FabSwingers.com forum: What's your trifecta perfecta?

By *ovelyDayXXX OP Woman
38 weeks ago

Niche

For me it's...

• feeling emotionally safe

• feeling physically safe

• sexual chemistry & connection

What's your definition of a perfect partner match?

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By *ude LawMan
38 weeks ago

Harrogate

• Connection

• Communication

• Charisma

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By *eroLondonMan
38 weeks ago

Mayfair

• Transparency

• Humour

• Synergy

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By *estructionDollyWoman
38 weeks ago

Manchester

Sexual chemistry

Openness and communication

Compatibility

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
38 weeks ago

West Suffolk

Compatibility (both in and out of the bedroom)

Connection

Humour

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Connection on a mental, emotional and physical level.

Ability to release control and trust.

Humour match.

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By *ude LawMan
38 weeks ago

Harrogate

"Compatibility (both in and out of the bedroom)

Connection

Humour

Mrs "

That's four.

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By *llfingersandtongueMan
38 weeks ago

Aylesbury

Connection

Desire

Confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

- Chatty people (filthy and otherwise)

- Complete pervs

- Boundless enthusiasm!

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By *ovelyDayXXX OP Woman
38 weeks ago

Niche

I'm sensing a theme here!

And I like it 😎😈

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By *ayRyuMan
38 weeks ago

Harrogate

Coffee

Biscuits

Laughter

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By *sWyldWoman
38 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Chemistry

That feeling of being desired that actually makes me feel sexy

Safety

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
38 weeks ago

West Suffolk

"Compatibility (both in and out of the bedroom)

Connection

Humour

Mrs

That's four."

Compatibility, connection and humour is 3 lol

Mrs

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
38 weeks ago

North Welsh Borders

Security

Humour

Kindness (e.g not calling me out when I eat his cake)

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By *he OpalsnakeMan
38 weeks ago

Thirsk

"Security

Humour

Kindness (e.g not calling me out when I eat his cake)

*hands over his cake* 😉

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By *ear NecessitiesMan
38 weeks ago

The woods

"Security

Humour

Kindness (e.g not calling me out when I eat his cake)

Buys a bigger cake

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
38 weeks ago

North Welsh Borders

"Security

Humour

Kindness (e.g not calling me out when I eat his cake)

*hands over his cake* 😉"

Eeeek! I knew you are a keeper

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By *parkle1974Woman
38 weeks ago

Leeds

If only there were such a thing as perfect.

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
38 weeks ago

North Welsh Borders

"Security

Humour

Kindness (e.g not calling me out when I eat his cake)

Buys a bigger cake"

I love cake. Ngl

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By *eathcliffMan
38 weeks ago

Cardiff

• feeling emotionally safe

• feeling physically safe

• sexual chemistry and connection

'Maslow' would call the first two hygiene factors, or fundamentals. Without them, you’re not in a relationship — you’re just managing stress with occasional cuddles.

But the real match? That’s rarer.

It’s someone curious — about the world, themselves, and me. Someone I can laugh with; dry, dark humour preferred.

Someone who is authentic and genuine - who doesn’t need noise or fuss. Kind in the quiet ways — to dogs, waiters, and their own past.

And yes, chemistry. That unspoken pull — the way even their scent feels like home.

Not a clone. Just someone who challenges me, steadies me, and makes me better — without ever needing to say so.

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By *r_Mrs.DSCouple
38 weeks ago

Voldsøy

Healthy communication

Chemistry

Shared values

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By *nquisitive LadyWoman
38 weeks ago

Midlands

"• Connection

• Communication

• Charisma"

Add in loyalty for me

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By *vaRoseWoman
38 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Affinity - Where you’re ok the same level in terms of chemistry, compatibility and emotional availability.

Reliability - that feeling of security and safety when they’re consistent and grounded

Passion - the mutual craving for each other, desire and lust mixed with hunger and heat

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By *r.ZeusMan
38 weeks ago

Basgiath War College

Chemistry & compatibility

Humour

Desire

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By *ruella DeThrillWoman
38 weeks ago

Essex

Seven

Girthy

Inches

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By *ovelyDayXXX OP Woman
38 weeks ago

Niche

"If only there were such a thing as perfect."

There's an aspirational ideal match.

You don't have to be perfect to be a perfectly imperfect match 🫶

I love people's idiosyncrasies and individuality

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Affectionate.

Emotionally intelligent.

Sexually compatible.

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By *ookie46Woman
38 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Connection and chemistry not just sexual

Humour

Emotional intelligence

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
38 weeks ago

Maidstone

Wine

Chips

A gas mask.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
38 weeks ago

Round the bend

Connection

Transparency

Humour

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By *onko the SaneMan
38 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

My hard cock.

Lube

Porn

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Funny

Intelligent

Fit

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By *ovelyDayXXX OP Woman
38 weeks ago

Niche

"Funny

Intelligent

Fit "

FIF?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
38 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Passion

Intelligence - both types

Versatility

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By *ear NecessitiesMan
38 weeks ago

The woods

My three

Feeling emotionally trusted

Physical attraction

An open inquisitive mind

To be fair, these often lead to chemistry but its not there to begin with, get to know someone.

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By *ovelyDayXXX OP Woman
38 weeks ago

Niche

"My three

Feeling emotionally trusted

Physical attraction

An open inquisitive mind

To be fair, these often lead to chemistry but its not there to begin with, get to know someone."

You can definitely build connection. It's not always there from day1

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