FabSwingers.com forum: The same sex

By *ife Ninja OP Man
1 week ago

Dunfermline

Do you ever look at someone on here, who's the same sex as you, and think 'how do I compete with that?'. They have perfect pecs, perfect boobs, are devilishly attractive. How do you handle it? 🤓

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
1 week ago

Reading

"Do you ever look at someone on here, who's the same sex as you, and think 'how do I compete with that?'. They have perfect pecs, perfect boobs, are devilishly attractive. How do you handle it? 🤓"

All the time but then I remember that they probably feel the same about someone else. And that the people that want and desire me do so because of my features and personality not because of how I compare to someone else. And wine, lots of wine!

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By *bi HaiveMan
1 week ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nope.

What's the point? I'm me, they're them.

I'm not in competition with anyone else on here. What others do doesn't affect me and what I do will never affect anyone else's Fab experience. 🤷‍♂️

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By *lue NotebooksCouple
1 week ago

Merseyside

Oh god , all the time. Some women are so hot they don’t even look real 🫠, ethereal I mean

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By *ittlebirdWoman
1 week ago

The Big Smoke

Nope. I do often wish I was as tall as normal people though. Because that top shelf is a bastard to reach 😘

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
1 week ago

Edinburgh

"Nope.

What's the point? I'm me, they're them.

I'm not in competition with anyone else on here. What others do doesn't affect me and what I do will never affect anyone else's Fab experience. 🤷‍♂️"

What he said

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By *hickthighs25Woman
1 week ago

Stockton

No because i will never be them so whats the point, i would just depress myself.

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By *ife Ninja OP Man
1 week ago

Dunfermline

"Nope. I do often wish I was as tall as normal people though. Because that top shelf is a bastard to reach 😘"

I'll get you some rolos 😘🤓

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
1 week ago

somewhere, someplace

All the time, but then I just go and re read conversations I've had and it reminds me it doesn't matter, they like me so stop comparing myself.

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By *uperSalopian7Man
1 week ago

Shrewsbury

Comparison is the thief of joy

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By *a_brunetteWoman
1 week ago

Wiltshire

What is the point to compare ourselves? 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *h86Man
1 week ago

Nearby

Nah, when youve gone through life feeling like the rejected potato you learn not to give a crap about the 'competition'

We aint competing, Im just being me, but props for looking so fine though

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By *ife Ninja OP Man
1 week ago

Dunfermline

"What is the point to compare ourselves? 🤷🏻‍♀️"

As a single, older man, you do get a little depressed as you look at some guys who appear uber successful 🤓

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By *oredmum1982Woman
1 week ago

E.Mids

Absolutely - but I’m also getting to the age/stage of fuck it why should I care so much so trying to lead with that.

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By *sWyldWoman
1 week ago

Edinburgh

Of course I do. However comparison is the theif of all joy. I refuse to torture myself.

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By *ucka39Man
1 week ago

Newcastle

Nope, I don't try and be someone else I try and create my own how I want me to be

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
1 week ago

Norwich

No I don't. Just don't put yourself in that situation.

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By *ou only live onceMan
1 week ago

London

Comparison is the thief of joy...but still yes, of course I do.

But I know there's not an awful lot I can do about it.

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By *ere4It3000Couple
1 week ago

Belgium

"Do you ever look at someone on here, who's the same sex as you, and think 'how do I compete with that?'. They have perfect pecs, perfect boobs, are devilishly attractive. How do you handle it? 🤓"

Yes I do, and after that little voice gets in my head I tell myself that everyone has their own taste, so I am grounding myself saying you’ll be some people’s liking and not all of them. The people who really like you, like you for you, with the flaws and all. And I honestly couldn’t wish for more.

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By *ife Ninja OP Man
1 week ago

Dunfermline

"Do you ever look at someone on here, who's the same sex as you, and think 'how do I compete with that?'. They have perfect pecs, perfect boobs, are devilishly attractive. How do you handle it? 🤓

Yeah, the voice....🙄

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By *issmorganWoman
1 week ago

Calderdale innit

No, I'm just me and although I'll never be for everyone, I'm ok with that.

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By *es not the MessiahMan
1 week ago

3rd rock from the sun

I don't bother these day's

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
1 week ago

stanley

"Do you ever look at someone on here, who's the same sex as you, and think 'how do I compete with that?'. They have perfect pecs, perfect boobs, are devilishly attractive. How do you handle it? 🤓"

Yes lots. Cling to the hope that everyone has different preferences and maybe I fit some of them.

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By *peedyGMan
1 week ago

Telford

No because i'm happy who i am within myself and also physically.... I'm certainly not perfect at all but that's what makes me, me

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By *im le2Man
1 week ago

AYLESTONE

Just remember we all like different things.

I still can't believe one of my mates still comes to see me. He so fit with above average dick. And I'm the total opposite.

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By *eroLondonMan
1 week ago

Covent Garden

Yes, somewhat, sometimes, but not to the detriment of my enjoyment on here.

It's not difficult to ignore the wondrousness in other people. I just forge ahead and play with the cards that I've been dealt.

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By *parkle1974Woman
1 week ago

Leeds

"Do you ever look at someone on here, who's the same sex as you, and think 'how do I compete with that?'. They have perfect pecs, perfect boobs, are devilishly attractive. How do you handle it? 🤓"

Never.

I'm not here to compete with anyone as fab for me isn't a competition x

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By *iss.BellaWoman
1 week ago

There are some super hot women about. Especially around these parts and my local updates are pretty impressive in terms of women too.

I don't see any point comparing myself against them I know I'm average and that's OK, I do alright on here 🤷‍♀️

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By *eriScotMan
1 week ago

Scottish Borders

If after comparing yourself to others you’re not happy or feel like you can’t compete then instead of looking for sympathy make changes and better yourself

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By *pontaneous_coupleCouple
1 week ago

Hoddesdon

You have to know what you have and use it to your advantage, I know what i am and what im not and im more confident than most xx

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By *iss.BellaWoman
1 week ago

"If after comparing yourself to others you’re not happy or feel like you can’t compete then instead of looking for sympathy make changes and better yourself "

there's always an expert on here isn't there ☠️

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By *riel13Woman
1 week ago

Northampton

Often, so I don't

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
1 week ago

Den of Iniquity

"There are some super hot women about. Especially around these parts and my local updates are pretty impressive in terms of women too.

I don't see any point comparing myself against them I know I'm average and that's OK, I do alright on here 🤷‍♀️"

Wanna turn " alright on here " into " slightly better but not by much " ?? Then I'm your man

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By *he OpalsnakeMan
1 week ago

Thirsk

I've always said bodies are more for living in than working on. Yes I take care of myself more these days but that's for wellbeing. I'll never again put the effort in for a six pack. Well done if you have one but I'm a thick body and it nigh killed me!

I don't compare myself, I'm proud of who I am, imperfections and all. I don't have to compete or be everyone's cup of tea. I'm authentic and that's what matters.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
1 week ago

Ends

I’ll be real, I don’t really. Which maybe sounds arrogant but nice bodies don’t really mean much to me. If a guy had a gorgeous face I’d be more likely to feel intimidated but in all honesty (God forgive me) I rarely see men on here who make me feel ugly or unattractive. I think the only person I ever did feel that over is my ex’s partner and that’s no longer a problem.

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By *ife Ninja OP Man
1 week ago

Dunfermline

"Often, so I don't

A mantra to follow 👍🤓

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By *iss.BellaWoman
1 week ago

"There are some super hot women about. Especially around these parts and my local updates are pretty impressive in terms of women too.

I don't see any point comparing myself against them I know I'm average and that's OK, I do alright on here 🤷‍♀️

Wanna turn " alright on here " into " slightly better but not by much " ?? Then I'm your man

Hmu

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By *vaRoseWoman
1 week ago

Ankh-Morpork

Yeah sometimes but then I give myself a talking to and stop

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By *sStephenPickleMan
1 week ago

Ends

You have to love yourself in this life, honestly. I truly believe I’m not ugly. Sure I’m not the most objectively attractive person but I have more than enough women in my life who tell me I’m beautiful for me to believe it.

Or maybe I’m just an arrogant fucker who thinks I’m decent looking. Either way, loving myself is what helps.

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By *IXEN200Woman
1 week ago

newcastle upon tyne

Yeah all the time, makes me wonder why I'm here half the time

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By *aughtynice78Man
1 week ago

Telford

As a friend once said to me "You can only piss with the cock you've got"

A grim phrase... but absolutely correct

Enjoy what you have, it's not a competition

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By *olinOfBathMan
1 week ago

Corsham

Not really. I might envy their height, hair, muscles or whatever, but they mught envy my 200+ verifications from meetings...

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By *aybeLadyWoman
1 week ago

West Dublin

Na. Each to their own.

What one man finds attractive, another one doesnt.

I'm finally comfortable in my own skin.

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By *he OpalsnakeMan
1 week ago

Thirsk

"If after comparing yourself to others you’re not happy or feel like you can’t compete then instead of looking for sympathy make changes and better yourself

there's always an expert on here isn't there ☠️"

And the award for the unhappiest person on the thread goes to 🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁 that knob end

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By *uke_silverMan
1 week ago

London

Not so much physically, because the only reference I can use for that is profile photos (as I prioritise other galleries 😂). However, if we extend attractiveness to the way they talk / confidence / pull (or my perception of these things), then absolutely.

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
1 week ago

Up North

I definitely see lots of women who I think are insanely hot. I’ll occasionally have a moment of envy but I’d never think “how do I compete with that”. I know I have my own qualities and try to focus on that.

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By *oeBeansMan
1 week ago

Derby

Nope 😎

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
1 week ago

Voldsøy

No, not really. I don't have much self- confidence, but that doesn't make me compare myself to people. I just admire them.

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By *viatrixWoman
1 week ago

Redhill

I have thought that throughout my life, but over here …

Let’s just say that I don’t need to compete. I do quite well for myself.

the sun comes out for everyone I guess 😂😂😂

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By *vonne5exMan
1 week ago

Doncaster

"Do you ever look at someone on here, who's the same sex as you, and think 'how do I compete with that?'. They have perfect pecs, perfect boobs, are devilishly attractive. How do you handle it? 🤓"
Be yourself and if you have the gift of the gab you'll succeed

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
1 week ago

Niche

No, because I know 99.9% of it is smoke & mirrors, good angles and lighting.

We all have things we like to highlight✨️ and things we would try to disguise 🥸

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By *ife Ninja OP Man
1 week ago

Dunfermline

"No, because I know 99.9% of it is smoke & mirrors, good angles and lighting.

We all have things we like to highlight✨️ and things we would try to disguise 🥸 "

I'd love a good mirror 🪞 😂🤓

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