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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it a fair assumption to make that frenship/relationship wise, if someone never asks you about yourself (what you like, what you think etc)then they have no real interest in you as a person?

Opinions please

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they are into NSA sex

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

That's probably true, assuming they can get a word in of course.

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By *affy72Woman
over a year ago

Herefordshire

I would say that's a pretty fair assumption, if it happens every time a conversation occurs with that person.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

May be they just want to find out in other ways than outright asking... or just allowing you to share what you feel comfortable telling them.

It is no more absolute that those who don't ask are not interested, than those who do ask are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"they are into NSA sex "

damn, im on the wrong site lol

what about away from here, in normal life....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't ask people about themselves, I wait for them to tell me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could be interested in you as a person, but have more interest in themselves. Or maybe, it is what they believe others want to hear. Either way, It's fookin annoying to have conversations with 'self-involved' people all the time.

Play mind games and everytime you talk to them, make it a question about who they are, what they enjoy, what they dislike, where they have been, where they are going etc etc.... If they still answer you after a while; ditch them lol

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If I express my opinion on something or tell someone something about myself, I don't expect to need to say "what about you?". I would expect them to be able to contribute to a conversation by expressing their opinion or sharing something about themselves without waiting to be asked..... if they wished to share at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I express my opinion on something or tell someone something about myself, I don't expect to need to say "what about you?". I would expect them to be able to contribute to a conversation by expressing their opinion or sharing something about themselves without waiting to be asked..... if they wished to share at all."

Very true. However, maybe there are other factors that play their part in not contributing like you mention. If there were, then you also have to try and tease the conversation out a lil. Otherwise, it could be considered cold. Bottom line to the OP is that there are possibly 1000's of reasons why someone might not seem interested in you. It's your job to go through a process of elimination to find that cause. Peace out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yep, you are right truro, lots possibilities - its been interesting though reading thoughts from other perspectives - one thing I love about the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a fair assumption to make that frenship/relationship wise, if someone never asks you about yourself (what you like, what you think etc)then they have no real interest in you as a person?

Opinions please "

sounds a fair assumption to me, but then if they have no interest in your they arnt really friends, more just people we know?

I only ask about people I like and care about, if I have no interest in someone I would say hello if I saw them but wouldn't ask how they was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely 'quiz' people because I don't like to be quizzed. If I'm genuinely interested in someone then I'm interested in their future and not necessarily their past. I'm interested in finding out what they like as we move forward through experience and what they choose to tell me.

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