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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I feel that this post should be shared with all everywhere. hope ya dont mind me nicking ur text x

HERE IS ONE FOR ALL U LADIES AND GENTS TO SEE UR OPINIONS!!!,I myself am at a total loss why some NOT all, members from this site feel they have to discuss their conquests (ie whom they have shagged,sucked,plucked etc) in the chatroom, surly this is a private matter between the consenting adults taking part in the meet and not for all and their granny to know about. I feel that the verification a member chooses to leave is enough, and airing the laundry in the room is uncalled for.,Whats your Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel that this post should be shared with all everywhere. hope ya dont mind me nicking ur text x

HERE IS ONE FOR ALL U LADIES AND GENTS TO SEE UR OPINIONS!!!,I myself am at a total loss why some NOT all, members from this site feel they have to discuss their conquests (ie whom they have shagged,sucked,plucked etc) in the chatroom, surly this is a private matter between the consenting adults taking part in the meet and not for all and their granny to know about. I feel that the verification a member chooses to leave is enough, and airing the laundry in the room is uncalled for.,Whats your Thoughts?"

im wiv ya there hunni... getting on ones last nerve here xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Only because i agree totally in what they are saying.

Ive been on the receiving end of gossips on here and another site and it really pisses me off!!! BIG time. To me they have a sad life and nowt better to do than gossip about others lives!!!! and also a lot jealousy goes on too. I say 'get over it and get a life'

I could go on for hrs about this post but i aint gonna haha.

Even tonight i recieved a mail of a single guy saying 'im glad i didnt meet you cuz if the rumours are true you shudnt even be on here' WTF!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I don't go into chat but I think its a shitty way to behave towards anyone..Id be disgusted if I heard private information being discussed like that...unless it was between the people involved,its got bugger all to do with the rest of us...Its obviously people bigging themselves up to make themselves look like they're super shags lol

I find that those who boast the most about their conquests are usually the worst in the sack!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only because i agree totally in what they are saying.

Ive been on the receiving end of gossips on here and another site and it really pisses me off!!! BIG time. To me they have a sad life and nowt better to do than gossip about others lives!!!! and also a lot jealousy goes on too. I say 'get over it and get a life'

I could go on for hrs about this post but i aint gonna haha.

Even tonight i recieved a mail of a single guy saying 'im glad i didnt meet you cuz if the rumours are true you shudnt even be on here' WTF!!! "

awhhhhhhhhhhhhhh well i think ur lovely so bollox to em, i had a single fem do the same to me bout a guy i saw ages ago, sad sad ppl xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you ladies, verifications are enough, just because people choose to swing does not mean they should loose the common morals i.e. discussing conquests etc in open chat.

I have been told in the chat room many times I am hung like a mouse and a crap shag, while of course true, it is still quite hurtful!

Some of the men on here piss me off sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to say this and these ppl know who they are its even worse wen ppl dont quite come out n say what they really mean pi***s me right off argggggggggg......... sneaky n very hurtful n damaging at times sory rant over xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nowt to do with the regulars on here i hasten to add but ppl that say stuff bout ppl theyve met .... keep it private folks please !!!! xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

We never meet with anyone who tries to arrange a meet or talk about a meet in the chatroom.

We like discretion, and that for us isn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"have to say this and these ppl know who they are its even worse wen ppl dont quite come out n say what they really mean pi***s me right off argggggggggg......... sneaky n very hurtful n damaging at times sory rant over xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

I agree chick.

They never seem to have the balls to say anything to our faces! grrrrrrrr. You got me on one now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have to say this and these ppl know who they are its even worse wen ppl dont quite come out n say what they really mean pi***s me right off argggggggggg......... sneaky n very hurtful n damaging at times sory rant over xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I agree chick.

makes two of us .... now im sucking on me chocolate willy iwas saving that for a special occasion!!! lol xxxxxxxxx

They never seem to have the balls to say anything to our faces! grrrrrrrr. You got me on one now lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now im having to suck on me chocolate willy i was saving for a special occasion.. see what these ppl make me do arggggggggggggg lol xxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *eznhannahCouple
over a year ago

leeds

hardly ever go in chat, and when i do it seems incredibly sad, i mean some of them are there all day and night dont they have a life, it also seems incredibly cliquey, which i dont mind as i have nothing to say in there anyway, to quote the great morrissey "it says nothing to me about my (our) life

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By *eznhannahCouple
over a year ago

leeds

sorry also meant to comment about the very impressive chests of the first 2 posters in this thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mod in the chat rooms and I dont think they have sad lives at all. I work full time but like to have a laff in the rooms. I must admit I have never heard ppl in rooms discussing their conquests, only the ones that dont have any conquests. yes there are bitches in chat rooms there are bitches everwhere. The chat rooms are a good place to meet ppl arrange socials etc., then take it from there. please dont tar us all as having sad lives cos I for one dont. Am only replying to this cos just come in from a brilliant nite with most the chatroom in town. We aint got sad lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think it depend whats being talked about and in what way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry also meant to comment about the very impressive chests of the first 2 posters in this thread lol"
thank u mwah xxx lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well Well Well........Another fine example of some sad t**t on here.

Here is another mail i receieved this mornin---------------

a few people were talkin an said in one of the chatrooms that your bad news you have hep c thats why your baby father left you or something now it could be a nasty rumour but if you do i dont think its a very good idea to be swingin if you have that disease

WHO EVER YOU ARE U NEED TO GROW AND GET A LIFE........AND REALLY HAVE NO NEED TO EXPLAIN MYSELF TO SOME SADDO!! AS MY GENUINE FRIENDS KNOW ME.

YOU ARE REPORTED AND BLOCKED!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well Well Well........Another fine example of some sad t**t on here.

Here is another mail i receieved this mornin---------------

a few people were talkin an said in one of the chatrooms that your bad news you have hep c thats why your baby father left you or something now it could be a nasty rumour but if you do i dont think its a very good idea to be swingin if you have that disease

WHO EVER YOU ARE U NEED TO GROW AND GET A LIFE........AND REALLY HAVE NO NEED TO EXPLAIN MYSELF TO SOME SADDO!! AS MY GENUINE FRIENDS KNOW ME.

YOU ARE REPORTED AND BLOCKED!!

"

IN FACT A NEW THREAD FOR THIS I THINK!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We rarely discuss anyone with anyone... We don't use chat often but have been known to read what peeps are saying.. If we found we were being chatted about like that we'd probably not see the couple again... simple as lol.

Not a nice thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am in the chatroom a lot (i have no life) and i have never heard anyone talk about u or someone else like that?? maybe they do it in whispers? who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well Well Well........Another fine example of some sad t**t on here.

Here is another mail i receieved this mornin---------------

a few people were talkin an said in one of the chatrooms that your bad news you have hep c thats why your baby father left you or something now it could be a nasty rumour but if you do i dont think its a very good idea to be swingin if you have that disease

WHO EVER YOU ARE U NEED TO GROW AND GET A LIFE........AND REALLY HAVE NO NEED TO EXPLAIN MYSELF TO SOME SADDO!! AS MY GENUINE FRIENDS KNOW ME.

YOU ARE REPORTED AND BLOCKED!!

IN FACT A NEW THREAD FOR THIS I THINK!"

Fook me........!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

exactally notts.....

I have an idea who it is, some guy that i was chatting to for a while, was coming to meet me then a verification went on profile and he got the hump BIG time he started to be abusive.

So many jealous guys out there they need to get a life!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and for the people moaning about chatroom users having no life and what ever, we do have a life we are just able to reply to a convo in under 5 mins with out having to take a long time to think about what we are going to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG that sort of accusation is heading towards bloody legal action to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fact I'm sure the libel laws now cover internet chat rooms!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah if only eh....bigfella.

Just as easy to block and report, but no doubt someone like that will be back with other ideas!!

unfortunatly it always happens to me, and getting pretty pissed off with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

http://www.guardian.co.uk/media/2006/mar/23/digitalmedia.law

maye not, I know it was an extreme case, but the presedent in law has been set, maybe site admin should take note too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Issy it must have been horrible to recieve such vile mails and no wonder you are so angry, I would be too.

Hopefully these guys will be tarred and feathered (thats what happens when you are reported just ask bigfella) but seriously ignore what the shallow self obsessed gossip mongers say and rise above it, I know its not easy and it hurts but you do have friends here you can turn to for support, you are not unprotected or alone xxx

PS it took me 20 minutes to think of that one Kitty lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Issy it must have been horrible to recieve such vile mails and no wonder you are so angry, I would be too.

Hopefully these guys will be tarred and feathered (thats what happens when you are reported just ask bigfella) but seriously ignore what the shallow self obsessed gossip mongers say and rise above it, I know its not easy and it hurts but you do have friends here you can turn to for support, you are not unprotected or alone xxx

PS it took me 20 minutes to think of that one Kitty lol"

Cor 20 mins, ur getting faster hun LOL x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for that chick xx yeah i have very good friends on here they know me and thats all that matters.

So you guys that find it rather amusing by doing that ...hope it happens to you!!!!

And i aint gonna stoop to your level SAD T**TS!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*WA* thought I would help you out on the spelling there babes lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me again..lol still on one and no chocolate willy to suck now, id just like to point out the sneaky ppl that try n keep a track ov what their contacts are doing can be dangerous too, they come on in stealth mode n sneak these ppl can make lives a misery on here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look ^^^^^^ its the three Boobateers LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look ^^^^^^ its the three Boobateers LOL"
and dont we all look might fine lol xxx

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

people who do this have no class .I can only assume a shag is so few and far between they feel the need to big it up.The verifications are fine because if you want to remain discreet you can opt out.

mr x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look ^^^^^^ its the three Boobateers LOLand dont we all look might fine lol xxx"

mmmwwwaaaahhhhhhh xxxxxxxxxxx busty buddies hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look ^^^^^^ its the three Boobateers LOLand dont we all look might fine lol xxx

mmmwwwaaaahhhhhhh xxxxxxxxxxx busty buddies hehe "
hop ul be wearing something appropriate to show ur boobies off at the social like moi? xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look ^^^^^^ its the three Boobateers LOLand dont we all look might fine lol xxx

mmmwwwaaaahhhhhhh xxxxxxxxxxx busty buddies hehe hop ul be wearing something appropriate to show ur boobies off at the social like moi? xxxx"

oh i certainly will be....cracking pairs like that ya cant be hideing em mmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look ^^^^^^ its the three Boobateers LOLand dont we all look might fine lol xxx

mmmwwwaaaahhhhhhh xxxxxxxxxxx busty buddies hehe hop ul be wearing something appropriate to show ur boobies off at the social like moi? xxxx

oh i certainly will be....cracking pairs like that ya cant be hideing em mmmmmmmmmm"
besides always helps with getting served at bars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol we only know each other by our boobies so we better be flashing them else we will have no idea who we are lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol we only know each other by our boobies so we better be flashing them else we will have no idea who we are lol"
lol il be the one with the brummie accent, drinking pints ov stella n jager shots xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quote: "We never meet with anyone who tries to arrange a meet or talk about a meet in the chatroom.

We like discretion, and that for us isn't." Rugbycouple.

Sorry the quote thing didn't work!

I have to agree about discretion being all for me as well. I think maybe a 'See you Saturday' or similar is acceptable if both OK with that as it could mean anything but have to say there is no need for the complete episode to be aired in public.

To me those that do all that are just doing the sad 'look at me' thing.

Can I also add I feel some of the verifications published are unnecessarily detailed! A Verification is just that the people concerned are who they say they are and met / phoned / webcammed as arranged.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I agree with that Chish......it makes me cringe some of the verifications of how good a suck or f*** they are .

It reminds me of 15 year olds bragging about their first stab at sex !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some av never even heard of the word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just playing Devil's advocate here, but people are always having a go for guys with crap profiles and pictures of their own cocks etc. But yet this would suggest that maybe their choice of character by profile isn't too good anyway.

I shall await the abuse for even suggesting such a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having read that back, it sounds like i'm blaming the people getting the grief.

What i mean is that no matter how great a profile or pic may be, you can never know the person you are meeting unless you've spent time with them.

That's why we need more socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with that Chish......it makes me cringe some of the verifications of how good a suck or f*** they are .

It reminds me of 15 year olds bragging about their first stab at sex !

"

I know we would cringe if someone commented on how wet Mrs Two2 got or any such thing............

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