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By *night in armour OP   Man
2 days ago

guilford

Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry

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By *hickthighs25Woman
2 days ago

Stockton

Theres nothing desperate about loneliness .. its an awful consuming feeling.

Hope your good OP always here for an ear if you need one 😘

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By *peedyGMan
2 days ago

Telford


"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry "

Sorry to hear that pal.... get involved on the threads and chatting with people, hopefully take your mind off of being lonely.... happy to chat anytime

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By *exxyyDy11Man
2 days ago

North West

Nothing to say sorry for pal. It is an awful feeling. I hope you're feeling miles better soon

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By *raveboyMan
2 days ago

Helston

You have nothing to be sorry about Op. I think most have been here in som way , but if you need to chat give a shout,

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By *y_journeyMan
2 days ago

newark


"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry "

We all get like that at times.

Come have a mooch and a giggle around on here buddy 🤝

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
2 days ago

Maidstone

I'm there most nights. I'm gonna get more cats.

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By *night in armour OP   Man
2 days ago

guilford

Thank you for the kind words 🤗

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By *raveboyMan
2 days ago

Helston


"I'm there most nights. I'm gonna get more cats. "

Another pussy !

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
2 days ago

Basingstoke

Hey OP, never apologise for opening up. Your feelings are perfectly valid, and it's ok to feel how you feel!

Sorry you're feeling lonely. It can get to us from time to time, can't it - living alone. I think that's probably why I spend time in the forum. It gives a little bit of a sense of companionship.

Have you maybe got a friend or family member you can call and have a catch up and a gossip with? It might help.

Hope you feel yourself again soon.

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By *emenLover111Man
2 days ago

Sheffield (East Midlands)


"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry "
Hello to you sir.

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By *raveboyMan
2 days ago

Helston


"Thank you for the kind words 🤗"

We are a caring bunch !

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By *antra MassageMan
2 days ago

Galway

Sorry to hear that , it's very common. Loneliness is a terrible thing, and often people around us don't realise you're lonely. Thanks for being honest, I hope you get lots of support here.

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By *peedyGMan
2 days ago

Telford

Just saying.... I've been there and if anyone wants a friendly chat, speedyGs inbox is open to all of you.... don't be shy or afraid to say

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By *ovetolick78Man
2 days ago

Bagend


"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry "

That why the forums are here, plenty of people to chat to and have laugh with here.

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By *y_journeyMan
2 days ago

newark


"Just saying.... I've been there and if anyone wants a friendly chat, speedyGs inbox is open to all of you.... don't be shy or afraid to say "

🚣

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By *tickytip44Man
2 days ago

ll18

Jump in the other chats and get on the bants of them, it’s fab no one’s perfect here n fuk it

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By *peedyGMan
2 days ago

Telford


"Just saying.... I've been there and if anyone wants a friendly chat, speedyGs inbox is open to all of you.... don't be shy or afraid to say

🚣"

Anytime pal

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
2 days ago

Reading

Unless you have experienced it, it is very hard to comprehend how all consuming loneliness can be. And that you can be lonely when surrounded by people.

When I struggle with it, I come on the forums. There is always someone around to have a chat and a giggle with and I have made some good friends from it.

Also make sure you are looking after your physical needs as well, eating properly, sleeping and trying to have some activity out of the house every day will also help.

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By *arlo56Man
2 days ago

Newcastle


"Unless you have experienced it, it is very hard to comprehend how all consuming loneliness can be. And that you can be lonely when surrounded by people.

When I struggle with it, I come on the forums. There is always someone around to have a chat and a giggle with and I have made some good friends from it.

Also make sure you are looking after your physical needs as well, eating properly, sleeping and trying to have some activity out of the house every day will also help."

The nit were you can be lonely surrounded by people is me.

For a few days every month I get like that .

It comes from nowhere ,hangs around for a while then ebs away.

Whenever I talk to someone about it they just don't get it.

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By *night in armour OP   Man
2 days ago

guilford

It is very hard to describe almost like I can hide it away at work . Then when I get home on my own start dreading Christmas which i know sounds ridiculous etc

It would be nice to have a chat with fellow humans and interaction

Most the time I’m fine doing things on my own etc

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By *night in armour OP   Man
2 days ago

guilford

I’m actually at work Christmas this year so solved that problem

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
2 days ago

Kilmarnock


"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry "

I think we all feel that way sometimes. I know I (Mrs) do at times. For instance when I'm a back shift at work, there's only me in my department, sure I see customers coming through but unless I'm being asked for garlic bread, they don't really speak to me. Then by the time I'm home, Mr is in bed ready for work in the morning and the kids are in bed, so it's just me, the dogs and the forum

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 days ago

Altrincham

You don't have to be alone to feel lonely, it happens to the best of us

Reach out, chat to someone, there's always someone on here who chat 😍

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By *peedyGMan
2 days ago

Telford


"You don't have to be alone to feel lonely, it happens to the best of us

Reach out, chat to someone, there's always someone on here who chat 😍 "

p

Yes i agree 💯, I've been exactly that myself in the past and it's not very nice at all.

Hope you are ok too my friend

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By *ez188Man
2 days ago

Birmingham

Definitely not something to apologise for, it’s a terrible feeling when it comes.

It’s refreshing to see so many on here offering support.

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By *night in armour OP   Man
2 days ago

guilford

It is thank you to you all .

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By *ysteryman6998Man
2 days ago

essex

I get this a lot. Too much. If you wanna talk OP I could always use more friends 👍

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By *enda83Man
2 days ago

newcastle

It’s not a nice feeling mate is there any thing you can start doing regular on an evening that gets you out the house and around people? I trained at home my whole live but when the kids mother left decided to train at a gym just to get out the house on a night time and got to know loads of people and stops feeling lonely

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By *host63Man
2 days ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry "

Story of my life I just exist. Though lately I have been thi king ot would be nice to go to bed and not wake up.

Not that I am going to do anything silly. Just how I feel.

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By *midnight-Woman
2 days ago

...

Never be sorry... Hopefully it's just wee lull and you'll feel better soon.

If not, then you need to change something xx

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By *oeBeansMan
2 days ago

Derby

I can empathise, OP. I think the only thing I can recommend is throwing yourself into your hobbies and try and find a little fulfilment in that way rather than try and focus on what others can provide for you.

But it's a tough cycle to break, but you can get through this!

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By *eroLondonMan
2 days ago

Covent Garden

You're amongst friends and empathetic comrades within the forå, OP. 🩶

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By *onjon123Man
2 days ago

Merthyr Tydfil


"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry "

Hi just wanted to say I know that feeling all too well.

I may not be the best at replying straight away but i will always reply so if you want to chat or anything just reach out

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By *night in armour OP   Man
3 hours ago

guilford

Hello thanks for the reply’s

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By *vonne5exMan
3 hours ago

Doncaster


"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry "
I love my own company and living by myself, I've got rugby on the TV and on here without a nag insight

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By *midnight-Woman
3 hours ago

...


"Hello thanks for the reply’s "

How are you feeling today OP?

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By *ife NinjaMan
3 hours ago

Dunfermline

Most people on here are lonely....they just try to forget about it 🙄

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By *ustJ69Man
3 hours ago

Warrington

Nothing wrong with feeling a little lonely my friend, happens to me all the time.

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By *ou only live onceMan
3 hours ago

London


"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry

That why the forums are here, plenty of people to chat to and have laugh with here. "

Don't over promise with the offer of a laugh...have you read some of the threads?!? 🤣

But hope you're feeling better soon, OP. As others have said, a good distraction here!

Longer term, have you got some hobbies you could use to meet new people?

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By *poolGuyMan
3 hours ago

Liverpool


"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry "

Don't be sorry for it and I hope you're in a better place today.

Sometimes we choose to be alone and others, for whatever reason beyond our control, it's forced on us. But there are times when it weighs heavily.

You've seen the good people on here who're here for you.

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By *hyguy67Man
40 minutes ago

Worksop

I know where your coming from. I lost my wife a couple of months ago. As others have said a chat on the forum helps

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
38 minutes ago

Bristol/Newcastle

Your never lonely here buddy, there's always someone here for you

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By *cottish guy 555Man
35 minutes ago

London

There's a couple of socials happening not far from you if you're looking for chats with real people. Drop me a line anytime.

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