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"Just message him, DD. He'd be nuts to turn you down. 😜" 🤣🫣 Oh Davina! This is just a general question obviously... But thanks 😜😁 | |||
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"*not me pulling up a chair to wait see if someone i fancy pops up so i can message complimenting them on there chopper " 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Take a seat, girl  | |||
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"*not me pulling up a chair to wait see if someone i fancy pops up so i can message complimenting them on there chopper " Don't be coy 😘🥷🤓 | |||
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"*not me pulling up a chair to wait see if someone i fancy pops up so i can message complimenting them on there chopper Don't be coy 😘🥷🤓" Can i see you karate chopper mr ninja 🙅♂️😘 | |||
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"Depends if I fancy them or not. Nothing wrong with being forward though, thirsty chicks are 😈" And if you don't fancy them? 😬 | |||
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"*not me pulling up a chair to wait see if someone i fancy pops up so i can message complimenting them on there chopper Don't be coy 😘🥷🤓 Can i see you karate chopper mr ninja 🙅♂️😘" If you want 😂🤓 | |||
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"Thank you for the responses so far ❤️ seems overwhelmingly positive for women taking the lead! " God yes. It's actually a real turn on 🔥🤓 | |||
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"Depends if I fancy them or not. Nothing wrong with being forward though, thirsty chicks are 😈 And if you don't fancy them? 😬 " I just hand them over to my wife to shag instead  | |||
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"*not me pulling up a chair to wait see if someone i fancy pops up so i can message complimenting them on there chopper " I was gunna send you a DM about your chopper tbf! | |||
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"*not me pulling up a chair to wait see if someone i fancy pops up so i can message complimenting them on there chopper I was gunna send you a DM about your chopper tbf! " Id reply but it would be too big sunshine 🫡 | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "I'd absolutely love it! It would not put me off one bit, I love a strong woman. | |||
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"Just message him, DD. He'd be nuts to turn you down. 😜 🤣🫣 Oh Davina! This is just a general question obviously... But thanks 😜😁" Well, there's always the chance you were "asking for a friend". 😉😝 After all, you're such a shrinking violet. 😂 | |||
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"*not me pulling up a chair to wait see if someone i fancy pops up so i can message complimenting them on there chopper I was gunna send you a DM about your chopper tbf! Id reply but it would be too big sunshine 🫡" What is this obsession with motorbikes? | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "I don't think women should be anything really. Apart from polite. Whatever feels right. If they want to kick things off fine. If they don't and would rather the guy did that fine. Just so long as its easy to communicate and polite, it's all good. | |||
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"*not me pulling up a chair to wait see if someone i fancy pops up so i can message complimenting them on there chopper I was gunna send you a DM about your chopper tbf! Id reply but it would be too big sunshine 🫡 What is this obsession with motorbikes? "Oh davina you tease you | |||
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"I've heard some people say it's emasculating or unfeminine of a woman to actively pursue. But if their masculinity is threatened by a woman making a move, it probably deserves to be threatened. If you like someone, go for it. If they're not into it, it saves you hanging around hoping for them to make the move when they're not actively interested 💜" I love this outlook! | |||
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"I've heard some people say it's emasculating or unfeminine of a woman to actively pursue. But if their masculinity is threatened by a woman making a move, it probably deserves to be threatened. If you like someone, go for it. If they're not into it, it saves you hanging around hoping for them to make the move when they're not actively interested 💜" 100% this!! | |||
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"Without wanting to sound condescending, I am finding it refreshing how many of the men in this thread are sounding a little bit vulnerable and open when talking about rejection and putting yourselves out there. It must be tough on here as a man with the ratios being so skewed. Really appreciate the responses ❤️" Omg you re right, most of the time i thought i was doing something wrong, but i put myself in a woman s shoes and if i get hundreds of msgs every day i would ignore a lot of them… | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "I like it. It won't make me want to meet someone I wouldn't have wanted to anyway but I like it when a woman knows what she wants and has the confidence to go for it. | |||
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"I've heard some people say it's emasculating or unfeminine of a woman to actively pursue. But if their masculinity is threatened by a woman making a move, it probably deserves to be threatened. If you like someone, go for it. If they're not into it, it saves you hanging around hoping for them to make the move when they're not actively interested 💜 100% this!!" Seconded, we’re all in for a penny.. | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "I'd absolutely love it😁 | |||
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"Of course it’s flattering and I appreciate any woman who comes forward. Just say more than hi though" What about "meet now?" | |||
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"Of course it’s flattering and I appreciate any woman who comes forward. Just say more than hi though What about "meet now?" "If there was a please at the end I might be more enclined to actually reply. Granted, it would still be no but I made the effort | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "I haven't sent a first message to a woman on here in 3 years I believe...and I definitely wouldn't chase anyone. The way I see it, on fab I am the "prize" ( even though that might make me sound vain) - because although there are so many men on fab, there are a very small number of men with good profiles - and I am one of them...and how do I know I am one of them? I am being told almost every day by the women messaging me FIRST...so yes I am very comfortable with women messaging first...and I kinda like it that way...so please continue ladies 😉 | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased?
I haven't sent a first message to a woman on here in 3 years I believe...and I definitely wouldn't chase anyone. The way I see it, on fab I am the "prize" ( even though that might make me sound vain) - because although there are so many men on fab, there are a very small number of men with good profiles - and I am one of them...and how do I know I am one of them? I am being told almost every day by the women messaging me FIRST...so yes I am very comfortable with women messaging first...and I kinda like it that way...so please continue ladies 😉"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👌 | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "i would guess 99% would be over the moon to get a message from a young lady as stunning as you are,,,  | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "Never been put off by a woman instigating contact or taking the lead on a date etc. Always found it really positive | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Fantastic approach tbh Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? " | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "Id adore if more women messaged first. It’s always difficult especially being still new to make the first move as messages get deleted due to the tides that they get daily or just nerves at times It would be nice haha | |||
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Fingers crossed for you all 🤞 | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "I think most men would take it as a compliment and be happy to be contacted by a woman. | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased?
I haven't sent a first message to a woman on here in 3 years I believe...and I definitely wouldn't chase anyone. The way I see it, on fab I am the "prize" ( even though that might make me sound vain) - because although there are so many men on fab, there are a very small number of men with good profiles - and I am one of them...and how do I know I am one of them? I am being told almost every day by the women messaging me FIRST...so yes I am very comfortable with women messaging first...and I kinda like it that way...so please continue ladies 😉"I agree with you , obviously I don’t have your abs so it doesn’t happen to me every day 
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "Well put the shoe on the other foot ? .. do you enjoy a man making the first move, initiating conversation, chasing you ? .. if there's attraction, I'm guessing so... So .. men are the same. It's always nice to have someone take an interest in you. All this Dom bull sub stuff comes after your figures out each others vibes needs wants. It doesn't feature in the initial sparks hello introductions. Personally I am really taken by a keen girl, always been the way things have happened for me, I get chased, rarely do the chasing, but in bed I'm much more in charge of things. It's actually very natural. In many species the female makes the move towards the male, then the male ravages the female !! Lol | |||
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"Hopefully some lovely women will read this thread and feel a bit braver about making the first move
Fingers crossed for you all 🤞"• From experience it's •mostly• women from outside of the forå who have made that first move with me. The cohesive apathy within the forå breeds that reluctance. Unfortunately....I guess... | |||
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"I need to get braver at this also 💪💪💪💪" Be brave, I dare you! | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "I’ll be suspicious. Instant block | |||
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"Just my personal experience, but every time I have tried it hasn't worked. Maybe men enjoy the chase, the competition, the trophy x " Maybe that could be true, but maybe you approached the wrong men who didn't fancy you. I wouldn't turn you down feel free to pm me 😉 You might be amazed at what pming someone you like leads to 🤷🏽♂️ We all have different tastes. | |||
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"Just my personal experience, but every time I have tried it hasn't worked. Maybe men enjoy the chase, the competition, the trophy x " Definitely their loss x | |||
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"I find it hard to describe my preference to be honest. I like it when a woman shows an interest in me by flirting and even wouldn't mind her being the one to suggest meeting up or being forward with their intentions. However, it can put me off if it's too much flirting or sexual chat without the balance of every day conversation too because I just find it too overwhelming. It can also happen if they constantly compliment me because it just feels like love-bombing and like they're putting me on a pedestal which just makes me a bit uncomfortable. So yeah, show and interest and be the one to decide to meet, just don't go overboard with it." Its a hard life sometimes jo 😁 | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "Rarely do women message first, and if they do they tend to (perhaps it's just me) to have an ulterior motive to what the actually want....the last 3 women/couples to message me first literally wanted to use my brain to get them off because they was home alone and bored | |||
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"I find it hard to describe my preference to be honest. I like it when a woman shows an interest in me by flirting and even wouldn't mind her being the one to suggest meeting up or being forward with their intentions. However, it can put me off if it's too much flirting or sexual chat without the balance of every day conversation too because I just find it too overwhelming. It can also happen if they constantly compliment me because it just feels like love-bombing and like they're putting me on a pedestal which just makes me a bit uncomfortable. So yeah, show and interest and be the one to decide to meet, just don't go overboard with it. Its a hard life sometimes jo 😁" I know, that sounded very "woe is me" didn't it? 😅 | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "Hard yes for the first 2 paragraphs and fuck no to the 3rd. I mean, let's ignore messaging or making the first move. But once they're comfortable, if women could suggest meeting up first or be more open to giving alternative suggestions if a guy's time doesn't work - I'm sure it'd be much appreciated. Whoever thinks otherwise or encourages women to think like the 3rd paragraph is (figuratively) my enemy. | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "Nope - Come’n get it! | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? 100% yes, why not Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? " | |||
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"Dya know what I’ve learnt on Fab? On those rare occasions a lady has messaged me, their ice-breakers suck just as much as the men’s 😄 “Hi” “How are you?”" 🤣 very true | |||
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"I need to get braver at this also 💪💪💪💪" Well, you've been brave before 😉🤣 | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "As a default, I would assume that women don't fancy me... so if they're forward, I will know that they do fancy me. On fab in particular, I would have thought that being forward and saying what you want is a good thing. Cal | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "100% I think the women are 80-90% more likely to get a repsponse from men too whereas the women on here often don’t reply or stop after 2 or 3 messages | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "I think women should just go for it, be themselves because most men will like a confident woman who knows her own mind. Plus, that guy she sees, might have already messaged her, but his message is lost in the 100s of messages she has already received. | |||
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"I’d be suspicious. Instant block" Same, unless we’ve interacted elsewhere on here. | |||
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"I don’t mind either way but with the crap in women’s inboxes it’d probably be easier to be proactive rather than wade through dicks and Wuu2 messages " Demonchrome - how do you feel about women messaging first 🤔 | |||
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"I don’t mind either way but with the crap in women’s inboxes it’d probably be easier to be proactive rather than wade through dicks and Wuu2 messages Demonchrome - how do you feel about women messaging first 🤔 " I don’t mind it at all | |||
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"On the flip side, when I’ve messaged a guy 1st & been interested, they do mention it’s slightly intimidating & they like doing the chasing 🤷🏻♀️ That might be more in the real world than on fab though" This was partly my worry! I've met men on dating apps etc before who have told me I'm intimidating because I'm sexually confident and outgoing
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"I don’t mind either way but with the crap in women’s inboxes it’d probably be easier to be proactive rather than wade through dicks and Wuu2 messages Demonchrome - how do you feel about women messaging first 🤔 I don’t mind it at all " | |||
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"On the flip side, when I’ve messaged a guy 1st & been interested, they do mention it’s slightly intimidating & they like doing the chasing 🤷🏻♀️ That might be more in the real world than on fab though This was partly my worry! I've met men on dating apps etc before who have told me I'm intimidating because I'm sexually confident and outgoing
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My experience has been exactly the opposite, and it's a shame because playing to be sexually dominant and forward for the first time in my life is a big turn-on for me.
Sadly, I have even blocked trying, “I guess you are a man pretending to be a woman” told me one before block my previous account. Recently he was watching me on cam and texted me a flirting message, it was a real satisfaction to make him remember me before blocking him
Tbh, I haven't tried it too much because when I do it, men just ignore my first approach or after days of banter they ghost me
On the other hand, 900 messages in my inbox of alpha, dominant, stallion guys saying “free to fuck?”.
Please, say the truth sexy hunters, you are afraid of a string woman and you love the chase, don't you?
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "Welcome it. It’s a pleasant surprise when it happens compared to the usual empty inbox | |||
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"Liers!
My experience has been exactly the opposite, and it's a shame because playing to be sexually dominant and forward for the first time in my life is a big turn-on for me.
Sadly, I have even blocked trying, “I guess you are a man pretending to be a woman” told me one before block my previous account. Recently he was watching me on cam and texted me a flirting message, it was a real satisfaction to make him remember me before blocking him
Tbh, I haven't tried it too much because when I do it, men just ignore my first approach or after days of banter they ghost me
On the other hand, 900 messages in my inbox of alpha, dominant, stallion guys saying “free to fuck?”.
Please, say the truth sexy hunters, you are afraid of a string woman and you love the chase, don't you?
"I'm totally straight but my opinion of men are that they morons in the main I'm sorry you've had a negative response from playing that dominant part and finding its exactly what you're looking for, keep going, push through the bell ends that reject it because not all men respond negatively, certainly not me, I like a woman who knows exactly what she wants. Who better to tell me what a woman wants than a woman, I'm all for it | |||
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"Liers!
My experience has been exactly the opposite, and it's a shame because playing to be sexually dominant and forward for the first time in my life is a big turn-on for me.
Sadly, I have even blocked trying, “I guess you are a man pretending to be a woman” told me one before block my previous account. Recently he was watching me on cam and texted me a flirting message, it was a real satisfaction to make him remember me before blocking him
Tbh, I haven't tried it too much because when I do it, men just ignore my first approach or after days of banter they ghost me
On the other hand, 900 messages in my inbox of alpha, dominant, stallion guys saying “free to fuck?”.
Please, say the truth sexy hunters, you are afraid of a string woman and you love the chase, don't you?
"Oh! I’ll be honest and say it’s been the opposite for me. Many men seem to enjoy a strong lady. There’s also something really satisfying in making any dick of a man who uses the term Alpha get on his knees  - but that’s a different thread entirely | |||
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"How do you feel about a woman messaging first or doing the chasing/being forward on here? Do men like it when a woman comes across as "keen", is obviously flirty, or suggests meeting up first? Or does that put you off? Do you think women should be demure and coy and wait to be chased? "It’s really sexy when the woman chases and want it all the time especially be a freak makes me wanna fuck every 5 min and pleasure the lady good x | |||
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"You don’t ask you don’t get "This is my theory too. I'm comfortable in myself so I'll happily message anyone for any reason. Even if it's forum or friendly chat related and not to meet up or flirt. But I'm also kinda shy/submissive at times so like a healthy balance. After that bat of the eyelashes I do prefer a guy who can lead as much as I do | |||
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"You don’t ask you don’t get
This is my theory too.
I'm comfortable in myself so I'll happily message anyone for any reason. Even if it's forum or friendly chat related and not to meet up or flirt.
But I'm also kinda shy/submissive at times so like a healthy balance. After that bat of the eyelashes I do prefer a guy who can lead as much as I do "It’s a balance isn’t it and depends on your mood too I think | |||
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"Please, say the truth sexy hunters, you are afraid of a string woman and you love the chase, don't you? "• I disagree. In all the messages I've received there was never any semblance of chasing or being chased. It's not something I enjoy, other than mutual coquettish behaviour which is part and parcel of the 'getting to know you stage'. | |||
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