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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whenever I see couples, on here or in real life, I invariably think the woman is far more attractive than the male. Even on occasion thinking 'how on earth has he managed to snare that?'

Are women always more attractive or is it just because I'm straight I think that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well being straight would obviously influence your view...

Said that who says an unattractive guy ( to who?) Cant have a hot gf?

Maybe hes a nice guy whos good to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When me and the OH go to clubs we always point out who from the opposite sex we would play with. We often surprise each other with who we choose.

I would say its not easy to say what's attractive and what's not.

That said, I have seen some horrible mismatchs that would involve either me or the OH taking one for the team if we did play with them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When me and the OH go to clubs we always point out who from the opposite sex we would play with. We often surprise each other with who we choose.

I would say its not easy to say what's attractive and what's not.

That said, I have seen some horrible mismatchs that would involve either me or the OH taking one for the team if we did play with them! "

Taking one for team is something I've thought about when seeing couples at club, do people actually do it?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Well being straight would obviously influence your view...

Said that who says an unattractive guy ( to who?) Cant have a hot gf?

Maybe hes a nice guy whos good to her"

I find the men more attractive than the women. Might have a lot to do with the fact I prefer men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no words .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I do wonder sometimes how people can be with really nasty people

Love is love - to that person they are their adonis / aphrodite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When me and the OH go to clubs we always point out who from the opposite sex we would play with. We often surprise each other with who we choose.

I would say its not easy to say what's attractive and what's not.

That said, I have seen some horrible mismatchs that would involve either me or the OH taking one for the team if we did play with them!

Taking one for team is something I've thought about when seeing couples at club, do people actually do it?"

Yes ...people do this

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By * control youMan
over a year ago

swindon

Surely it should ave nothing to do with peoples looks were all the same gd nd bad in us all people are way to shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely it should ave nothing to do with peoples looks were all the same gd nd bad in us all people are way to shallow "

Its not shallow .. what it is is the ops view. To him I could be ugly but to someone else I could be stunning - its subjective to each person

We can all say we have done this .. I have

Everyone is different - each has their own likes and dislikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When me and the OH go to clubs we always point out who from the opposite sex we would play with. We often surprise each other with who we choose.

I would say its not easy to say what's attractive and what's not.

That said, I have seen some horrible mismatchs that would involve either me or the OH taking one for the team if we did play with them!

Taking one for team is something I've thought about when seeing couples at club, do people actually do it?"

Some people may, but we don't. Unless both of us are happy, we don't play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When me and the OH go to clubs we always point out who from the opposite sex we would play with. We often surprise each other with who we choose.

I would say its not easy to say what's attractive and what's not.

That said, I have seen some horrible mismatchs that would involve either me or the OH taking one for the team if we did play with them!

Taking one for team is something I've thought about when seeing couples at club, do people actually do it?

Some people may, but we don't. Unless both of us are happy, we don't play. "

Ive heard people say they have done it - often wondered how they could

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Whenever I see couples, on here or in real life, I invariably think the woman is far more attractive than the male. Even on occasion thinking 'how on earth has he managed to snare that?'

Are women always more attractive or is it just because I'm straight I think that?"

a. What other people think of as attractive is going to vary considerably from your opinion

b. Physical appearance is only one of many factors that bring a couple together...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"When me and the OH go to clubs we always point out who from the opposite sex we would play with. We often surprise each other with who we choose.

I would say its not easy to say what's attractive and what's not.

That said, I have seen some horrible mismatchs that would involve either me or the OH taking one for the team if we did play with them!

Taking one for team is something I've thought about when seeing couples at club, do people actually do it?"

Yes they do! We've met quite a few people who say they've done this in the past and fairly recently there was a thread on here where people were saying they'd done it.

Its one thing neither of us will compromise on though and also I'd hate to be the recipient of a sympathy shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of fit women with ugly partners,

make you wonder whats wrong with them.

apart from their good looks.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Whenever I see couples, on here or in real life, I invariably think the woman is far more attractive than the male. Even on occasion thinking 'how on earth has he managed to snare that?'

Are women always more attractive or is it just because I'm straight I think that?

a. What other people think of as attractive is going to vary considerably from your opinion

b. Physical appearance is only one of many factors that bring a couple together...

"

Both the above points are true.

A is often surprised by the men I find attractive and vice versa but he has a good eye for the ones I'm never going to go for .

Also sometimes I will see a guy who I think is absolutely gorgeous but after a short conversation I know I could never take things further because his personality stinks......picky! Moi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fook if it wasn't for the ability to make woman giggle I would probably still be a virgin..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever I see couples, on here or in real life, I invariably think the woman is far more attractive than the male. Even on occasion thinking 'how on earth has he managed to snare that?'

Are women always more attractive or is it just because I'm straight I think that?"

Money talks with some and its not exactly a big secret some marry for financial gain than looks. On the other hand some married men let themselves go too where as peer pressure is more evident on women to keep fit and looking good.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Whenever I see couples, on here or in real life, I invariably think the woman is far more attractive than the male. Even on occasion thinking 'how on earth has he managed to snare that?'

Are women always more attractive or is it just because I'm straight I think that?

Money talks with some and its not exactly a big secret some marry for financial gain than looks. On the other hand some married men let themselves go too where as peer pressure is more evident on women to keep fit and looking good. "

Bernie Ecclestone! Nuff said

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Whenever I see couples, on here or in real life, I invariably think the woman is far more attractive than the male. Even on occasion thinking 'how on earth has he managed to snare that?'

Are women always more attractive or is it just because I'm straight I think that?

Money talks with some and its not exactly a big secret some marry for financial gain than looks. On the other hand some married men let themselves go too where as peer pressure is more evident on women to keep fit and looking good.

Bernie Ecclestone! Nuff said"

'So, what first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels?'

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Whenever I see couples, on here or in real life, I invariably think the woman is far more attractive than the male. Even on occasion thinking 'how on earth has he managed to snare that?'

Are women always more attractive or is it just because I'm straight I think that?

Money talks with some and its not exactly a big secret some marry for financial gain than looks. On the other hand some married men let themselves go too where as peer pressure is more evident on women to keep fit and looking good.

Bernie Ecclestone! Nuff said

'So, what first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels?' "

Lol, oh dear I'm sure both men have hidden talents

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