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By (user no longer on site) OP   
45 weeks ago

What's expected of someone in these, because feels like trying to win the lottery each time

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By *ude LawMan
45 weeks ago

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Then stop sending messages that just say:

"7, 14, 26, 30, 37, 48"

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By *imply_SensualMan
45 weeks ago

Cheshire


"What's expected of someone in these, because feels like trying to win the lottery each time "

Just be yourself. If they like you, they'll reply. Some may not even see your message because they will have so many.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
45 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle


"What's expected of someone in these, because feels like trying to win the lottery each time "

Nothing is expected. How can it be? Each of the people you message is seeking something different.

Maybe the expectations come from your side in that you 'expect' a reply or an insta shag..... stop expecting and start enjoying.

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By *parky123Man
45 weeks ago

Lincoln

I think all you can do is not copy/paste, be genuine and try and be interesting. But know that the lady you message may get 20-50 messages from men that day so you’ve got an uphill battle even just being read. If she has criteria, meet them and you’re at least in with a chance

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
45 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Ladies on Fab often complain about “uninspired”/unoriginal messages 🙄

But on the extremely rare occasion I receive one from them, what do I get?

“Hi”

“Hey”

“How are you?”

….👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
45 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff


"Then stop sending messages that just say:

"7, 14, 26, 30, 37, 48""

Fuck, three of them are actually my weekly numbers!

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Just be yourself. Well mannered, polite and respectful

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By *ude LawMan
45 weeks ago

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"Then stop sending messages that just say:

"7, 14, 26, 30, 37, 48"

Fuck, three of them are actually my weekly numbers!"

HOUSE!

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By *bi HaiveMan
45 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Then stop sending messages that just say:

"7, 14, 26, 30, 37, 48""

Ive just bought a ticket with those numbers.

If I win I'll send you a quid. 😉

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By *ude LawMan
45 weeks ago

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"Then stop sending messages that just say:

"7, 14, 26, 30, 37, 48"

Ive just bought a ticket with those numbers.

If I win I'll send you a quid. 😉"

I'm going to have to do this now - just so you don't win it all 😉

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By *bi HaiveMan
45 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Then stop sending messages that just say:

"7, 14, 26, 30, 37, 48"

Ive just bought a ticket with those numbers.

If I win I'll send you a quid. 😉

I'm going to have to do this now - just so you don't win it all 😉"

Do I get a quid if you win though? 🤷‍♂️😂

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By *ntelligent_tall69Man
45 weeks ago

mums cellar

Everyone wants different, read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I love an action shot pic then i like to tease them by not replying so that they then message calling me a slag .... oooft

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By *ude LawMan
45 weeks ago

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"Then stop sending messages that just say:

"7, 14, 26, 30, 37, 48"

Ive just bought a ticket with those numbers.

If I win I'll send you a quid. 😉

I'm going to have to do this now - just so you don't win it all 😉

Do I get a quid if you win though? 🤷‍♂️😂"

I'll give you two quid to cover your ticket cost and the quid you give me.

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By *bi HaiveMan
45 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Then stop sending messages that just say:

"7, 14, 26, 30, 37, 48"

Ive just bought a ticket with those numbers.

If I win I'll send you a quid. 😉

I'm going to have to do this now - just so you don't win it all 😉

Do I get a quid if you win though? 🤷‍♂️😂

I'll give you two quid to cover your ticket cost and the quid you give me."

That's £3 though? 🤔🤔

Back to the OP though......

A first message just needs to catch the eye. But seriously....it's always best to worry less about a first message and more about whether your profile looks as good as it can. Most people will view that long before a message and if it doesn't in terest them, the best message in the history of all messages ever sent on Fab will likely go unread and get binned. 🤷‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"I love an action shot pic then i like to tease them by not replying so that they then message calling me a slag .... oooft "

I knew the ladies secretly love it

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Read their profile to see if tyou match, then when you message mention something from their profile that shows you actually did the thing.

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By *urvyMilf4BlackMenWoman
45 weeks ago

Norwich

Send messages to people where you are their actual preference otherwise you're likely to get deleted, blocked or ignored.

Be respectful, polite and interested. Read their profile fully and reflect that in your message. Don't make your message too long or too short.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

F.A.F ?

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