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"Anyone fancy being venting buddies? There's an ongoing drain on my sanity and my friends are sick of me! " My inbox is always open x | |||
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"Anyone fancy being venting buddies? There's an ongoing drain on my sanity and my friends are sick of me! " Yes. I’m pretty good at being a sounding board so you are welcome… | |||
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"Yeah but I hope you don’t mind me venting about racists online and love island. " Two completely different grades of rant there buddy… | |||
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"Yeah but I hope you don’t mind me venting about racists online and love island. " And racists online or anywhere else are dicks | |||
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"Yeah but I hope you don’t mind me venting about racists online and love island. Two completely different grades of rant there buddy…" Yeah I’m one minute hearing James O’Brien and other commentators being shockingly stupid then I’m watching Love island and I’m seeing some horrible men. It’s all go | |||
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"Anyone fancy being venting buddies? There's an ongoing drain on my sanity and my friends are sick of me! " Feel free to vent at me 😍 | |||
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"Yeah but I hope you don’t mind me venting about racists online and love island. Two completely different grades of rant there buddy… Yeah I’m one minute hearing James O’Brien and other commentators being shockingly stupid then I’m watching Love island and I’m seeing some horrible men. It’s all go " Not to take over OP’s post at all and maybe better served as a fresh thread…but what I don’t understand, is that AI is amazingly good at finding information and producing essays etc. Surely it can simply be engineered to detect racist comments on social media, block them and report the sender before the recipient has even seen it? 🤷🏻♂️ | |||
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"Yeah but I hope you don’t mind me venting about racists online and love island. Two completely different grades of rant there buddy… Yeah I’m one minute hearing James O’Brien and other commentators being shockingly stupid then I’m watching Love island and I’m seeing some horrible men. It’s all go Not to take over OP’s post at all and maybe better served as a fresh thread…but what I don’t understand, is that AI is amazingly good at finding information and producing essays etc. Surely it can simply be engineered to detect racist comments on social media, block them and report the sender before the recipient has even seen it? 🤷🏻♂️" I’d start that thread. Have you seen how shit Grok is? 
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" Not to take over OP’s post at all and maybe better served as a fresh thread…but what I don’t understand, is that AI is amazingly good at finding information and producing essays etc. Surely it can simply be engineered to detect racist comments on social media, block them and report the sender before the recipient has even seen it? 🤷🏻♂️" Because generative AI, which is what people mean by AI nowadays, has no understanding of what it spews out. It's autocomplete at scale. Sentiment analysis / natural language processing is a separate sub-field, but it's not reliable enough to be used as a blanket filter - especially because we want to avoid false positives. On topic, I'm happy to be a venting buddy for anyone. I think I may be one to some people I know, so I have experience  | |||
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"Anyone fancy being venting buddies? There's an ongoing drain on my sanity and my friends are sick of me! " Vent away | |||
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"First you have to set the framework for venting. Are just shouting into the void, do we want advice, do we want validation if true, do we want validation even if it’s not true. The best venting for me is where we are all swearing along as cathartic expression of our frustration. I really need to try a rage room!" Recently I just need to get it out, and be validated I'm allowed to be upset and angry. The stress comes in ebbs and flows. Some days I don't think about it. Then it comes to the surface and I just rage and stew for several hours. I will be fine and I will get over it, I will not stoop to publicly naming and shaming, but jesus it's hard sometimes. | |||
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"How long can an ex stone wall you and be a shit human before you put them on public blast I wonder. It's sending me through the wall. I'm not sleeping, I'm struggling to regulate my eating, it's affecting my mental health. I am so close to loosing my mind. " When its affecting you like that then not long, look after your own mental well being and let them deal with the fallout x | |||
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"Anyone fancy being venting buddies? There's an ongoing drain on my sanity and my friends are sick of me! " Vent away and clear your mind. | |||
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"I stick my vents on my status, at least I get it off my chest for the day,just hope I don't need to vent more than once !!" That's a good idea! I don't have anyone 'neutral' I can vent too - might give that a go 🤔 | |||
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"Yeah but I hope you don’t mind me venting about racists online and love island. Two completely different grades of rant there buddy… Yeah I’m one minute hearing James O’Brien and other commentators being shockingly stupid then I’m watching Love island and I’m seeing some horrible men. It’s all go Not to take over OP’s post at all and maybe better served as a fresh thread…but what I don’t understand, is that AI is amazingly good at finding information and producing essays etc. Surely it can simply be engineered to detect racist comments on social media, block them and report the sender before the recipient has even seen it? 🤷🏻♂️" it could easily. But it's more convenient for 'the powers at be' to have you fighting a race war instead of a class war. I mean after France and Russia they have learnt their lesson | |||
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"How long can an ex stone wall you and be a shit human before you put them on public blast I wonder. It's sending me through the wall. I'm not sleeping, I'm struggling to regulate my eating, it's affecting my mental health. I am so close to loosing my mind. " Breakups are very hard 😑 If they are on fab, I'd start with blocking them - or even take a break to let some of the emotions ebb xx All I can say is that you cannot control the other person, so you need to concentrate on yourself and rebuild without needing them in your life. This may mean finding new friends / hobbies / activities I hope you feel better | |||
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"How long can an ex stone wall you and be a shit human before you put them on public blast I wonder. It's sending me through the wall. I'm not sleeping, I'm struggling to regulate my eating, it's affecting my mental health. I am so close to loosing my mind. " That’s so tough. The mental battle of not wanting to put them on blast but also not being able to cope with what they’re putting you through. Sending you strength to get through it. | |||
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"How long can an ex stone wall you and be a shit human before you put them on public blast I wonder. It's sending me through the wall. I'm not sleeping, I'm struggling to regulate my eating, it's affecting my mental health. I am so close to loosing my mind. Breakups are very hard 😑 If they are on fab, I'd start with blocking them - or even take a break to let some of the emotions ebb xx All I can say is that you cannot control the other person, so you need to concentrate on yourself and rebuild without needing them in your life. This may mean finding new friends / hobbies / activities I hope you feel better" Agree with this. Sounds tough. Sending you warmest wishes x | |||
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"I'm emotionally very over the break up, there's some residual logistics that are doing my head in. I'm better after getting some sleep, just had a stab of stress and anger last night! Hoping for a good night's sleep tonight and a resolution in a few months. Hopefully. " Sleep may take its time to get back to normal. Especially if your mind is doing overtime x | |||
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"I'm emotionally very over the break up, there's some residual logistics that are doing my head in. I'm better after getting some sleep, just had a stab of stress and anger last night! Hoping for a good night's sleep tonight and a resolution in a few months. Hopefully. " Come back and vent if you need to  | |||
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"I'm emotionally very over the break up, there's some residual logistics that are doing my head in. I'm better after getting some sleep, just had a stab of stress and anger last night! Hoping for a good night's sleep tonight and a resolution in a few months. Hopefully. " Glad you are feeling a little better... Every day brings the potential for new challenges... Keep breathing! | |||
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"How long can an ex stone wall you and be a shit human before you put them on public blast I wonder. It's sending me through the wall. I'm not sleeping, I'm struggling to regulate my eating, it's affecting my mental health. I am so close to loosing my mind. " I think you’ve answered your own question. Because it sounds like it’s already gone on far too long! Don’t hold back let them have both barrels!! Hopefully that will calm your racing head for abit. X | |||
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"How long can an ex stone wall you and be a shit human before you put them on public blast I wonder. It's sending me through the wall. I'm not sleeping, I'm struggling to regulate my eating, it's affecting my mental health. I am so close to loosing my mind. " Are they looking for that as a reaction, so they can label you in a certain way? | |||
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