FabSwingers.com forum: Attraction

By *IXEN200 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

What if any unusual or unlikely trait do people find an attraction in.

I've been told my attraction is and always will be I do what I'm told to do.

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

People who are their own person, as I am.

I can't be doing with those who blindly just follow or copy things because it's trendy.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
3 weeks ago

Ends

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By *eneralKenobiMan
3 weeks ago

North Angus

Nerds, I love nerds

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By *ife NinjaMan
3 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Wet or greased hair, 80s style 🤓

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By *sStephenPickleMan
3 weeks ago

Ends

Traits!

Ok I find it attractive when people are always kind. Feels like a rare quality. I don’t pretend that I myself possess it. But people who are limitlessly kind are so attractive.

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By *rchie300Man
3 weeks ago

Hamworthy

I like when a woman plays or brushes her hair to one side and also i like a good neck ….

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By *obilebottomMan
3 weeks ago

All over

No keen on pretty.

need to have a bit of an edge.

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By *tandardIssueNerdMan
3 weeks ago

Telford

Nerds and alt people are one of the biggest for me!

And I know a lot of people don't, but if I already find someone a little bit cute, a septum piercing can increase the attraction a lot!

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By *vaRoseWoman
3 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Geeks, readers, nerds, men with a sharp mind and interests they’re passionate about. If he’s got a pair of slutty little glasses then all the better

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
3 weeks ago

Basingstoke

My ex-husband said he was most attracted to my independence. But ironically it was also the trait that he found the most frustrating and ultimately led him to end the relationship. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *ucka39Man
3 weeks ago

Newcastle

When she goes on one 😂🤣 fiery

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By *acchus LyaeosMan
3 weeks ago

London

"Geeks, readers, nerds, men with a sharp mind and interests they’re passionate about. If he’s got a pair of slutty little glasses then all the better"

What makes a pair of glasses slutty?

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By *peedyGMan
3 weeks ago

Telford

I like a strong personality with a bit of fire in her belly

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By *wo 4 fun with womenCouple
3 weeks ago

Aldershot

Someone who can make me laugh easily

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
3 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

"What if any unusual or unlikely trait do people find an attraction in.

I've been told my attraction is and always will be I do what I'm told to do."

So you were told that but what do YOU find attractive.

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By *midnight-Woman
3 weeks ago

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Definitely in the eyes, voice and attention

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By *2000ManMan
3 weeks ago

Worthing

I like large framed glasses on a woman.

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By *2thomMan
3 weeks ago

Norwich

Freckles for me!

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By *obilebottomMan
3 weeks ago

All over

"Freckles for me! "

Oh yes, definately freckles too

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
3 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

Attractive traits to me : Direct. Unapologetic for who they are. Certain foreign accents. Humour. Emotionally mature. Intelligent enough. Aware of others and probably a few more

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
3 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

She fights back. Hot as fuck.

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By *sWyldWoman
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Seeing a man be a good dad or really caring..my hormones take over

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By *ildcatttWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Intelligent nerds are very attractive to me. Also really love strong accents

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
3 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

"She fights back. Hot as fuck. "

Fights back ? with you ?

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By *penJohnUKMan
3 weeks ago

Sheffield and East Cheshire

Brainy/intelligent women are very hot indeed.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
3 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

"Brainy/intelligent women are very hot indeed. "

Thank you John

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By *rMcLuvinUMan
3 weeks ago

Guildford

Confidence, and lovely eyes.

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By *ighlandCooWoman
3 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Eyes, then having a passion for something.

“Come to bed with me” eyes are smoking hot!!

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By *OTSOSUBTLEMan
3 weeks ago

DUBLIN

Voice/accent, hands, curves, demeanour, smile, intelligence, confidence,

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I find sarcasm attractive, but I’m sarcastic does that mean I fancy myself 🙈

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By *anderingArtistMan
3 weeks ago

an abstract world

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By *anderingArtistMan
3 weeks ago

an abstract world

Beautiful eyes and good conversation.

Can she hold her own if we're talking seriously or having some flirty banter? Can she captivate my mind? If my upstairs head isn't in it then my downstairs head doesn't have a chance.

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By *de12Man
3 weeks ago

hull

Intelligent, intellectual women. Glasses are my downfall

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By *inger_SnapWoman
3 weeks ago

Hampshire

Someone once told me they liked me because I was unpredictable 😂 still makes me laugh.

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
3 weeks ago

Just passing through

A gentle intelligence, happy to share their knowledge and engage in conversation but without a superiority complex. And a twinkle in the eye.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
3 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

"She fights back. Hot as fuck.

Fights back ? with you ?

Exactly, the nerve of her!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Neck and hand tattoos 🥵

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By *y_journeyMan
3 weeks ago

newark

One word, humour.

Wait!

Few more words, humour & a nice butt

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Eyes and good conversation. A bit dominant is always a good thing too.

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By *eardedguy83Man
3 weeks ago

Worcestershire

I’m attracted to ladies who are warm, witty and have empathy. I love ladies who have that glint in their eyes and a gorgeous smile.

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By *hunky GentMan
3 weeks ago

Stamford

"Eyes and good conversation. A bit dominant is always a good thing too. "

Get ya coat luv, you've pulled. Xxx

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"I’m attracted to ladies who are warm, witty and have empathy. I love ladies who have that glint in their eyes and a gorgeous smile.

Hello

😂😂

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"Eyes and good conversation. A bit dominant is always a good thing too.

Get ya coat luv, you've pulled. Xxx"

Will the flasher Mac do luv?

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By *IXEN200 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

"What if any unusual or unlikely trait do people find an attraction in.

I've been told my attraction is and always will be I do what I'm told to do.

So you were told that but what do YOU find attractive.

That's something I've never been asked before, but for me it's kindness and attention ☺️

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By *eardedguy83Man
3 weeks ago

Worcestershire

"I’m attracted to ladies who are warm, witty and have empathy. I love ladies who have that glint in their eyes and a gorgeous smile.

Hello

😂😂"

Hello…you already know 😘

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By *hunky GentMan
3 weeks ago

Stamford

"Eyes and good conversation. A bit dominant is always a good thing too.

Get ya coat luv, you've pulled. Xxx

Will the flasher Mac do luv?

Damn right it will.

Just stockings on underneath will be even better

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By *ookie46Woman
3 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

People who are passionate about something they do and have a zest for life

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By *ittlebirdWoman
3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"People who are passionate about something they do and have a zest for life "

Absofuckinglutely came here to type the exact same thing ♥️♥️

Passion. Is. Everything 😘

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By *om WxmMan
3 weeks ago

Wrexham

"People who are passionate about something they do and have a zest for life "

Exactly as above, intelligence and humour too, both are very intoxicating.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
3 weeks ago

Norwich

Humble men without big egos who are comfortable and confident in their own skin.

That's extremely sexy although I'm not sure it answers your question correctly! 🤣

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By *IXEN200 OP Woman
3 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

Thanks for all the comments I've enjoyed reading them all

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By *ggdrasil66Man
3 weeks ago

Saltdean

They don’t poke me too hard with their white sticks!

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
3 weeks ago

Voldsøy

I love it when someone is passionate about something. Nerdy or geeky, even. I could sit and listen to the right person ramble on all night, doesn't always matter what about either.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading

People who are passionate about something. Could be anything.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
3 weeks ago

Brum

When she sings along with the wrong words 🥰

And when she wets a bit of her long brown hair in her mouth and unconsciously uses it to tickle inside her ear.

Or when she’s ordered a sandwich but she pulls little pieces of instead of taking bites.

Or when she takes the bobble out of her hair and lets it tumble down to her shoulders when she gets home from work.

Or… yeah I’ll shut up

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By *layfull pairingCouple
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Confidence... when you see someone just walk into a room and kinda own the place... some people naturally oooze confidence.. doesn’t matter what they look like...they know they got ‘it’...

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By *aughty TAMan
3 weeks ago

Rochdale / York

Personality, people who smile, chatty and like a laugh

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Motherwell

Great taste in music and gallows humour. Mx

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By *ycnessMan
3 weeks ago

Inverness

Coloured haired preferably in a bob or pixie cut

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By *hat.coupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Kent

I get told that being tall draws people to me 🤷🏼‍♀️. It used to be less common to see taller women but I find people in general are taller these days.

Mrs x

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By *ein-guyMan
3 weeks ago

East Cowes

I have an attraction to a woman who is brutally honest but also sexy and dominant

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By *ardforyou777Man
3 weeks ago

A lady who is pregnant. Would never speak touch or anything inappropriate. I just find it an attractive thing.

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By *imply_SensualMan
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

Good calves, on well sculptured legs - very hot

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By *itgingermanMan
3 weeks ago

Rotherham

Been a computer geek and now a gym goer 🤪 not to be massive like many, fitness only

The biggest attraction for me is eyes and smile, some woman just have that look, they talk to you in a way you just get hard from the voice and expressions

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