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"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry " We all get like that at times. Come have a mooch and a giggle around on here buddy 🤝 | |||
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"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry " Hello to you sir. | |||
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"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry " That why the forums are here, plenty of people to chat to and have laugh with here. | |||
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"Just saying.... I've been there and if anyone wants a friendly chat, speedyGs inbox is open to all of you.... don't be shy or afraid to say 🚣 | |||
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"Just saying.... I've been there and if anyone wants a friendly chat, speedyGs inbox is open to all of you.... don't be shy or afraid to say Anytime pal | |||
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"Unless you have experienced it, it is very hard to comprehend how all consuming loneliness can be. And that you can be lonely when surrounded by people. When I struggle with it, I come on the forums. There is always someone around to have a chat and a giggle with and I have made some good friends from it. Also make sure you are looking after your physical needs as well, eating properly, sleeping and trying to have some activity out of the house every day will also help." The nit were you can be lonely surrounded by people is me. For a few days every month I get like that . It comes from nowhere ,hangs around for a while then ebs away. Whenever I talk to someone about it they just don't get it. | |||
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"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry " I think we all feel that way sometimes. I know I (Mrs) do at times. For instance when I'm a back shift at work, there's only me in my department, sure I see customers coming through but unless I'm being asked for garlic bread, they don't really speak to me. Then by the time I'm home, Mr is in bed ready for work in the morning and the kids are in bed, so it's just me, the dogs and the forum | |||
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"You don't have to be alone to feel lonely, it happens to the best of us Reach out, chat to someone, there's always someone on here who chat 😍 " p Yes i agree 💯, I've been exactly that myself in the past and it's not very nice at all. Hope you are ok too my friend | |||
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"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry " Story of my life I just exist. Though lately I have been thi king ot would be nice to go to bed and not wake up. Not that I am going to do anything silly. Just how I feel. | |||
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"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry " Hi just wanted to say I know that feeling all too well. I may not be the best at replying straight away but i will always reply so if you want to chat or anything just reach out | |||
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"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry " I love my own company and living by myself, I've got rugby on the TV and on here without a nag insight | |||
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"Hello thanks for the reply’s " How are you feeling today OP? | |||
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"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry That why the forums are here, plenty of people to chat to and have laugh with here. " Don't over promise with the offer of a laugh...have you read some of the threads?!? 🤣 But hope you're feeling better soon, OP. As others have said, a good distraction here! Longer term, have you got some hobbies you could use to meet new people? | |||
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"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry " Don't be sorry for it and I hope you're in a better place today. Sometimes we choose to be alone and others, for whatever reason beyond our control, it's forced on us. But there are times when it weighs heavily. You've seen the good people on here who're here for you. | |||
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"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry " Sorry to hear that OP. I get bouts but I blame that mostly on my mental health conditions and autism ( neurodevelopmental condition) I'm single with no children, living alone and I struggle with people at work.( they don't understand autism- it's isolating) 1.Online forums and groups help me. 2. I go to swingers clubs/nudist spas/ Alternative sexual events..shout out to LAM this Sunday! 3.I have in-person support groups for mental health. 4. I do have poly playmates but they are not always available. 5. I go to the leisure centre. I can only suggest similar. We all need a feeling of validation, understanding, connection and belonging. | |||
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"There's a couple of socials happening not far from you if you're looking for chats with real people. Drop me a line anytime. This. Get along to a Hampshires most wanted social night or similar. Wonderful people and a great night out to shoo away that Black Dog when he comes visiting. I sometimes get down like this… working from home, single, kids grown up, friends busy. I’m so grateful to Fab and the swinging friends I have made. I’ll often drive an hour to go to Chameleons if I need company, better than my local pub and swingers are generally overwhelmingly positive happy people. | |||
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"I wfh, and alone nearly every day and night. Office most Wednesdays during the day. I can be horrid at times being lonely. Ive sobbed on the odd occasion over this. " We’re not meant to be like this, we are naturally social animals; humans need interaction and the increasingly online / streaming / wfh society means we are losing those essential ‘third spaces’. I’ll do a fitness / spin class at the local leisure centre to break the isolation. Go early, Chit chat, discuss weights, instructors.. anything. The endorphin hit from exercise plays a massive part too. Recommended. | |||
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"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry " You’re not alone, mate can always dm me for a chat’s | |||
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"Came to say this is the exact reason I've come to the forums today. So thankyou for sharing. Finding this debilitating at the moment, personally. " I get it too, usually Sunday and Mondays. | |||
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"I wfh, and alone nearly every day and night. Office most Wednesdays during the day. I can be horrid at times being lonely. Ive sobbed on the odd occasion over this. " Awww I'm so sorry to hear this xx | |||
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"You know what the sad thing is, there's an actual loneliness epidemic in this country. With half of the population of adults feeling lonely. It is a sad situation we are in. " ♥️♥️ | |||
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"I wfh, and alone nearly every day and night. Office most Wednesdays during the day. I can be horrid at times being lonely. Ive sobbed on the odd occasion over this. We’re not meant to be like this, we are naturally social animals; humans need interaction and the increasingly online / streaming / wfh society means we are losing those essential ‘third spaces’. I’ll do a fitness / spin class at the local leisure centre to break the isolation. Go early, Chit chat, discuss weights, instructors.. anything. The endorphin hit from exercise plays a massive part too. Recommended." I go to the gym 3 times a week, and yes this gives great endorphins. I think it can be the long lonely days at-home and at weekends. Lack of human contact. Currently my social life isn't as good, as waiting for surgery and my condition restricts me massively. | |||
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"You know what the sad thing is, there's an actual loneliness epidemic in this country. With half of the population of adults feeling lonely. It is a sad situation we are in. " its the lack of human face 2 face interactions, that I miss. | |||
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"I wfh, and alone nearly every day and night. Office most Wednesdays during the day. I can be horrid at times being lonely. Ive sobbed on the odd occasion over this. We’re not meant to be like this, we are naturally social animals; humans need interaction and the increasingly online / streaming / wfh society means we are losing those essential ‘third spaces’. I’ll do a fitness / spin class at the local leisure centre to break the isolation. Go early, Chit chat, discuss weights, instructors.. anything. The endorphin hit from exercise plays a massive part too. Recommended. I go to the gym 3 times a week, and yes this gives great endorphins. I think it can be the long lonely days at-home and at weekends. Lack of human contact. Currently my social life isn't as good, as waiting for surgery and my condition restricts me massively. " For most people the gym can be a solo pursuit. I'm not a gym goer. I can go to the gym anxious and leave anxious. I think it's because I'm autistic. I did 8 weeks weight training in the gym with my weightlifting trainer. I hyperfocused on him instead of all the other sensory input. That helps plus he's superfunny and sassy for a giant Viking-looking baby face. Some of us need a spotter not only in the gym but in life. If you are neurodivergent like me....I have 10 or more spotters. | |||
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"I think k what a lot of women don't understand or will ever appreciate is how utterly invisible and unwanted, expendable the average guy feels no atter how good our intentions are." I think you are right. I have this notion that guys are much more ok with being single & cope better. That lonliness doesnt affect them as much. I've no real reason to believe that though. I am sure there are plenty of genuine nice guys out there who would crave some untimacy. | |||
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"I think k what a lot of women don't understand or will ever appreciate is how utterly invisible and unwanted, expendable the average guy feels no atter how good our intentions are. I think you are right. I have this notion that guys are much more ok with being single & cope better. That lonliness doesnt affect them as much. I've no real reason to believe that though. I am sure there are plenty of genuine nice guys out there who would crave some untimacy. " I think guys are more lonely as they are more likely to drift away from family and friends... women are much better at feathering social circles. Men outside of teams, work and pubs struggle.. particularly Witt other men | |||
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"I think k what a lot of women don't understand or will ever appreciate is how utterly invisible and unwanted, expendable the average guy feels no atter how good our intentions are. I think you are right. I have this notion that guys are much more ok with being single & cope better. That lonliness doesnt affect them as much. I've no real reason to believe that though. I am sure there are plenty of genuine nice guys out there who would crave some untimacy. I think guys are more lonely as they are more likely to drift away from family and friends... women are much better at feathering social circles. Men outside of teams, work and pubs struggle.. particularly Witt other men " Spot on! | |||
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"Came to say this is the exact reason I've come to the forums today. So thankyou for sharing. Finding this debilitating at the moment, personally. " Sometimes life gets like that and as long as you chat to someone to break that feeling it’s ok | |||
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"Not in a desperate way or anything just feeling a bit alone only seen people at work just feeling g it a bit tonight sorry " Hang in there it will feel better | |||
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