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By *ustincamebridge OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

manchester

We are now into our fourth year on Fab. We have met some lovely people and had some fun.

Our lifestyle journey started over twenty years ago at a party in Oldham. We have a few events booked over the next few months but for us there is a lull in the excitement.

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By *ellinever70Woman
4 weeks ago

Ayrshire

When the fun stops, stop

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By *allySlinkyWoman
4 weeks ago

Leeds

Maybe see how the events you have booked go before you call it a day.

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By *bi HaiveMan
4 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

If you feel the need for a break.....take a break. 🤷‍♂️

You can either hide your profile or just not log in. It'll still be here if/when you want to come back.

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By *ant...stay...awayCouple
4 weeks ago

South Wales

Temporarily shut the profile down. Step away for three months and come back recharged. Helped us massively. Good luck OP x

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By *andadbodMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool


"When the fun stops, stop"

this is why my wife stopped, just got too much for her in the end, overwhelmed with messages and stressing not to offend anyone with rejections.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
4 weeks ago

Leeds


"When the fun stops, stop

this is why my wife stopped, just got too much for her in the end, overwhelmed with messages and stressing not to offend anyone with rejections."

Are you still with her ?

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By *andadbodMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool


"When the fun stops, stop

this is why my wife stopped, just got too much for her in the end, overwhelmed with messages and stressing not to offend anyone with rejections.

Are you still with her ?"

yeah, she’s just given up with the site, she still meets one regular guy but that’s all.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

If you are asking the question than probably at least a break is needed. Trust your vibstincrs.

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By *rHotNottsMan
4 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I wonder this occasionally but then you meet certain people and the adventures start all over again in a totally new direction.

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By *issmorganWoman
4 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

If you feel you're ready to quit, then that's for you to decide op.. Hiding your profile for a bit may help.

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By * Jason -Man
4 weeks ago

Hounslow

If she is still meeting a regular guy then maybe she is just fed up of the hassle it takes to meet someone decent, reliable, and pushes her buttons.

It can be a lot of effort on here for a potential last minute let down or lacklustre meet

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By *ustincamebridge OP   Couple
4 weeks ago

manchester

Thanks for some helpful posts. We will be attending the events we have already committed to.

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By *offysmangoMan
4 weeks ago

Colchester

Yes

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By *layfullsamMan
4 weeks ago

Solihull


"We are now into our fourth year on Fab. We have met some lovely people and had some fun.

Our lifestyle journey started over twenty years ago at a party in Oldham. We have a few events booked over the next few months but for us there is a lull in the excitement. "

Take a break, return, and if you still feel the same take a longer break

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By *hat.coupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Kent

We notice that things slow down sometimes. Take advantage of the lull and maybe take a break for a while. This time of year tends to be quieter we've found. We find its feast or famine with us, we either have loads of meets or none at all. As we only play with Bi women it's a lot of planning and hard work to arrange meets most of the time, we find that after chatting to a few ladies for a while it seems that we end up planning meets with them quite close together. That's why I think it's feast or famine for us most of the time.

Whatever you decide to do I'm sure you have made lots of naughty memories to last you a lifetime x

Mrs x

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
4 weeks ago

In fair Verona.


"This time of year tends to be quieter we've found. We find its feast or famine with us, we either have loads of meets or none at all."

Yes this ^.

I often turn up with my knife and fork ready to eat to find the buffet table completely bare 😅

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By *anky_PankyWoman
4 weeks ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"We are now into our fourth year on Fab. We have met some lovely people and had some fun.

Our lifestyle journey started over twenty years ago at a party in Oldham. We have a few events booked over the next few months but for us there is a lull in the excitement. "

Try different events / clubs so it's different people and scenery - can make a huge difference

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By *ove2Couple
4 weeks ago

colchester

Certainly would recommend visiting different clubs. We have made some great friends over the years and that's is far as it goes. Sometimes it's about exploring and trying different things.

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By *r Man45Man
4 weeks ago

North West

The reason we're all here is for fun, once that ends then what's the point. Maybe take a step back for a month or two and then revaluate.

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