go now for both of us as we know then too well, but there are one or two we might still consider playing with

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By *hor ThumbMan
7 days ago

bristol

I have friends that I’ve met on the scene and would or have had sex with but never with my vanilla friends. There’s a clear separation for me. Once friend zoned there’s no way back.

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By *ellinever70Woman
7 days ago

Ayrshire

I don't think I've remained friends

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By *nquisitive LadyWoman
7 days ago

Midlands

Unfortunately we are no longer friends.

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
7 days ago

Wolvo

Ive remained cordial with a few of the gents who started off as fwb.

I think you can remain friends even when the sex ends if you both want to.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
7 days ago

Swansea

I am still friends with a guy I had a couple of meets with. The sexual side stopped between us long before I started my relationship with my now husband. I introduced my friend to my husband and we all have weirdly wonderfully wired brains that just get each other. So much so that my husband and I have been present at my friend's meets with other people and I get to enjoy a role as domme whilst remaining fully dressed.

Mrs

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By *cottish guy 555Man
7 days ago

London

I'm still friends with lots of people I have been intimate with in the past, but alas no more.

Our friendships are built around personalities and not just being physical.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
7 days ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Nope.

People say men & women can’t be friends. But I’ve never crossed that line with my female friends

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By *sWyldWoman
7 days ago

Edinburgh

Yes I am

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By *corpionixMan
7 days ago

Crewe

I have a female friend, very good friend, and we have sex from time to time ☺️

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By *ucka39Man
7 days ago

Newcastle

Had/have few friends whereas we're able to get sexually because we have unbeatable chemistry and besides everything else it's just how we are and can still carry on with our normal lives

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By *vonne5exMan
7 days ago

Doncaster

Loads

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
7 days ago

Norwich

I have tried but the problem is I fancy him too much. It's best for me not to see him. I did it before I'll do it again..

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
7 days ago

Reading

No none have gone that way. I've had fwbs that I have lost contact with that get in contact again but they always want to resume the benefits as have I. I can envisage it happening though.

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
7 days ago

Voldsøy

Not super close to fwb's I had many years ago, but yeah, still friends. I think if you're on the same page, it works really well.

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By *essicagraceWoman
7 days ago

birmingham

I've got lots of friends I used to hook up with. Mainly through swing scene. I'm friends with people where we had a one night hook up, mainly through sport tbh. And I'm actually friends with a few people I used to date, albeit after a significant no talking break. If everyone is kind through the winding down of the physical, I really don't see why it's not doable.

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By *ookie46Woman
7 days ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’ve cut two off totally from my early days on here but I have one that I’m still good friends with. We haven’t met sexually for well over a year we both moved on but we check in on each other and when our diaries align we’ll meet halfway somewhere for lunch at the coast

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By *1992Man
7 days ago

Kettering

Mine was a work colleague and good friend. Used to work in a shop and she would suck me off when ever she could then when I left . We lost contact and haven't spoke since

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By *emonochromeMan
7 days ago

Watford

I’m about 50/50 on friends I’ve hooked up with and still talk to

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By *enda83Man
7 days ago

newcastle

All my friends are male so no ha

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By *hickthighs25Woman
7 days ago

Stockton

Thats a headache i dont need or want.. no from me

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
7 days ago

Maidstone

I mostly don't see the point. Very few are interested enough beyond the sex and it was the sex that was the reason for the friendship in the first place.

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By *sStephenPickle OP Man
7 days ago

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"I mostly don't see the point. Very few are interested enough beyond the sex and it was the sex that was the reason for the friendship in the first place. "

Up your friendship game

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By *ruella DeThrillWoman
7 days ago

Essex

"Lots of people often talk about it running the friendship. I’m curious, are you still friends with any FWBs who you no longer have sex with? Or did the friendship end when the benefits ended?

What if you both just want to be fwbs. And then you just no longer want to have sex anymore and want to just be friends. Do you think you can transition to platonic friendship again"

If you can’t it was never a true friendship

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
7 days ago

somewhere, someplace

As long as you're both on the same page with the physical side I cant see why a friendship needs to be lost

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By *llshaun88Man
7 days ago

Newcastle

Best way I find

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By *oeBeansMan
7 days ago

Derby

I think it can work if those feelings are mutual between the two. If one person still harbours onto that feeling of wanting more and using the friendship in the hope it will get there, it will always fail.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
7 days ago

Maidstone

"I mostly don't see the point. Very few are interested enough beyond the sex and it was the sex that was the reason for the friendship in the first place.

Up your friendship game"

I can't force people to be my friend🤣🤣🤣

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By *_on_ownMan
7 days ago

Bristol

I've reestablished friendship and met up with two of my girlfriends I had sex with at school/university time. One of which I lost my virginity to about 30 years ago. The other one became a lesbian after we broke up and been happily married to her wife for quite a few years now

But I've met up for socials with both of them and kept in touch online.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
7 days ago

North West

I have a fwb where the sex thing may or may not happen again but we’re still friends and still chat pretty regularly. The distance is too far for us to do in person friend things.

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By *cLovin2Man
7 days ago

London

I'm still in touch with a couple, I tend to not lose touch when I get to know someone.

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By *sStephenPickle OP Man
7 days ago

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"I mostly don't see the point. Very few are interested enough beyond the sex and it was the sex that was the reason for the friendship in the first place.

Up your friendship game

I can't force people to be my friend🤣🤣🤣"

Just be yourself. You’ll be loved x

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
7 days ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I have a good friend who’s been a friend longer than the sexy stuff. That was a brief foray, it fizzled and now we’re good friends again.

Mrs TMN x

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By *ungandMan
7 days ago

daveyhulme

I’m still in touch with a fwb we chat and occasionally meet up but no sex

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By *electableicecreamMan
7 days ago

The West

I ended up fwb for a year with a long time close friend and we've stopped sleeping with each other and are still good friends.

It wasn't a clear straight line but we figured it out.

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By *nquisitive LadyWoman
7 days ago

Midlands

I think the mistake I made was thinking that we had a solid friendship. Boy was I wrong

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By *cLovin2Man
7 days ago

London

"I think the mistake I made was thinking that we had a solid friendship. Boy was I wrong

Can I be your next mistake?

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
7 days ago

Cardiff

Of course, my best friends

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By *nquisitive LadyWoman
7 days ago

Midlands

"I think the mistake I made was thinking that we had a solid friendship. Boy was I wrong

Can I be your next mistake?

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By *usty kayWoman
7 days ago

Burnham on Sea

My last fwb said the friendship was more important than the sex but when it came to it they were unable to uphold any sort of relationship. I'm still getting over it and I hate that it still hurts.

His loss though, I'm great friend.

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
7 days ago

Kilmarnock

I married my last fwb 🤣

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By *usty kayWoman
7 days ago

Burnham on Sea

"I married my last fwb 🤣"

I married my first one

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
6 days ago

Norwich

Friends? What is this talk of friends?

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By *rSuave88Man
6 days ago

Mirfield

"My last fwb said the friendship was more important than the sex but when it came to it they were unable to uphold any sort of relationship. I'm still getting over it and I hate that it still hurts.

His loss though, I'm great friend.

You are a top friend. Can confirm 😌

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By *idlandiaMan
6 days ago

Birmingham

Done the sex with friends thing a few times. Generally went well after

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