FabSwingers.com forum: Slag or slut? What's the difference?

By *ocomotive OP Man
3 days ago

Sunderland

You often see the terms slag and slut thrown around.

Some have them in their user names

But what's the difference?

What do ladies think?

Can men be slags or sluts?

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
3 days ago

Basingstoke

I think that both are derogatory terms that are offensive and deserve no place in a liberal world.

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By *vonne5exMan
3 days ago

Doncaster

I don't like or use either word and I'm certainly not in a position to call anyone

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By *ovetolick78Man
3 days ago

Bagend

Neither should be used really, why does anyone have call anyone names.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
3 days ago

Norwich

When I see the word slag I always think of Jack Regan

"You're nicked you slag"

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By *ocomotive OP Man
3 days ago

Sunderland

"Neither should be used really, why does anyone have call anyone names. "

Yes, but what if they came themselves names?

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By *eliWoman
3 days ago

I'm not sure why but I think of slag as being a bit more working class? A certain accent saying it.

Neither should be used on another unless you're certain about how they feel. Slut more people are reclaiming and that's great. I don't know if slag has that ring to it.

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By *ocomotive OP Man
3 days ago

Sunderland

"I think that both are derogatory terms that are offensive and deserve no place in a liberal world."

I think they're both delegator too however , some people seem to see slut as acceptable but slag as an insult!

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By *ocomotive OP Man
3 days ago

Sunderland

"I'm not sure why but I think of slag as being a bit more working class? A certain accent saying it.

Neither should be used on another unless you're certain about how they feel. Slut more people are reclaiming and that's great. I don't know if slag has that ring to it."

I think I'd agree with that!

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By *parky123Man
3 days ago

Lincoln

Yeah, that all seems to “feel” right. They’re not terms I use liberally, but it’s quite good that there doesn’t appear to be much slut shaming here (happy to be corrected on that)

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 days ago

Carlisle usually

They have their place inside dynamics and consent.

Neither are words you should use casually at or about strangers 💜

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By *obbi_sutherlandTV/TS
3 days ago

Dornoch

Slag will score 5 points but Slut will only get you 4.

Assuming no double or triple letters or word spaces.

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By *w214Couple
3 days ago

Merseyside

"They have their place inside dynamics and consent.

Neither are words you should use casually at or about strangers 💜"

This is the answer, I think they have been used historically as an insult for a liberated woman, using them nowadays can still be taken as an insult without consent.

You call Mrs NW214 a slag, slut or even whore without consent or context then we have a problem. Whisper it in her ear whilst shes being pounded into a mattress then your likely to get an eye roll and a pleasure moan of agreement.

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By *ackson692024Man
3 days ago

Pontypridd

I think slag is a vile word, there's something nasty about it.

Slut on the other hand is a word which my partner uses to describe her younger self, and likes being called a slut during sex.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
3 days ago

Gloucester

Both are offensive and derogatory terms and should not be used. Just my opinion

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 days ago

East Sussex

Some people associate the word 'slut' with women who aren't very good housewives and have sex with loads of men and 'slag' with women who have sex with loads of men or to describe a by product of coal mining.

I dislike both words used to describe people and the people who use them in a derogatory fashion. If somebody wants to use either term to describe themselves that's up to them.

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By *pa-LoverMan
3 days ago

Coventry

Both ugly. Ditto 'bitch'. Unfortunately, prominent in some equally ugly porn.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
3 days ago

Crumpet Castle

Slag = waste products of industry e.g. the powdery coal that cannot be sold or metal shavings that are not used. They are TRASH and go on the slagheap.

Slut or sluttern = a woman who didn't keep a tidy house. To be sluttish was to not clean up thoroughly.

Those meanings still exist but became used by men against women when they wanted to discredit them sexually - she's a slag or a slut.

Some communities use the term slag as trash to describe 'lowlifes' , burglars, scroungers and those without morals etc ...

Neither word has any place in day to day life but they seem quite gentle when used to arouse a willing partner who doesn't take it to heart.

P.S....... I would not like it used toward me in a sexual situation - i've never been aroused by words that suggest there are limitations on my where, when , who with and how many times etc..... nor is sex dirty to me, but I see how it works for people

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By *alkingRedFlagMan
3 days ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I think slag is always derogatory but slut in the right context isn’t.

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By *ggdrasil66Man
3 days ago

Saltdean

I’m aware that some ladies use the word slut or slutty, but the other word (slag) is an offensive insult. I have heard gay people that I’ve worked with call each other the name, but I’d never use it to describe anyone.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
3 days ago

The Deep Dark Woods

I hate the word slag in all it's forms. I don't appreciate it used in any context, it's an ugly word.

I enjoy some degrading names used in a sexual context with consent, this includes being called a slut, whore, cunt, bitch etc. Consent is absolutely the operative word here. Context is also important. Outside of the right context I don't like them.

I sometimes call myself a slut or self identify that way in a playful context as a woman who loves sex, I feel the word has been slightly reclaimed. Again, it's about context and meaning.

I don't appreciate total strangers calling me degrading names, or people I have not given consent to use those words with me. If anyone does then they get read the riot act.

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By *agic.MMan
3 days ago

Orpington

You call a woman a slut and she'll slap you in the face...you call her a slag and she'll punch you in the face... that's the DIFFERENCE

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
3 days ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Neither should be used really, why does anyone have call anyone names.

Yes, but what if they came themselves names?"

I'm not a fan of either.

If someone chooses themselves to have it in their username or is happy to be called either, then that's a conscious decision they've made themselves, and entirely their prerogative.

If someone chooses to use it as a label for anyone else then that's not OK.

There's a huge difference between self determination and labelling by others. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
3 days ago

Niche

I can imagine hearing someone with a Tom Hardy voice usung 'slag' to banter with a mate in full good humour.

I don't think I've heard it used as anything else in decades.

You might hear it if you watched episodes of 70s/80s cop shows.

Sweeney, Minder, anyone?

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By *arleycplWoman
3 days ago

Leyburn

"I think that both are derogatory terms that are offensive and deserve no place in a liberal world."

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
3 days ago

Wales

I must be a slut then. Definitely don't keep a tidy house, who has the time when there's all these men to have sex with?

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
3 days ago

nr Bodmin

My profile says it all

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By *harlie38Man
3 days ago

walsall

Not terms I use as a rule.

But in my tiny mind a slag is someone who will have sex with anyone anywhere at anytime but a slut is someone who just unashamedly loves lots of sex (even if it's with just one person). These apply to both males and females.

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
3 days ago

Aberdeen

Neither of these are words I use or like to be called in any way.

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By *odgerMooreMan
3 days ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

Not a fan of slag ever… slut has a context In a consenting way where a woman gets enjoyment from it and wants to be addressed that way… it was so negative a term for so long it may yet take a while for it to be reclaimed and lose that negative connotation and be seen as a term for a sexually empowered independent woman…. Not something Im particularly comfortable saying to a woman but if she wants me to - to add to a dynamic…

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
3 days ago

leeds

"My profile says it all

"
Obviously a badge that you are proud to wear,

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By *uriousscouserWoman
3 days ago

Wirral

The biggest difference for me is that Jabba the Slut is a funny user name, whereas Jabba the Slag just doesn't work.

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By *Lcouple10Couple
3 days ago

Leeds

Slut gets me wet. Slag gets you punched in the face !

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
3 days ago

near Putney Heath

"Slag will score 5 points but Slut will only get you 4.

Assuming no double or triple letters or word spaces. "

Lol!

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By *ootyfruityCouple
3 days ago

andover

The difference is a black eye from the wife 😂

slut=great fuck

Slag=punch to the face

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
3 days ago

near Putney Heath

"Slut gets me wet. Slag gets you punched in the face !

I'm clearly a prude but also autistic.

You have to tell me you want me to call you a slag or a slut or um...punch/slapped in the face...

In which case I will probably do it as hard a limp dick.

I want to get better at being a domme but I'd be lying if I said it didn't make me uncomfortable.

More practice needed in safe spaces. Lol!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
3 days ago

near Putney Heath

"You often see the terms slag and slut thrown around.

Some have them in their user names

But what's the difference?

What do ladies think?

Can men be slags or sluts?"

I don't like being called a slag or a slut or whore during sexual play. I do like being told I'm a greedy good girl.

However, I do know some people have a kink or fetish for those words and it really turns them on.

My friend with benefits loves me calling him a slut while I use the prostate massager on him.

So yes men can be sluts or slags especially if they want to be in the bottom and/or sub role.

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By *immyMcGillMan
3 days ago

Hornchurch

The origin of the word slag is entirely with reference to waste product or rubbish.

The word slut originally meant a dirty or unkempt woman but changed over time to encompass sexual promiscuity.

From that I would say ‘slag’ is pretty much always derogatory. ‘Slut’ might be an insult or a compliment depending on context and perception.

Personally I love slutty women. They’re perfect!

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By *tag and wife.Couple
3 days ago

Richmond

"The origin of the word slag is entirely with reference to waste product or rubbish.

The word slut originally meant a dirty or unkempt woman but changed over time to encompass sexual promiscuity.

From that I would say ‘slag’ is pretty much always derogatory. ‘Slut’ might be an insult or a compliment depending on context and perception.

Personally I love slutty women. They’re perfect!"

That's a brilliant bit of definition.

My mrs will call her self a slut at times due to her lifestyle choice.

But she is not a slag.

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By *abluesbabyMan
3 days ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London

To answer the "What's the difference?" part...

"Slag" is a purely British slang term used solely in the UK. I have never heard it used elsewhere that is for sure.

"Slut" on the other hand is very international. Any adult fluent in speaking English anywhere in the world is highly likely to know the word and its meaning.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
3 days ago

Niche

"The origin of the word slag is entirely with reference to waste product or rubbish.

The word slut originally meant a dirty or unkempt woman but changed over time to encompass sexual promiscuity.

From that I would say ‘slag’ is pretty much always derogatory. ‘Slut’ might be an insult or a compliment depending on context and perception.

Personally I love slutty women. They’re perfect!"

Yes that reminds me of old phrases I'd hear when I was really young where it's said a thing is 'ready for the slag heap'

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By *lackcanaryWoman
3 days ago

Ipswich

Sorry but if I was called either on here it would be an instant block.

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By *arknatCouple
3 days ago

New forest

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By *he Sundance Kid XMan
3 days ago

Tamworth

I like both

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By *he Sundance Kid XMan
3 days ago

Tamworth

In ma bed

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By *he Sundance Kid XMan
3 days ago

Tamworth

On my head

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By *he Sundance Kid XMan
3 days ago

Tamworth

Can't think of anything else that rhymes with bed and head that isn't dead so I'll stop 🤣🤣

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By *ittlebirdWoman
3 days ago

The Big Smoke

I regularly use slut for myself… I even have it as a tattoo. But, and it’s a big but… it doesn’t give anyone else the right to use it to me. They’ll know if they can.

Slag as a derogatory term went out of fashion not long after the banging film Rita, Sue and Bob too 👍🏻

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By *teveinYorkMan
3 days ago

Pocklington

Nasty and derogatory terms.

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By *pencer75Man
3 days ago

London

"I regularly use slut for myself… I even have it as a tattoo. But, and it’s a big but… it doesn’t give anyone else the right to use it to me. They’ll know if they can.

Slag as a derogatory term went out of fashion not long after the banging film Rita, Sue and Bob too 👍🏻"

Imagine a studio exec trying to pitch that film nowadays?

"Right, there's this married guy but he's getting fired into these 2 schoolgirls...."

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By *ermite12ukMan
3 days ago

Solihull and Romford

A slag is someone who will have sex with anyone, but you.

A slut is someone who will have sex with anyone, including you.

(Neither term I would use, unless specifically asked to. Jus sayin.)

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By *entleman JayMan
3 days ago

Wakefield

I don’t like the word slag. I’d prefer to use the word slutty rather than slut.

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By *entleman JayMan
3 days ago

Wakefield

"Some people associate the word 'slut' with women who aren't very good housewives and have sex with loads of men and 'slag' with women who have sex with loads of men or to describe a by product of coal mining.

I dislike both words used to describe people and the people who use them in a derogatory fashion. If somebody wants to use either term to describe themselves that's up to them. "

I’ve known a number of women that use the word slutty for themselves.

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By *ellinever70Woman
3 days ago

Ayrshire

I don't like either of them and can't get on board with the idea of women reclaiming the word slut

I don't find it progressive

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By *azzy75Man
3 days ago

Houghton le Spring

My other half would tell me she's my "own personal slut". It seemed to empower her and was a clear sign she was feeling horny. I think if I'd called her my own personal slag, she'd have broken my nose!

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
3 days ago

somewhere, someplace

All I know is i become both when I say no to some people on here 😂

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By *partharmonyCouple
3 days ago

Ruislip

A slag drops her chips when she has an orgasm.

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By *agneto.Man
3 days ago

Bham

My brain confused the last letters and I thought this was on about slugs.

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By *x2 4 funCouple
3 days ago

Southampton

Again both are a instant turn off if we see any words like that if a profile

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By *DCQMan
2 days ago

South East

"You often see the terms slag and slut thrown around.

Some have them in their user names

But what's the difference?

What do ladies think?

Can men be slags or sluts?"

I’ll tell you from a mans point of view (sorry, I know you’re only trying to engage with women for some reason 🙄).

One is a childish extremely derogatory term that only a very few distasteful people would use, the other can be considered as a term of endearment in a kink environment. I find the question a little odd to be fair as it’s very very rare to hear of a woman (or a man for that matter) referring to themselves as slags..

Some might disagree but it’s just my opinion 🤷🏻‍♂️

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By *carlett And GreyCouple
2 days ago

Carshalton

"I think slag is always derogatory but slut in the right context isn’t."

Agreed. Grey and I are both Dom(me)... in the dungeon either one of us might use it when talking to a submissive bloke (me) or woman (both of us), with their prior consent, of course!

Slag is a nasty word, but not in a good way.

Scarlett xx

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By *amsubMan
2 days ago

hyde

Each to there own opinion, I personally as a sub guy find it a turn on being called names and yes it is derogatory that's why I love it I don't find it offensive one bit

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 days ago

Crumpet Castle

"A slag drops her chips when she has an orgasm. "
whilst a slut holds on to her kebab when she's peein' in the gutter

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By *ife NinjaMan
2 days ago

Dunfermline

I dislike both terms 🙄🤓

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By *layfull pairingCouple
2 days ago

Bristol

All I know is that I can call my Mrs a filthy slut during play and she gets off on it.... however, if I were to call her a filthy slag, she would beat me to death

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By *uckslut and MCouple
2 days ago

Derby

I'm a Slut, have never given any thought to the word slag. I'm owing the word slut, cos that is who I am. You can't change what's within.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
2 days ago

Chatham

I don't like the term slag, it gives Kat Slatter and Albert Square vibes.

The term slut I love, I use it to describe myself fairly often and my Dom will occasionally call me it while degrading me. I adore it in the context of a loving, long term trusting dynamic.

Personally being so in love with someone I'm prepared to be their slut is magical to me.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
5 hours ago

near Putney Heath

"I don't like the term slag, it gives Kat Slatter and Albert Square vibes.

The term slut I love, I use it to describe myself fairly often and my Dom will occasionally call me it while degrading me. I adore it in the context of a loving, long term trusting dynamic.

Personally being so in love with someone I'm prepared to be their slut is magical to me. "

Cackle @ Albert Square.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
4 hours ago

Ryde

What's the difference?

A ticketing system.

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
3 hours ago

Motherwell

A slag is someone who gets used.

A slut is someone who knows how they want to get used. Mx

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By *alldarkandharmlessMan
3 hours ago

Ross on Wye

Mean exactly the same to me.

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By *ecretfriend69Man
2 hours ago

Manchester

I love the terms and use them both often during play (consensually)

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By *arahHeartWoman
2 hours ago

bolton

Same thing

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By *hGlobbitsMan
1 hour ago

Leeds

"I think that both are derogatory terms that are offensive and deserve no place in a liberal world."

I dunno, I think "slut" largely depends on context and the people involved.

If a women wants to declare herself a slut then, y'know, fine - own it. Good for you!

I can't speak for all men, but I'd personally steer clear of calling a woman a slut, except maybe as part of a mutually agreed kink thing. Even then, I'm not sure I can pull it off. I find the "dirty porn talk" thing a bit affected and comical and can't really take it seriously.

"Slag" is just a bit grim and outdated, isn't it? Plus, I think Viz ruined it as a term.

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By *i lad 75Man
36 minutes ago

london

Women often use the term slut in there profiles

A Good Example dirty slut but Calling Either to a stranger might end up with you getting a slap or a shiner.

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By *unGuy4U1978Man
32 minutes ago

near you

"Can men be slags or sluts?"

Danny Dyer and Gene Hunt both think so.

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