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Do orgasms cloud your judgement?

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By *eltCuteMightDelete OP   Woman
1 day ago

Reading

Do you overlook things (sexual compatibility) because they've given you lots of orgasms? Or is that just me?

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By *oger_AllnightMan
1 day ago

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Yes, for sure. But on the flip side, there's nothing quite like post orgasm clarity.

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By *eltCuteMightDelete OP   Woman
1 day ago

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"Yes, for sure. But on the flip side, there's nothing quite like post orgasm clarity."

Well, this is like three weeks later with the clarity

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
1 day ago

Basingstoke

Maybe in the past.

But I need more than just amazing orgasms from people I'm doing the sex with. If they can't (or won't) give me those things, then I put myself first and do what I need to do to protect myself - in every sense of protecting myself.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
1 day ago

The Deep Dark Woods

Yes, it's so rare for someone to be able to make me cum easily I have overlooked stuff in the past when someone has mastered the ability to give me orgasms. In the longterm though I usually come to my senses 😂

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By *eltCuteMightDelete OP   Woman
1 day ago

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"Maybe in the past.

But I need more than just amazing orgasms from people I'm doing the sex with. If they can't (or won't) give me those things, then I put myself first and do what I need to do to protect myself - in every sense of protecting myself."

Oh I'm not necessarily talking about there being red flags in terms of relationshipy things. More so ... I was reading the dirty talk thread earlier and realised the last person I had sex with said way too much and I wasn't enjoying all the words. And then thinking about it there were other things that made me realise maybe we weren't so compatible in other areas. But like, up until now I was thinking 'holy shit, it was amazing' with him.

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By *oger_AllnightMan
1 day ago

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"Yes, for sure. But on the flip side, there's nothing quite like post orgasm clarity.

Well, this is like three weeks later with the clarity "

Better late than never....aaaaand you've had 3 weeks of filthy thoughts and knowing smiles 😆

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By *eltCuteMightDelete OP   Woman
1 day ago

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"Yes, it's so rare for someone to be able to make me cum easily I have overlooked stuff in the past when someone has mastered the ability to give me orgasms. In the longterm though I usually come to my senses 😂"

How much later? The shit thing is, if my person had been better with the communication I probably would have had lots more sex with him before I realised.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
1 day ago

The Deep Dark Woods


"Yes, it's so rare for someone to be able to make me cum easily I have overlooked stuff in the past when someone has mastered the ability to give me orgasms. In the longterm though I usually come to my senses 😂

How much later? The shit thing is, if my person had been better with the communication I probably would have had lots more sex with him before I realised. "

It varies but usually a few months maybe 🤔 once the novelty has worn off and I stop willfully ignoring things that I don't like 😂 or I get fed up of the bad kissing, or they just say one too many things that are 🚩🚩🚩

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By *oger_AllnightMan
1 day ago

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"Yes, it's so rare for someone to be able to make me cum easily I have overlooked stuff in the past when someone has mastered the ability to give me orgasms. In the longterm though I usually come to my senses 😂

How much later? The shit thing is, if my person had been better with the communication I probably would have had lots more sex with him before I realised. "

As a sweeping generalisation, men (I'm assuming it was a man) are shit at communicating. I know I have been in the past.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
1 day ago

Ends

Women (in general) rarely give me orgasms, sadly. I don’t think I’d overlook sexual incompatibility just because I managed to cum but if they made me cum there would probably be a fair amount of compatibility for me

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By *exyInLatinMan
1 day ago

Warsop


"Yes, for sure. But on the flip side, there's nothing quite like post orgasm clarity.

Well, this is like three weeks later with the clarity "

That’s a pretty long orgasm OP 🤣

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By *eltCuteMightDelete OP   Woman
1 day ago

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"Yes, it's so rare for someone to be able to make me cum easily I have overlooked stuff in the past when someone has mastered the ability to give me orgasms. In the longterm though I usually come to my senses 😂

How much later? The shit thing is, if my person had been better with the communication I probably would have had lots more sex with him before I realised.

It varies but usually a few months maybe 🤔 once the novelty has worn off and I stop willfully ignoring things that I don't like 😂 or I get fed up of the bad kissing, or they just say one too many things that are 🚩🚩🚩 "

Oh thank you. I am feeling so much better about myself having realised this after one shag

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By *eltCuteMightDelete OP   Woman
1 day ago

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"Yes, it's so rare for someone to be able to make me cum easily I have overlooked stuff in the past when someone has mastered the ability to give me orgasms. In the longterm though I usually come to my senses 😂

How much later? The shit thing is, if my person had been better with the communication I probably would have had lots more sex with him before I realised.

As a sweeping generalisation, men (I'm assuming it was a man) are shit at communicating. I know I have been in the past."

I wouldn't say I'm the best at communication either. But in this case, I mostly just meant if he hadn't fallen down on one basic thing I probably would have carried on with him!

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By *eltCuteMightDelete OP   Woman
1 day ago

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"Women (in general) rarely give me orgasms, sadly. I don’t think I’d overlook sexual incompatibility just because I managed to cum but if they made me cum there would probably be a fair amount of compatibility for me"

On the one hand, that sounds a little sad. But at least it gives you a bit of clarity? Not sure.

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By *eltCuteMightDelete OP   Woman
1 day ago

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"Yes, for sure. But on the flip side, there's nothing quite like post orgasm clarity.

Well, this is like three weeks later with the clarity

That’s a pretty long orgasm OP 🤣"

We had to take a break mid session because the orgasms were coming so quick and strong There was a lotttt of clouding of judgement going on.

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By *orthernbrit40Man
1 day ago

CARLISLE

I find horniness clouds mine and then orgasms give clarity to focus. Although recently the clarity phase is shortening between going back to being horny!

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By *ellinever70Woman
1 day ago

Ayrshire

I don't think I've ever felt sexually incompatible with someone I've already had sex with

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
1 day ago

Niche

I'd not compromise my standards for an orgasm or 50, no.

Not sure my experience would count for this, it wasn't so much the orgasms and more a case of not wanting to start the search for a new person over from scratch. It's exhausting training someone up in how I like my sex 😂

I have kept on seeing someone past the time we ought to have ended naturally because I genuinely enjoyed them and their sex and their friendship. Ultimately our lives are on different paths though so we had to end eventually. Bittersweet 🙃

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By *EAT..85Woman
1 day ago

Nottingham

Yes and no. I've had a fair few fantastical orgasms off a few people that I knew if I were to see them again, I would just be using them for the orgasms. For the main, I don't meet them again.

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By *eliWoman
1 day ago

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Women can have multiple orgasms? Surely not. :D

Not sexual compatibility, no. I wouldn't be able to orgasm with someone if there wasn't any but that's how my body works. Every woman is different.

I have/ do overlook personality traits that aren't too compatible with mine - my vagina is easily content, my head less so. Less than pleasant behaviour because I think "oh when we're together it's great". And then at some point I'm not able to.

On the flipside - if the sex isn't great I'm a lot less tolerable. Adopt an is it worth it approach and that's quite handy.

Luckily most of the time everything is compatible. Minus time and distance.

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By *exyInLatinMan
1 day ago

Warsop


"Yes, for sure. But on the flip side, there's nothing quite like post orgasm clarity.

Well, this is like three weeks later with the clarity

That’s a pretty long orgasm OP 🤣

We had to take a break mid session because the orgasms were coming so quick and strong There was a lotttt of clouding of judgement going on."

🤣 well you take the rough with the smooth I guess!

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By *cLovin2Man
1 day ago

London

On the flip side from a guy perspective I have continued to see a woman even after I broke up with her. Because she tried hard to continue things, when I knew the relationship was not for me.

This one in particular even used sex as a weapon to entice me. Whilst the sex continued for a while, I had decided to move on mentally 🤷🏽‍♂️

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
1 day ago

little house on the praire

No, once the orgasm is over that's it. But I orgasm easily but im unlikely to orgasm from someone im not compatible with

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By *partharmonyCouple
1 day ago

Ruislip

I've often picked up the wrong flavour of yoghurt from the supermarket shelf because I was having an orgasm.

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