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"I haven't found any way to still contact the lady specifying the Age Range" Yeeeaaah... thats the point | |||
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"Why would you want to ignore a clearly stated preference? She doesn't want to be messaged by you. Respect the preferences." Totally this.. 
Not a good look trying to get round someone's preferences, move on Op.. | |||
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"It's annoying when I'm just a year or two outside required Age Range. I haven't found any way to still contact the lady specifying the Age Range. Any ideas?" lots of people set their age range when they first started their profile maybe 10years ago,, but never increase it every year to keep in line with their age increase... but it is there for a reason so got to accept it | |||
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"Obviously OP has taken the advice of the thread and ignored it. Opening a new post in Swinger chat "Because he's an annoying person that ignores preferences then probly whines about getting blocked if he does get through. It's amazing how many gay men on another app I use.. Totally ignore anything I put in my bio the hyst see whips and "Dom" and get all hot and bothered and send loads of unwanted nudes. Then get angry and abusive if I do anything other than block them.  | |||
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"It's annoying when I'm just a year or two outside required Age Range. I haven't found any way to still contact the lady specifying the Age Range. Any ideas? lots of people set their age range when they first started their profile maybe 10years ago,, but never increase it every year to keep in line with their age increase... but it is there for a reason so got to accept it" This exactly is what i have experienced, especially when going over the big 5 0. I just accept it and move on. Nothing you can do to change things. | |||
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"Just because you want to talk to someone, doesn't mean they want to talk to you. Boundaries are set for a reason. " Anyway Hi | |||
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"It's annoying when I'm just a year or two outside required Age Range. I haven't found any way to still contact the lady specifying the Age Range. Any ideas?" So flip this around.. So how are all the .. "not looking for single males" suppose to contact you as your only one gender away from what some people maybe looking for..  | |||
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"Why would you want to ignore a clearly stated preference? She doesn't want to be messaged by you. Respect the preferences." Exactly this! The age range, as well as preferences stated on profiles are there for a reason. | |||
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"It's annoying when I'm just a year or two outside required Age Range. I haven't found any way to still contact the lady specifying the Age Range. Any ideas?" If you can’t respect their age boundaries when attempting to contact them, then how could they trust you to respect any other boundaries if somehow you did actually meet? Respect their preferences and just be respectful. | |||
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"It's annoying when I'm just a year or two outside required Age Range. I haven't found any way to still contact the lady specifying the Age Range. Any ideas? If you can’t respect their age boundaries when attempting to contact them, then how could they trust you to respect any other boundaries if somehow you did actually meet? Respect their preferences and just be respectful." This!! | |||
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"The age ranges are in place for a reason. Respect the persons wishes! There’s plenty more fabbers in the sea! 😃" Maybe he thinks he's sinking. 😆 | |||
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"How dare she have a preference that you disagree with. " Lol! Yes, annoying isn't it ! | |||
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"Been there my friend when they fab your pics but you can't send a message to thank them is torture " I think you might need to rethink your definition of torture. 😂 | |||
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"Been there my friend when they fab your pics but you can't send a message to thank them is torture " If they wanted contact they would message you. | |||
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"Been there my friend when they fab your pics but you can't send a message to thank them is torture " Just because someone fabs pics doesn’t mean they are interested in having the sex. Why is it torturing you? If you feel that strongly turn your fabs off on your pics and post them because you like them instead of needing validation of yourself from others 👍🏻 | |||
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"It's annoying when I'm just a year or two outside required Age Range. I haven't found any way to still contact the lady specifying the Age Range. Any ideas?" Nothing you can do. Everyone has preferences. | |||
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"Been there my friend when they fab your pics but you can't send a message to thank them is torture Just because someone fabs pics doesn’t mean they are interested in having the sex. Why is it torturing you? If you feel that strongly turn your fabs off on your pics and post them because you like them instead of needing validation of yourself from others 👍🏻" Well said teeny tiny pocket rocket | |||
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"Been there my friend when they fab your pics but you can't send a message to thank them is torture Just because someone fabs pics doesn’t mean they are interested in having the sex. Why is it torturing you? If you feel that strongly turn your fabs off on your pics and post them because you like them instead of needing validation of yourself from others 👍🏻" 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | |||
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"How bad would it be when you find out it is only a month. Or a week? 😳" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"How bad would it be when you find out it is only a month. Or a week? 😳" We should be able to have gaps in our age ranges. I specifically don't like 31 year old. 30 and 32 are fine but them 31 year olds just think they are better than everyone else | |||
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"How bad would it be when you find out it is only a month. Or a week? 😳 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣" Hey thickthighs, you ok? Missed your humorous posts on the forums this week | |||
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"How bad would it be when you find out it is only a month. Or a week? 😳 We should be able to have gaps in our age ranges. I specifically don't like 31 year old. 30 and 32 are fine but them 31 year olds just think they are better than everyone else " Exactly. Those that are born in July are so off putting. 😅 | |||
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"I agree with you. Age is but a number. Many people I meet think I look 20 years younger. It's actually an issue convincing them how old I actually am. On the other spectrum, some people are younger but act substantially younger than their age. If one specifies 45 and you are 46 it's ABIT stupid. Better to state a preference but leave the parameters open. Have to say this website sucks for meeting people but fun to seeing and reading what people are looking for." I'm outside your age range. It isn't a problem for me or you but you seem to be suggesting that other people should leave their parameters open but you don't have to  | |||
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"My parameters are open in terms of age i.e. 18-99." I was replying to the person who's post I quoted | |||
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"I'm very reluctant to lie. If I lie, there has to be a good reason. A lady on the site who wants us to fk is waiting for an operation (I don't know what for because I don't like to pry) and will meet soon after it. Her profile states that she is a woman. A recent message from her states that her man likes to watch in order to keep her safe. It seems to me that she might be lying and that she might be lying and he wants to have a wank while watching us. She has agreed to my request that he watch us on camera from another room. I'd appreciate advice." What is your concern here? | |||
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"If she lies on a major issue once, she might lie again on another major issue e.g. how do I know that he's not going to rob/assault me when he's in another room. Please bear in mind that she's only had one verification: for all I know that could be from her man. Perhaps I'm being paranoiac." If you're concerned don't go ahead. You aren't being paranoid it's wise to consider your safety. | |||
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"It's annoying when I'm just a year or two outside required Age Range. I haven't found any way to still contact the lady specifying the Age Range. Any ideas? lots of people set their age range when they first started their profile maybe 10years ago,, but never increase it every year to keep in line with their age increase... but it is there for a reason so got to accept it" You've watched people's age ranges over 10 years to see if they've changed it?  | |||
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"If she lies on a major issue once, she might lie again on another major issue e.g. how do I know that he's not going to rob/assault me when he's in another room. Please bear in mind that she's only had one verification: for all I know that could be from her man. Perhaps I'm being paranoiac." I understand your concerns but if you see a red flag dont meet her | |||
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"It's annoying when I'm just a year or two outside required Age Range. I haven't found any way to still contact the lady specifying the Age Range. Any ideas? lots of people set their age range when they first started their profile maybe 10years ago,, but never increase it every year to keep in line with their age increase... but it is there for a reason so got to accept it You've watched people's age ranges over 10 years to see if they've changed it? " | |||
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"Been there my friend when they fab your pics but you can't send a message to thank them is torture Just because someone fabs pics doesn’t mean they are interested in having the sex. Why is it torturing you? If you feel that strongly turn your fabs off on your pics and post them because you like them instead of needing validation of yourself from others 👍🏻" I'd fab your pic but.... 😉😘 | |||
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"If she lies on a major issue once, she might lie again on another major issue e.g. how do I know that he's not going to rob/assault me when he's in another room. Please bear in mind that she's only had one verification: for all I know that could be from her man. Perhaps I'm being paranoiac. If you're concerned don't go ahead. You aren't being paranoid it's wise to consider your safety. " This. Or ask to meet her for a coffee in the meantime | |||
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"It's annoying when I'm just a year or two outside required Age Range. I haven't found any way to still contact the lady specifying the Age Range. Any ideas?" No it's not it's call life | |||
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"Been there my friend when they fab your pics but you can't send a message to thank them is torture I think you might need to rethink your definition of torture. 😂" I'd let you torture me...with toys. Lol!   | |||
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"It's annoying when I'm just a year or two outside required Age Range. I haven't found any way to still contact the lady specifying the Age Range. Any ideas?" Sir Men like you are the reason I block all single men 363 days of the year. Lol! The other 3 days are usually horny social flukes and all my playmates are away. | |||
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"I agree with you. Age is but a number. Many people I meet think I look 20 years younger. It's actually an issue convincing them how old I actually am. On the other spectrum, some people are younger but act substantially younger than their age. If one specifies 45 and you are 46 it's ABIT stupid. Better to state a preference but leave the parameters open. Have to say this website sucks for meeting people but fun to seeing and reading what people are looking for." I can't speak for couples or men but as a single neurodivergent perimenopausal woman, leaving all my parameters open is a good way to burn out. physically and mentally. | |||
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"It's annoying when I'm just a year or two outside required Age Range. I haven't found any way to still contact the lady specifying the Age Range. Any ideas? lots of people set their age range when they first started their profile maybe 10years ago,, but never increase it every year to keep in line with their age increase... but it is there for a reason so got to accept it" If that’s the case, then they haven’t changed it because they’re probably already getting enough responses. | |||
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