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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire

Howdy fabbers

So tell me …. What can I do to be better???

I think my bio is half decent …. My pics I try to be different…. My messages are respectful and lean toward finding common interests …. I approach those who I think I align with…. I’m not a total munter …. I don’t think my chat is bad….

So what am I doing wrong that isn’t giving that ‘I want him’ vibe??

A call for help? A gesture for advice?

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By *EAT..85Woman
45 weeks ago

Nottingham

It's all looking good to me 🤷‍♀️

Are you in a quite part of the world? Distance can definitely be a problem.

Women aren't often as available as we make out and there are rather a lot of men to numerically compete with.

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By *ude LawMan
45 weeks ago

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See? It's all about location. It's not your fault.

Maybe try getting the train into London a few times a month. There are more people there.

Jump on the Witney-Euston line.

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By *EAT..85Woman
45 weeks ago

Nottingham


"See? It's all about location. It's not your fault.

Maybe try getting the train into London a few times a month. There are more people there.

Jump on the Witney-Euston line."

Wanna meet in London?

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By *ude LawMan
45 weeks ago

.


"See? It's all about location. It's not your fault.

Maybe try getting the train into London a few times a month. There are more people there.

Jump on the Witney-Euston line.

Wanna meet in London?"

How will I know?

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By *verageHoesCouple
45 weeks ago

Bessacarr


"See? It's all about location. It's not your fault.

Maybe try getting the train into London a few times a month. There are more people there.

Jump on the Witney-Euston line.

Wanna meet in London?

How will I know?"

She could run to you?

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By *bi HaiveMan
45 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I've seen far worse profiles.

All I'd suggest is maybe get out from behind a screen and go to organised social events and clubs. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ude LawMan
45 weeks ago

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"See? It's all about location. It's not your fault.

Maybe try getting the train into London a few times a month. There are more people there.

Jump on the Witney-Euston line.

Wanna meet in London?

How will I know?

She could run to you?"

It's not right, but it's ok.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
45 weeks ago

Niche

I have nothing....

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By *viatrixWoman
45 weeks ago

Back in Surrey, Dahlings!

Your problem is that you haven’t messaged me…

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By *aomilatteCouple
45 weeks ago

Midlands


"Howdy fabbers

So tell me …. What can I do to be better???

I think my bio is half decent …. My pics I try to be different…. My messages are respectful and lean toward finding common interests …. I approach those who I think I align with…. I’m not a total munter …. I don’t think my chat is bad….

So what am I doing wrong that isn’t giving that ‘I want him’ vibe??

A call for help? A gesture for advice?

"

Go to clubs and/or socials and chat to people. If you're not shy you should do well.

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"It's all looking good to me 🤷‍♀️

Are you in a quite part of the world? Distance can definitely be a problem.

Women aren't often as available as we make out and there are rather a lot of men to numerically compete with. "

Yeah that’s a fair one….its a lot busier these days

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"See? It's all about location. It's not your fault.

Maybe try getting the train into London a few times a month. There are more people there.

Jump on the Witney-Euston line."

Hahaha line of the day !!!

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"I've seen far worse profiles.

All I'd suggest is maybe get out from behind a screen and go to organised social events and clubs. 🤷‍♂️"

Great advice… a social is needed me thinks

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"Your problem is that you haven’t messaged me… "

Well

How rude of me

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"Howdy fabbers

So tell me …. What can I do to be better???

I think my bio is half decent …. My pics I try to be different…. My messages are respectful and lean toward finding common interests …. I approach those who I think I align with…. I’m not a total munter …. I don’t think my chat is bad….

So what am I doing wrong that isn’t giving that ‘I want him’ vibe??

A call for help? A gesture for advice?

Go to clubs and/or socials and chat to people. If you're not shy you should do well."

I think that’s the next step….

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By *adCherriesCouple
45 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

I like to read verifications and yours aren't available to snoop at.

Mrs xx

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"I like to read verifications and yours aren't available to snoop at.

Mrs xx "

Ah yes!!! Simple fix

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By *adCherriesCouple
45 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest


"I like to read verifications and yours aren't available to snoop at.

Mrs xx

Ah yes!!! Simple fix "

Getting ready to snoop

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"I like to read verifications and yours aren't available to snoop at.

Mrs xx

Ah yes!!! Simple fix

Getting ready to snoop "

Snoop snoop de doop snoop!!

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
45 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

As profiles go on here its pretty good, as Obi said, more socials, maybe clubs, get to meet people and make connections that can lead to more.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
45 weeks ago

West Suffolk

I think half the trouble is a lot of men automatically think that ladies will “want them” just by being on here when in reality that’s not the case, men are readily available on here and need to stand out from the crowd, the pics need to be good, the bio needs to offer something and the first message needs to show compatibility, in that order

Mrs

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By *aughtyPeepzMan
45 weeks ago

Nottigham

There's just way too many guys on here compared to women.

You could be gorgeous but you'll be hidden amongst the masses of men.

I rarely get interest too, but I just tell myself the above.

Defo go to the meet ups and clubs. I think that's where you're more likely as a bloke to get anywhere

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"As profiles go on here its pretty good, as Obi said, more socials, maybe clubs, get to meet people and make connections that can lead to more."

I will indeed

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"I think half the trouble is a lot of men automatically think that ladies will “want them” just by being on here when in reality that’s not the case, men are readily available on here and need to stand out from the crowd, the pics need to be good, the bio needs to offer something and the first message needs to show compatibility, in that order

Mrs"

Absolutely agree….. I definitely don’t think ladies want me …. I’m just trying to figure out improvements I guess

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"There's just way too many guys on here compared to women.

You could be gorgeous but you'll be hidden amongst the masses of men.

I rarely get interest too, but I just tell myself the above.

Defo go to the meet ups and clubs. I think that's where you're more likely as a bloke to get anywhere "

Socials it is

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By *ovetolick78Man
45 weeks ago

The Shire


"Howdy fabbers

So tell me …. What can I do to be better???

I think my bio is half decent …. My pics I try to be different…. My messages are respectful and lean toward finding common interests …. I approach those who I think I align with…. I’m not a total munter …. I don’t think my chat is bad….

So what am I doing wrong that isn’t giving that ‘I want him’ vibe??

A call for help? A gesture for advice?

"

I've given up trying to please others, tried all sorts in the past with no rhyme or reason as to which effort got a response. So now it's WYSIWYG with me.

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"Howdy fabbers

So tell me …. What can I do to be better???

I think my bio is half decent …. My pics I try to be different…. My messages are respectful and lean toward finding common interests …. I approach those who I think I align with…. I’m not a total munter …. I don’t think my chat is bad….

So what am I doing wrong that isn’t giving that ‘I want him’ vibe??

A call for help? A gesture for advice?

I've given up trying to please others, tried all sorts in the past with no rhyme or reason as to which effort got a response. So now it's WYSIWYG with me. "

Don’t give up…. It’s just all about finding out new ways

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By *weetiepie99Woman
45 weeks ago

cardiff

I think you're doing alright, and I think you know it

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
45 weeks ago

Reading

For me, your profile says you are 39 but your description says you are in your forties. It's a little thing but it means I wouldn't read any further.

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"I think you're doing alright, and I think you know it"

Depends what you consider alright

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"For me, your profile says you are 39 but your description says you are in your forties. It's a little thing but it means I wouldn't read any further."

I agree …. A mishap

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By *nnCeeWoman
45 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell


"Howdy fabbers

So tell me …. What can I do to be better???

I think my bio is half decent …. My pics I try to be different…. My messages are respectful and lean toward finding common interests …. I approach those who I think I align with…. I’m not a total munter …. I don’t think my chat is bad….

So what am I doing wrong that isn’t giving that ‘I want him’ vibe??

A call for help? A gesture for advice?

"

Well, some people have had you on their hotlists for ages, but hey-ho

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"For me, your profile says you are 39 but your description says you are in your forties. It's a little thing but it means I wouldn't read any further.

I agree …. A mishap "

You havnt moved yet

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"Howdy fabbers

So tell me …. What can I do to be better???

I think my bio is half decent …. My pics I try to be different…. My messages are respectful and lean toward finding common interests …. I approach those who I think I align with…. I’m not a total munter …. I don’t think my chat is bad….

So what am I doing wrong that isn’t giving that ‘I want him’ vibe??

A call for help? A gesture for advice?

Well, some people have had you on their hotlists for ages, but hey-ho"

Where do you go from hotlist….

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"For me, your profile says you are 39 but your description says you are in your forties. It's a little thing but it means I wouldn't read any further.

I agree …. A mishap

You havnt moved yet "

Solicitors are so slow

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By *nnCeeWoman
45 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell


"Howdy fabbers

So tell me …. What can I do to be better???

I think my bio is half decent …. My pics I try to be different…. My messages are respectful and lean toward finding common interests …. I approach those who I think I align with…. I’m not a total munter …. I don’t think my chat is bad….

So what am I doing wrong that isn’t giving that ‘I want him’ vibe??

A call for help? A gesture for advice?

Well, some people have had you on their hotlists for ages, but hey-ho

Where do you go from hotlist…. "

It'd be nice to have a drink sometime

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