FabSwingers.com forum: Big cock downsides

By *ythen OP Man
2 weeks ago

I’m always feeling a little bit in awe of the endless number of guys of fab who have from say larger than average (whatever one would class as average) right up to some absolute massive sized cocks …

My question is to you guys that have been blessed with these fine specimens- while they look very impressive and definitely make a good talking point I’m sure …..are there any down sides of having a bigger than average cock … I could think of one or two obvious ones but be interested hear your thoughts / experiences on it

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By *ittleLiaisonsWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Carpet burn when they are walking naked.

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By *onty777Man
2 weeks ago

midlands

"Carpet burn when they are walking naked."

If I had a penny for every time

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Having to tuck it into their socks

Never being able to wear short shorts

Dipping it in the bowl when having a shit

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By *ools and the brainCouple
2 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Difficulties wearing Speedo's and cycling shorts

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By *anchesterTaurusMan
2 weeks ago

Prestwich

I've resorted to getting one of them fold away shopping trolleys that old people use.

Just slip my old man in there and off we go

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
2 weeks ago

Morioh-Cho, Stourbridge

This discussion came up in the telegram girls chat I'm in.

A downside is more ladies than you think are not interested in very well endowed men as they are too big for sex to be comfortable and it hurts.

You obviously have ladies who adore and seek out VWE men of course.

They are nice to look at but in practice they are very situational.

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By *ythen OP Man
2 weeks ago

"Carpet burn when they are walking naked."

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By *ools and the brainCouple
2 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Having to fight off hordes of horny wives.

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By *parky123Man
2 weeks ago

Lincoln

Slapping your own face when doing a handstand

Fainting when getting a hard on

But realistically, I read from a gifted guy some years back that they could never have a quickie because their partner needed quite a bit of warming up

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
2 weeks ago

belfast

Id a mate with a really big cock. He hated it because a lot of women struggled with it and also a lot of women wanted to have a one nighter to try it when they heard about it. He wanted a relationship and felt used.

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By *ythen OP Man
2 weeks ago

"This discussion came up in the telegram girls chat I'm in.

A downside is more ladies than you think are not interested in very well endowed men as they are too big for sex to be comfortable and it hurts.

You obviously have ladies who adore and seek out VWE men of course.

They are nice to look at but in practice they are very situational."

Yes this one downside that came to mind initially… and particularly anal obviously harder

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By *unning onCouple
2 weeks ago

leatherhead

It's very situational. Some guys know how to use a big cock, and some don't x

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By *ythen OP Man
2 weeks ago

"Difficulties wearing Speedo's and cycling shorts "

God yes never thought of that one …, the thing they say is a saddle would have the testicles cut off them .., 🤣

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By *ustincredible69Man
2 weeks ago

drumoak

Odds of getting her to do anal reduced

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By *layfullsamMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

Difficult to keep it dry or from being pood on when sitting on the toilet

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
2 weeks ago

Norwich

If the guy knows how to use it without stabbing you repeatedly then they are delightful. The trouble is a lot of well endowed men take pleasure from the stabbing and it's very uncomfortable.

A true gentleman doesn't stab.

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By *ugeDRyanMan
2 weeks ago

London

Unwanted attention from airport security after a scan. Looks like you’re smuggling something

There were definitely downsides when I was young and didn’t know how to use it, now there’s not loads in my opinion. Some positions are off limits for some girls. But if you take time with foreplay and use it well. You’re good

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By *avexxMan
2 weeks ago

cheshire

slows you down 50 meter dash sports day

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By *unny usernameMan
2 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I mean I’m large but not huge, but the only downside is that a lot of ladies, at least in my experience, don’t want to do anal. And they struggle to deepthroat

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By *ammy696969Woman
2 weeks ago

Stockport

😂🤣

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"Carpet burn when they are walking naked."

Smooth wood flooring gets rid of that problem. Tie a cloth on the end and you also clean up whilst walking around - double win!

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By *xxMandLxxxCouple
2 weeks ago

Southampton

Anal can be a challenge but generally it just needs a little patience and plenty of lube!

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By *ugeDRyanMan
2 weeks ago

London

"Anal can be a challenge but generally it just needs a little patience and plenty of lube!"

Yeah, tbf that can be a pain in the ass

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By *acey_RedWoman
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Cervix bashing hurts. It can be awkward for them to keep the right depth and you worry they're dissapointed only fitting half of it in. Dome positions are a no go. Also some larger men don't know to buy the right size condoms. The horror of watching someone stretch one out with their fingers to put it on stays with me. Some are so thick they stretch you uncomfortably far too.

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By *ythen OP Man
2 weeks ago

Another one I would have thought was maybe an issue .. like I’m I’d say average size but if I tight pair of skinny jeans on and I get a semi it’s visibly noticeable .. it’s tight down there .. I don’t help myself I suppose as I’m usually commando when out socially

now if a same happened a guy with say a weapon of a 9” cock what happens it must be impossible to hide it .. not much room to try and manoveur it … and we even go there if it was a full erection

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By *iaisonseekerMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

The sheer size often confuses women who are know to try and feed peanuts to large members.

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By *iss DevilWoman
2 weeks ago

Bedford

In my experience, there is not much difference, size wise, between hard and soft. Some guys really struggle to get hard. And most seem to rely on just their dick to satisfy a woman.

Cervix bashing is a big problem, too.

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
2 weeks ago

London

Very difficult to hide an erection when out doing everyday things or in work, I have seen some unexpected very large bulges in clothing a few times 🤭

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By *olbornsubguyMan
2 weeks ago

london

Anal needn’t be a problem with large cocks. The arse is remarkably elastic..When you think some subs take a test up the the elbow and beyond, a big cock is only a mental challenge. Oral can be more of an issue for girthier rather than longer guys. I’ve one regular who says he’s never had decent oral - and unless someone has their teeth out, tooth scrape is inevitable

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By *estructionDollyWoman
2 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

As much as big cocks are a delight to look at, sex can be a struggle at times. I like quite vigorous/hard sex but when a guy is well endowed that becomes difficult as bashing against my cervix hurts 😩 and sometimes you get stretched so much it can make you bleed after as the skin where your hymen is is delicate. The bigger a guy is, the slower and less vigorous I need the sex to be, at least until I'm well warmed up.

Some men rely too much on having a big cock and suck at everything else too 🤷🏻‍♀️ sex isn't just about P in V.

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By *host63Man
2 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

If its over a certain size the body cannot produce enough blood to get a full erection.

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By *egoMan
2 weeks ago

Preston

Touching the toilet bowl when sat down.

Very few female anal… victims. Can bruise the cervix to.

Restricts clothing, modern cloths seem to forget we have.bits there.

Its very noticeable in public if excited.

Harder to stay hard, the tiniest distraction I'm gone… that may be unrelated.

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By *enda83Man
2 weeks ago

newcastle

Should the urge take me I can zip and unzip my pants 1000 times in a row and chances of a painful zip accident are zero, owners of large tiddlers font have this luxury

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By *bi HaiveMan
2 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

The only downside I've ever experienced is the unwanted attention you get from demographics you've clearly expressed no interest in.

There are far more men and TV/Ts's fixated on dick size than women it seems.......🤷‍♂️

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By *egoMan
2 weeks ago

Preston

"The only downside I've ever experienced is the unwanted attention you get from demographics you've clearly expressed no interest in.

There are far more men and TV/Ts's fixated on dick size than women it seems.......🤷‍♂️"

Yes!

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By *rthur WrightusMan
2 weeks ago

Round the Bend

Turning over in bed with a 'stiffie' is a big problem

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
2 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Divorce is expensive 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *stoppMan
2 weeks ago

Durham

Having to choose underwear that holds it tucked in, not loose fitting boxes that allow it to fall downward making it more visible..

Not being able to get balls deep in petite women.

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By *oeBeansMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

"Having to tuck it into their socks

Never being able to wear short shorts

Dipping it in the bowl when having a shit "

I know that last one is a joke, but the feeling of your cock touching the inside of the bowl is grim as fuck 🤮

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By *agic.MMan
2 weeks ago

Orpington

So there is this theory (that I just made up now)...a bigger penis requires more blood flow to get fully erect...which means more strain on the heart...which means higher chances of heart issues...which would definitely explain my heart arrhythmia 🤔

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By *ythen OP Man
2 weeks ago

"In my experience, there is not much difference, size wise, between hard and soft. Some guys really struggle to get hard. And most seem to rely on just their dick to satisfy a woman.

Cervix bashing is a big problem, too. "

Very true on point soft - hard similar size

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By *ittleLiaisonsWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Having to tuck it into their socks

Never being able to wear short shorts

Dipping it in the bowl when having a shit

I know that last one is a joke, but the feeling of your cock touching the inside of the bowl is grim as fuck 🤮"

Shouldn't be hung like a horse then should ya Hardly

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Too painful can't enjoy pain like that

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By *agertha73Couple
2 weeks ago

Cardiff

"So there is this theory (that I just made up now)...a bigger penis requires more blood flow to get fully erect...which means more strain on the heart...which means higher chances of heart issues...which would definitely explain my heart arrhythmia 🤔 "

Watch you don't faint!

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By *oeBeansMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

"Having to tuck it into their socks

Never being able to wear short shorts

Dipping it in the bowl when having a shit

I know that last one is a joke, but the feeling of your cock touching the inside of the bowl is grim as fuck 🤮

Shouldn't be hung like a horse then should ya Hardly

Why does God give his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers? 🥲

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By *hickthighs25Woman
2 weeks ago

Stockton

I always wondered what effects it had on you.. thank you for sharing your HUGE problem .. pun absolutely intended 🤣

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By *ucka39Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

Downside not finding the condoms to fit

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By *ugeDRyanMan
2 weeks ago

London

Waking up with morning wood and accidentally hitting everything off the bedside table gets annoying

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By *rthur WrightusMan
2 weeks ago

Round the Bend

Be interesting to know the sports science side for wearing the best support for a larger cock too. An article for sports bra research found average stride length increased by around 4cm when cosily held firm, making a difference of a mile on a marathon. Would a scientific cock 'bra' help in the same way, or just back to the usual gaffa tape solution ?

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By *orset.JMan
2 weeks ago

Weymouth

1.Condoms were very uncomfortable until I started using Trojan- game changer.

2. Lots of foreplay and oral essential and don’t rush it

3. Agree re anal- unless a woman is regularly using butt plugs then it’s a no go area with my cock

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By *ung_Lad-01Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

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By *ung_Lad-01Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Carpet burn when they are walking naked."

Costs me a fortune in medical bills!!

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By *bboredguyMan
2 weeks ago

montrose

Lots of fairly normal sized cocks talking about problems of being huge … just saying I’m good with being girthy

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By *bi HaiveMan
2 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Downside not finding the condoms to fit "

There's plenty of options available.

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By *agic.MMan
2 weeks ago

Orpington

Can't speak on behalf of others sports...but as a kickboxing practitioner, I just use it as a third leg...which gives me an advantage 💪

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By *isteramazingMan
2 weeks ago

London

I'm not sure about on here but a good chunk of women don't like it in real life

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By *aizyWoman
2 weeks ago

west midlands

Giving yourself a black eye when helicoptoring.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
2 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

Seriously, it’s way harder to give a mindblowing bj to a guy whose cock is too wide to fit in your mouth properly. Average sized cock, you can give an incredible blow job, massive cock you do what you can and yes he enjoys it but you know it wasn’t your best work

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By *ythen OP Man
2 weeks ago

"Seriously, it’s way harder to give a mindblowing bj to a guy whose cock is too wide to fit in your mouth properly. Average sized cock, you can give an incredible blow job, massive cock you do what you can and yes he enjoys it but you know it wasn’t your best work"

Trixie I’m a very average cock size myself.. just saying !! 😈

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
2 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Carpet burn when they are walking naked.

Costs me a fortune in medical balls!!"
🤣

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

From my experience, I can’t fall back on ‘I’ve got spare condoms’ if he didn’t bring any with him 🙄

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By *iverstMan
2 weeks ago

Rossendale

"Downside not finding the condoms to fit "

https://calcsd.info/

This is good

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Better to have too much to work with, than too little.

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By *oeBeansMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

"Giving yourself a black eye when helicoptoring."

And the broken nose when boinging 🤕

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By *aizyWoman
2 weeks ago

west midlands

"Giving yourself a black eye when helicoptoring.

And the broken nose when boinging 🤕"

Don't you worry Joe, your broken nose is not noticeable at all 🤗

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By *oeBeansMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

"Giving yourself a black eye when helicoptoring.

And the broken nose when boinging 🤕

Don't you worry Joe, your broken nose is not noticeable at all 🤗"

It's so embarrassing I had to tell people I walked into a wall 💀

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By *ythen OP Man
1 week ago

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By *ythen OP Man
1 week ago

So very broad range of responses and opinions I offered up .., and it’s appears wd have a hung jury (excuse the pun ) -

so ladies/ gents thanks for comments to date .. one thing we do know .. there all beautiful in the flesh .. big - small / huge : tiny

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By *bccreamMan
1 week ago

Lichfield

Only downside for me is that I can't fit all my cock inside some women

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