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By *eonknife OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

skegness

i had a previous account where i had managed to get verified by a few ppl by meets. and from a couple of these meets we co-created some beautiful xxx content. but now im no longer in touch with my co-stars. i delete the videos and pictures, but do other people do too? this is also a casting call, read my profile (but read it well pls) and if you can be a potential match then lmk

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By *oeBeansMan
3 weeks ago

Derby

I've not really been one for taking videos or photos on meets but I think deleting them off here if they leave the site is the respectful thing to do so fair play for doing that as I'm sure others don't do the same!

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By *eonknife OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

skegness


"I've not really been one for taking videos or photos on meets but I think deleting them off here if they leave the site is the respectful thing to do so fair play for doing that as I'm sure others don't do the same!"

it was mainly my face on their body parts so theoretically and within a grey moral area of "they've consented before and they're practically anonymous" i could have kept them, maybe? but it was painful to look back so that's why they were binned.

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By *netobeextraMan
3 weeks ago

location varies

I agree. Best to check whether your “co stars” are happy for you to keep the content but also use it on fab.

Some of my “co stars” are happy for cropped content to be kept and used where faces, tattoos, or any other recognisable features are kept out of the final edit.

Some are not happy with content ending up on fab but have no concerns with the content being kept for my own enjoyment.

I don’t record, I let the “co stars” record on their own device and share with me what they’re happy to share with me after they’ve edited.

Telegram is great. If the “co star” has shared something with you and then wishes to delete the file, they can easily do so. The challenge will be it’s not recoverable from the other device if downloaded.

For me, most important element is the communication of consent. Never assume it’s acceptable, always check. Especially if they leave the site, check they’re still consenting and do the right thing if they are not.

A long time ago when I first joined fab, I had a few great meets but eventually I left fab and deleted my profile. I returned to fab a few years later and was sent a very old video of myself on a messenger app by a user claiming the content as their own. Be careful who you make content with because sometimes people do share it with other people without your permission, not everyone is respectful.

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By *oeBeansMan
3 weeks ago

Derby


"I've not really been one for taking videos or photos on meets but I think deleting them off here if they leave the site is the respectful thing to do so fair play for doing that as I'm sure others don't do the same!

it was mainly my face on their body parts so theoretically and within a grey moral area of "they've consented before and they're practically anonymous" i could have kept them, maybe? but it was painful to look back so that's why they were binned. "

That's a totally valid reason too! Much better to delete them than wank over them because it reminds you of the better times

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
3 weeks ago

Morioh-Cho, Stourbridge

If any of the people in the pics or vids left the site it wouldn't feel right to have them on the profile. We wouldn't feel right having them in private and would more likely than not bin them.

It's about respect and consent. As our profile says all other people have consented and can be contacted if people want to double check.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
3 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

Well, I don’t need an agent to know what my motivation is.

I delete stuff from previous accounts, change names and start a new.

I only ever took photos of people that really meant a lot to me, and keep those of I’m still talking to them elsewhere too. 💯

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By *eliWoman
3 weeks ago

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If I wasn't in touch I'd delete them. Also if things changed.

I don’t do photos often - it takes quite a lot of trust doesn't it? The amount of times I've said no when a phone pops up. :D It would feel weird to hold on to things.

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