FabSwingers.com forum: Take the hint

By *sStephenPickle OP Man
4 weeks ago

Ends

Can you?

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Very easily. Wish others could.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 weeks ago

East Sussex

Not always

I am pretty good at taking the hint when I'm not wanted but terrible in other situations

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By *hePervertedPlumberMan
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

So... you're saying there's a chance? 🤓

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By *aughty workman88Man
4 weeks ago

Colchester

Dropping hints like bomb shells and people still don't get it

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Might take me a minute or 2 but

Yeah 🤔🤣

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By *exyInLatinMan
4 weeks ago

Warsop

Depends on the situation and my mental state 🤣 if I’m overwhelmed I tend to miss things a lot more!!

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
4 weeks ago

Up North

"Not always

I am pretty good at taking the hint when I'm not wanted but terrible in other situations "

Same, I’m better if it’s in person but I often struggle to pick up on hints in written format.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Not always

I am pretty good at taking the hint when I'm not wanted but terrible in other situations

Same, I’m better if it’s in person but I often struggle to pick up on hints in written format. "

Im the opposite. If it's written down I can read between the lines. In person I notice something isn't quite right but don't always interpret correctly.

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By *exyInLatinMan
4 weeks ago

Warsop

"Not always

I am pretty good at taking the hint when I'm not wanted but terrible in other situations

Same, I’m better if it’s in person but I often struggle to pick up on hints in written format. "

Think that’s a regular thing for me and I struggle to read tone so I end up overthinking things

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By *oveat1stfeelMan
4 weeks ago

around here somewhere

Was absolutely brutal , wouldn't see the hint if it jumped up & hit me on the head ...but way better now tbh

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
4 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Why not just be straightforward & not give “hints”?

Your version of subtlety & mine are gonna differ

I ain’t not freakin’ mind reader

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By *avenNightsMan
4 weeks ago

Canvey Island

Very easily!

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By *sWyldWoman
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yup. Possibly too quick to sometimes

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By *igVibesMan
4 weeks ago

tidworth

I get confused when people say _ello nevermind a hint

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By *adame BootsTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Tetbury

Not many take the hint, not many take a no thank you.

The block button is your friend.

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By *hil most chillMan
4 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe

Oh yeah, I always notice when they lose interest these days!

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By *avie65Man
4 weeks ago

In the west.

Yes I think so. Whether I act on it is another matter especially if it’s someone who wants me to do something for them.

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By *KloganMan
4 weeks ago

Ramsbottom

I think (as an empath) it’s quite difficult to rationale with a hint… I always look for meaning or context and if there’s non it’s confusing. Not difficult, but hard to work out..

Direct constructive feedback is precise and so therefore helpful in my experience.

“Tom, your brew is weak, stir it longer..” ✅

“There’s just something odd about this brew you’ve made..” 💥🤯

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By *exyInLatinMan
4 weeks ago

Warsop

"I think (as an empath) it’s quite difficult to rationale with a hint… I always look for meaning or context and if there’s non it’s confusing. Not difficult, but hard to work out..

Direct constructive feedback is precise and so therefore helpful in my experience.

“Tom, your brew is weak, stir it longer..” ✅

“There’s just something odd about this brew you’ve made..” 💥🤯"

This is much rather have direct and clear feedback 🤣

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By *eneralKenobiMan
4 weeks ago

North Angus

Too easily

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By *onnie 90Woman
4 weeks ago

Leeds

"Can you?"

I can easily and always do. However I do get very frustrated when others don't. I often get to the stage where I know they've noticed the hint but are just plain ignorant and full of self entitlement. You know, they believe that if they ignore it long enough and push their luck hard enough I'll give in. It never works.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
4 weeks ago

When they stop sending nudes, it often means they have someone new on their radar. Not been wrong so far 🤷‍♀️🤣

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By *exyInLatinMan
4 weeks ago

Warsop

"When they stop sending nudes, it often means they have someone new on their radar. Not been wrong so far 🤷‍♀️🤣"

The nude test 🤣

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By *ecretxLoverWoman
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

"When they stop sending nudes, it often means they have someone new on their radar. Not been wrong so far 🤷‍♀️🤣"

This, and then have the cheek to come back when it goes tits up lol

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By *sStephenPickle OP Man
4 weeks ago

Ends

"When they stop sending nudes, it often means they have someone new on their radar. Not been wrong so far 🤷‍♀️🤣

This, and then have the cheek to come back when it goes tits up lol "

Punny.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
4 weeks ago

from mars

Yep …. And I do ….

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By *rHotNottsMan
4 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Usually, but with women often they don’t even give you a hint, they expect you to be a mind reader and message them.

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By *peedyGMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

I'm a people person and can definitely tell better in that situation.... on here i'm in a constant state of confusion 🤣

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By *elloWoman
4 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"Can you?"

Whenever I do take the hint it seems I've got it wrong so I try to ignore hints.

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By *iniskirtCouple
4 weeks ago

Paisley

Others don’t take it as well as some on here x

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By *att71Man
4 weeks ago

North Wilts

ok I got it , it was a big hint lol

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By *eardedguy83Man
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire

I like to think that I can. Don’t always get it right but preferable to making a complete ninny of yourself

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