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By *ottsladred OP   Man
45 weeks ago

Hucknall

How do you get someone to verify you? Having no look with anything atm due to not being verified but cant get verified as no ones willing to chat/meet

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
45 weeks ago

Hampshire

You can go on camera and ask if someone would be kind enough to verify you from having seen you in there.

Alternatively get yourself along to a group social or to a club and get chatting to folks who, if you ask nicely, would verify you.

Good luck 🙂

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By *ottsladred OP   Man
45 weeks ago

Hucknall

Would you be willing to help me out it would definitely add you to my Christmas card list heheh

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
45 weeks ago

Gloucester

Try going to a social or a club to get meet verified.

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By *ottsladred OP   Man
45 weeks ago

Hucknall

New to this whole thing so im really not sure of where or how the club scene works....ideally for my 1st visit someone whos experienced to go along with would definitely help lol

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By *dventurousTraveller69Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire

Lots of people have said to me that getting to an organised social (not a club) is a great way to meet folk…. Chat…. Put yourself out there… without the added pressure of anything as it’s just a social gathering

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By *ottsladred OP   Man
45 weeks ago

Hucknall

Finding it hard enough being verified atm let alone anyone chatting or meeting lol

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By *aomilatteCouple
45 weeks ago

Midlands

If you go to a club then the club itself will verify you. You can say hello to people and ask them to also. Be aware having verifications doesn't mean people then get meets. Many unverified people on here do meet other unverified people as they're always starting threads asking how they can verify each other!

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By *cottish guy 555Man
45 weeks ago

London


"Finding it hard enough being verified atm let alone anyone chatting or meeting lol"

But that's how you get verified.

Also, use reply and quote so people know who you are replying to.

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By *dventurousTraveller69Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"Finding it hard enough being verified atm let alone anyone chatting or meeting lol"

That’s why you go to the social…. That way you’re doing all of the above … meeting people …chatting to people…. And showing people you’re real and how you are in person

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
45 weeks ago

Gloucester


"New to this whole thing so im really not sure of where or how the club scene works....ideally for my 1st visit someone whos experienced to go along with would definitely help lol"

Ok well try an organised social then. They are usually no play events held in a pub. Search your town in the forums and you might find one in your area. If you’re not keen on going to a local one search whatever town your happy going to. Most are held once a month and are a great way to meet people without any pressure.

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By *ottsladred OP   Man
45 weeks ago

Hucknall


"Finding it hard enough being verified atm let alone anyone chatting or meeting lol

But that's how you get verified.

Also, use reply and quote so people know who you are replying to.

"

My mistake, schoolboy error still finding my feet, as I said earlier its all new to me and have no idea where the clubs etc near me are and how things work there

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By *dventurousTraveller69Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"New to this whole thing so im really not sure of where or how the club scene works....ideally for my 1st visit someone whos experienced to go along with would definitely help lol

Ok well try an organised social then. They are usually no play events held in a pub. Search your town in the forums and you might find one in your area. If you’re not keen on going to a local one search whatever town your happy going to. Most are held once a month and are a great way to meet people without any pressure. "

This

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By *ottsladred OP   Man
45 weeks ago

Hucknall


"New to this whole thing so im really not sure of where or how the club scene works....ideally for my 1st visit someone whos experienced to go along with would definitely help lol

Ok well try an organised social then. They are usually no play events held in a pub. Search your town in the forums and you might find one in your area. If you’re not keen on going to a local one search whatever town your happy going to. Most are held once a month and are a great way to meet people without any pressure. "

Thanks for the advice, its definitely something I'll be looking into now its all a bit daunting being new and not having a clue how things work

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By *dventurousTraveller69Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire

You could

Always reach out to a guy local who you both could go along? Then you’re just going. For a

Drink with a pal? Rather than it being this massive ‘social’ ??

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
45 weeks ago

Central

There are a good few of us who will meet those who have no verification . And will also meet to verify decent men too, having a chat and coffee.

Don't assume it's a magic bullet that will make Fab easy though. Having a strong profile that sells himself very well and going to socials and clubs is also the advisable approach for single men here . Take a look at the posts from single men who struggle and review the advice they've received

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By *ottsladred OP   Man
45 weeks ago

Hucknall


"There are a good few of us who will meet those who have no verification . And will also meet to verify decent men too, having a chat and coffee.

Don't assume it's a magic bullet that will make Fab easy though. Having a strong profile that sells himself very well and going to socials and clubs is also the advisable approach for single men here . Take a look at the posts from single men who struggle and review the advice they've received "

Any advice on my profile? Any help and pointers is appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"There are a good few of us who will meet those who have no verification . And will also meet to verify decent men too, having a chat and coffee.

Don't assume it's a magic bullet that will make Fab easy though. Having a strong profile that sells himself very well and going to socials and clubs is also the advisable approach for single men here . Take a look at the posts from single men who struggle and review the advice they've received

Any advice on my profile? Any help and pointers is appreciated "

Be individual. Your profile reads like you've taken bits from other profiles.

At the top when you click on forums there's a search function,type in advice, there's 100s of advice threads to read.

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