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By *arbler OP   Woman
45 weeks ago

Southampton

I'm sorry if this has been raised and discussed before but I was wondering if there is anyway to have a distance limit setting added to this site? Maybe there is already and I've overlooked it?

I can appreciate some people may travel with work or enjoy a fuck trip. However, I get really frustrated when I get a message but then find out they are from up North, Scotland or Ireland.

Although messaging with them and going on cam is an option, I much prefer to meet and the chances of meeting these gorgeous souls is very slim!

Any advice would be gratefully received. Thanks. Xx

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By *hunky GentMan
45 weeks ago

Bedford

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By *hunky GentMan
45 weeks ago

Bedford

It's good idea, but I have a fair few platonic friends that are the other end of the country that i like to just chat with.

It's not all about sexy times (thank goodness). Lol

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By *arbler OP   Woman
45 weeks ago

Southampton


"It's good idea, but I have a fair few platonic friends that are the other end of the country that i like to just chat with.

It's not all about sexy times (thank goodness). Lol"

I get that but it would be good to have it as an option if you wish to limit. Thank you for your reply x

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By *eduffgreenMan
45 weeks ago

kettering

There is on searches, if you want, you can set what limits you want, along with other parameters, but not on settings for people to view you, I believe

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By *issmorganWoman
45 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I agree op, I'd love to be able to limit who can message, from how far away they are.

The amount of contact I get from men 250 +miles is ridiculous & find most just want pics or sex chat.

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By *r SensualMan
45 weeks ago

London

As useful of a tool as this could be, what about those who have a lack of potential suitors within a specific radius and have no choice to widen their search for folk further afield?

Not all of us restrict ourselves by distance when it comes to trying to make connections. People travel far and wide to go events, myself being one of those people & this would prevent us from reaching out to people before said event

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By *arbler OP   Woman
45 weeks ago

Southampton


"There is on searches, if you want, you can set what limits you want, along with other parameters, but not on settings for people to view you, I believe "

Ok thank you.I'll take a closer look.

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By *arbler OP   Woman
45 weeks ago

Southampton


"I agree op, I'd love to be able to limit who can message, from how far away they are.

The amount of contact I get from men 250 +miles is ridiculous & find most just want pics or sex chat. "

Yes, I tend to get the same. Keep safe and happy fabbing xx

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By *arbler OP   Woman
45 weeks ago

Southampton


"As useful of a tool as this could be, what about those who have a lack of potential suitors within a specific radius and have no choice to widen their search for folk further afield?

Not all of us restrict ourselves by distance when it comes to trying to make connections. People travel far and wide to go events, myself being one of those people & this would prevent us from reaching out to people before said event"

I totally get what you are saying and I'm sure there are many in the same boat. Surely, there could be different boundary options with one being no restriction on distance so people like your good self would be rightfully catered for with others who are open for this kind of meet?

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By *eroLondonMan
45 weeks ago

Mayfair

Nearly all of the messages I've received on here were from women 100s of miles away.

Geographical disparities have never been a hindrance for me. My experiences would have been different if there was such an option.

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By *r SensualMan
45 weeks ago

London


"As useful of a tool as this could be, what about those who have a lack of potential suitors within a specific radius and have no choice to widen their search for folk further afield?

Not all of us restrict ourselves by distance when it comes to trying to make connections. People travel far and wide to go events, myself being one of those people & this would prevent us from reaching out to people before said event

I totally get what you are saying and I'm sure there are many in the same boat. Surely, there could be different boundary options with one being no restriction on distance so people like your good self would be rightfully catered for with others who are open for this kind of meet? "

Sounds like a great compromise to me that does 😁

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
45 weeks ago

Central

It would be a useful optional filter, for new first time contacts.

If coupled with an optional filter for new DM messages from forum threads, then even better

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
45 weeks ago

Bromley

Reading a profile does help if that person has stated a distance limit.

Mine simply says will travel for pleasure unless I need a DeLorean or the Tardis.

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By *arbler OP   Woman
45 weeks ago

Southampton


"As useful of a tool as this could be, what about those who have a lack of potential suitors within a specific radius and have no choice to widen their search for folk further afield?

Not all of us restrict ourselves by distance when it comes to trying to make connections. People travel far and wide to go events, myself being one of those people & this would prevent us from reaching out to people before said event

I totally get what you are saying and I'm sure there are many in the same boat. Surely, there could be different boundary options with one being no restriction on distance so people like your good self would be rightfully catered for with others who are open for this kind of meet?

Sounds like a great compromise to me that does 😁"

Awww...I like a good compromise. Thanks for taking the time to reply again xx

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By *arbler OP   Woman
45 weeks ago

Southampton


"Reading a profile does help if that person has stated a distance limit.

Mine simply says will travel for pleasure unless I need a DeLorean or the Tardis."

Actually you make a good point which I've overlooked before. I should edit my profile accordingly. Thanks for the light bulb moment - you are a genius xx

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