FabSwingers.com forum: Differences

By *heitaliandreamer OP Man
46 weeks ago

Brixworth

So what's the difference between the so hated dick pic as profile for mem and those women who just put tits and vaginas on their profile pictures or those women or couples pretending to get face picture with the first message but not keen to send their? Please let me know

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By *parkle1974Woman
46 weeks ago

Leeds

There is no difference to me. I dislike both but people are free to put whatever on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Can someone please confirm that women do not like dick pics? I have always found them to be completely satisfied so much so they don’t need to ask me anything else or even talk to me for that matter.

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By *parkle1974Woman
46 weeks ago

Leeds

"Can someone please confirm that women do not like dick pics? I have always found them to be completely satisfied so much so they don’t need to ask me anything else or even talk to me for that matter."

Some women do....some don't.

Simple really.

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

Never ever have i said i didnt appreciate a good dick pic....It's the unsolicited ones in the inbox that bother most, i wanna see a conversation/face not a ch0ked chicken/five finger shuffle video as an introduction....yes some send videos

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
46 weeks ago

Hampshire

I don't see there's any difference when it comes to profile pictures.

But it's important to differentiate between the unsolicited sending of said dick pics where the receiver has no choice over whether to view them, and them actively choosing to view the pictures on someone's profile.

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By *bi HaiveMan
46 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"So what's the difference between the so hated dick pic as profile for mem and those women who just put tits and vaginas on their profile pictures or those women or couples pretending to get face picture with the first message but not keen to send their? Please let me know"

Regarding the profile pics? No difference at all in my view.

Regarding the latter? Sending a face pic is optional, never compulsory. Men can of course ask for one too if they wish. If someone send one and there's no interest/attraction and a conversation won't be going anywhere then there's no benefit in sending one back. Is that too hard to understand?

You're not owed one just because you sent one.

If there is interest then they'll most likely send one back. 🤷‍♂️

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
46 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Between vagina and dick pics, no difference.

Between tits and dick pics, completely different 💜

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By *issmorganWoman
46 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I don't care what people have on their profile, if I don't like it, I can click off it.

But, I don't want dick pics in my inbox, when I've never even spoken to someone before.

I think the main difference is that women will still be inundated with mail, when they just have tit or pussy pics. As many men like these pics clearly.

Lots of women don't like profiles full of cock pics, speaking for myself, a cock pic alone has never enticed me to want to meet someone.

I'd only be interested in seeing one if I knew and was attracted to the person.

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By *vaRoseWoman
46 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Between vagina and dick pics there is no difference

Tits would be the equivalent to torso bare chest pics for guys

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Nobody is obliged to send a face photo, others can request but you don’t have to comply. You too can request them.

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As for unsolicited dick pics, it’s down to consent. Those inboxed without me asking for one get deleted. I appreciate a good dick pic but it’s when I want it not when you want to force it on me. I’ve not been sent a gash pic before as I’m not the target audience but they would be treated with the same disdain

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
46 weeks ago

Gloucester

For me there is absolutely no difference. People can post what they want on their own profiles. Personally I don’t want to receive any unsolicited genitalia (yes I’ve had unsolicited vag pics) pic in my DM’s at all. Face pic is fine but nothing else unless I ask.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
46 weeks ago

Niche

A dick pic as profile pic tells me: this guy is all about the dick & nothing but the dick. Not gonna take time or give 2 shits about connecting with the whole person. ONS or fk&go kinda guy.

Sending a dick pic with 1st message tells me he's got nothing else to offer in conversation. Needs to jump straight to where he wants to end up, dick-land.

Instant turn off as selfishness in bed makes for completely rubbish sex and zero fun from chats so zero interest.

So dickpic profiles = delete unread and/or block if repeater

Dickpic in 1st message = 99% chance of delete and/or block if repeater

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
46 weeks ago

Niche

There's no difference between sexes. I treat all the same.

Same goes for action shots and the like.

I prefer a tease and a hint and to have something to work towards revealing. THAT'S fun. THAT'S sexy.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
46 weeks ago

Hampshire

I don't. But I'm not all women.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
46 weeks ago

Hampshire

"I don't see there's any difference when it comes to profile pictures.

This is it...

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By *imi_RougeWoman
46 weeks ago

Hampshire

"A dick pic as profile pic tells me: this guy is all about the dick & nothing but the dick. Not gonna take time or give 2 shits about connecting with the whole person. ONS or fk&go kinda guy.

Sending a dick pic with 1st message tells me he's got nothing else to offer in conversation. Needs to jump straight to where he wants to end up, dick-land.

Instant turn off as selfishness in bed makes for completely rubbish sex and zero fun from chats so zero interest.

So dickpic profiles = delete unread and/or block if repeater

Dickpic in 1st message = 99% chance of delete and/or block if repeater"

Men can't quite seem to grasp this

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By *he OpalsnakeMan
46 weeks ago

Thirsk

OK time for another of Theo's walks through the mystical world of consent.

Firstly it is entirely your right to post your genitalia, just as it is entirely the right of anyone else to object to it.

This is commonly known as "preference". Everyone is entitled to their own and just as sometimes you want to punch a person in the throat, receiving that punch may or may not be consensual. Sometimes people are OK with aggression. Be that in sport or otherwise. Often however people aren't and that's OK too.

It's fairly human to say what you are willing to accept and what you aren't. These are called boundaries. Indicators to others of what is acceptable behaviour in their presence. These can of course vary and may indeed include nude images. The key is to check what is within the boundaries of the person.

This is commonly known as respect.

Respect is something you offer a person that you value.

Failing to respect boundaries is a good way to let someone know that you don't value them as a person, and vice versa.

Now to recap

By all means show your genitals

Don't expect them to be received any other way than the individuals preference.

Don't argue your right to show your genitals

If in doubt whip them out in a supermarket and see what happens.

Public nudity is bound by law.

This is public

Consent is king.

Have a nice day.

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
46 weeks ago

Cheshire

There’s no difference technically but most people, even many women, will agree that

(1) the female form is prettier the male and (2) it’s a sausage fest on here and female genitalia as profile pictures is in the minority compared to the abundance of cock pictures.

We are NOT looking for single guys but were we interested, a profile picture of a knob would be an instant delete for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

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By *heitaliandreamer OP Man
46 weeks ago

Brixworth

Thanks to all your replies

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By *riel13Woman
46 weeks ago

Northampton

Women know their audience, most men tend to put up the type of pics they like to see hence all the genitals... Also , the face pic thing... Most women are careful with sharing their faces with men they are possibly turning down, some men can turn very quickly, unfortunately. So safety is why many women ask then don't return the face pics... Although I wouldn't meet someone that was asking to meet without seeing my face, it's just weird

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

"There's no difference between sexes. I treat all the same.

Same goes for action shots and the like.

I prefer a tease and a hint and to have something to work towards revealing. THAT'S fun. THAT'S sexy."

Abso-bloody-lutely!

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By *ife NinjaMan
46 weeks ago

Dunfermline/Leeds

Boobies are aesthetically pleasing 🤓

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

"Boobies are aesthetically pleasing 🤓"

Damn right they are 😍

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By *ife NinjaMan
46 weeks ago

Dunfermline/Leeds

"Boobies are aesthetically pleasing 🤓

Damn right they are 😍"

I looked, I fabbed 😘🤓

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By *herrybakewellCouple
46 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Graphic pictures on a bio or in intial messages regardless of the gender are a turn off to us both.

Yes its a website for swingers, and we definitely arent prudish.....but surely you have more to offer someone than your dick.

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By *oodmessMan
46 weeks ago

yumsville

What's the difference between a vag and dick pic... well I'd choose a vag pic.

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