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By (user no longer on site) OP   
4 weeks ago

Being an absolute dick on here, like you read stuff and no I have to respond or oh they clearly think they are a nine when really a six would be fair ( I’m a four by the way so no malice) but wow put the phone down and do something productive

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

No not really, if I felt that way I’d put the phone down and do something positive

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Central

I treat people with respect or don't engage

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By *ittlebirdWoman
4 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Being an absolute dick on here, like you read stuff and no I have to respond or oh they clearly think they are a nine when really a six would be fair ( I’m a four by the way so no malice) but wow put the phone down and do something productive "

No 👍🏻

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

Why do you feel compelled to 'rate' people. Its weird.

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By *es not the MessiahMan
4 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

I prefer being a dick

I get left alone then

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By *olo180Man
4 weeks ago

Greater London


"I prefer being a dick

I get left alone then"

Doesn’t that defeat the purpose of being in here?

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By *sWyldWoman
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Not exactly but I'd be lying if I said there wasn't sometimes temptation to reply to a message with the first thoughts that enter my mind. 🤣

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By *eonknifeWoman
4 weeks ago

skegness

i did that and got a 48hr ban.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
4 weeks ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I have read some horrific profiles on here over time, self entitled bollocks (from mostly women sadly) who think they are truly something special - I can't imagine who even wants to meet walking egos like that 😱

I hope they are happy up there on their high horses 😂

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
4 weeks ago

Maidstone


"I have read some horrific profiles on here over time, self entitled bollocks (from mostly women sadly) who think they are truly something special - I can't imagine who even wants to meet walking egos like that 😱

I hope they are happy up there on their high horses 😂"

It's OK up here once you get used to the vertigo.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
4 weeks ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I have read some horrific profiles on here over time, self entitled bollocks (from mostly women sadly) who think they are truly something special - I can't imagine who even wants to meet walking egos like that 😱

I hope they are happy up there on their high horses 😂

It's OK up here once you get used to the vertigo. "

😂🤣. Yours made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
4 weeks ago


"Why do you feel compelled to 'rate' people. Its weird. "

It’s not ‘weird’ these people male and females are ‘rating’ themselves by their messaging and general demeanour, I couldn’t care less what they look like, a deeper connection requires people to go beyond what you can see, yes there has to be an attraction but I’ve met some stunning people and they aren’t necessarily perfect on the outside

I’m aware a 0-10 ‘rating would appear a little crass, I’m also aware I need to care less about how people respond to me, it might not be a ‘me’ problem after all

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).


"Why do you feel compelled to 'rate' people. Its weird.

It’s not ‘weird’ these people male and females are ‘rating’ themselves by their messaging and general demeanour, I couldn’t care less what they look like, a deeper connection requires people to go beyond what you can see, yes there has to be an attraction but I’ve met some stunning people and they aren’t necessarily perfect on the outside

I’m aware a 0-10 ‘rating would appear a little crass, I’m also aware I need to care less about how people respond to me, it might not be a ‘me’ problem after all "

You don't have to like them, and they don't have to care.

Why waste energy on people you dislike?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
4 weeks ago


"Why do you feel compelled to 'rate' people. Its weird.

It’s not ‘weird’ these people male and females are ‘rating’ themselves by their messaging and general demeanour, I couldn’t care less what they look like, a deeper connection requires people to go beyond what you can see, yes there has to be an attraction but I’ve met some stunning people and they aren’t necessarily perfect on the outside

I’m aware a 0-10 ‘rating would appear a little crass, I’m also aware I need to care less about how people respond to me, it might not be a ‘me’ problem after all

You don't have to like them, and they don't have to care.

Why waste energy on people you dislike? "

Duly noted

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By *ife NinjaMan
4 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Don't take this place seriously. Sex is supposed to be fun, plus why piss someone off you're probably never going to meet 🤓

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
4 weeks ago


"Don't take this place seriously. Sex is supposed to be fun, plus why piss someone off you're probably never going to meet 🤓"

Which is exactly what I do, the post is about the frustration of dealing with certain people, not actually carrying out anything malicious or hurtful, just annoyance , fab never used to be like this it used to be fun, maybe I need a break

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By *arlo56Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

I just bite my tongue and scroll on.

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By *atty CoramWoman
4 weeks ago

Wimbledon


"Don't take this place seriously. Sex is supposed to be fun, plus why piss someone off you're probably never going to meet 🤓

Which is exactly what I do, the post is about the frustration of dealing with certain people, not actually carrying out anything malicious or hurtful, just annoyance , fab never used to be like this it used to be fun, maybe I need a break "

Are you compelled to *deal* with them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
4 weeks ago


"Don't take this place seriously. Sex is supposed to be fun, plus why piss someone off you're probably never going to meet 🤓

Which is exactly what I do, the post is about the frustration of dealing with certain people, not actually carrying out anything malicious or hurtful, just annoyance , fab never used to be like this it used to be fun, maybe I need a break

Are you compelled to *deal* with them?

"

I mostly do the above ‘bite my tongue’ but every now and again I’m incredulous about how they appear to think, normally when this has happened before I’ve took a break for a few weeks, when you say ‘deal’ with them, I am interacting with them repeatedly, back and forth, I guess the more you talk to someone the more they reveal, there’s certain things we all won’t stand for

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Soho

OP, when I really want to be a dick I just send crass and smut to LíttlèBírd on Telegram.

It's quite rejuvenating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
4 weeks ago


"OP, when I really want to be a dick I just send crass and smut to LíttlèBírd on Telegram.

It's quite rejuvenating."

This, this is what’s needed, someone I can send memes to, the joys

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By *issmorganWoman
4 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

No,

Also if I didn't think someone was very attractive, I wouldn't be messaging them either op.

Take a break if people /the site are making you frustrated, before you say or do something you'd regret.

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By *he OpalsnakeMan
4 weeks ago

Thirsk

Look 9 times out of 10 if I'm frustrated on here it's because I've seen something horrendous in my work, then I come here and see yet another "what about me/rate my dick" thread and think is this all we are as people?

I stand on calling out bullshit but I know I do it too much sometimes, and I have done it here. Honesty is great but subtlety is better, and rating people on any level is just wrong. Everyone is a 10 to someone and its fuck all to do with pictures I guarantee.

Read

Scroll

Relax

I tell myself this daily but I know it can be taxing. If in doubt step away, this isn't the be all and end all. It's just a forum and not everyone has to agree. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
4 weeks ago

Niche

If I find myself typing out anything negative I just cancel out of the post. I use fab for relaxing and having the craic and flirts with people. Not to hate or get pissed off.

The only thing I would post comment on is if I see something meant to do harm or instigate hate on here. There are threads started that are divisive and unhelpful.

I think there are times as human beings that it's important to call people out. Not in an aggressive way. Conversationally. Carefully. Measured.

Just like when someone tries to cut a person down as the butt of a racist or sexist joke and you calmly ask them to explain it to you. People sometimes need a mirror held up. Even if it's 'just online'.

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By *a LunaWoman
4 weeks ago

o o OO o o

Sometimes I read stuff on the forums and it’s like everyone is trying to out do each other on how many orgasms they have, how horny they are etc.

It does make my eyes roll.

But otherwise, no.

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By *ellinever70Woman
4 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"Sometimes I read stuff on the forums and it’s like everyone is trying to out do each other on how many orgasms they have, how horny they are etc.

It does make my eyes roll.

Fab sex top trumps

But otherwise, no. "

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