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By *ustlittleme89 OP   Woman
3 days ago

near durham

Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading

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By *sStephenPickleMan
3 days ago

Ends

You can always tell when interest is genuine.

Sorry to hear this OP xx

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By *pinningfasterWoman
3 days ago

Birmingham

The trouble is though is that I am easy

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
3 days ago

Worcestershire

We can tell when they are genuine and when they think it's an easy option

we're both BBW lovers

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By *ocomotiveMan
3 days ago

Sunderland


"The trouble is though is that I am easy "

Why don't I live in Birmingham??!

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By *atador...Man
3 days ago

Aylesbury

We can't help who we are attracted to

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
3 days ago

little house on the praire

Tell them you want a social in a public place

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By *elloWoman
3 days ago

alpha centauri


"The trouble is though is that I am easy "

Lol me too, I'm big, and easy but also very picky and incredibly lazy

so given the option of spending hours shaving my tree trunk legs and getting ready Vs sitting on my bed in my vest and knickers eating custard creams guess which I'm going to pick

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By *igad999Man
3 days ago

wolverhampton

Some people genuinely love large ladies. I have all my life married to size 18bbw

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By *heekyBadgerMan
3 days ago

Norwich

Noooooo. I love a woman with curves!

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By *sStephenPickleMan
3 days ago

Ends


"The trouble is though is that I am easy

Lol me too, I'm big, and easy but also very picky and incredibly lazy

so given the option of spending hours shaving my tree trunk legs and getting ready Vs sitting on my bed in my vest and knickers eating custard creams guess which I'm going to pick "

Ah

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By *r. MacMan
3 days ago

Bexleyheath

It's an accomplishment to go with bbw to handle that amount of woamn is amazing and watching it bounce as I hit it from the back is amazing

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By *upanovaMan
3 days ago

Sheffield

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By *upanovaMan
3 days ago

Sheffield

Sorry to hear this OP. I love all shapes and sizes, so always have genuine meets. Sometimes it just ends up being social. I never expect! And certainly do not think any woman is desperate and easy.

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By *r. MacMan
3 days ago

Bexleyheath


"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "

Baby your beautiful don't get put down by these cavemen I get gay guys saying how fat i am and they love it like I know I'm big but don't need you telling me

Ignore them darling your lucky your not in London (I would treat you so well and so wrong at the same time )

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By *punk n gushCouple
3 days ago

deal


"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "

100% agree with you on this

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By *ourdoyMan
3 days ago

South

Attracted. Love curves and soft skin x

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By *latandTCouple
3 days ago

South Essex

Thanks for the heads up

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By *aughty40sRugbyCouple
2 days ago

Rugby

We are both genuinely attracted to BBW's, Shelly herself is one and nothing is sexier than a lady with all the curves

Matt

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
2 days ago

Ryde

My wife's a big ol' gal, but she certainly isn't easy!

One of the most memorable things so_eone said after having sex with her was: "You're like fucking a lovely marshmallow, all warm and soft. Screwing my wife is like banging a slate-quarry, all cold, pointy and angular".

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By *evin90Man
2 days ago

London


"Tell them you want a social in a public place"
I do.

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By *evin90Man
2 days ago

London


"We are both genuinely attracted to BBW's, Shelly herself is one and nothing is sexier than a lady with all the curves

Matt"

100%

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By *cl1912Man
2 days ago

Swinton

No 100% attracted to bbw and wouldn't treat any woman as easy personally

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By *issFussyWoman
2 days ago

hitchin


"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "

I agree completely unfortunately

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By *IXEN200Woman
2 days ago

newcastle upon tyne

I've always felt men think as I'm bigger I'm desperate for sex but since joining fab I've discovered genuine men who like a woman with curves, it's taken me a good few years to be comfortable in my skin, and if nobody is prepared to look beyond my outer cover then they can jog on.

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By *r. MacMan
2 days ago

Bexleyheath

The bigger the woman the more the man needs to love her they are all beautiful I think they are stunning and sexy I love when a bbw sits on my face it's juicier and also feels better when she takes it xx

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By *ager 2 PleaseMan
2 days ago

Birmingham/midlands


"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "

For me, it’s all about the curves… bloody love the fuller body shape, all shapes that there are 🥵

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By *issFussyWoman
2 days ago

hitchin

A chap I know admitted that he finds curvier women more attractive but tends to pick arm candy to show off to friends

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By *orkshire-GentMan
2 days ago

Leeds

It’s all about the BBW for me, big thighs, big bums, big bellies, big boobs and big personalities. Absolutely just love them and definitely not ashamed to be seen with one and definitely not easy either!!

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By *cl1912Man
2 days ago

Swinton


"A chap I know admitted that he finds curvier women more attractive but tends to pick arm candy to show off to friends "

End of the day in my opinion however a woman)guy looks they could have the most ugliest personality ever now that puts me off

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By *issFussyWoman
2 days ago

hitchin


"A chap I know admitted that he finds curvier women more attractive but tends to pick arm candy to show off to friends

End of the day in my opinion however a woman)guy looks they could have the most ugliest personality ever now that puts me off "

Absolutely agree you have to at least like so_eone as a person

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By *cl1912Man
2 days ago

Swinton


"A chap I know admitted that he finds curvier women more attractive but tends to pick arm candy to show off to friends

End of the day in my opinion however a woman)guy looks they could have the most ugliest personality ever now that puts me off

Absolutely agree you have to at least like so_eone as a person "

I get there's gotta be an attraction by ut yeah personality is a big thing for me

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By *issFussyWoman
2 days ago

hitchin

I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet!

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By *cl1912Man
2 days ago

Swinton


"I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet! "

Agreed but also self respect is a good thing too x

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By *issFussyWoman
2 days ago

hitchin


"I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet!

Agreed but also self respect is a good thing too x"

I like to think so

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By *r. MacMan
2 days ago

Bexleyheath


"I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet!

Agreed but also self respect is a good thing too x

I like to think so "

Self respect is important but in the heat of the moment we're animals and need to be primal and love it

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By *cl1912Man
2 days ago

Swinton


"I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet!

Agreed but also self respect is a good thing too x

I like to think so "

can tell you do x

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By *ivpoolmanMan
2 days ago

Liverpool


"I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet!

Agreed but also self respect is a good thing too x

I like to think so "

Each always their own xx

Never be judgemental tho xx

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By *issFussyWoman
2 days ago

hitchin


"I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet!

Agreed but also self respect is a good thing too x

I like to think so

can tell you do x"

My profile name gives it away

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By *cl1912Man
2 days ago

Swinton


"I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet!

Agreed but also self respect is a good thing too x

I like to think so

can tell you do x

My profile name gives it away "

Besides that just seem a classy lady x

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By *issFussyWoman
2 days ago

hitchin


"I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet!

Agreed but also self respect is a good thing too x

I like to think so

can tell you do x

My profile name gives it away

Besides that just seem a classy lady x"

Ah thank you ☺️

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By *cl1912Man
2 days ago

Swinton


"I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet!

Agreed but also self respect is a good thing too x

I like to think so

can tell you do x

My profile name gives it away

Besides that just seem a classy lady x

Ah thank you ☺️"

You're welcome anytime plus think you could teach me a thing or two also x

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By *cottish guy 555Man
2 days ago

London

I'm attracted to the person, not the body type.

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By *INGOBLIN66Man
2 days ago

Coventry

I worship them

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By *ill jonesMan
2 days ago

Leeds

BBWs are just perfect

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By *eelGoodIncMan
2 days ago

West Midlands

I personally only really look to meet the more curvaceous ladies of the world myself. I've been with women of all shapes and sizes but curvy ladies are who I am truly attracted to the most 😊

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
2 days ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

If a perspective BBW doesn’t believe I’m genuine, I’ll show them my porn collection

…But…does that then make it a fetish? 🤔

Which I’m told is “bad”

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By *eliWoman
2 days ago

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I'm not a BBW, I am fat though. And yep, sometimes it's painfully clear that they aren't actually attracted to me. Not my body.

Little things.

Overtly sexual, degrading messages.

Only describing slim women as beautiful.

Not wanting to go out with you, boasts about going with slim women and how they are so hot. It's that not being seen in public thing.

Their forum posts - if they're fond of commenting on how much they love petite/slim women. Maybe the odd post about bigger women because they don't want to appear biased. It's performative bollocks.

All that being typed, some men are genuinely attracted to bigger women. Not in a this is my fetish, take it b*tch way. More in a see different body shapes and sizes attractive. I like those men. The ones that make me feel desired, not orifices waiting to be plugged.

Don't give up hope OP. Get your filters on and message men first.

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By *omRachCouple
2 days ago

Wirral


"The trouble is though is that I am easy "

Great answer

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By *sWyldWoman
2 days ago

Edinburgh

I can understand why you might feel like this.

Let's be honest 'the real world ' very often makes us feel less than ideal. My own dating history has always led me to think I'm ok for fun but never the one they pick long term.

However I've found my experiences here to be very genuine, chemistry is undeniable and mutual attraction has absolutely been there.

Anyone thats ever met me will also know I'm far from desperate or an easy target.

Of course there will often be people on here who are desperate, who will say anything or who genuinely do believe any hole is a goal. You can spot them pretty quickly.

As so_eone who lacks confidence, is full of doubt and has imposter syndrome, I know it can be hard here but its also very much proved to be worth my effort.

You just need to find what works for you.

Embrace the compliments, Embrace the attention and never ever lower your own standards.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 days ago

Crumpet Castle


"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "

For me, this is a conclusion that only so_eone who is unhappy with their size would jump to.

Men here want sex. Women here want sex.

If a man messages me about meeting , my first thought is , ' he wants sex' ..... and that's no shock given the site i'm on.

I've never thought ... he thinks I will shag him cos :- i'm easy, older, fat , desperate, lacking in morals or self respect etc .... MAINLY because I don't see myself that way and don't try to be a mind reader and imagine I know what the bloke is thinking.

It's a straight yes or no from me not hours , days and weeks of self doubt and torment.

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By *ife NinjaMan
2 days ago

Dunfermline

Face is for me. Body irrelevant. I don't think anyone is easy or desperate. I message because I think it'll be good fun to know you, not just make you a label 🤓

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 days ago

Crumpet Castle

I once went into a pub and I thought .... you've only let me in here cos you think I'll buy a drink.

What's worse is , I found out the man who cleans my windows does it for money.... i'm heartbroken I really thought he loved my windows.

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By *ittleLiaisonsWoman
2 days ago

Birmingham

A lot of men are attracted to bigger women. I got a lot of 'comments' from men when I lost a lot of weight as they preferred me bigger. Some men will sleep with anyone, some have a size preference and some just don't care as long as they are attracted to the person. It doesn't matter the reasons, the only thing that matters is avoiding the ones who clearly view you that way. Its pretty obvious the ones that do with their comments, tone and attitude towards women. It can be hard to filter them out but dont discount the ones that are genuinely attracted to bigger girls, there are good guys on the scene.

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By *irsttimers3338Couple
2 days ago

Portsmouth

Attracted to bbws and always be to the front of the queue for us

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By *nexplored kinksMan
2 days ago

Oldham


"I'm not a BBW, I am fat though. And yep, sometimes it's painfully clear that they aren't actually attracted to me. Not my body.

Little things.

Overtly sexual, degrading messages.

Only describing slim women as beautiful.

Not wanting to go out with you, boasts about going with slim women and how they are so hot. It's that not being seen in public thing.

Their forum posts - if they're fond of commenting on how much they love petite/slim women. Maybe the odd post about bigger women because they don't want to appear biased. It's performative bollocks.

All that being typed, some men are genuinely attracted to bigger women. Not in a this is my fetish, take it b*tch way. More in a see different body shapes and sizes attractive. I like those men. The ones that make me feel desired, not orifices waiting to be plugged.

Don't give up hope OP. Get your filters on and message men first. "

Meli, I now feel like I should apologise for most of those men out there treat some like this.

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By *ori69Man
2 days ago

Castlewellan

I'm attracted to bbw's, i just love curves.

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By *nexplored kinksMan
2 days ago

Oldham


"The trouble is though is that I am easy

Great answer "

That made me laugh too

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By *eliWoman
2 days ago

.


"Meli, I now feel like I should apologise for most of those men out there treat some like this. "

No, you shouldn't. At all. I'd say (estimating wildly here) that 99.2% of interactions with men from here are wonderful. We're not always compatible but they don't send degrading messages.

Even if they did... don't apologise for another's behaviour. There's no need to.

OP, I hope that you don't receive any more degrading messages. No one should, regardless* of why they're on the site.

*there's probably an exception but it's early.

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By *ustlittleme89 OP   Woman
2 days ago

near durham


"Meli, I now feel like I should apologise for most of those men out there treat some like this.

No, you shouldn't. At all. I'd say (estimating wildly here) that 99.2% of interactions with men from here are wonderful. We're not always compatible but they don't send degrading messages.

Even if they did... don't apologise for another's behaviour. There's no need to.

OP, I hope that you don't receive any more degrading messages. No one should, regardless* of why they're on the site.

*there's probably an exception but it's early. "

I agree with you there are some genuine lads out there that do like bigger girls and they show it! I’m getting a lot lately that make me feel like I should be grateful they even messaging me never mind want to fuck me. I am picky I have respect for myself just getting to a point after been on and off here for years might be time to come off altogether and it’s happening more and more now

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By *en ItaliaWoman
2 days ago

your lap

There will be some that genuinely do like larger women and those that wouldn’t touch us with a barge pole. I think you can tell fairly swiftly those that are genuine.

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By *nexplored kinksMan
2 days ago

Oldham


"Meli, I now feel like I should apologise for most of those men out there treat some like this.

No, you shouldn't. At all. I'd say (estimating wildly here) that 99.2% of interactions with men from here are wonderful. We're not always compatible but they don't send degrading messages.

Even if they did... don't apologise for another's behaviour. There's no need to.

OP, I hope that you don't receive any more degrading messages. No one should, regardless* of why they're on the site.

*there's probably an exception but it's early. "

Well Meli, I would certainly hope that I got into the 99.2% (approx) as I have received some less than flattering messages.

Agreed we are all here looking for fun and a connection so being disrespectful or thinking some are easy because of a physical feature is wrong on so many levels and a massive red flag.

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By *allipygousMan
2 days ago

Leicester


"Tell them you want a social in a public place"

In their home town.

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By *AYENCouple
2 days ago

Lincolnshire


"It's an accomplishment to go with bbw to handle that amount of woamn is amazing and watching it bounce as I hit it from the back is amazing "

You old romantic you

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By *londie 777Couple
2 days ago

somewhere

We both love curvy girls, I'm a size 16,I think all shapes and sizes are beautiful in there own way

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By *evin90Man
2 days ago

London


"We both love curvy girls, I'm a size 16,I think all shapes and sizes are beautiful in there own way "

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
2 days ago

Gloucester


"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "

Yes. Now I don’t class myself as a BBW but I do think of myself as curvy. The amount of guys who assume because I am on a site like this and a little bigger that I am going to be an easy fuck is unbelievable. Even those self confessed “nice/good/polite guys” (we all know what this means) send some rather unpleasant messages.

They soon realise they were very very mistaken.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 days ago

Reading

Yes i think that is a commonly held view. Unfortunately they would just be wasting their time with me. I have to get to know so_eone first though some men do genuinely prefer bigger women.

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By *a LunaWoman
2 days ago

o o OO o o

I think you could take that opinion about all women on here, not just us bigger ladies.

Fact is, most men like an easy lay. No drama, no chasing, no extended effort, no complex emotions. The men and women on here are usually looking for totally different things. Women usually want to feel desired, Validated, Emotional connection.

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By *erry bull1Man
2 days ago

doncaster

I’m attracted to bbws and don’t think of them as easy

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By *assageman300Man
2 days ago

Cambs

I love to see a fuller figured woman, turns me on no end.

Skinny does nothing for me as much as a lovely woman with curves

Being a masseuse, I'm a hands on type of guy

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By *uvbbw300Man
2 days ago

Huddersfield

I adore curves! Nothing better than seeing a lady flaunt her curves!

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By *a LunaWoman
2 days ago

o o OO o o


"I love to see a fuller figured woman, turns me on no end.

Skinny does nothing for me as much as a lovely woman with curves

Being a masseuse, I'm a hands on type of guy "

Curves aren’t predominantly for fuller figured ladies though. Look at Salma Hayek in From Dusk till Dawn. Slim AND curvy.

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By *ami4321Man
2 days ago

wrexham

I find bbw very sexy not a fan of skinny women we need something to hold I'd pick a bbw every time xx

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By *tsJustKateWoman
2 days ago

London


"It's an accomplishment to go with bbw to handle that amount of woamn is amazing and watching it bounce as I hit it from the back is amazing "

"It" ????

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
2 days ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

This has been interesting to read through.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
2 days ago

London

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By *tsJustKateWoman
2 days ago

London

Whether I they genuinely like big women or just want somewhere to cum doesnt really bother me. Honestly don't care what their reasons are.

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 days ago

Ankh-Morpork

Can usually tell if they’re faking attraction just because they want to get laid

Then on the flip side there are those who fetishise it and I’ve no time for a man who only wants me because I’m chunky either

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By *allipygousMan
2 days ago

Leicester


"I find bbw very sexy not a fan of skinny women we need something to hold I'd pick a bbw every time xx"

Do you need to put down slim women to show how much you like a "bbw"?

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
2 days ago

Norwich

Yes some men genuinely love bbw women. I know it can be a bit exhausting on here finding a man whose actually genuinely interested but they do exist.

There seem to be more guys now who want to meet to fuck and somehow magically expect you to drop everything for them but you can just delete them and move on.

If they're willing to take time talking to you, are consistent and are willing to meet for a social then they are the ones I would concentrate on.

The ones that want your pics immediately or live far away are best left there.

If it really gets you down take a break from here and see if things improve when you come back. It can be really hard to find the right people on here that's for sure.

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By *eroLondonMan
2 days ago

Mayfair


"I'm not a BBW, I am fat though. And yep, sometimes it's painfully clear that they aren't actually attracted to me."

I'm not tall, but I'm not a primordial dwarf either. It's always painfully clear that I'm not their type.


"Only describing slim women as beautiful."

Never describing average-height men as handsome or covetable.


"Their forum posts - if they're fond of commenting on how much they love petite/slim women."

I'm proud of my average-sized cock but I only hear about the penchants of well endowment phalluses. I don't think I've ever seen anyone eulogise those who aren't VWE.

I always pay homage to petite women and will continue to do so without compunction. Perhaps it's my way to relate to their diminutive nature...? Most of the women I've met have been anything but petite, curvy in fact. I seek the women of substance. I don't seek their shape. Whatever transpires, transpires.

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By *eviant loversCouple
2 days ago

half way to hell

I’ve no doubt a lot of guys do see BBW and think easy, but there’s lots that also really fancy a curvy figure. Mrs is a 16/18 and I find her a massive turn on

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
2 days ago

Ryde


"I’ve no doubt a lot of guys do see BBW and think easy, but there’s lots that also really fancy a curvy figure. Mrs is a 16/18 and I find her a massive turn on "

Always supersize!

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By *ookingandfuckingMan
2 days ago

Definitely love a Bbw myself my type for sure

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

2 days ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Can usually tell if they’re faking attraction just because they want to get laid

Then on the flip side there are those who fetishise it and I’ve no time for a man who only wants me because I’m chunky either "

This! 👌👌

I haven't seen it for a while (thank god) but a long time ago it wasn't uncommon to see comments in the forums about wanting to 'try a BBW' in the same vein as some threads about age/race/nationality/a.n.other physical characteristic, as if it was a case of ticking something off a list.

We've been approached on the couples profile before by men whose galleries are chock a block with pictures of them with slim women and whose verifications are somewhat lacking with feedback from anyone larger than a size 10. Equally there's been messages that overplay some kind of interest and borderline fetish for larger women.

Both tend to get ignored. We're interested in people who like people. Not those that think a bit of false flattery will get them a meet or who appear to be casting the net wider because they arent having any luck with the kind of people they'd usually go for.

It's why we mainly prefer face to face contact in clubs and will always have a social before any private meet.

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By *eliWoman
2 days ago

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"I'm not a BBW, I am fat though. And yep, sometimes it's painfully clear that they aren't actually attracted to me.

I'm not tall, but I'm not a primordial dwarf either. It's always painfully clear that I'm not their type. "

Unnecessary. I'm saying that I although I don't agree with the label, I'm still one of the Bs in BBW so can relate.

I'm not talking about types.

It's not about you.


"Only describing slim women as beautiful.

Never describing average-height men as handsome or covetable. "

Utter bollocks. One of the most beautiful men I've met on here is not only about my height but also younger than me. I was talking about specific examples, not generalising nonsense.

I'm not saying all men do it. As on a later post, I've said 99.2% of my interactions are delightful.

Do you know what some men do? Call them bitches when they're unhappy with their response. That's not delightful. Alas. I won't say that's not about you.


" Their forum posts - if they're fond of commenting on how much they love petite/slim women.

I'm proud of my average-sized cock but I only hear about the penchants of well endowment phalluses. I don't think I've ever seen anyone eulogise those who aren't VWE. "

It's really weird how you've taken apart my post and made it about you. It's not. At all.

You might not have seen them. I have. I frequently see women say they like average sized cocks. Their ideal length being... average.

Whataboutery from a man who describes women as bitches isn't surprising I guess.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 days ago

Calderdale innit

I think some men are desperate & will message everyone around, if there's a chance of sex.

I don't think it's due to your size, unless that's been mentioned or they're using derogatory language.

I'm large and I've never been made to feel I'd be an easy lay because of it or desperate etc.

Lots of men love bigger women on here, maybe use some filters op, so you don't get as much mail & look for men you like the look of.

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By *palOwlWoman
2 days ago

Wetherby

Yes!

Some think because you are bigger you are desperate for attention and should be grateful that they have offered to 'destroy' you.

The amount of 'you're a fat whore' or similar when I either haven't replied or have said no thanks is unbelievable.

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By *oml and mwgcCouple
2 days ago

Birstall


"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "

I always think this

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By *attsforthememoriesMan
2 days ago

darlo

I hate that some men have made woman think this way. I have never thought bbw woman are and easier lay. I think thats down right shocking that some men think that. To all bbw woman, we are not all like that

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By *-Dub54Man
2 days ago

Great Barr

A woman with curves and confidence is a real turn on.

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By *hat-Guy123Man
2 days ago

Bristol

Love a Bigger woman, feel like there more genuine and can have a laugh with 😊 and good to look at 🥵 I love and appreciate a BBW☺️

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By *ubcuckpupMan
2 days ago

Manchester


"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "

I am genuinely attracted to bigger ladies have been all my life..I turned off by skinny

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By *aulayrMan
2 days ago

ayr

Always loved bbw or even ssbbw. Most relationships I have been in are 18 and up. Had a few friends with benefits up to size 28/30

Love Mandy Dingle and Gemma Collins, Dawn French etc

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By *ondajazzMan
2 days ago

liverpool

Have you got a spare room to rent 😉

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By *eddesMan
2 days ago

Bridge of Weir

I have always been attracted to larger figured women, the same way some guys like blondes or some women like gym fit or dad bods or differing ages. BBW women rock!!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 days ago

Crumpet Castle


"Love a Bigger woman, feel like there more genuine and can have a laugh with 😊 and good to look at 🥵 I love and appreciate a BBW☺️"

It's common knowledge that for every pound a person is overweight they become a nicer person, more genuine , more rounded ( no pun ) and all round more decent. Weight has precisely the same effect on a persons sense of humour too each ounce more makes us giggle n titter.

That's why all the people on a diet are miserable and piss poor company

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 days ago

Ankh-Morpork


"Love a Bigger woman, feel like there more genuine and can have a laugh with 😊 and good to look at 🥵 I love and appreciate a BBW☺️

It's common knowledge that for every pound a person is overweight they become a nicer person, more genuine , more rounded ( no pun ) and all round more decent. Weight has precisely the same effect on a persons sense of humour too each ounce more makes us giggle n titter.

That's why all the people on a diet are miserable and piss poor company

"

Granny is this when we get called “Bubbly”?

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By *attsforthememoriesMan
2 days ago

darlo


"Love a Bigger woman, feel like there more genuine and can have a laugh with 😊 and good to look at 🥵 I love and appreciate a BBW☺️

It's common knowledge that for every pound a person is overweight they become a nicer person, more genuine , more rounded ( no pun ) and all round more decent. Weight has precisely the same effect on a persons sense of humour too each ounce more makes us giggle n titter.

That's why all the people on a diet are miserable and piss poor company

Granny is this when we get called “Bubbly”?"

Haha made me chuckle

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
2 days ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge


"Love a Bigger woman, feel like there more genuine and can have a laugh with 😊 and good to look at 🥵 I love and appreciate a BBW☺️

It's common knowledge that for every pound a person is overweight they become a nicer person, more genuine , more rounded ( no pun ) and all round more decent. Weight has precisely the same effect on a persons sense of humour too each ounce more makes us giggle n titter.

That's why all the people on a diet are miserable and piss poor company

"

Bollocks. I'm a size 28 and a right cunt 😂

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By *ubcuckpupMan
2 days ago

Manchester


"Love a Bigger woman, feel like there more genuine and can have a laugh with 😊 and good to look at 🥵 I love and appreciate a BBW☺️

It's common knowledge that for every pound a person is overweight they become a nicer person, more genuine , more rounded ( no pun ) and all round more decent. Weight has precisely the same effect on a persons sense of humour too each ounce more makes us giggle n titter.

That's why all the people on a diet are miserable and piss poor company

Bollocks. I'm a size 28 and a right cunt 😂"

God I would just love you sitting on my face

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By *oober698Man
1 day ago

Lincoln

I don't think that at all, for me bbw curves are beautiful, the soft skin to skin contact, exploring and touching, generally making that person feel wanted and not just an easy lay.

I really do not like how men make you feel your easy. You are a person too, and deserve to be treated with respect.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
1 day ago

Bromley

They're far from easy but I adore them

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By *atador...Man
1 day ago

Aylesbury


"A chap I know admitted that he finds curvier women more attractive but tends to pick arm candy to show off to friends "

I think I stopped caring about what people think a long time ago, they have only ever restricted me from what I want, who cares what they think

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By *ourglassUppercutMan
1 day ago

Clondalkin

For me personally it’s my sole preference. And it’s on my profile that I love bbw’s so no secrets or hidden agendas here.

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By *eo PublicMan
1 day ago

Lincoln

I find larger ladies incredibly attractive, and married one. I think if I'm being honest I may have met my first one as I thought she'd be easy, but soon realised how hot an attractive BBW can be.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
1 day ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge


"Love a Bigger woman, feel like there more genuine and can have a laugh with 😊 and good to look at 🥵 I love and appreciate a BBW☺️

It's common knowledge that for every pound a person is overweight they become a nicer person, more genuine , more rounded ( no pun ) and all round more decent. Weight has precisely the same effect on a persons sense of humour too each ounce more makes us giggle n titter.

That's why all the people on a diet are miserable and piss poor company

Bollocks. I'm a size 28 and a right cunt 😂

God I would just love you sitting on my face "

Washing my hair hun sorry ❤️

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By *pforitpaulMan
1 day ago

Birmingham

Personally I’m attracted to bbw massive turn on for me

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By *airychestedhunk2Man
1 day ago

Oxford

I’m a bigger fella .. maybe I’d be a BHM (hairy or handsome… definitely the former)

I love the fuller figured lady purely because I don’t feel they’re lost with me and also I think they appreciate who they are and embrace it, I find that sexier than anything else.

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By *peedyGMan
1 day ago

Telford

I'm into all different body types.... I do have a soft spot for a nice curvy/bbw though

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 day ago

Reading

I wonder how many would date a bigger girl?

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By *ourglassUppercutMan
1 day ago

Clondalkin


"I wonder how many would date a bigger girl?"

My last 4 relationships have been with bigger girls and was always proud to walk down the road holding hands and showing them off.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
1 day ago

Bromley

If you're worried about what others would think about you dating a more voluptuous lady. You're hanging round the wrong people

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By *eys00Man
1 day ago

have boots will travel


"If you're worried about what others would think about you dating a more voluptuous lady. You're hanging round the wrong people"

Username checks out! 😂😂 But you’re right of course. My preference has never been for slim ladies, but some of my friends do prefer that. Nobody has ever been judged for it and the idea that they would be is pretty immature

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By *ikesEmBigMan
1 day ago

Bromley

Would much rather be with so_eone I fancied and wanted. Seems odd that some people wouldn't

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By *Clem-Fandango-Woman
1 day ago

Yarm

I have this thought all the time, but I suffer from imposter syndrome at work and find it does tend to creep into my sex life and appearance etc.

A guy can compliment me until he's blue in the face but sometimes I just can't hear it.

I'll convince myself there's a dozen other reasons he's approaching me rather than it simply be that he's into me.

Sometimes I have to tell myself, it's swinging, it's not that deep. Try and enjoy yourself.

No regrets and all that.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
1 day ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge


"I wonder how many would date a bigger girl?"

Date? Yes.

Marry? Yes.

Show her off in public because shes amazing? Also yes.

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By *o_eones GrumpMan
1 day ago

3rd rock from the sun

I do prefer bigger women

I'm scared I'd crush a lady under a size 10

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By *o_eones GrumpMan
1 day ago

3rd rock from the sun


"I wonder how many would date a bigger girl?

Date? Yes.

Marry? Yes.

Show her off in public because shes amazing? Also yes."

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By *atador...Man
1 day ago

Aylesbury


"If you're worried about what others would think about you dating a more voluptuous lady. You're hanging round the wrong people"

Yeah this, worring too much about what other people think, fuck em

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 day ago

Reading


"I wonder how many would date a bigger girl?

My last 4 relationships have been with bigger girls and was always proud to walk down the road holding hands and showing them off. "

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By *peedyGMan
1 day ago

Telford


"Would much rather be with so_eone I fancied and wanted. Seems odd that some people wouldn't"

Agreed pal

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 day ago

Reading


"I wonder how many would date a bigger girl?

Date? Yes.

Marry? Yes.

Show her off in public because shes amazing? Also yes."

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By *issy_named_cTV/TS
1 day ago

Edinburgh

I'm attracted.

And I'm attracted to both the end of adventure and curiosity and sexuality that comes with it

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 day ago

Reading


"If you're worried about what others would think about you dating a more voluptuous lady. You're hanging round the wrong people"

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By *atador...Man
1 day ago

Aylesbury


"If you're worried about what others would think about you dating a more voluptuous lady. You're hanging round the wrong people

Username checks out! 😂😂 But you’re right of course. My preference has never been for slim ladies, but some of my friends do prefer that. Nobody has ever been judged for it and the idea that they would be is pretty immature "

I've actually been with slim girls before and thought, I wish her bum was a bit bigger

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By *reg45Man
1 day ago

durham

I’m definitely more attracted to the more curvy lady size 18+

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By *oober698Man
1 day ago

Lincoln


"I wonder how many would date a bigger girl?

Date? Yes.

Marry? Yes.

Show her off in public because shes amazing? Also yes.

Spot on this!

"

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By *hartlonHMan
1 day ago

Greenhithe

Proper love a curvy bbw

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By *eonMan
1 day ago

The wallled town

I’m my case it’s definitely attraction

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By *aronbelleMan
1 day ago

Manchester

I think that’s just how a woman’s supposed to look

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By *hartlonHMan
1 day ago

Greenhithe

Especially in stocking

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By *latandTCouple
1 day ago

South Essex

I have always been attracted to big ladies, it’s just a preference I have. Thankfully I am married to T

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By *ickDiscMidlandsMan
1 day ago

Coventry

I always was attracted by bigger women’s. And the best ever I had was with my BBW friend when I was at uni.

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By *ollmanMan
1 day ago

Burnley


"I wonder how many would date a bigger girl?

Date? Yes.

Marry? Yes.

Show her off in public because shes amazing? Also yes."

All of the above, I was married to a BBW whom I met through the scene, and I just loved the attention she received at clubs back then

Would I do the above again? Hell yeah... would I get married again... hell no, I like having my own space

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By *llfingersandtongueMan
1 day ago

Aylesbury

Genuine lover of BBW.

in the words of one of my fav bands.(that also gives my age away)

And the anorexic chicks, that model six.

They don't hold no weight with me.

Well eight or nine, well that's just fine

But I like to hold something I can see!!

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By *ndycoinsMan
1 day ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,

A little jelly on the belly is lovely.

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By *Clem-Fandango-Woman
1 day ago

Yarm

Just have to say, as a chunky yet funky girl, this really has made me smile reading all the lovely comments. Bravo Fabsters

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By *ohnnyjo82Man
1 day ago

gorleston

Love curvy woman so much better looking then skin and bones

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By *udesentientMan
1 day ago

Leeds


"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "

As so_eone who's had quite a bit of experience with BBWs (outside of fab), they aren't as "easy" as is presumed. I think it's because they often think that other people think they are easy so they might put in extra effort to be "not easy"

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
1 day ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

🤦‍♂️ some peoples posts. oh my God.

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By *i lad 75Man
1 day ago

london


"The trouble is though is that I am easy "
any chance of a shag 🤣🤣🤣

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By *i lad 75Man
1 day ago

london

Try not to get on the wrong side of them when it’s that time of the Month , other than that there amazing in bed

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By *hubbyandgirthyMan
1 day ago

Derby

I am attracted to bbw/curvy women

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By *i lad 75Man
1 day ago

london


"The trouble is though is that I am easy

Lol me too, I'm big, and easy but also very picky and incredibly lazy

so given the option of spending hours shaving my tree trunk legs and getting ready Vs sitting on my bed in my vest and knickers eating custard creams guess which I'm going to pick "

I don’t mind Either way

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By *TogMan
1 day ago

SE London

Have a FWB who's mega curvy, especially an amazing ass 🍑 and the looks of admiration we get in South London is amazing.

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By *issably KinkyWoman
1 day ago

Cannock

I'm a BBW......I'm like marmite you either love me or hate me

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By *eordieforfunMan
1 day ago

Gateshead

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By *hickthighs25Woman
1 day ago

Stockton


"🤦‍♂️ some peoples posts. oh my God. "

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *ogmark1Man
23 hours ago

Reading

Very very attracted

Hot as

Pitty they not attracted to me !

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By *devil!Man
23 hours ago

Swindon

I'd love a bbw girl for what they are! Everyone has a "type" and some people enjoy appreciate a bbw and bbw ladies enjoy sliper, more muscly males, each to their own!

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By *arkKatalystWoman
23 hours ago

East Mids


"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "

I think it's the same with age and bbw...it can really start to repulse me!

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By *unny usernameMan
23 hours ago

Portsmouth

In my case, I am truly attracted to larger ladies! The curvier the better! I am always asked to why I am attracted to bbw (by the ladies themselves) and I insist that it’s not just to be easy

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By *addy bareMan
23 hours ago

southend

I genuinely love a bbw,they have a great personality and a bigger pussy and i just love fucking them.x

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By *ikesEmBigMan
23 hours ago

Bromley


"I genuinely love a bbw,they have a great personality and a bigger pussy and i just love fucking them.x "
wtf

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By *unny usernameMan
21 hours ago

Portsmouth

I have also found that Bbw always taste sweet and tasty and are tighter and get a lot wetter

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By *entBarryUKMan
21 hours ago

Ashford

I think so_eone guys see bbws as a bucket list target, which is sad for them and degrading to the women. I've always preferred curvy women.

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By *rikTheVikingMan
21 hours ago

Swansea

I prefer a more curvy woman, my best sex has been with BBW's...

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By *avej500Man
20 hours ago

Stevenage

I am not a big lover of skinny women

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By *eordieforfunMan
20 hours ago

Gateshead

Bbw all way more to work your hands with and grab

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By *indergirlWoman
20 hours ago

somewhere, someplace

For sure there are guys who love bbws, but equally there are guys who the minute you turn them down ypu go from the sexiest thing alive to the most hideous

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By *ustincredible69Man
20 hours ago

drumoak

I like women of all different body types if they sexy they sexy

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