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By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
45 weeks ago

North West

Are you the type to let a conversation naturally fizzle out or do you try to reignite it if you feel like the conversation is getting a little dry?

I think I'm the type to reignite it, but, if I still feel like conversation is still dry. I will let it run its natural course.

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By *hil most chillMan
45 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe

It depends how much effort the other party puts in when they do reply. I tend to start out enthusiastic and then mirror the effort they're giving. I've tried to rekindle fizzled out conversations but it's rarely worth it - there's usually a reason they fizzled out

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By *enda83Man
45 weeks ago

north

I’m lazy as fuck if there is no real effort on the other side I’ll just stop replying

I never message first but the odd time I get a message from a lass I don’t think it’s reasonable to expect them to contribute to keeping the conversation going but often just get one word messages a few texts in and I inevitably think fuck this shit and don’t bother to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

We used to make all efforts to reignite a conversation but if its like talking to a wall we let it fizzle out and recently its been more like that.

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By *ookie46Woman
45 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I rarely chat to people from here now as don’t think I have the headspace for it

I can count on one hand the amount of people I have conversations with

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By *nthony50069Man
45 weeks ago

yesh near oldham

I think I let things run their natural course if someone is really interested then it will continue but then there are a lot of people who time waste on here too

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

All conversations fizzle out naturally because people talk too much. I value phone calls and seeing people in person, and those who value me too will reciprocate that effort. Texting and talking online conversations im happy to let run dry because they are naturally.

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By *inxy777Woman
45 weeks ago

essex

I do try, maybe I try too much to keep it going, if no change, then I give up! x

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By *erry 58Man
45 weeks ago

doncaster

I’m a man of few words

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By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
45 weeks ago

North West

"All conversations fizzle out naturally because people talk too much. I value phone calls and seeing people in person, and those who value me too will reciprocate that effort. Texting and talking online conversations im happy to let run dry because they are naturally."

I feel like there's only so much you can with a text message. You don't really get a feel of someone with just texting. Phone calls and video chats are probably much better.

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By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
45 weeks ago

North West

"I’m lazy as fuck if there is no real effort on the other side I’ll just stop replying

I feel like you can get a good gut feeling reaction a few texts in to see if the effort is reciprocated or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I prefer speaking to people than txts/chats im not always the best at replying or keeping it going in txts

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By *uperSalopian7Man
45 weeks ago

Parts Unknown

Like other things in my life I tend to end things prematurely

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By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
45 weeks ago

North West

"I prefer speaking to people than txts/chats im not always the best at replying or keeping it going in txts "

Probably why I prefer voice messages on WhatsApp or Telegram. Or maybe I'm lazy 😂

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By *hunky GentMan
45 weeks ago

Bedford

I used to only ever talk to people.

But you have to change with the times and texting is a standard part of life now.

But I feel the tone can be lost in a text, so I do prefer an actual chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

"I prefer speaking to people than txts/chats im not always the best at replying or keeping it going in txts

Probably why I prefer voice messages on WhatsApp or Telegram. Or maybe I'm lazy 😂"

No i completely agree i much prefer voice messages i think you can get a jist of each others personality more

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By *eroLondonMan
45 weeks ago

Mayfair

I don't consciously let my conversations fizzle out, but I won't settle for non-reciprocal chat where most of the effort is on my part. I'm referring to the quality and substance of messages and not the quantity.

I like to keep the momentum of the conversation flowing and it doesn't have to be 50/50 for me in some form of ping-pong effect. However if the responses become increasingly 'closed' or passive, or simply perfunctory I just let the conversation fizzle out on its own accord.

On a few occasions I have sent messages to 'resuscitate' the interaction, something similar to:

"I feel our conversation has become cursory and more intermittent. Should we arrange to meet for a coffee, or is it a sign this isn't going anywhere?"

Or - "Am I being dismissed? Sometimes a closed comment feels like a conversation ended, don’t you think?"

More often than not it's lead to a social...and more...

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By *eliWoman
45 weeks ago

If it's died it's died. It's rare you can revive it. I like talking to people (not daily) but sometimes I get the feeling they're not that in to it and I'd rather let it go; perhaps try a little depending on who but otherwise? I've people who do want to talk.

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