FabSwingers.com forum: Meets

By *adbod74 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Dudley

What am doing wrong...I've been here a while now had 4 meets, no mater how I approach them I get ignored blocked or just a no.....

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By *adame BootsTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Tetbury

Whilst I sympathise with your profile wording, its not sexy.

It may help to try ticking some people's boxes with what you are looking for.

My life isn't much different to yours but I dont mention it here.

Just my thoughts. Xx

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Soho

You've presented yourself as "straight" but the verification you've chosen to display is from a man who's complimenting your "fat cock".

I'm confused, I'm sure your target audience are too, whoever they are.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
3 weeks ago

Ends

Better to have no meets than to be binned off by every person you chat to

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By *ou only live onceMan
3 weeks ago

London

Can you not just go back to doing whatever you were doing to get the 4 meets?

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
3 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"Whilst I sympathise with your profile wording, its not sexy.

It may help to try ticking some people's boxes with what you are looking for.

My life isn't much different to yours but I dont mention it here.

Just my thoughts. Xx "

My profile isn't sexy either but I'm a woman so I guess I get away with more?

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
3 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"What am doing wrong...I've been here a while now had 4 meets, no mater how I approach them I get ignored blocked or just a no....."

As a woman, you are too far away. As a woman prioritising safety, I need to see more of your verifications. As a mental health peer you sound depressed.

Saying sex is whatever it is...doesn't instill anyone with the joy of the idea of putting their body next to your body.

Women want to be your intimate companion or partner..not your sexual psychotherapist.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
3 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

I’ve been here over 7yrs & only had 4meets 🤷🏽‍♂️

4 & a half technically.

Took me over a year just to get the first one

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By *aomilatteCouple
3 weeks ago

Midlands

You could show more of you in your pics. The hair clips in your pic suggest you've got long hair, you could show it off.

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By *iss DevilWoman
3 weeks ago

Bedford

"You've presented yourself as "straight" but the verification you've chosen to display is from a man who's complimenting your "fat cock".

I'm confused, I'm sure your target audience are too, whoever they are."

I was just going to write something very similar. Even your photos, OP, seem to be set up to appeal to men rather than women (even if unintentionally).

I would definitely work on that bio.

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By *r TriomanMan
3 weeks ago

Malmesbury

4 meets? Show off! 👅

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
3 weeks ago

Basingstoke

OP, your bio comes across as very negative. In my experience, people want a fun experience when they meet, and - based on other similar forum threads - it's generally accepted that women will view the profile before they even open a message.

As your profile is your shop window to entice people in to learn more about you, look critically at your profile - if you saw a similar female profile with uninteresting pictures and negative bio, would you want to engage with that individual?

Without a decent shop window, it really doesn't matter what your opening messages say.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

People will only engage with those who they think might be right for them. When not, the chat ends, including with blocks.

You have to sell what you're giving a partner and stand out from the rest. Best to get to clubs and socials, to meet away from a screen

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
3 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"OP, your bio comes across as very negative. In my experience, people want a fun experience when they meet, and - based on other similar forum threads - it's generally accepted that women will view the profile before they even open a message.

Without a decent shop window, it really doesn't matter what your opening messages say."

Ooops I'm supposed to entice people?! I think I was trying to put them off. Lol!

Oh well I'm always doing opposite things.

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By *nthony50069Man
3 weeks ago

Chadderton’ Greater Manchester

I’m looking for a professional person if you know what I mean

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