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By (user no longer on site) OP   
46 weeks ago

So would you change being in this lifestyle for someone you met if they asked you to or would you tell them to accept it's part of you?

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By *acey_RedWoman
46 weeks ago

Liverpool

Do you mean for a relationship? No I wouldn't get in a relationship with someone who wanted me to leave the lifestyle as we wouldn't be compatible. Been there, done that. It didn't work and he was cheating on me on tinder behind my back anyway.

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By *hortieWoman
46 weeks ago

On a Recce

No, I'm not changing for someone.

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By *iss DevilWoman
46 weeks ago

Bedford

I tried monogamous relationships before, not for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
46 weeks ago


"I tried monogamous relationships before, not for me. "

Did you just find them.boring? X

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By *iss DevilWoman
46 weeks ago

Bedford


"I tried monogamous relationships before, not for me.

Did you just find them.boring? X"

Not boring, my sex drive eventually became a problem. Men were finding it a great turn on at first, then they couldn't catch up. It's probably a bit different now, with my sex drive taking a bit of a dive lately, but I enjoy my variety too much..l

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
46 weeks ago

Gloucester

Tried that before didn’t work. I’d never change anything about myself for anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
46 weeks ago


"I tried monogamous relationships before, not for me.

Did you just find them.boring? X

Not boring, my sex drive eventually became a problem. Men were finding it a great turn on at first, then they couldn't catch up. It's probably a bit different now, with my sex drive taking a bit of a dive lately, but I enjoy my variety too much..l"

Does that mean you may consider a more settled life then x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
46 weeks ago

East Sussex

Yes I would because it isn't a lifestyle for me it's just a fun hobby. I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who insisted I stop using the forums and chatting to people though

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By *parkle1974Woman
46 weeks ago

Leeds

No. My next relationship (if I were to ever have one again) would include the lifestyle.

I dont trust anyone now to have a monogamous relationship with x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
46 weeks ago


"No. My next relationship (if I were to ever have one again) would include the lifestyle.

I dont trust anyone now to have a monogamous relationship with x"

Is this due to cheating? You haveabtrust issue X

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By *parkle1974Woman
46 weeks ago

Leeds


"No. My next relationship (if I were to ever have one again) would include the lifestyle.

I dont trust anyone now to have a monogamous relationship with x

Is this due to cheating? You haveabtrust issue X "

Yes so I would rather have someone do it with me than behind my back x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
46 weeks ago


"No. My next relationship (if I were to ever have one again) would include the lifestyle.

I dont trust anyone now to have a monogamous relationship with x

Is this due to cheating? You haveabtrust issue X

Yes so I would rather have someone do it with me than behind my back x"

Nothing wrong with that x

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By *bi HaiveMan
46 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

No.

Every relationship I've been in for around the last 15 years has come via Fab.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
46 weeks ago

cardiff

I'm not in the 'lifestyle'

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
46 weeks ago

Hampshire

It's very unlikely. The last few relationships I've had were with people I've met through swinging, so if that happens again, why would I need to?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
46 weeks ago

Central

I'd change for my own reasons, possibly. But probably won't and would be incompatible with the majority of people

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I would if it was important to them and if that person can provide everything that I need, then I don't have any reason to seek it elsewhere.

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By *iss DevilWoman
46 weeks ago

Bedford


"I tried monogamous relationships before, not for me.

Did you just find them.boring? X

Not boring, my sex drive eventually became a problem. Men were finding it a great turn on at first, then they couldn't catch up. It's probably a bit different now, with my sex drive taking a bit of a dive lately, but I enjoy my variety too much..l

Does that mean you may consider a more settled life then x"

Who says I haven't got a settled life now? I have a partner, a couple of FWBs and some "lifestyle friends", who are not necessarily "play partners". I believe my life is quite settled, just in a non-traditional way.

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By *EAT..85Woman
46 weeks ago

Nottingham

I'm fully open about my lifestyle before anything sexy/serious happens.

My boyfriend is accepting of my lifestyle, but eventually he will settle down with just one person and that won't be me. This isn't HIS lifestyle. For now we are simply enjoying each other and our time together.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
46 weeks ago

Reading

If I had the chance of ending up with a certain person I know (from experience) that I didn't want anyone else. I also know that he'd never ask me for monogamy either. So it wouldn't matter. For those reasons and that I'll never end up with him.

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By *ookie46Woman
46 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I can easily be monogamous but I wouldn’t give up the friendships I’ve made through Fab or stop attending socials

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By *oubleswing2019Man
46 weeks ago

Colchester

It's part of me and defines me. So no, I would not renounce it. Not would I expect a partner/lover/wife to either, if that was their thing either. We can be deeply committed to each other, but the autonomies of our bodies are our own choices.

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