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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

wt to do i love being domed by mistreses and one is amazing but she had me were here underwere witch has a but plug in it for a wek and it was so painfull just duno is this too far?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wt to do i love being domed by mistreses and one is amazing but she had me were here underwere witch has a but plug in it for a wek and it was so painfull just duno is this too far?"

If you didn't enjoy it yes... talk to your Mistress and tell her your likes and wants. If she is a good Mistress she will listen and adhere to your want and needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only you know your limits and what's pushing things to far for you

Im not into the sub/dom thing but I thought it was supposed to be about mutual pleasure not the sub being forced to do what they don't want to?

Have you told her how much pain you was in or did you just put up with it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes but she smiled it was not the pain but the fact i sat there and had dinner with familly dident think about it till i was there and just dident feel right was fin when in public or work but duno :/

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By *cEvil and BlueangelCouple
over a year ago

Co Durham

If your Mistress/Domme told you to do it then you do it...if you serious about the D/s thing that is.

Or you set it as a hard limit before hand

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Believe it or not you can say no to anything you don't like. If you've lost that capacity nothing a bunch of total strangers says will make a blind bit of notice will it?!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


" if you serious about the D/s thing that is. "

Indeed!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I swear this site should employ counsellors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but its never been my thing and find the fact that you had dinner with family etc a tad disturbing , dom/sub play is one thing but for me thats a bit weird ??

Set your limits beforehand. Just my 5 pence worth.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I swear this site should employ counsellors "

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside


"I swear this site should employ counsellors "

And translator's. Took me three reads of opening post to understand it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your Mistress/Domme told you to do it then you do it...if you serious about the D/s thing that is. "

Seriously?!


"Or you set it as a hard limit before hand"

OP if you don't like it, tell her. Or don't do it but tell her you did!

If she's telling you to do things that you actually don't like then she's a pretty crap mistress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't you just have a safe word when things go too far??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your Mistress/Domme told you to do it then you do it...if you serious about the D/s thing that is.

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surely that's just a invite to abuse and bullying? that's why I don't like the sub/dom thing I think some doms take things to far and think because your their sub you have to obay, surely even as a sub you have the rights to not do things your not happy with?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes but it was good till i was about to arrive at perants house and dident wana go comando it was cold !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I swear this site should employ counsellors

And translator's. Took me three reads of opening post to understand it "

Glad it wasn't just me then, thought I was being a bit thick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I swear this site should employ counsellors

And translator's. Took me three reads of opening post to understand it

Glad it wasn't just me then, thought I was being a bit thick "

posted on phone and auto corect hellped make it worse

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By *atcherofmyballsMan
over a year ago

hereford


"If your Mistress/Domme told you to do it then you do it...if you serious about the D/s thing that is.

Seriously?!

Or you set it as a hard limit before hand

OP if you don't like it, tell her. Or don't do it but tell her you did!

If she's telling you to do things that you actually don't like then she's a pretty crap mistress. "

Agreed

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