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"See? It's all about location. It's not your fault. Maybe try getting the train into London a few times a month. There are more people there. Jump on the Witney-Euston line." Wanna meet in London? | |||
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"See? It's all about location. It's not your fault. Maybe try getting the train into London a few times a month. There are more people there. Jump on the Witney-Euston line. Wanna meet in London?" How will I know? | |||
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"See? It's all about location. It's not your fault. Maybe try getting the train into London a few times a month. There are more people there. Jump on the Witney-Euston line. Wanna meet in London? How will I know?" She could run to you? | |||
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"See? It's all about location. It's not your fault. Maybe try getting the train into London a few times a month. There are more people there. Jump on the Witney-Euston line. Wanna meet in London? How will I know? She could run to you?" It's not right, but it's ok. | |||
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"Howdy fabbers So tell me …. What can I do to be better??? I think my bio is half decent …. My pics I try to be different…. My messages are respectful and lean toward finding common interests …. I approach those who I think I align with…. I’m not a total munter …. I don’t think my chat is bad…. So what am I doing wrong that isn’t giving that ‘I want him’ vibe?? A call for help? A gesture for advice? "Go to clubs and/or socials and chat to people. If you're not shy you should do well. | |||
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"It's all looking good to me 🤷♀️ Are you in a quite part of the world? Distance can definitely be a problem. Women aren't often as available as we make out and there are rather a lot of men to numerically compete with. " Yeah that’s a fair one….its a lot busier these days | |||
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"See? It's all about location. It's not your fault. Maybe try getting the train into London a few times a month. There are more people there. Jump on the Witney-Euston line." Hahaha line of the day !!! | |||
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"I've seen far worse profiles. All I'd suggest is maybe get out from behind a screen and go to organised social events and clubs. 🤷♂️" Great advice… a social is needed me thinks | |||
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"Your problem is that you haven’t messaged me… "Well How rude of me  | |||
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"Howdy fabbers So tell me …. What can I do to be better??? I think my bio is half decent …. My pics I try to be different…. My messages are respectful and lean toward finding common interests …. I approach those who I think I align with…. I’m not a total munter …. I don’t think my chat is bad…. So what am I doing wrong that isn’t giving that ‘I want him’ vibe?? A call for help? A gesture for advice?
Go to clubs and/or socials and chat to people. If you're not shy you should do well."I think that’s the next step…. | |||
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"I like to read verifications and yours aren't available to snoop at. Mrs xx " Ah yes!!! Simple fix | |||
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"I like to read verifications and yours aren't available to snoop at. Mrs xx Ah yes!!! Simple fix "Getting ready to snoop  | |||
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"I like to read verifications and yours aren't available to snoop at. Mrs xx Ah yes!!! Simple fix
Getting ready to snoop "Snoop snoop de doop snoop!! | |||
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"As profiles go on here its pretty good, as Obi said, more socials, maybe clubs, get to meet people and make connections that can lead to more." I will indeed | |||
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"I think half the trouble is a lot of men automatically think that ladies will “want them” just by being on here when in reality that’s not the case, men are readily available on here and need to stand out from the crowd, the pics need to be good, the bio needs to offer something and the first message needs to show compatibility, in that order Mrs" Absolutely agree….. I definitely don’t think ladies want me …. I’m just trying to figure out improvements I guess | |||
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"There's just way too many guys on here compared to women. You could be gorgeous but you'll be hidden amongst the masses of men. I rarely get interest too, but I just tell myself the above. Defo go to the meet ups and clubs. I think that's where you're more likely as a bloke to get anywhere " Socials it is  | |||
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"Howdy fabbers So tell me …. What can I do to be better??? I think my bio is half decent …. My pics I try to be different…. My messages are respectful and lean toward finding common interests …. I approach those who I think I align with…. I’m not a total munter …. I don’t think my chat is bad…. So what am I doing wrong that isn’t giving that ‘I want him’ vibe?? A call for help? A gesture for advice? "I've given up trying to please others, tried all sorts in the past with no rhyme or reason as to which effort got a response. So now it's WYSIWYG with me. | |||
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"Howdy fabbers So tell me …. What can I do to be better??? I think my bio is half decent …. My pics I try to be different…. My messages are respectful and lean toward finding common interests …. I approach those who I think I align with…. I’m not a total munter …. I don’t think my chat is bad…. So what am I doing wrong that isn’t giving that ‘I want him’ vibe?? A call for help? A gesture for advice?
I've given up trying to please others, tried all sorts in the past with no rhyme or reason as to which effort got a response. So now it's WYSIWYG with me. "Don’t give up…. It’s just all about finding out new ways | |||
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"I think you're doing alright, and I think you know it "Depends what you consider alright | |||
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"For me, your profile says you are 39 but your description says you are in your forties. It's a little thing but it means I wouldn't read any further." I agree …. A mishap | |||
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"Howdy fabbers So tell me …. What can I do to be better??? I think my bio is half decent …. My pics I try to be different…. My messages are respectful and lean toward finding common interests …. I approach those who I think I align with…. I’m not a total munter …. I don’t think my chat is bad…. So what am I doing wrong that isn’t giving that ‘I want him’ vibe?? A call for help? A gesture for advice? "Well, some people have had you on their hotlists for ages, but hey-ho | |||
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"For me, your profile says you are 39 but your description says you are in your forties. It's a little thing but it means I wouldn't read any further. I agree …. A mishap " You havnt moved yet  | |||
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"Howdy fabbers So tell me …. What can I do to be better??? I think my bio is half decent …. My pics I try to be different…. My messages are respectful and lean toward finding common interests …. I approach those who I think I align with…. I’m not a total munter …. I don’t think my chat is bad…. So what am I doing wrong that isn’t giving that ‘I want him’ vibe?? A call for help? A gesture for advice?
Well, some people have had you on their hotlists for ages, but hey-ho"Where do you go from hotlist…. | |||
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"For me, your profile says you are 39 but your description says you are in your forties. It's a little thing but it means I wouldn't read any further. I agree …. A mishap You havnt moved yet "Solicitors are so slow | |||
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"Howdy fabbers So tell me …. What can I do to be better??? I think my bio is half decent …. My pics I try to be different…. My messages are respectful and lean toward finding common interests …. I approach those who I think I align with…. I’m not a total munter …. I don’t think my chat is bad…. So what am I doing wrong that isn’t giving that ‘I want him’ vibe?? A call for help? A gesture for advice?
Well, some people have had you on their hotlists for ages, but hey-ho
Where do you go from hotlist…. "It'd be nice to have a drink sometime | |||
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