FabSwingers.com forum: Telling Fibs About Your Age

By *rectic OP Woman
1 week ago

taunton

I get it, to a degree, if people are trying to bypass the filters but do the guys who pretend they’re 10 -20 years younger than they are actually think we haven’t noticed?

It’s an instant ignore from me.

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By *exy RexyMan
1 week ago

Up North

It you count the rings on his foreskin then you’ll know his true age.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
1 week ago

little house on the praire

I actually find more women lie and then you see them in a club and think ffs that was some good.lighting on your profile

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By *issmorganWoman
1 week ago

Calderdale innit

I've said this on other posts, but There's a bloke on my updates who leaves and returns. He's always lost a few years, so he's either magic, or a big fibber.

I hate lies of any sort and if so_eone lies to bypass my filter, it's a delete.

I think they hope once they've got a meet, people won't say anything about the age discrepancy.

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By *eardedguy83Man
1 week ago

Worcestershire

Cant see the point. I’m nearly 64…it’s only a number

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By *orphia2003Woman
1 week ago

Tonypandy.

I got messaged by so_eone who was 20, but had 40 on profile as he was into older women.

When I asked what he hoped to achieve with such a blatant lie, he threw a tantrum worthy of a toddler

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By *hickthighs25Woman
1 week ago

Stockton

"Cant see the point. I’m nearly 64…it’s only a number

Your only as old as the woman you feel ... so if if shes 86 like the guy on the other thread its probs not working in your favour 🤷‍♀️

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
1 week ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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1 week ago

East Sussex

I laugh quietly to myself when they accidentally out themselves in the forum. Or the guy we met who was busily telling us about his first lads holiday. If his claimed age was correct he'd have been living it up in Ibiza aged 8

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By *ikerdevil2025Man
1 week ago

Surrey

My grey hair gives it away

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By *raig05Man
1 week ago

london

"I get it, to a degree, if people are trying to bypass the filters but do the guys who pretend they’re 10 -20 years younger than they are actually think we haven’t noticed?

It’s an instant ignore from me. "

What about pretending to be older but younger x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
1 week ago

Carlisle usually

I don't mind if so_eone is a year or two out because they don't want to put their actual date of birth on here. But when it comes down to deliberate deception regarding preferences or avoiding filters then they can go in the bin 💜

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By *ornyOlder1000Man
1 week ago

Bury

Knocking 10 years off my age wouldn't do me any good I suspect.

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By *peedyGMan
1 week ago

Telford

I hate lies of any sort... so i personally wouldn't do it myself.

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By *rectic OP Woman
1 week ago

taunton

"I get it, to a degree, if people are trying to bypass the filters but do the guys who pretend they’re 10 -20 years younger than they are actually think we haven’t noticed?

It’s an instant ignore from me.

What about pretending to be older but younger x"

I’ve seen a fair bit of this too. But I’m in the weird bracket where it’s mostly 26 year olds with an older woman fantasy or 60 + year olds who wants a younger woman. I’m pretty sure most guys my age want 20 year olds or men haha

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By *en ItaliaWoman
1 week ago

your lap

I’ve seen it where they write on their profile that their age is wrong but cannot alter it allegedly. I thought it could be changed once if you got it wrong. Some are definitely way out or they are Peter Pan.

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By *eardedguy83Man
1 week ago

Worcestershire

"Cant see the point. I’m nearly 64…it’s only a number

Your only as old as the woman you feel ... so if if shes 86 like the guy on the other thread its probs not working in your favour 🤷‍♀️"

Indeed

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By *eliWoman
1 week ago

I understand why people do it - they don't want to be filtered out. Or so_eone once upon a time said they look younger than their age and they blindly cling on to that with the conviction of those in eternal denial.

I don't agree with it.

It's also kind of sad they think they need to.

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By *Silver-Man
1 week ago

North Wales

I would never never never ever lie about my age, honestly honest😁😉

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By *WANDTGCouple
1 week ago

Borough of Greenwich

We have no one under 36 as our preference, we've had a few youngsters claiming to be 36 and over just to meet the requirement, alas they still wasn't bi or part of a couple

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
1 week ago

little house on the praire

I'd sooner be the age I am and people say I look good or knock ten years off and people think I look hagged

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By *es not the MessiahMan
1 week ago

3rd rock from the sun

I'm as old as you think I am

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

Yeah the lines on my face give me away 🤣 and the fact I like 80s music and films..

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By *aomilatteCouple
1 week ago

Midlands

Like the hosts of the under 40s night? When they became 40 they simply started a new profile and were 30 again

Or the Lady who held a 60th Birthday party and her profile said 40

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By *eonMan
1 week ago

The wallled town

I really don’t see the point of it. You just look silly when you meet them/they find out.

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By *hGlobbitsMan
1 week ago

Leeds

I don't see the point. It becomes pretty obvious by the time you're face to face, so why make a liar of yourself?

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By *cLovin2Man
1 week ago

London

As a straight bloke, I don't see many mens profiles, only women and couples.

Some of the women ones are totally absurd, they claim to be 38, but they look at least 60 if not more 🤷🏽‍♂️

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By *cLovin2Man
1 week ago

London

"I get it, to a degree, if people are trying to bypass the filters but do the guys who pretend they’re 10 -20 years younger than they are actually think we haven’t noticed?

It’s an instant ignore from me.

What about pretending to be older but younger x

I'm around your age, not into 20 year olds they're just kids. I generally aim for 30 something and above. Besides experience is important, I was a virgin till my mid 20s.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
1 week ago

little house on the praire

I used to see a guy, I never had sex with him but he worked where I lived so used to pop in and see me on his dinner hour anyway for whatever reason he left.

6 months later I get a message from so_eone, I had no idea who it was. It was him, 10 years younger and different photos. Well I dont know who the hell he thought hed meet

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By *ucka39Man
1 week ago

Newcastle

I look miles younger than me age so it's a win win 🤣😂

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By *aloma PicassoWoman
1 week ago

Waterford city

Its an incredible turn off when a guy has to lie about his age.

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By *olo180Man
1 week ago

Greater London

"Cant see the point. I’m nearly 64…it’s only a number

Your only as old as the woman you feel ... so if if shes 86 like the guy on the other thread its probs not working in your favour 🤷‍♀️"

Clever

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
1 week ago

Central

I had so_eone turn up for a meet and it was as if he'd sent his great great great grandfather, to send his relative's apologies

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By *ikesEmBigMan
1 week ago

Herts

"I get it, to a degree, if people are trying to bypass the filters but do the guys who pretend they’re 10 -20 years younger than they are actually think we haven’t noticed?

It’s an instant ignore from me. "
I don’t know but I should have been in bed 5 hours ago but no one has tucked me in or read me a story

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By *easidersCouple
1 week ago

Wirral

We were messaged last week by somebody who told us how he went to see The Clash in 1978.

His profile states he’s 40. Riiiiiiight.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
1 week ago

Castlebar

Met a few guys that clearly lied about their age and admitted it when i asked. And I'm terrible about guessing ages so they must have taken a good 10 yrs off

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
1 week ago

Altrincham

Physical age 53, mental age 23. I don't think I'll ever grow up

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By *rSuave88Man
1 week ago

Mirfield

Opposite issue here. People often don't believe my age and think I'm younger than I am. No complaints here though 👶🏽

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By *indergirlWoman
1 week ago

somewhere, someplace

At a social event one time a guy there did not look his age nor like his picture...there had to be at least a 10-15 year discrepancy at least 😬

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
1 week ago

Central

"At a social event one time a guy there did not look his age nor like his picture...there had to be at least a 10-15 year discrepancy at least 😬"

I'm guessing he didn't look young for his age

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By *ister_EMan
1 week ago

Hayling Island

As a teenager I used to lie about my age to get into clubs and pick up girls from the local uni.... but other than that never lied about my age either way.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

Crumpet Castle

None of it matters. It really does not matter.

You either fancy them or you don't.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

Crumpet Castle

"Physical age 53, mental age 23. I don't think I'll ever grow up "

You grew up years ago.You are just not growing old.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
1 week ago

Gloucester

I don’t see the point in telling fine about age. Same as I don’t understand when guys say oh but you look like your (insert younger age) not 43.

I’m very proud of making it to 43.

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By *heelerMan
1 week ago

Northants

When men say they were at Wembley to see England winning the World Cup and their profile says less then 58 they are telling porkies

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By *he ass man 666Man
1 week ago

paradise city

Age is irrelevant in my opinion if you get on with so_eone

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By *arleycplWoman
1 week ago

Leyburn

"I’ve seen it where they write on their profile that their age is wrong but cannot alter it allegedly. I thought it could be changed once if you got it wrong. Some are definitely way out or they are Peter Pan. "

Yes hou can Change it once

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By *rightonsteveMan
1 week ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think people would notice. I don’t look 53 any more.

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By *artorialMan
1 week ago

weymouth

Well I've matured like a fine wine or gone sour since the wine fly got in - take your pick. Still 65 though

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
1 week ago

Kent/London/Greater London

It's very clear some are way older than they say they are, I know a 'man' who says he is 39 but he looks 59

like how is he gonna explain that when he shows up to a meet, crazy it is

Only recently here I saw a forum thread where the op had his age as 40, he clearly looked 60, like who are they fooling

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By *xydadbodMan
1 week ago

Milton keynes

Im always truthful about my age.. only trouble is, I look young for my age and not the first time I had to prove my age 🤣🤣🤣

Flattered of course, but no fountain of youth here im afraid lol

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By *rectic OP Woman
1 week ago

taunton

"Im always truthful about my age.. only trouble is, I look young for my age and not the first time I had to prove my age 🤣🤣🤣

Flattered of course, but no fountain of youth here im afraid lol"
we all have our crosses to bear. Sympathies haha

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By *aven.Man
1 week ago

Gloucester

"It's very clear some are way older than they say they are, I know a 'man' who says he is 39 but he looks 59

like how is he gonna explain that when he shows up to a meet, crazy it is

Only recently here I saw a forum thread where the op had his age as 40, he clearly looked 60, like who are they fooling"

Just themselves! Most of the people that think they look years younger really don't, they're not fooling anyone. "I'm 50 but I look 35" you really don't, you're either delusional or blind. You're 50 and you look 50.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
1 week ago

Carlisle usually

People sometimes tell me I look late twenties. But I am 38. And I don't see any point lying about it.

Apparently 38 years of resting bitch face and avoiding sunlight is good for the skin though 💜

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By *eneralKenobiMan
1 week ago

North Angus

I’m a month or so out from the real date

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By *rHotNottsMan
1 week ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I don’t mind if they’re not a few years off it’s up to them how they want to present themselves on here, people lie about much worse things on here. As long as they look like their images

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By *umagain58Man
1 week ago

London

What’s the point of lying if you are on here to meet. It will be fairly obvious if large discrepancies if get meet and would not trust people then to play. Yeah get it with those on here who have fantasies. Pity we can’t get them filtered out or sent to other sites. They waste our time for genuine people

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By *inja 636Man
1 week ago

Grays

46 and still in the game

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By *obilebottomMan
1 week ago

All over

Now I keep singing 'What's another year' and not even jumped in the shower yet. Thanks for that

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
1 week ago

Maidstone

On a previous profile I knocked a good 5 years off my age. Might have even been more. I don't recall anyone recoiling in horror when I met them as I've always had up to date pictures. It doesn't bother me how old so_eone says they are, just look how I expect you to. 🤷‍♀️

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
1 week ago

Altrincham

"Physical age 53, mental age 23. I don't think I'll ever grow up

You grew up years ago.You are just not growing old. "

No honestly, I'm not a grown up, I always look for a more grown up person when needed

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By *rivervaderMan
1 week ago

bolton

Only lied about the actual date not the year stops folk from guessing who I am

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
1 week ago

manchester

"I get it, to a degree, if people are trying to bypass the filters but do the guys who pretend they’re 10 -20 years younger than they are actually think we haven’t noticed?

It’s an instant ignore from me. "

Without looking at our profile. If we sent a pic and you had to guess our age. You would probably get it wrong. We were getting changed in a club and a couple who had been playing next to us struck up a conversation and age became the topic. She said I was far off her age limit but would definitely play with us both.

We stayed a little longer

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By *ellinever70Woman
1 week ago

Ayrshire

I think most of us look the age we are

And I think many of us have a skewed perception of what so_eone of a particular age 'should ' look like

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By *indergirlWoman
1 week ago

somewhere, someplace

"Im always truthful about my age.. only trouble is, I look young for my age and not the first time I had to prove my age 🤣🤣🤣

Flattered of course, but no fountain of youth here im afraid lol"

Snap, I always get asked what my secret is and I just shrug and say fuck knows 🤣

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 week ago

Reading

If they don't come clean before a social then they are just liars.

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By *ripfillMan
1 week ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Odd this age thing … anyone else get asked their age when buying alcohol ? I have to carry my bus pass as ID X

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
1 week ago

East Sussex

"I think most of us look the age we are

And I think many of us have a skewed perception of what so_eone of a particular age 'should ' look like "

I agree.

There are one or two people that I've been genuinely surprised to find out that they're much older than they look but most of us look the age we are. Clothes and hair can give a younger or older impression but neck and hands will usually give you away.

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By *emonochromeMan
1 week ago

Watford

I’ve been accused of putting a younger age but I just had a tough paper round

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By *ife NinjaMan
1 week ago

Dunfermline

I'm the age I say I am. I have no desire to lie to beat a filter. You either want to play tiddlywinks with me or not.

Actually, it's quite an achievement these days, to get to this point and not be horribly broken, alcoholic and pretending it's still 1985, especially as a Wednesday fan 🤭🤓

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 week ago

Reading

"I'm the age I say I am. I have no desire to lie to beat a filter. You either want to play tiddlywinks with me or not.

Actually, it's quite an achievement these days, to get to this point and not be horribly broken, alcoholic and pretending it's still 1985, especially as a Wednesday fan 🤭🤓"

Isn't Maggie still PM?

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By *ife NinjaMan
1 week ago

Dunfermline

"I'm the age I say I am. I have no desire to lie to beat a filter. You either want to play tiddlywinks with me or not.

Actually, it's quite an achievement these days, to get to this point and not be horribly broken, alcoholic and pretending it's still 1985, especially as a Wednesday fan 🤭🤓

Isn't Maggie still PM?"

Thank fuck, no. She's definitely dead 🤓

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By *oastal1968Man
1 week ago

London

I was thinking the same thing last week, right after my 21st birthday party.

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By *umagain58Man
1 week ago

London

It’s like me saying I have a 10 inch cock. When I turn up the tape measure does not lie. Why do it?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
1 week ago

Leeds

Mostly noticed it from women to be honest, we had a social that was an absolute waste of time, between filters and the age lies it was just frustrating, like what do they think they'll gain? A sympathy fuck 🤷‍♀️

Mrs

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By *emorefridaCouple
1 week ago

La la land

I do snigger to myself when I'm messaged by so_eone who claims to me younger than me, but is obviously at least 10 year older. Do they not realise I socialise with people my own age so kinda know what so_eone my age looks like?

Everyone I know looks their age in real life. On pictures maybe not with filters etc, so it's harder to guage. But I take it if you're in your 40's and your skin looks like a porcelain doll in your photos you've filtered yourself a lot. And I'm going to presume it's because of skin texture.

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By *ealitybitesMan
1 week ago

Belfast

I was in a fab chat group in 2018 with a man who claimed to be 55 on his profile but admitted to the group he was actually 58.

That was ok for most as it was only a 3 year difference.

However he left and came back a while later and he was now 50 on his profile and 48 on a couples profile he set up shortly after.

His most recent creation that I've seen says that he is 52 but if he was being honest in the chat group he would be 65 now and having met him at a group social once I would say even that is generous.

I've seen a woman's profile on here with hundreds of verifications claiming to be in her late 40s.

She was pointed out to me at a social once and while I am very lucky to have good genes she was obviously much older than I am.

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By *umagain58Man
1 week ago

London

When we had a couple profile we had one guy claim to be much older than he was. When we met him it was very clear he was no where near age claimed. My wife sent him on his way for lying. It’s one of the reasons she is no longer on this site sadly

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
1 week ago

Ryde

The Missus and I aren't concerned about age - it's just a case of being able to deliver the goods.

The problem we have with so_eone being dishonest about their age is that lying seldom happens in isolation -they're probably bullshitting about sexual function, safe-sex, etc.

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By *umagain58Man
1 week ago

London

"The Missus and I aren't concerned about age - it's just a case of being able to deliver the goods.

The problem we have with so_eone being dishonest about their age is that lying seldom happens in isolation -they're probably bullshitting about sexual function, safe-sex, etc."

You have explained better than I did. Exactly why my wife left this site as post above

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By *enk15Man
1 week ago

Evesham

"Age is a joke told by calendars to make death feel punctual." - No one

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By *poolGuyMan
1 week ago

Liverpool

You can't lie about your age then start complaining about your knees and ask can we change position.

Look at the back of hands and the neck

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By *londebiguyMan
1 week ago

Southport

I've been told a few times that I look better than my pics and I look in my 40's but I haven't changed my age to that still!

I just try to keep in good shape and look after myself.

Hopefully it works.

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By *eyedwillyMan
1 week ago

Bedford

The only time you should lie about your age is to get into nightclubs and pubs

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By *iss DevilWoman
1 week ago

Bedford

When I look at some people's profiles and compare them to the age stated, I often think to myself "you must have had a really hard life". It's not always possible to tell whether so_eone is lying or not, and I know some people are lucky enough to look younger than their age. But that's not very often the case.

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By *LiamMan
1 week ago

Midlands

"I don’t see the point in telling fine about age. Same as I don’t understand when guys say oh but you look like your (insert younger age) not 43.

I’m very proud of making it to 43. "

🙏

Alot of good people never made it this far

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By *LiamMan
1 week ago

Midlands

The hands are the give away

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
1 week ago

Bristol

In my experience TVs are the absolute worst offenders for this...

I've known some claim to be almost 20 years younger than they are!

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By *eneralKenobiMan
1 week ago

North Angus

Had to check but my age here is 1 month younger than I am. I guess I figured it was for discretion at the time I made the profile but hey could be worse from what I read

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By *ecretDaddy1Man
1 week ago

Leeds

Don't mean to brag but I'm 18 with 17 years of experience 💪

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By *ant...stay...awayCouple
1 week ago

South Wales

Our first ever couples meet almost put us of this world for good. They were a clear 10 years older than their profile suggested. I get a year or two, to possibly hide your identity etc, but a decade is mental.

Waste of everyone's time as we finished our drinks and left. Once bitten, twice shy and we won't make the mistake again x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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1 week ago

East Sussex

Our date of birth isn't correct but the year is.

We never put our real age on any site like this and never announce our birthday.

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By *r SensualMan
1 week ago

London

People on here have been fibbing about their age for the longest time. That being on both ends of the spectrum, knocking a few years off or adding a few years or on for one reason or another.

Never understood it personally, not going to lie about something like that just in the hope of getting my end away. Would rather connect with those who have no problem with my age.

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By *OTSOSUBTLEMan
1 week ago

DUBLIN

Women fib too.

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By *ariaxxxxWoman
1 week ago

Kent/London/Greater London

"It's very clear some are way older than they say they are, I know a 'man' who says he is 39 but he looks 59

like how is he gonna explain that when he shows up to a meet, crazy it is

Only recently here I saw a forum thread where the op had his age as 40, he clearly looked 60, like who are they fooling

Yes exactly, I also know a guy who claims he looks mid 30s, He doesn't, He looks every day of 52 cos I've cam chatted with him, He is totally disillusioned & it's actually put me off him.

Some people have totally dated pics up too & they don't even realise they are cat fishing cos they now look nothing like their photos

It baffles me tbh 🤭

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
1 week ago

Norwich

I have seen a fair few guys on her that must have had a terribly bad life if they are the actual age on their profile. I don't see the point in lying about it what do you gain?

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By *econdtimelucky101Man
1 week ago

Near Birmingham.

Can't see the point in lying, you'd soon be found out!

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By *ublinjonnMan
1 week ago

dublin

Fab age and real age eh?? Lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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1 week ago

East Sussex

About 25 years ago I knew a man in his 60s who had a much younger wife. He was convinced he didn't look his age because he wore a baseball cap, bless his heart. He looked a bit like the current POTUS.

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By *allipygousMan
1 week ago

Leicester

This profile used to have me as 8 years younger because I could, and still can, get away with it but I thought a few years ago "fuck it", I am what I am, and also was honest about my sexual orientation.

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By *exyInLatinMan
1 week ago

Warsop

"I get it, to a degree, if people are trying to bypass the filters but do the guys who pretend they’re 10 -20 years younger than they are actually think we haven’t noticed?

It’s an instant ignore from me. "

Do people actually do this?

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By *ilyandronCouple
1 week ago

Bristol

Just don’t see the point in it.

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By *umagain58Man
1 week ago

London

"Don't mean to brag but I'm 18 with 17 years of experience 💪"

lol. Love it. One thing I can say is I easily beat you on years of experience. Not on the age and looks

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By *r Black 85Man
1 week ago

nottingham

I'm 40 and fabulous

No lies told 😎😎😎😎😎

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By *aven3Man
1 week ago

Stoford

"Cant see the point. I’m nearly 64…it’s only a number

Me too.Also a guy said I had the body of a 25 year old 😃

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By *annessaTV/TS
1 week ago

Denham

Does it matter ?

And should age refer to the body or the brain ?

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By *eonknifeWoman
1 week ago

skegness

it's dishonest and a very hard no from me. kink needs trust and if i can't trust you in something as basic as you respecting my boundaries about age, then you're definitely not a safe person for me to share my body with.

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

"I get it, to a degree, if people are trying to bypass the filters but do the guys who pretend they’re 10 -20 years younger than they are actually think we haven’t noticed?

It’s an instant ignore from me. "

Second guy I met on here (when I was 20) told me he was 36. We had sent face pics and video chatted and he looked older but knowing what he did for a living, I just thought he had a hard life

Wasn’t until after we slept together he admitted he was 50

Funnily enough, I’m 28 now and he’s still 50 on here!

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By *evergiveupMan
1 week ago

derbyshire

When you get over 60 and too old for most 😩

But still I soldier on - with a fixed bayonet as corporal Jones would appreciate 😋

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By *he ass man 666Man
7 days ago

paradise city

I lie all the time , really I’m 30 with a gym bod , I just say I’m 45

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By *ABflirtyWoman
7 days ago

Norfolk Coast

"Physical age 53, mental age 23. I don't think I'll ever grow up "
snap. I am like a fine wine older I get the better x some men make me feel 23 again lol

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By *he National ThrustMan
7 days ago

Horsham, Sussex

There's a chap locally who I occasionally see on the "who's near?" bit of Fab. It looks like he runs three different accounts with three different ages and names.

It seems like a massive load of hassle and admin

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
7 days ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's irritating. I've got a friend who when they joined here was 10 years older than me. They're now 5 years younger than me

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By *abluesbabyMan
7 days ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London

Fab is the place where whilst the inches amazingly grow the years just shrink away... almost as if by magic!

Haha

People can do as they please of course but I never get why people lie. Age is but a number.

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By *ackformore100Man
7 days ago

Tin town

Is it just age that gets lied about? Profiles... Pfftt.... Just words by a random person on a website... The only way to find out is to meet so_eone and make up your own words.... Like.... "lying cunt I've just spent an hour getting here and you're actually not a non smoking slim and 5ft 6 after all... Oh and you have a shit sense of humour"

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By *ackformore100Man
7 days ago

Tin town

"About 25 years ago I knew a man in his 60s who had a much younger wife. He was convinced he didn't look his age because he wore a baseball cap, bless his heart. He looked a bit like the current POTUS. "

Making swinging great again?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
7 days ago

East Sussex

Making swinging great again? "

MSGA doesn't roll off the tongue in quite the same way

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By *ackformore100Man
7 days ago

Tin town

Making swinging great again?

MSGA doesn't roll off the tongue in quite the same way "

True. It also sounds like a food additive

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By *arkus1812Man
7 days ago

Lifes Departure Lounge

I have never lied about my age and I see no point in doing so now.

85 is what I am and will remain so until early next year when, God willing I will be 86

Events of the last couple of months have however shattered my dream of reaching the age of 99

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
7 days ago

Bromley

I'm this age for a very good reason, why lie, fib, or tell tales about it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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7 days ago

East Sussex

"I have never lied about my age and I see no point in doing so now.

85 is what I am and will remain so until early next year when, God willing I will be 86

Events of the last couple of months have however shattered my dream of reaching the age of 99

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By *he Happy ManMan
7 days ago

Merseyside

"I get it, to a degree, if people are trying to bypass the filters but do the guys who pretend they’re 10 -20 years younger than they are actually think we haven’t noticed?

It’s an instant ignore from me. "

I saw a profile recxently claiming to be middle 60's she looked about 80. It's pointless lying about your age. You will get caught out.

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By *reat me rightWoman
7 days ago

Rotherham

What's the point of lying? 51 and proud, knackered all the time but proud of my age

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By *aphunterMan
7 days ago

woking

"I get it, to a degree, if people are trying to bypass the filters but do the guys who pretend they’re 10 -20 years younger than they are actually think we haven’t noticed?

It’s an instant ignore from me.

I saw a profile recxently claiming to be middle 60's she looked about 80. It's pointless lying about your age. You will get caught out. "

I’d ask for driving licence 😆

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