FabSwingers.com forum: ‘Older guys’ what age?

By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

Hey

So I’m 46 and a half….. have I reached ‘older guy’ status or not??

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
2 weeks ago

Gloucester

That will depend on who you ask. Yes your older than me but to someone older than you no you wouldn’t have.

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By *outhman15Man
2 weeks ago

southampton

No you can't have as i am 58 and i'm middle aged

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"That will depend on who you ask. Yes your older than me but to someone older than you no you wouldn’t have. "

Yes, good point! All relative!

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"No you can't have as i am 58 and i'm middle aged"

Fair enough then!! I’m not even middle aged, which is nice to hear

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By *ude LawMan
2 weeks ago

Harrogate

"No you can't have as i am 58 and i'm middle aged

Fair enough then!! I’m not even middle aged, which is nice to hear "

If you plan to live to 91, then you're exactly middle aged.

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By *orny IrishMan
2 weeks ago

Rural Wiltshire

I know a guy who is still racing amateur cycling at 92 so you can't be old.

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By *avexxMan
2 weeks ago

cheshire

no you havent op.. your still a young man

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By *iscplukCouple
2 weeks ago

Midlands

My Mrs enjoys older men, and they are well beyond their 40s. So I’d say no, still got some time to go yet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

It depends who you ask. To me you're a younger man

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"No you can't have as i am 58 and i'm middle aged

Fair enough then!! I’m not even middle aged, which is nice to hear

If you plan to live to 91, then you're exactly middle aged."

Not sure I’ve got that much of a plan!

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By *igan1974Man
2 weeks ago

wigan

Well I'm 50 winks welcome lol

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"My Mrs enjoys older men, and they are well beyond their 40s. So I’d say no, still got some time to go yet. "

Yes! I’ll take that

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By *oobaaMan
2 weeks ago

South Shields

61 and still banging about lol

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"no you havent op.. your still a young man

Young! Ok then I’m going with that

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By *aveyP800Man
2 weeks ago

Derby

I've always had partners who've preferred men over 60. They always like that they were so eager to please and would take their time, not rushing it at all, more relaxed atmosphere, but ultimately very naughty guys.

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"I've always had partners who've preferred men over 60. They always like that they were so eager to please and would take their time, not rushing it at all, more relaxed atmosphere, but ultimately very naughty guys. "

Something to be said for experience I think

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By *tephanjMan
2 weeks ago

Kettering

I'm 70 I'm not a older guy I'm ancient

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By *ude LawMan
2 weeks ago

Harrogate

"No you can't have as i am 58 and i'm middle aged

Fair enough then!! I’m not even middle aged, which is nice to hear

If you plan to live to 91, then you're exactly middle aged.

Not sure I’ve got that much of a plan! "

Maybe you're older than middle aged then.

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By *usie pTV/TS
2 weeks ago

taunton

Definitely at the age where you must not let any opportunity slip past.

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By *aveyP800Man
2 weeks ago

Derby

"Something to be said for experience I think "

Oh definitely, had some great sessions over the years.

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"Definitely at the age where you must not let any opportunity slip past.

That’s an intriguing comment and perspective

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"I'm 70 I'm not a older guy I'm ancient

Pmsl

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
2 weeks ago

Niche

Well I'm 49.

Anyone with a birthday even a day before mine is older and not for me 🤓

Sorry not sorry. Them's the rules 🫶

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"Well I'm 49.

Anyone with a birthday even a day before mine is older and not for me 🤓

Sorry not sorry. Them's the rules 🫶"

I’ll happily play by those rules. (And you look great and definitely not 49 btw)

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By *aveyP800Man
2 weeks ago

Derby

"Well I'm 49.

Anyone with a birthday even a day before mine is older and not for me 🤓

Sorry not sorry. Them's the rules 🫶"

It's each to their own. Everyone has different preferences.

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By *ovetolick78Man
2 weeks ago

The Shire

"It depends who you ask. To me you're a younger man "

(Pulls up a chair) well hello, say that again. 😇

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By *allipygousMan
2 weeks ago

Leicester

"No you can't have as i am 58 and i'm middle aged"

If you are middle aged then you've a realistic chance of living to 116.

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By *arkus1812Man
2 weeks ago

Lifes Departure Lounge in NN9

When you are my age you are definately old.

Somehow or other I have made it to 85

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By *NMMaleMan
2 weeks ago

Stourport

55 here

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By *avexxMan
2 weeks ago

cheshire

"When you are my age you are definately old.

Somehow or other I have made it to 85

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... and you look a great 85

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By *aveyP800Man
2 weeks ago

Derby

"When you are my age you are definately old.

Somehow or other I have made it to 85

There's definitely still women out there that would go for you. There's a guy on here that I know who's 86 and he still regularly participates with couple, and even has a woman in her 20's who comes over from Ireland to have fun with him.

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By *hades Of GreyMan
2 weeks ago

North Leeds

"I’m 46 and a half….. have I reached ‘older guy’ status or not?"

No you haven't, but I have!

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By *oiluvfunMan
2 weeks ago

Penrith

"Hey

So I’m 46 and a half….. have I reached ‘older guy’ status or not??"

You’ll be older than at least half the site’s preferred upper age bracket, so you’ll start to notice you’ll be able to message less people than when you were 45. Next milestone is 51, when your options drop off even more…..

Enjoy ‘maturing’!

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"When you are my age you are definately old.

Somehow or other I have made it to 85

Looking great for 85!

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"Hey

So I’m 46 and a half….. have I reached ‘older guy’ status or not??

Enjoy ‘maturing’!

I’d better enjoy the next 4.5 years then!!’

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By *ich100Man
2 weeks ago

luton

Morning all,I am 70years young in two weeks and still looking to have some fun

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By *VE n ANDYCouple
2 weeks ago

Bedford

The average lifespan of males in UK is 78 (27% don't even make pension) so 39 would be middle-aged. Age is not to be measured in years, but in ideas. What about wisdom? Ah, wisdom is a comb which nature gives to man, only when he is bald...

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"The average lifespan of males in UK is 78 (27% don't even make pension) so 39 would be middle-aged. Age is not to be measured in years, but in ideas. What about wisdom? Ah, wisdom is a comb which nature gives to man, only when he is bald..."

I had my wisdom teeth out…. I lost it all

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

No.

I'd say you're middle aged but not older (to me). I'd describe someone as an "older" if they were 12+ years older.

The majority of women on this site (at least in the forums) are forty plus so I don't think you'll be older to them. Maybe to women in your twenties you are?

Forties are a good age for men on here (I think). Make the most of it whilst you can.

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan
2 weeks ago

wolverhampton

Coming 48 here.. don’t feel a day over 70

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"No.

I'd say you're middle aged but not older (to me). I'd describe someone as an "older" if they were 12+ years older.

The majority of women on this site (at least in the forums) are forty plus so I don't think you'll be older to them. Maybe to women in your twenties you are?

Forties are a good age for men on here (I think). Make the most of it whilst you can.

Thank you. I want to make the most of it for sure

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By *ou only live onceMan
2 weeks ago

London

You wouldn't have been were it not for that dreaded "and a half". Six months past it.

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"You wouldn't have been were it not for that dreaded "and a half". Six months past it."

Shock!!

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
2 weeks ago

from mars

I’m still young …… 😊 (45)

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By *ric-shawnMan
2 weeks ago

By the beach...

I don't call it age...I look at it as levels... currently I'm on level 52! 🤣

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By *aughtywelsh89Man
2 weeks ago

Pontyclun

I’m 52

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Soho

I reached middle-age when I hit 30.

(I'm hoping JoeBeans reads this ❤️)

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By *oiluvfunMan
2 weeks ago

Penrith

"Hey

So I’m 46 and a half….. have I reached ‘older guy’ status or not??

Enjoy ‘maturing’!

I’d better enjoy the next 4.5 years then!!’ "

The struggle is real…..😞

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By *ou only live onceMan
2 weeks ago

London

"I reached middle-age when I hit 30.

(I'm hoping JoeBeans reads this ❤️)"

Agreed. One's 'middle age' certainly starts at 30, even if you're not 'middle-aged'. This is a hill I am willing to die on.

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

"I reached middle-age when I hit 30.

(I'm hoping JoeBeans reads this ❤️)

Agreed. One's 'middle age' certainly starts at 30, even if you're not 'middle-aged'. This is a hill I am willing to die on."

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By *allipygousMan
2 weeks ago

Leicester

"I don't call it age...I look at it as levels... currently I'm on level 52! 🤣"

You did a couple of decent tunes 10 years ago.

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"I reached middle-age when I hit 30.

(I'm hoping JoeBeans reads this ❤️)

Agreed. One's 'middle age' certainly starts at 30, even if you're not 'middle-aged'. This is a hill I am willing to die on."

I agree. It’s when middle aged ends and older category starts that is unclear lol

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By *ernowlad123Man
2 weeks ago

Cornwall

Wife loves the idea of a old +60 year old touching her

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"Wife loves the idea of a old +60 year old touching her"

Any reason why?

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By *aughty workman88Man
2 weeks ago

Colchester

I know I am getting old my bones sound like a bowl of rice crispysin the morning I have to turn my radio down when considerating when driving

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By *heonixrising500Man
2 weeks ago

Barnsley

I 73

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Soho

"I reached middle-age when I hit 30.

(I'm hoping JoeBeans reads this ❤️)

Agreed. One's 'middle age' certainly starts at 30, even if you're not 'middle-aged'. This is a hill I am willing to die on."

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The hill that you die on, YOLO, will be the mountain we bring you down from. ❤️

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By *hoenix_1Man
2 weeks ago

richmond

"Hey

So I’m 46 and a half….. have I reached ‘older guy’ status or not??

Enjoy ‘maturing’!

Then when you get to 71 your fab world is full of tumble.

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By *ernowlad123Man
2 weeks ago

Cornwall

"Wife loves the idea of a old +60 year old touching her

Any reason why?"

Loves a naughty daddy

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By *arker secrets 321Man
2 weeks ago

West Bromwich

57 so im old ur still a puppy lol x

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By *hong80321967Man
2 weeks ago

Wakefield

I'm 58 , older to me is 65+

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By *cotlickMan
2 weeks ago

Falkirk

I'm 56 and getting the old man jokes from pesky whippersnappers at work. Silver hair changes peoples perception

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By *awpleasureMan
2 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

Im nearly 50 but still have all my hair and only a little grey.

It's how you feel inside not what others think.

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By *arahHeartWoman
2 weeks ago

bolton

Older the better!

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"Older the better!"

Any particular reason?

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By *aidbacklover2021Man
2 weeks ago

perth

It's all relative

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By *wang123Man
2 weeks ago

central

60 here (but could pass for 59 from a distance and in a bad light)

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By *ustintime69Man
2 weeks ago

Forest Hill

Ah the joy of diminishing returns….personally I am in that flat spot of late 50’s where you’re too old for the many but not old enough for the few, so I am hanging on for the good times to come 🤣

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By *BusterflapsMan
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'll be honest, I'm only here coz there was only 68 posts...

... But if there's any (not too) youngers passin through, you know what to do 😜

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Chichester

I class older guys 60+

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By *mmaleiaWoman
2 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Men in their late 30s & 40s are the hottest

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Not yet OP....not yet

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"Men in their late 30s & 40s are the hottest"

I like the sound of that!! 3.5 years for me to still qualify!

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By *aramel.desiresMan
2 weeks ago

Laleham

At 52 I'm.older than most but I'm far from old. I'm just about an adult.

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By *peedyGMan
2 weeks ago

Telford

"Men in their late 30s & 40s are the hottest"

Makes me feel less bad about creeping into this age bracket 😅

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By *itgingermanMan
2 weeks ago

Rotherham

+50 here and it’s down to how you feel too

Never felt so as good as in all my life, even at the gym and events I keep up with 35 year olds, even they say how do I do it

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"At 52 I'm.older than most but I'm far from old. I'm just about an adult. "

Being an adult is a whole other thing lol

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By *aramel.desiresMan
2 weeks ago

Laleham

"At 52 I'm.older than most but I'm far from old. I'm just about an adult.

Being an adult is a whole other thing lol"

I been fighting it for years. But I might have to give it a try..

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By *aughty TAMan
2 weeks ago

Rochdale / York

I’m 60 probs too old

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By *en ItaliaWoman
2 weeks ago

your lap

"Hey

So I’m 46 and a half….. have I reached ‘older guy’ status or not??"

It’s subjective I’d say. I’m 10 years older than you, so you’re not older in my sphere. I like older men, however as I get older, the pool available to me gets less.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
2 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Unless you’re 99 then it’s a no OP 😘

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"Unless you’re 99 then it’s a no OP 😘"

Best answer so far!! I’m all good then 😘

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By *raveboyMan
2 weeks ago

Helston

52 and creeping up . So getting there slowly !

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By *poolGuyMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Hey

So I’m 46 and a half….. have I reached ‘older guy’ status or not??"

Nope. I'm 10 years ahead or 3 behind looking at my shoe.

Has someone offered you their seat at a bus stop or on the bus?

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By *ife NinjaMan
2 weeks ago

Dunfermline

53. Prehistoric 😂🤓

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
2 weeks ago

Cardiff

60+ is what I consider older 40-59 is middle aged

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Soho

"Unless you’re 99 then it’s a no O(Å)P 😘"

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Fixed that for you, Le Petit Oiseau. ❤️

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Altrincham

"Hey

So I’m 46 and a half….. have I reached ‘older guy’ status or not??"

46 - you're a bit younger than me

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Ramsey

If your wallet is large enough & you drive a supercar you'll still pull regardless of age. Controversial but usually proven true.

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By *riel13Woman
2 weeks ago

Northampton

If you're older then yes... No?

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By *ife NinjaMan
2 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"60+ is what I consider older 40-59 is middle aged"

I like you 😂😘🤓

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By *illmatt OP Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"If you're older then yes... No? "

Maybe….. lol

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By *allipygousMan
2 weeks ago

Leicester

"If your wallet is large enough & you drive a supercar you'll still pull regardless of age. Controversial but usually proven true."

Not controversial, just true.

Also, some men on this thread, and on this site in general, blame their age for their 'lack of success'. For many it has nothing to do with their age.

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By *avecooper69Man
2 weeks ago

Benfleet

46 here too !!

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
2 weeks ago

Cardiff

"60+ is what I consider older 40-59 is middle aged

I like you 😂😘🤓"

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By *orthernman71Man
2 weeks ago

54 here

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