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"It's not working for me. I've been on various online dating apps for well over a 15 years, and I've only ever had 1 physical meet. I'm a real life undatable "I am in very similar situation 😬 Social media has definitely influenced individuals to set their standards high. | |||
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"It's not working for me. I've been on various online dating apps for well over a 15 years, and I've only ever had 1 physical meet. I'm a real life undatable
I am in very similar situation 😬
Social media has definitely influenced individuals to set their standards high."People should set their standards and their boundaries high. Otherwise you meet numpties. I think what you mean is that it's based on looks and height which it largely is. However I know what I'd be looking for and that's not based on them being handsome it's based on what their heart and personality are like and their moral compass. You don't get to find that out on dating sites. Plus some men are not great at selling themselves when really they have a lot to offer. | |||
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"It's not working for me. I've been on various online dating apps for well over a 15 years, and I've only ever had 1 physical meet. I'm a real life undatable
I am in very similar situation 😬
Social media has definitely influenced individuals to set their standards high.
People should set their standards and their boundaries high. Otherwise you meet numpties.
I think what you mean is that it's based on looks and height which it largely is.
However I know what I'd be looking for and that's not based on them being handsome it's based on what their heart and personality are like and their moral compass. You don't get to find that out on dating sites.
Plus some men are not great at selling themselves when really they have a lot to offer."I dont sell myself. I stick to basics. Select pictures that show my character and personality and add a brief and basic write up. If someone likes me, they'll message to find out more. Clearly that hasn't happened. I have to say that I don't pay for the sites, always found at entry level. Could well be that my profile naturally defaults to the bottom of the algorithm as a non payed profile. Fuck knows! | |||
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"I rarely ever leave the house these days apart from shopping, hair or nail appointments or visiting family 70 miles away, so on-line connections are pretty much the only way I ever meet anyone new these now." This sounds like me as well. | |||
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"Yes, but I have noticed when I go out on vanilla nights women now like being approached and complimented. The younger generation don't approach each other anymore, so they appreciate it. " So would you say the younger/newer generation lack social skills in terms of meeting people in particular of the opposite sex with the intention of dating? | |||
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"Its been online for 20 + yrs, but hardly anyone actually makes an effort to have a conversation or arrange to meet nowadays Ive given up with online dating and joined a few local dating groups, who arrange date nights/meet ups, to see if that actually works." From a females perspective do you feel your in "control" as they will definitely get more matches in general compared to men? | |||
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"Its been online for 20 + yrs, but hardly anyone actually makes an effort to have a conversation or arrange to meet nowadays Ive given up with online dating and joined a few local dating groups, who arrange date nights/meet ups, to see if that actually works. From a females perspective do you feel your in "control" as they will definitely get more matches in general compared to men?" Ive not been to an event yet, but hoping there is a good balance of people. | |||
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