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By *sStephenPickle OP Man
3 days ago

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What’s your biggest?

(This thread was brought to you by flaws by Bastille)

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By *ife NinjaMan
3 days ago

Dunfermline

My fucking face 😂🤓

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
3 days ago

somewhere, someplace

Too much of a soft touch....has been used and taken of advantage of over the years

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By *peedyGMan
3 days ago

Telford

Physically - my knees

My actual biggest flaw is my tendency to say what i think in certain situations and to hell with the consequences.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
3 days ago

little house on the praire

To many to list

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By *gent CoulsonMan
3 days ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Too trusting

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By *exyInLatinMan
3 days ago

Warsop

Probably the kitchen, by surface area that is

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By *parky123Man
3 days ago

Lincoln

I’m an insufferable know-it-all

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By *he OpalsnakeMan
3 days ago

Thirsk

I'm too busy, I don't dedicate enough time to my own happiness while simultaneously convincing myself that I do. It's all superficial giggles, I don't think long term at all.

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By *enda83Man
3 days ago

newcastle

My hair and face are shit and don’t match my physique haha need go Turkey for some thicker hair then a bit just for men on it ha

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By *tandardIssueNerdMan
3 days ago

Telford

Apparently my face, according to the people I messaged on here

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By *nya888Woman
3 days ago

London

I find most people annoying

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By *he OpalsnakeMan
3 days ago

Thirsk

"I find most people annoying "

That's not a flaw you're right.

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By *anderingArtistMan
3 days ago

an abstract world

Insecurities/anxiety.

The age old wonderments of the mind

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By *sWyldWoman
3 days ago

Edinburgh

I'm impulsive and emotional

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By *wnedslut-KittyWoman
3 days ago

Kittys Lane

I'm a softie, i put others and thier feelings before my own which has been used and taken advantage of aswell.

Even my close friends have commented frequently about it.

Myself wise well I'm very critical about how I think i look.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
3 days ago

The Deep Dark Woods

Where to begin....

I'm a pessimist and my brain likes to catastrophise things. That's the first of many to pop into my head.

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By *hickthighs25Woman
3 days ago

Stockton

Tooo many .. but i would mainly say i struggle to let things go at times and im an overthinker

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
3 days ago

Voldsøy

There's a lot. Biggest is probably my overthinking.

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By *agic.MMan
3 days ago

Orpington

...there's only 5'7" of me...there should be more of me 👀

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By *ovetolick78Man
3 days ago

Bagend

To honest and ware my heart on my sleeve.

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By *eardedguy83Man
3 days ago

Worcestershire

My shyness hidden behind a cloak of confidence

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By *andadbodMan
3 days ago

Liverpool

too accommodating, always putting others before myself.

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By *hickthighs25Woman
3 days ago

Stockton

"...there's only 5'7" of me...there should be more of me 👀"

Agree

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
3 days ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

Bi Polar 😂😑😔

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By *ovetolick78Man
3 days ago

Bagend

"...there's only 5'7" of me...there should be more of me 👀

Agree "

Diamonds are cut small, shits piled high. 🤔😂

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By *arlo56Man
3 days ago

Newcastle

I am far to soft on my kids and grandkids and they know it lol.

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By *adyBugsWoman
3 days ago

cognito

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By *andsome Northern GuyMan
3 days ago

Rawtenstall

Overthinking things - like how many flaws I have and which one announce on FAB

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By *agic.MMan
3 days ago

Orpington

"...there's only 5'7" of me...there should be more of me 👀

Agree "

😦...I was being sarcastic...I'm 5'7" of flawless

- ok I might be sarcastic again 👀

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By *verageHoesCouple
3 days ago

Leeds

Indecisiveness about big things. It takes so long because I have to envisage all possible outcomes, consider all possible variables, talk to at least 3 people, then repeat the whole process at least twice.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
3 days ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"...there's only 5'7" of me...there should be more of me 👀"

Perfect height

or were you referring to length??

🤣🤣😈

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By *hickthighs25Woman
3 days ago

Stockton

"...there's only 5'7" of me...there should be more of me 👀

Agree

😦...I was being sarcastic...I'm 5'7" of flawless

- ok I might be sarcastic again 👀"

I dont care id still never turn down more of you 🤭

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
3 days ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

In no particular order

Self deprecating- I prefer to take the piss out of myself before anyone else can

Procrastinating... I can't seem to find the motivation to start things I don't want to do, and then I find myself getting distracted halfway through

Indecisiveness.. especially when there's too much choice lol

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By *viatrixWoman
3 days ago

Redhill

I’m a bit of a doormat- as much as I hate admitting it/saying it.

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By *nquisitive LadyWoman
3 days ago

Midlands

I have trusted too easily. I also try to talk about a problem.

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By *orbidden eastMan
3 days ago

london dodging electric bikes

Most of the time I come across as relaxed, but I just like my peace

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By *hristianGray2005Man
3 days ago

Galway

Over thinking to the point of Indecision paralysis

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
3 days ago

Hereabouts

Literally all of me

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
3 days ago

Gloucester

Where do I start!!

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By *tudentForFunMan
3 days ago

Craigavon

Skin condition!

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By *EAT..85Woman
3 days ago

Nottingham

I've had to think really hard on this 😂 Possibly that I play devil's advocate too much whether it's my held belief or not.

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By *nergeticlemurMan
3 days ago

wiltshire

In terms of life, massive crushing anxiety that I'll do doing something wrong. I haven't done anything majorly wrong yet but I'm still looking just in case..

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
3 days ago

Manchester / Cardiff

I look for the good in everyone. Some people are just c***s, but I still want to find something to like about them. It's meant I've been used, belittled or walked all over in the past.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
3 days ago

Too honest. Sometimes too much of a pushover. Honestly, I should start being a little more "Bella" away from fab.

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By *cLovin2Man
3 days ago

London

I find it difficult to lie, sometimes you need to be able to tell a white lie in life. But it makes me uncomfortable 🤷🏽‍♂️

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By *cLovin2Man
3 days ago

London

"Too honest. Sometimes too much of a pushover. Honestly, I should start being a little more "Bella" away from fab.

Honesty is a virtue, not a bad thing. No one likes a liar.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
2 days ago

Colchester

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By *oubleswing2019Man
2 days ago

Colchester

My model of communication prioritizes:

-truth over appearance

-clarity over politeness

-depth over ease

-intention over performance

To some those are flaws. To others (in the field of psychology), they are advanced behaviours.

I just need to process from subtext(my core space) to words to using a comfortable tone for Neurotypicals whilst still retaining integrity and a sense of me. Not easy !

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
2 days ago

here there and everywhere

Physically I’m one big flaw

Personality… I make offers without thinking about it and then regret it (on Friday night I gave away a pair of my jeans that I actually liked! 😂 🤦🏻‍♀️)

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By *he MinionMan
2 days ago

"Overthinking things - like how many flaws I have and which one announce on FAB"

Same, sometimes things just are what they are.

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By *carlettsWoman
2 days ago

Harpenden

How long have you got?

I accept I'm far from perfect so try to embrace my flaws.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
2 days ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

MENTALLY…

*I “fly off the handle” way too easily

*I have trouble forgiving

*My satyriasis

*I often feel like I don’t deserve joy or success

PHYSICALLY…

*My Portuguese blood has cursed me with excessive body hair.

*I have girly wrists

*I don’t like the colour of my hair

*When cutting weight, I seem to lose it everywhere except my arse

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By *arny7Man
2 days ago

Wymondham

Being too much of a walk over... And letting her get away with it.

Hence why I'm kicked out of home

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By *eliWoman
2 days ago

Are we talking about flaw flaws or interview style flaws?

There's quite a difference as this thread has highlighted...

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By *sStephenPickle OP Man
2 days ago

Ends

"Are we talking about flaw flaws or interview style flaws?

There's quite a difference as this thread has highlighted..."

Meli, babe, there’s no right or wrong answer

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By *he Silver FuxMan
2 days ago

Uttoxeter

My default being that all women are innocent Angels…

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By *ookie46Woman
2 days ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Heart on my sleeve

I never learn

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
2 days ago

Basingstoke

Procrastination... To the point I put myself under so much pressure to get things done that it often causes me anxiety and stress.

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By *eorge AtazderMan
2 days ago

Exeter

Not backing myself enough

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By *nquisitive LadyWoman
2 days ago

Midlands

"I have trusted too easily. I also try to talk about a problem. "

I meant that I try to talk through a problem with people who don't care. If I could realise this and just stfu.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
2 days ago

Next Door

"Heart on my sleeve

I never learn "

Same here.

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By *sStephenPickle OP Man
2 days ago

Ends

"Heart on my sleeve

I never learn "

You’re not at fault. Feelings are good.

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By *sStephenPickle OP Man
2 days ago

Ends

"Heart on my sleeve

I never learn

Same here.

This is not a bad thing.

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By *indaDILFlikeMan
2 days ago

wirral

I honestly don't take enough things seriously!

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By *2000ManMan
2 days ago

Worthing

None I am perfect...like "him on the telly".

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By *allipygousMan
2 days ago

Leicester

"What’s your biggest?

(This thread was brought to you by flaws by Bastille)"

You're asking people to reveal how they feel about themselves Stephen without answering the question yourself...

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By *sStephenPickle OP Man
2 days ago

Ends

"What’s your biggest?

(This thread was brought to you by flaws by Bastille)

You're asking people to reveal how they feel about themselves Stephen without answering the question yourself..."
and they’ve done so

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By *ntelligent_tall69Man
2 days ago

mums cellar

Hmm sucker for a sob story

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 days ago

Reading

Disorganised and messy.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
2 days ago

Hampshire

I can be very quick to judge and I'm quite pessimistic.

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By *allipygousMan
2 days ago

Leicester

"What’s your biggest?

(This thread was brought to you by flaws by Bastille)

You're asking people to reveal how they feel about themselves Stephen without answering the question yourself...

and they’ve done so"

Fairs, you don't want to answer the question you asked everyone else to answer 🤷🏾‍♂️

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By *sStephenPickle OP Man
2 days ago

Ends

"What’s your biggest?

(This thread was brought to you by flaws by Bastille)

You're asking people to reveal how they feel about themselves Stephen without answering the question yourself...

and they’ve done so

Fairs, you don't want to answer the question you asked everyone else to answer 🤷🏾‍♂️"

I don’t think I will.

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By *layer oneMan
2 days ago

mirfield

My legs! as I’ve got water retention, am losing weight on the jabs so there getting better

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