FabSwingers.com forum: Fabbers Would you go away for 2 or 3 nights to a Hotel with a complete fab stranger

By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
46 weeks ago

Maidenhead now Travel lots Face-Pic-A-Must. Let's at least chat maybe a social if we Click

1st if you were Free anyway.

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They sent you a really nice message

They had a great selection of photos you would of wanted to see and you liked.

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You thought they seemed real nice.

And had a great well written profile / Bio

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There verifications looked good and very complementary.

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He or she was happy to exchange mobile Nos and chat or say _ello via live video.

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The person proved they had the claimed accommodation booked.

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They were happy to pick you up and drop you after and or happy if you wished to drive and meet them there.

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Plus they said all food and drinks will be paid for by them.

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And said they had booked a swingers club entry for 2 one night.

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And 100% promised if one or either of you did not get on or click, they would be happy with no sexual contact and be happy just to have your nice company with them.

YES!

MAYBE!

100% NEVER.

I would say YES why not

"Sod it go have a blast"

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But ask them to prove there address they live at 1st to show they are genuine.

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And id leave there mobile No with a close friend or family member of mine and send the friend a picture of there car registration when we meet..

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Have you done this or very similar anytime with a fabber.

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I have experience of it twice now and both times it was really nice.

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Your thoughts and replies should be interesting.

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Be nice please all.

Fab is about fun.

*BigLittleT*

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By *andadbodMan
46 weeks ago

Liverpool

Nope, all the above has probably been said before to many members by fantasists, if going away with anyone there would have to be a strong element of trust, and that takes time to build. Time being something most members have a real issue with.

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By *manteeCouple
46 weeks ago

Manchester

100% never, trust needs to be earned and boundaries honoured

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By *oobaaMan
46 weeks ago

Harrogate

nope

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By *vaRoseWoman
46 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Nope

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By *sWyldWoman
46 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Not a chance

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
46 weeks ago

Middle England

This is the stuff of fantasy. No.

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By *arlo56Man
46 weeks ago

Newcastle

Nope.

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
46 weeks ago

Durham

Pretty sure this is how people end up waking up in a bath full of ice with a kidney missing

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
46 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Been there, done that ☺️

Usually overnight, not a few days.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
46 weeks ago

Brum

"Pretty sure this is how people end up waking up in a bath full of ice with a kidney missing "

About that… any chance we could get our kidneys back please?

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By *att71Man
46 weeks ago

The Railway Town - North Wilts

This is how you end up as tomorrows headlines...

No matter how honest and trusting a profile looks it is a big fat now from me, unless they are happy with an armed response team outside the door all the time.........

ps which hotel did you say again........lol

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Nope

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By *_elia DominaTV/TS
46 weeks ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Quite possibly I would consider the proposal in the knowledge that they would be bound and gagged for the majority of the time and I would be in charge of their chastity.

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By *AYENCouple
46 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Who in their right mind would think this is a good idea!?

It goes beyond just trust - 72+ hours with someone you might dislike, or at least whose company you may not enjoy, is one hell of a long time.

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By *ealitybitesMan
46 weeks ago

Belfast

Op, I have a pretty good memory when it comes to controversial subjects and thread starters on here and I seem to remember this isn't the first time you have asked this question or were offering a free trip abroad.

Is there a particular reason you are asking again?

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By *etwife8230Couple
46 weeks ago

Newport

Absolutely not ,my snoring alone would have me chopped up and frozen within hours

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By *eonknifeWoman
46 weeks ago

skegness

i had one night away in a hotel on first meets before w many ppl so to extend to 2 or 3 would depend on how well we got on that first night. I'd make it very clear that i will leave at any point if i start to feel uncomfortable or bored or whatever.

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By *eonknifeWoman
46 weeks ago

skegness

"Op, I have a pretty good memory when it comes to controversial subjects and thread starters on here and I seem to remember this isn't the first time you have asked this question or were offering a free trip abroad.

Is there a particular reason you are asking again? "

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
46 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

Hell no!

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
46 weeks ago

Hampshire

That's a huge No!!!

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By *lim_bbcMan
46 weeks ago

barking

Nah lol

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
46 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

Nope, the only way that would happen is with someone in had built a huge amount of trust with and knew implicitly/met before. A random stranger, no

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
46 weeks ago

Gloucester

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By *cedGemWoman
46 weeks ago

your dreams

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1st if you were Free anyway.

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They sent you a really nice message

They had a great selection of photos you would of wanted to see and you liked.

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You thought they seemed real nice.

And had a great well written profile / Bio

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There verifications looked good and very complementary.

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He or she was happy to exchange mobile Nos and chat or say _ello via live video.

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The person proved they had the claimed accommodation booked.

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They were happy to pick you up and drop you after and or happy if you wished to drive and meet them there.

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Plus they said all food and drinks will be paid for by them.

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And said they had booked a swingers club entry for 2 one night.

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And 100% promised if one or either of you did not get on or click, they would be happy with no sexual contact and be happy just to have your nice company with them.

YES!

MAYBE!

100% NEVER.

I would say YES why not

"Sod it go have a blast"

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But ask them to prove there address they live at 1st to show they are genuine.

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And id leave there mobile No with a close friend or family member of mine and send the friend a picture of there car registration when we meet..

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Have you done this or very similar anytime with a fabber.

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I have experience of it twice now and both times it was really nice.

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Your thoughts and replies should be interesting.

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Be nice please all.

Fab is about fun.

*BigLittleT*

No 👎

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Very unlikely

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By *ife NinjaMan
46 weeks ago

Leeds

Just, no 😬🤓

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
46 weeks ago

Reading

No, that sounds insane.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Yeah if I was feeling low and didn’t care about dying.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
46 weeks ago

Central

Not at all likely for me. If I'm meeting, it's in my terms, rather than being supposed to fit into anothers arrangements. A couple of hours with the wrong person can be hell and I'd only do 1overnight with absolutely the right person.

Find what someone wants and offer that, after getting to know them.

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By *bi HaiveMan
46 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nope. Never.

The only places I meet complete strangers are Costa and swinging clubs. 🤷‍♂️

*oh, and organised group social events of course.......

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By *onjo14Man
46 weeks ago

Bangor N.Ireland

Absolutely bloody no chance.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
46 weeks ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
46 weeks ago

East Sussex

If one of my kids said they were thinking of doing this I'd tell them not to be so bloody daft. I apply similar rules to myself

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By *hisIsMe58Man
46 weeks ago

Winchester

No way

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By *stwo60Couple
46 weeks ago

Hampshire

Of course not…

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By *imi_RougeWoman
46 weeks ago

Hampshire

No, never done an over night stay with anyone I've met off Fab.

If there were separate rooms I might consider it. And obviously being free to leave at any time.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
46 weeks ago

Castlebar

Nope

And only once with someone I hadn't even kissed. Don't often stay the night unless I know I'm fully comfortable with someone anf attracted to them first.

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By *hwellwhynotCouple
46 weeks ago

London

Seen way to many horror movies for that nonsense

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
46 weeks ago

Markfield

Nope, no sleepovers with fab people.

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By *hoenix_1Man
46 weeks ago

richmond

No never

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Yeh fuck it. Yolo

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By *obilebottomMan
46 weeks ago

All over

Back packed. Better be worth it

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By *estructionDollyWoman
46 weeks ago

Manchester

Not with someone I had never met.

If I had met them for a social and we had chemistry and I was interested in them sexually, than I would consider it. But absolutely no interest in sharing a bed with someone I've just met and turns out I don't even fancy. Awkward.com

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I really don’t think so… maybe with a trusted fab person that one may have seen several times, but never with someone I didn’t know!

Imagine if they snored? ! Or Sleep walked.? !

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By *artorialMan
46 weeks ago

weymouth

Errr well I have done exactly that a few years ago, didn't wake up missing any appendages just totally drained

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By *007ManMan
46 weeks ago

Worthing

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By *007ManMan
46 weeks ago

Worthing

Not for me no matter what they said in messages or pictures. I don't even do "food" dates until we get to know each other.

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By *LiamMan
46 weeks ago

Midlands

Are you mad

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
46 weeks ago

Maidenhead now Travel lots Face-Pic-A-Must. Let's at least chat maybe a social if we Click

Wow it was more a fun post - ask to be honest.

It got the replies I fully expected aswell.

98% no .. nope .. no chance .. you mad. Don't be silly. LOL. XX

Lots of great humour as well so far which is nice to x

Big thanx to all

Real enjoyed reading the thoughts

Keep it rolling.

Ps.

Most our partners snore, so a new one snoring would be fine I think LOL

O.p xxxx

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
46 weeks ago

Reading

No whatever the circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Done an overnight

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Absolutely not, end up with ted bundy situation

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By *issmorganWoman
46 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

100% never.

As I've found out in the past, verifications are subjective and they may have used old pics.

People I know get on my nerves if I spend days with them, never mind strangers.

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By *ighlandCooWoman
46 weeks ago

Chesterfield

No, I wouldn’t.

I’d only spend an overnight with someone from Fab if I’d met them many, many times before and felt comfortable with them in every way.

I snore so would need to make sure we fucked enough before I fell asleep because after that they’d be gone 🤣

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
46 weeks ago

Maidenhead now Travel lots Face-Pic-A-Must. Let's at least chat maybe a social if we Click

"No, I wouldn’t.

I’d only spend an overnight with someone from Fab if I’d met them many, many times before and felt comfortable with them in every way.

I snore so would need to make sure we fucked enough before I fell asleep because after that they’d be gone 🤣"

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You could snore all night between my sheets xxx

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
46 weeks ago

Round the bend

Not a chance in hell

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
46 weeks ago

your head

No way. I actually like living

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
46 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

Maybe but I'm crazy so there's that.

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By *oeBeansMan
46 weeks ago

Derby

"Seen way to many horror movies for that nonsense "

Username does not check out 😆

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By *ensualDivaWoman
46 weeks ago

Galway, Mayo

"Seen way to many horror movies for that nonsense

Username does not check out 😆"

If its Joe Beans I'll risk it

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By * aime la biteWoman
46 weeks ago

wonderland

No! I don't "sleep" with anyone, haven't done for years and don't think i ever could again.

Definitely not a stranger.

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By *oeBeansMan
46 weeks ago

Derby

"Seen way to many horror movies for that nonsense

Username does not check out 😆

If its Joe Beans I'll risk it

I'll look at the package holidays while you look at my pa... Never mind 😅😜

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

"If

1st if you were Free anyway.

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They sent you a really nice message

They had a great selection of photos you would of wanted to see and you liked.

----

You thought they seemed real nice.

And had a great well written profile / Bio

-----

There verifications looked good and very complementary.

------

He or she was happy to exchange mobile Nos and chat or say _ello via live video.

-----

The person proved they had the claimed accommodation booked.

-----

They were happy to pick you up and drop you after and or happy if you wished to drive and meet them there.

-------

Plus they said all food and drinks will be paid for by them.

--------

And said they had booked a swingers club entry for 2 one night.

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And 100% promised if one or either of you did not get on or click, they would be happy with no sexual contact and be happy just to have your nice company with them.

YES!

MAYBE!

100% NEVER.

I would say YES why not

"Sod it go have a blast"

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But ask them to prove there address they live at 1st to show they are genuine.

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And id leave there mobile No with a close friend or family member of mine and send the friend a picture of there car registration when we meet..

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Have you done this or very similar anytime with a fabber.

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I have experience of it twice now and both times it was really nice.

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Your thoughts and replies should be interesting.

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Be nice please all.

Fab is about fun.

*BigLittleT*

100% Never with a total stranger.......after a few meets Yes, it sounds oh so tempting.......

You've experienced twice just what you described, Wow..... & with a total total stranger.....{really}

(for me it's stranger danger)

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
46 weeks ago

Central

"I really don’t think so… maybe with a trusted fab person that one may have seen several times, but never with someone I didn’t know!

Imagine if they snored? ! Or Sleep walked.? !

Don't knock us sleep walkers!

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By *umagain58Man
46 weeks ago

London

A non starter for me and expect vast majority.

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By *elloWoman
46 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"Absolutely not ,my snoring alone would have me chopped up and frozen within hours "

Hahaha yep me too.

That scenario is definitely 100% never for me

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By *ideshaft1971Man
46 weeks ago

Midlands

Not for me, need to get to know the other person first

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By *aidForSharingWoman
46 weeks ago

Dudley

I'd drive them out with my snoring then I'd have the place to myself

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Life's for living

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
46 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'd love to try it. As long as my wife and they exchanged mobile numbers and real names. Then happy to meet a nice Fab new friend f any gender identity and see what happened. I'd want to know there was an attraction both ways...either sexually or in friendship terms. Do ask. Chris

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
46 weeks ago

Maidenhead now Travel lots Face-Pic-A-Must. Let's at least chat maybe a social if we Click

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
46 weeks ago

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No thanks…. Plus I don’t believe the promise that if we didn’t click they would be happy with nothing happening. Maybe true but I imagine they would try more than once of hope that I’d change my mind.

I enjoy hotel stays with people I know

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
46 weeks ago

Chichester

No. I get asked all time on here by guys to go on holiday all paid with them

I mean yes of course any sane person would visit a foreign country with random person no questions

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By *dible_KinkCouple
46 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Yes, that was our first meet. A weekend away together, that was 4 years ago and here we are

it was an incredibly hot weekend!

Polly

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By *ete vfrMan
46 weeks ago

Morley Leeds

sounds too good to be true, so its a NO from me.

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By *umalotagainMan
46 weeks ago

between OX26 & BH23

I am trying to work out if the OP has been invited on this adventure or if he is the one doing the inviting

Think it’s a hard no from me

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By *izandpaulCouple
46 weeks ago

merseyside

Absolutely not.

If anyone asked I'd just think they were a halfwit fantasist.

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By *rs_ReformedWoman
46 weeks ago

your hotlist

No never, id like to keep all my internal organs thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Nope. Too shy for all that.

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By *icknDeeCouple
46 weeks ago

hartlepool

Being honest, our fantasy is being with another totally anonymous couple - don't know their name, don't know what they look like before meeting etc...

Really gets us going, but never likely to happen.

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
5 weeks ago

Maidenhead now Travel lots Face-Pic-A-Must. Let's at least chat maybe a social if we Click

"Being honest, our fantasy is being with another totally anonymous couple - don't know their name, don't know what they look like before meeting etc...

Really gets us going, but never likely to happen.

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If the fantasy would stretch to a really nice older male , then lets action it.

Private message from this reply x

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By *he MinionMan
5 weeks ago

Surrey

Kinda..

I have been chatting to someone, not daily but they are a forum regular so beieve they are who they say. Hot pics on profile and after some chatting and some shockingly bad flirting on my behalf, i'm travelling 5hrs, hotel booked to meet them.

We will go for dinner, possibly and see what happens, if we click or not,who knows but i've not been to this part of the country before so worst case I came with nothing (expectations) but i've had a lovely day out. (said in the, best runner up game show voice).

And if they dont show, i'll find a club close ish by and go there. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
5 weeks ago

North West

That would be a no.

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By *naswingdressWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By *naswingdressWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Never. I wouldn't take that kind of leap of faith unless I knew them better than that.

Most people can eventually figure out a decent profile and put on a show for a short interview (think of all the idiots with jobs - it's essentially what they've done).

I especially wouldn't do it with someone who I know to repeatedly ask about this scenario, and repeatedly disparage people with misgivings.

On Fab in particular, "all expenses paid" smacks of offering payment for my consent, and even if it's just generosity, it's a blanket no from me.

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By *wcjw70Man
5 weeks ago

Great Barr

Never for a complete stranger, too risky

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
5 weeks ago

Maidenhead now Travel lots Face-Pic-A-Must. Let's at least chat maybe a social if we Click

"Kinda..

And if they dont show, i'll find a club close ish by and go there. Nothing ventured, nothing gained."

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Sounds good

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By *tormQueenWoman
5 weeks ago

All over the place

I did 😊 BUT (and this is why I risked it) while the person in question was new to me, people i knew well had known him a while amd vouched for him

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
5 weeks ago

Maidenhead now Travel lots Face-Pic-A-Must. Let's at least chat maybe a social if we Click

"Never. I wouldn't take that kind of leap of faith unless I knew them better than that.

Most people can eventually figure out a decent profile and put on a show for a short interview (think of all the idiots with jobs - it's essentially what they've done).

I especially wouldn't do it with someone who I know to repeatedly ask about this scenario, and repeatedly disparage people with misgivings.

On Fab in particular, "all expenses paid" smacks of offering payment for my consent, and even if it's just generosity, it's a blanket no from me."

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I get your points and you are more that entitled to them.

Fab is about fun and nice connections.

Think in me my past verification say the I'm happy-nice-kind-real-genuine-polite-reliable and I'm happy with that.

Enjoy fab and have a great summer.

NiceT x

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
5 weeks ago

Maidstone

I wouldn't want to spend 2 or 3 nights with someone I know let alone a stranger. It's a no from me

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By *parkle1974Woman
5 weeks ago

Leeds

No.....I'm not that desperate.

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
5 weeks ago

Maidenhead now Travel lots Face-Pic-A-Must. Let's at least chat maybe a social if we Click

"I did 😊 BUT (and this is why I risked it) while the person in question was new to me, people i knew well had known him a while amd vouched for him"

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Sounds good... hope it was fun to.

Did they also have great verifications

T x

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By *ackandsallyCouple
5 weeks ago

Ireland

Nope

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
5 weeks ago

Maidenhead now Travel lots Face-Pic-A-Must. Let's at least chat maybe a social if we Click

"I wouldn't want to spend 2 or 3 nights with someone I know let alone a stranger. It's a no from me

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And I'm sure lots agree

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
5 weeks ago

Niche

The only word in all of that that matters is 'stranger'.

I learned not to go off with complete strangers before I went to school.

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
5 weeks ago

Hatfield

No ….

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By *WB85Man
5 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Not a chance.

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
5 weeks ago

Maidenhead now Travel lots Face-Pic-A-Must. Let's at least chat maybe a social if we Click

"No.....I'm not that desperate."

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Im 100% sure your not and don't need to be.

It's more the thrill and wonderment that attracts people to do it.

Have fun

T x

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By *estinoMan
5 weeks ago

Southampton

Probably, say the right naughty things to me 👀

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By *igBeardyDanMan
5 weeks ago

Bilston

Stranger danger not even for a bag of sweets

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

Not a hope in hell.

They are using me for a club entry and expect me to be made up with a 'nice dinner'

I have eaten before

I'd probably meet a total stranger for a getaway BUT there'd be no picking me up or dropping me off.

There'd be no shared room

Sex is not a given ...

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By *Effy-Woman
5 weeks ago

Scotland

I could do with a break.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

ffs.... an old thread

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By *issy LanaTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Slough

Have done a good few hotel meetings in the past not so much nowadays, since prefer the club and sauna scene better.

Never had any issues with anyone of my meets, all been genuinely nice peeps and looked after me very well.

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By *PPROACHABLEMANMan
5 weeks ago

Wales

Depends on the vibe.... i mean i've done stupider things! 🙈

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
5 weeks ago

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"The only word in all of that that matters is 'stranger'.

I learned not to go off with complete strangers before I went to school."

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Interesting reply and thanx.

Agree, but never complete stranger.

Lots of chats 1st plus No exchanges and live video call and proof of book stay provided by asker.

And face picture exchanges.

But hey agree some would still not wish to.

But if it goes well its really nice.

Thanx T

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
5 weeks ago

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"Probably, say the right naughty things to me 👀 "

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
5 weeks ago

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"Not a hope in hell.

They are using me for a club entry and expect me to be made up with a 'nice dinner'

I have eaten before

I'd probably meet a total stranger for a getaway BUT there'd be no picking me up or dropping me off.

There'd be no shared room

Sex is not a given ...

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Interesting thoughts and reply

Thanx T.

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By *earditallWoman
5 weeks ago

Lancaster

No just incase in person you didn't click 3 days is a long time to spend with someone if its awkward

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
5 weeks ago

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"I could do with a break."

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Shame think I may be to old for you.

Or am I

A break is always really nice x

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
5 weeks ago

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"ffs.... an old thread "

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Re booted

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
5 weeks ago

Reading

Nope that sounds insane.

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By *actile TensionMan
5 weeks ago

Sussex

Id do it but I might be a gremlin for day 2 and 3 though

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By *naswingdressWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Never. I wouldn't take that kind of leap of faith unless I knew them better than that.

Most people can eventually figure out a decent profile and put on a show for a short interview (think of all the idiots with jobs - it's essentially what they've done).

I especially wouldn't do it with someone who I know to repeatedly ask about this scenario, and repeatedly disparage people with misgivings.

On Fab in particular, "all expenses paid" smacks of offering payment for my consent, and even if it's just generosity, it's a blanket no from me.

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I get your points and you are more that entitled to them.

Fab is about fun and nice connections.

Think in me my past verification say the I'm happy-nice-kind-real-genuine-polite-reliable and I'm happy with that.

Enjoy fab and have a great summer.

NiceT x"

Yup, and bad actors use fun and connections all the time to manipulate and hurt people.

As others have said, the scenario you seem to be proposing is the kind we warn preschoolers about. Stranger danger and all of that.

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
5 weeks ago

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"Have done a good few hotel meetings in the past not so much nowadays, since prefer the club and sauna scene better.

Never had any issues with anyone of my meets, all been genuinely nice peeps and looked after me very well.

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Thats so nice to here.

Same here done many, but I am extremely careful I assume like you, who i message and link up with.

And impo 90% of fabbers are probably really nice people if we are all really careful.

The Ones to 100% avoid are, you ask a question and.

They Dont answer it.

Reply with nothing similar to the question.

I dont share a face pic because I thought this was blind date

No shown verifications

This is only impo of course

T x

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By *avexxMan
5 weeks ago

cheshire

you dont want to do this.. ive seen the movie

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I did a weekend with someone on first meeting once.

Although I drove myself there so I had the option of skedaddling.

Was risky? Yes

Was it stupid? Probably

Did we have a fantastic time? Yes

There’s a very high chance that I’m a little impulsive and stupid. 🤣🤣

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I could do with a break."

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I would avoid Paphos Polis, at least until 7th June 2026, 1.30pm.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
5 weeks ago

London

Too risky. Nope.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

"I did a weekend with someone on first meeting once.

Although I drove myself there so I had the option of skedaddling.

Was risky? Yes

Was it stupid? Probably

Did we have a fantastic time? Yes

There’s a very high chance that I’m a little impulsive and stupid. 🤣🤣"

Not stupid no. I've done hotel meets and im sure others have.

If anyone intended harm they don't need a weekend to do it in.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Nope, not in this for a relationship, got one. And a long weekend is a lot of time not fucking, might not see eye to eye on lots of things out of bed.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
5 weeks ago

hexham

No!

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By *eliWoman
5 weeks ago

No.

I don't want to go to a swinger's club the first time I meet someone, if ever. They're not for me for the most part. I'd rather scour my vagina than have sex in one.

I also don't want a person to pay for everything.

And I'd rather have been talking to someone and then that scenario comes about over it being planned and they're trying to fill a hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Sure. I like a little adventure.

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By *onin25Man
5 weeks ago

Durham

Nope, partly because I think it could be incredibly awkward if you've never met and then don't get on, partly because they could be a psycho, partly because I like to pay my own way

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By *rs.MinxWoman
5 weeks ago

somewhere nearby

Sooo many years ago I did do a first meet rather ill judged (I mean as it turned out it was great and we remain friends), in the middle of nowhere, and no phone reception and no.. I hadnt told anyone where I was going for the weekend....

We had talked quite a bit before hand and yes It was a rather risky thing to do.. But I did it... would I do it again, propbaly not!

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By *oeBeansMan
5 weeks ago

Derby

"Sooo many years ago I did do a first meet rather ill judged (I mean as it turned out it was great and we remain friends), in the middle of nowhere, and no phone reception and no.. I hadnt told anyone where I was going for the weekend....

We had talked quite a bit before hand and yes It was a rather risky thing to do.. But I did it... would I do it again, propbaly not! "

That first half could've been the start of a Criminal Minds episode 🫣

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By *rs.MinxWoman
5 weeks ago

somewhere nearby

We had talked quite a bit before hand and yes It was a rather risky thing to do.. But I did it... would I do it again, propbaly not!

That first half could've been the start of a Criminal Minds episode 🫣"

I know.. i mean would i advise all my firneds against this especillay given my work hell yes... but a bell tent in the middle of nowhere sounded idyllic...and yes I guess a little risky! Would I be all grown up and say I wouldnt ever do it again....

Criminal Minds.. theres a good series!

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

If they have a sinister ulterior motive you could talk to them for months, have a social and they still wouldnt show their true colours until you are alone.

I'd just make sure to tell someone where I was going so they could find my remains.

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By *aitonelMan
5 weeks ago

Liverpool

"If they have a sinister ulterior motive you could talk to them for months, have a social and they still wouldnt show their true colours until you are alone.

I'd just make sure to tell someone where I was going so they could find my remains. "

👆

The stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"If they have a sinister ulterior motive you could talk to them for months, have a social and they still wouldnt show their true colours until you are alone.

I'd just make sure to tell someone where I was going so they could find my remains.

👆

The stranger"

Wanna a weekend away Kai? 😉

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By *aitonelMan
5 weeks ago

Liverpool

"If they have a sinister ulterior motive you could talk to them for months, have a social and they still wouldnt show their true colours until you are alone.

I'd just make sure to tell someone where I was going so they could find my remains.

👆

The stranger

Wanna a weekend away Kai? 😉"

Yeah go on, I'm sure I'll be safe with you

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By *rs.MinxWoman
5 weeks ago

somewhere nearby

"If they have a sinister ulterior motive you could talk to them for months, have a social and they still wouldnt show their true colours until you are alone.

I'd just make sure to tell someone where I was going so they could find my remains. "

100% true! you never really know do you?!

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
3 weeks ago

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
3 weeks ago

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"I could do with a break.

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I would avoid Paphos Polis, at least until 7th June 2026, 1.30pm."

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There is always one silly little boy.

And you win the prize

Well done.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
3 weeks ago

Home

Not a hope

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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3 weeks ago

Central

I'd almost certainly not share 1 night with a stranger in my home town

I'm extremely careful on who I spend my time with

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By *111Woman
3 weeks ago

I wouldn’t

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

"I could do with a break.

•

I would avoid Paphos Polis, at least until 7th June 2026, 1.30pm.

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There is always one silly little boy.

And you win the prize

Well done."

🤣🤣🤣🤣 It's funny that you called Nero a boy he's 50

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By *lexxisbabyWoman
3 weeks ago

Farnham

This is how you end up on a true crime podcast

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
3 weeks ago

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"I could do with a break.

•

I would avoid Paphos Polis, at least until 7th June 2026, 1.30pm.

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No idea tbh

Dont peek at peps profiles normally.

But im older so could still be classed as boy

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There is always one silly little boy.

And you win the prize

Well done.

🤣🤣🤣🤣 It's funny that you called Nero a boy he's 50 "

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Oh I think o.p blocked me. Or he's deleted his account. ? Either way I can't view his profile.

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By *igT-SharedShowerSoNice OP Man
3 weeks ago

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"This is how you end up on a true crime podcast "

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Or a superstar in a hit movie 🎬 👍

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By *agicm696Man
3 weeks ago

High Wycombe

Yeah I would

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By *eximus MaximusMan
3 weeks ago

Up North

If she’s got big tits then count me in

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By *flirtMan
3 weeks ago

woodcote

If they had booked an experience I would enjoy as well as the club, with the understanding that sex is not guaranteed, then yes.. I believe a shared experience would ignite a friendship if not more..

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

"This is how you end up on a true crime podcast

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Or a superstar in a hit movie 🎬 👍"

Nope not deleted his account. How come I'm blocked o.p?

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I could do with a break.

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I would avoid Paphos Polis, at least until 7th June 2026, 1.30pm.

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There is always one silly little boy.

And you win the prize

Well done.

🤣🤣🤣🤣 It's funny that you called Nero a boy he's 50 "

These silly little attempts to be condescending are hilarious when they backfire.

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Who's being condescending?

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Who's being condescending? "

The OP.

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Lol so why have you blocked me. This thread has become very confusing

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By *weetButNaughty95Couple
3 weeks ago

Cannock

Not a chance either of us would consider this.

Time is precious, much rather spend it with someone I want. Also, why would anyone trust a stranger like that.

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

For what it's worth Nero I don't think your a silly little boy. As I killed the thread I'll end it with that. 👍

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Wait a minute I've got this thread all to myself.....hmmmm....what time did with it. Seems most people are either fucking it asleep.

Echo....echo....echo......

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

I say all to myself, it's actually me and the cat 😺

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Meow..... meow.....meow.....

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Can I fill it up, that's the question......but can you fill it up without looking crazy.......hmmm..... probably not

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Do I care if I look crazy ......... Probably not.........

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

All the leaves are brown and the sky is grey

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

All the leaves are brown

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

I've been fir a walk ona winters day

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

And the sky is grey

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

California dreaming

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

I've been for a walk

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

California dreaming on such a winters day

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

And the sky is grey

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Typing in a round (not even shakespeare did this )

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Hey what's wrong with you, your looking kinda down to me. Things ain't getting over

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Who said that?

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Yeah the crazy really creeping in now

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

I can't believe this thread was started 43 weeks ago

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

God my profiles look so different back then

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Is this a banable offence?

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Will admin refer me to the shrink thread ......is there a shrink thread ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

🤔

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