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By *reggSausage OP   Man
3 days ago

Redruth

What would you change

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By *onnachakeaneMan
3 days ago

Dundrum

Unbalanced gender ratio…

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By *eliWoman
3 days ago

.

The attitude/expectations of people when they sign up/log in.

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By *orthern_nudieMan
3 days ago

leeds

Make the site modern and turn it into an app

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By *ensual_SamMan
3 days ago

Bracknell

Women have to message first 🤣

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By *agic.MMan
3 days ago

Orpington

I'd introduce ID verification...and an IQ test or something 🤭 - with the result being shown on one's profile 😏

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By *eyeYCouple
3 days ago

Nr Leicester

Stricter verification on joining, without it members pictures are invisible.

Aware that's not foolproof, but may reduce some spurious profiles 🤷

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By *eyeYCouple
3 days ago

Nr Leicester


"Women have to message first 🤣"

In fairness that worked for us.. Bum ble 😜

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By *ittlebirdWoman
3 days ago

The Big Smoke

I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile.

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By *hil most chillMan
3 days ago

London, South East & Europe

Weekly limit on thread repetition in the forums

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By *reggSausage OP   Man
3 days ago

Redruth


"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile. "

THiS is what we are really here for, something relevant to the random conversations we would like to have

Oh and diplodocus, hands down, chilled, wanders round, eats and then eats some more, my spirit animal

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By *antasticFreddoMan
3 days ago

South Manchester


"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile. "

Could I suggest going one further and insist everyone posts a picture of them as their favourite dinosaur? You'd learn so much more about a person! Stegosaurus by the by

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By *ude LawMan
3 days ago

Harrogate

So, in the FAQ section where it says "how do we add captions to our photos?"

The answer is "unfortunately, you can't any more. This feature was lost when we moved servers in December 2008. We hope to bring it back at some point."

Well, I'm still hoping. But it's been 17 years now.

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By *ealitybitesMan
3 days ago

Belfast


"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile. "

What if you are a dinosaur?

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
3 days ago

Halloween Town, Dudleyish.

A checkbox pop up before sending a message that says:

"I have read the profile and understand that the person/people being messaged have no obligation to read or reply to this message".

Also being able to search by body type would be nice.

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By *hiversMan
3 days ago

Dinas Powys


"Stricter verification on joining, without it members pictures are invisible.

Aware that's not foolproof, but may reduce some spurious profiles 🤷"

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By *heVikingJarlMan
3 days ago

behind you

More filtration options, in order to find like minded people

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By *ittlebirdWoman
3 days ago

The Big Smoke


"So, in the FAQ section where it says "how do we add captions to our photos?"

The answer is "unfortunately, you can't any more. This feature was lost when we moved servers in December 2008. We hope to bring it back at some point."

Well, I'm still hoping. But it's been 17 years now."

What caption are you going to put on your thighs pic?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
3 days ago

The Big Smoke


"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile.

What if you are a dinosaur? "

Then the answer would be “me” 🤷‍♂️

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By *iss DevilWoman
3 days ago

Bedford


"Make the site modern and turn it into an app"

Nooooo! I tried a couple of other apps, too Instagram-like, perfect for content creators but hard to connect otherwise.

I would allow ban appeals - someone put false accusations against me, my account got suspended for 5 days and there was no way I could appeal the ban.

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By *hiversMan
3 days ago

Dinas Powys


"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile. "

Ankylosaurus... or the Iguanadon because they are giving permanent 👍

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
3 days ago

Crumpet Castle

I would ban passive aggression

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By *iss DevilWoman
3 days ago

Bedford


"Women have to message first 🤣"

That would be a good idea, it could stop women being harassed by hundreds of messages within minutes of joining, giving them some breathing space. And might actually make profiles more appealing if women were choosing who to message.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
3 days ago

Crumpet Castle

I'd bring in an automatic death taser that blasted the passive aggressors as well as the 'i am lovely' brigade.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 days ago

Reading

A location limiter. Only people nearby could message me.

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By *rSircumsizedMan
3 days ago

Risca

The ability to block a sex from viewing your profile.

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By *ustcallMan
3 days ago

Glasgow

It’s a pity that we can’t do three strikes and you’re out, fail to turn up three times and it’s goodbye, that would definitely dispense the time wasters

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By *hePervertedPlumberMan
3 days ago

Edinburgh

Make it strictly for swingers. Too many men treat it like a hook up site, expecting quick, easy sex with no connection. Too many women treat it like a dating site, expecting love, romance and waiting for Prince charming! Of course, there has to be attraction and connection but as a part of swinging, not dating!

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By *ust and PoundCouple
3 days ago

Cheshire

The whole site needs an overhaul.

I enjoy the forum, but the amount of repeated and low effort posts are grating.

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By *ingerTatsMuscleMan
3 days ago

Between your legs

That women didnt boot off if I messaged 'hello', it's a perfect acceptable opening message

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
3 days ago

Brum


"The whole site needs an overhaul.

I enjoy the forum, but the amount of repeated and low effort posts are grating."

Yeah but then how would we know what you’ve had for dinner/tea?

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By *inkSwingCouple
3 days ago

Preston

Add a clique badge for those in it 😁

Swing

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By *rSircumsizedMan
3 days ago

Risca


"The whole site needs an overhaul.

I enjoy the forum, but the amount of repeated and low effort posts are grating.

Yeah but then how would we know what you’ve had for dinner/tea?

"

Hotdogs yesterday

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
3 days ago

Brum


"The whole site needs an overhaul.

I enjoy the forum, but the amount of repeated and low effort posts are grating.

Yeah but then how would we know what you’ve had for dinner/tea?

Hotdogs yesterday "

Even the fish were hot yesterday!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
3 days ago

Lincolnshire

Not having access to a lot of the site unless you are a paid up member.

A better verification process when singing up.

A progress bar on how much of your profile you have completed - you can then filter out ones that are less than 50%.

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By *ude LawMan
3 days ago

Harrogate


"Weekly limit on thread repetition in the forums"

Check out Daft Punk's new single "Get Lucky" if you get the chance.

Sound of the summer.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
3 days ago

Chichester

I would restrict what photos people can upload. Single profiles only single pics. Couple profiles couple pics etc

Would completely remove videos it’s not needed but n a contact site . This isn’t a porn site nor OF free And frankly it’s mad they have zero model releases / compliance etc like a professional content site would .

I would make it once you send a message you can’t send another to same person until they reply or delete and a 30 day timer clears

Auto reply for people to say no thanks not interested. So people stop moaning about messages left

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By *appyOldOneMan
3 days ago

Cinderford

On the MEETS/EVENTS lists add a filter for who people are looking for, as well as for who is posting

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By *entlemanJay39Man
3 days ago

Northampton


"I would restrict what photos people can upload. Single profiles only single pics. Couple profiles couple pics etc

Would completely remove videos it’s not needed but n a contact site . This isn’t a porn site nor OF free And frankly it’s mad they have zero model releases / compliance etc like a professional content site would .

I would make it once you send a message you can’t send another to same person until they reply or delete and a 30 day timer clears

Auto reply for people to say no thanks not interested. So people stop moaning about messages left "

Great ideas above.

I'd add video verification vids, but make them an annual occurrence, so fake profiles are harder to manage.

But also separate log ins for couples accounts, with something to indicate whether you're speaking to each respective person. Instead of blokes pretending to be their wives to get their kicks.

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By *hiversMan
3 days ago

Dinas Powys


"I would restrict what photos people can upload. Single profiles only single pics. Couple profiles couple pics etc

Would completely remove videos it’s not needed but n a contact site . This isn’t a porn site nor OF free And frankly it’s mad they have zero model releases / compliance etc like a professional content site would .

I would make it once you send a message you can’t send another to same person until they reply or delete and a 30 day timer clears

Auto reply for people to say no thanks not interested. So people stop moaning about messages left "

All sensible ideas, and probably pretty easy to implement...

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 days ago

Reading


"Make it strictly for swingers. Too many men treat it like a hook up site, expecting quick, easy sex with no connection. Too many women treat it like a dating site, expecting love, romance and waiting for Prince charming! Of course, there has to be attraction and connection but as a part of swinging, not dating! "

The site would quickly die.

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By *exyInLatinMan
3 days ago

Warsop

I know its not as deep as the other but gifs and memes in the forum would be nice 🤣

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By *ellhungvweMan
3 days ago

Cheltenham

I think the site generally works well. The only thing I would add is stronger ID verification.

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By *ensual_SamMan
3 days ago

Bracknell


"I would restrict what photos people can upload. Single profiles only single pics. Couple profiles couple pics etc

Would completely remove videos it’s not needed but n a contact site . This isn’t a porn site nor OF free And frankly it’s mad they have zero model releases / compliance etc like a professional content site would .

I would make it once you send a message you can’t send another to same person until they reply or delete and a 30 day timer clears

Auto reply for people to say no thanks not interested. So people stop moaning about messages left "

Auto reply for messaging is a great ide.

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By *rHotNottsMan
3 days ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Multi thread forum posts & thread subscriptions would be good

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By *achUKMan
3 days ago

Billericay

I'd want to see some mechanism to report fake profiles. A common trick is when you catch on it's a fake profile they block you which prevents you from reporting them.

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By *ad NannaWoman
3 days ago

East London

More hot men who fancy fat, middle aged, lazy women who can't be arsed to dress up for sex.

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By *ad NannaWoman
3 days ago

East London


"I know its not as deep as the other but gifs and memes in the forum would be nice 🤣"

Yea. Nothing better than having to scroll through countless memes and gifs to get to actual comments

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By *ad NannaWoman
3 days ago

East London


"I know its not as deep as the other but gifs and memes in the forum would be nice 🤣

Yea. Nothing better than having to scroll through countless memes and gifs to get to actual comments "

They could have a dedicated meme/gif section for people who like that stuff.

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By *antasticFreddoMan
3 days ago

South Manchester


"More hot men who fancy fat, middle aged, lazy women who can't be arsed to dress up for sex.

"

You rang?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
3 days ago

Norwich


"Make it strictly for swingers. Too many men treat it like a hook up site, expecting quick, easy sex with no connection. Too many women treat it like a dating site, expecting love, romance and waiting for Prince charming! Of course, there has to be attraction and connection but as a part of swinging, not dating! "

This, all swinging sites seem to be plagued by this.

Want hook up? Try Tinder

Want date? Match dot com

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By *illxxMan
3 days ago

motherwell

All members have to be photo verified. That might out the many fake profiles

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By *teveanddebsCouple
3 days ago

Norwich


"I'd want to see some mechanism to report fake profiles. A common trick is when you catch on it's a fake profile they block you which prevents you from reporting them."

No it doesn't, when you go to the page that says you're blocked there is an option to report them there.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
3 days ago

Norwich


"I would restrict what photos people can upload. Single profiles only single pics. Couple profiles couple pics etc

Would completely remove videos it’s not needed but n a contact site . This isn’t a porn site nor OF free And frankly it’s mad they have zero model releases / compliance etc like a professional content site would .

I would make it once you send a message you can’t send another to same person until they reply or delete and a 30 day timer clears

Auto reply for people to say no thanks not interested. So people stop moaning about messages left

Auto reply for messaging is a great ide."

Yeah all those people able to dodge a subsequent filter is a great idea.

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By *ensual_SamMan
3 days ago

Bracknell


"More hot men who fancy fat, middle aged, lazy women who can't be arsed to dress up for sex.

"

More hot women who fancy short, average, middle aged men to lazy to put the communication effort in 😉

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By *orkmanlookingMan
3 days ago

York

More filters such as will meet married lol

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By *ad NannaWoman
3 days ago

East London


"More hot men who fancy fat, middle aged, lazy women who can't be arsed to dress up for sex.

You rang?"

Who don't live miles away.

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By *antasticFreddoMan
3 days ago

South Manchester


"More hot men who fancy fat, middle aged, lazy women who can't be arsed to dress up for sex.

You rang?

Who don't live miles away."

I'll put the phone down

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By *ad NannaWoman
3 days ago

East London


"More hot men who fancy fat, middle aged, lazy women who can't be arsed to dress up for sex.

More hot women who fancy short, average, middle aged men to lazy to put the communication effort in 😉"

I think we were made for each other, Sam.

Assuming you think fat, lazy, middle aged women are hot

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By *ustus5555Woman
3 days ago

Mansfield


"I'd introduce ID verification...and an IQ test or something 🤭 - with the result being shown on one's profile 😏"

🤣🤣🤣🤣

I like that.

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By *ensual_SamMan
3 days ago

Bracknell


"More hot men who fancy fat, middle aged, lazy women who can't be arsed to dress up for sex.

More hot women who fancy short, average, middle aged men to lazy to put the communication effort in 😉

I think we were made for each other,

Sam.

Assuming you think fat, lazy, middle aged women are hot "

If it's meant to be it's meant to be 😘

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By *exyInLatinMan
3 days ago

Warsop


"I know its not as deep as the other but gifs and memes in the forum would be nice 🤣

Yea. Nothing better than having to scroll through countless memes and gifs to get to actual comments

They could have a dedicated meme/gif section for people who like that stuff. "

😂 I didn’t think that would cause combustion this morning 😜

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By *ad NannaWoman
3 days ago

East London


"I know its not as deep as the other but gifs and memes in the forum would be nice 🤣

Yea. Nothing better than having to scroll through countless memes and gifs to get to actual comments

They could have a dedicated meme/gif section for people who like that stuff.

😂 I didn’t think that would cause combustion this morning 😜"

I had Facebook flashbacks!

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
3 days ago

Basingstoke


"A checkbox pop up before sending a message that says:

"I have read the profile and understand that the person/people being messaged have no obligation to read or reply to this message".

Also being able to search by body type would be nice."

But if people can't read profiles, they're not going to read pop up messages...

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By *exyInLatinMan
3 days ago

Warsop


"I know its not as deep as the other but gifs and memes in the forum would be nice 🤣

Yea. Nothing better than having to scroll through countless memes and gifs to get to actual comments

They could have a dedicated meme/gif section for people who like that stuff.

😂 I didn’t think that would cause combustion this morning 😜

I had Facebook flashbacks!"

Well I apologise for that lol

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
3 days ago

Altrincham


"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile. "

Littlebird - this should be a Friday night thread! 💚 🦕

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By *ingsysMan
3 days ago

Scunthorpe

A red flag symbol if someone gets multiple complaints about them. Possibly associated to Ip or mac address of devices so if someone tries making a new profile the system flags it kinda like trying to use multiple profiles with same email address....

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By *_elia DominaTV/TS
3 days ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Improved gender categories,

Improved image categories,

Improved filters for viewing, blocking and searching.

Photo verification.

Profile must be completed to a certain level before activated.

Disclaimer, terms and conditions of site use be clicked before profile activated.

Links to other social media profile to be allowed as part of your profile if you choose.

Passive aggression instant warning. Repeated. Site ban.

Any person banded the ip is blocked from reactivation.

All reports dealt with within and completed within 12hrs. With personal email messaged information and reasoning.

Police are advised of serious offences.

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By *r TriomanMan
3 days ago

Malmesbury

Apart from implementing strategies to tackle abuse (although I'm not sure what these would be), I wouldn't change a thing - it's Fab (see what I did there?) just the way it is.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 days ago

Central


"I'd want to see some mechanism to report fake profiles. A common trick is when you catch on it's a fake profile they block you which prevents you from reporting them."

You can always report a profile when you're blocked - the profile details won't show but the button to report, block them, etc remains

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By *ami4321Man
3 days ago

wrexham

Be able to leave a comment on photos or videos

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
3 days ago

from mars

I’d have a dear Deidre section …. for any advice needed … 🙂

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

3 days ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'd add a specific 'site feedback' section to the forums so that people who come up with ideas to improve the site could post them somewhere that admin can view them, meaning that potential site improvements could be implemented if viable.

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By *hickthighs25Woman
3 days ago

Stockton


"I’d have a dear Deidre section …. for any advice needed … 🙂 "

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *exyInLatinMan
3 days ago

Warsop


"I’d have a dear Deidre section …. for any advice needed … 🙂

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣"

Dear ThickThighs can you help me with….🤣

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
3 days ago

Crumpet Castle

i'd put it on castors so it's easier to get out when you want to use it

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By *hickthighs25Woman
3 days ago

Stockton


"I’d have a dear Deidre section …. for any advice needed … 🙂

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Dear ThickThighs can you help me with….🤣"

Why of course my child 🤣

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By *lym4realCouple
3 days ago

plymouth

A simple reading test ? to see if they can reach say primary school level reading skills ( not asking for the world) and maybe some other tick box's like sense of humour ? or appreciation of irony/sarcasm ! or if you want to recieve cock pics ? xxx

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By *riel13Woman
3 days ago

Northampton

Get rid of the blue dot!

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By *ate234567Woman
3 days ago

maidstone


"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile. "

Triceratops

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By *iss DevilWoman
3 days ago

Bedford


"A red flag symbol if someone gets multiple complaints about them. Possibly associated to Ip or mac address of devices so if someone tries making a new profile the system flags it kinda like trying to use multiple profiles with same email address...."

That would be way too open to abuse

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By *issmorganWoman
3 days ago

Calderdale innit

The ability to reply privately to people on forum threads, for those who just want to be creepy.

Also distance filters on messages and make it so people can't add a pic and delete it, in order to cheat the no pics filter.

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By *parkle1974Woman
3 days ago

Leeds

I don't think single profiles should be allowed to display other people. I always question consent...do these people know they are being shown on a swingers site??

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By *he MinionMan
3 days ago

.


"More hot men who fancy fat, middle aged, lazy women who can't be arsed to dress up for sex.

"

More hot women who fancy fat, middle aged, lazy men who cant be arsed to dress up for sex.

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By *exyInLatinMan
3 days ago

Warsop


"I don't think single profiles should be allowed to display other people. I always question consent...do these people know they are being shown on a swingers site?? "

So I have thought this before, but I would go so far as to say that you should really show people not linked to the profile!

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By *parkle1974Woman
3 days ago

Leeds


"I don't think single profiles should be allowed to display other people. I always question consent...do these people know they are being shown on a swingers site??

So I have thought this before, but I would go so far as to say that you should really show people not linked to the profile! "

💯%

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By *rPunxMan
3 days ago

Hull

Being able yo upload videos like photos without having to be verified first

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By *rPunxMan
3 days ago

Hull

Also being able to upload photos that don't contain people (toys,equipment etc)

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By *eroLondonMan
3 days ago

Mayfair


"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile. "

I would choose Nora.

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By *riel13Woman
3 days ago

Northampton


"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile. "

I have a favourite dinosaur dress! Will that do??

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
3 days ago

Gloucester


"I don't think single profiles should be allowed to display other people. I always question consent...do these people know they are being shown on a swingers site??

So I have thought this before, but I would go so far as to say that you should really show people not linked to the profile!

💯%"

This!!

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By *hat.coupleCouple
3 days ago

Dartford

Stricter verification for sure, most other apps ask for I'd verification. Rules out a lot of fakes.

Mrs x

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
3 days ago

Halloween Town, Dudleyish.


"I don't think single profiles should be allowed to display other people. I always question consent...do these people know they are being shown on a swingers site??

So I have thought this before, but I would go so far as to say that you should really show people not linked to the profile! "

Or at least only allow if the other people are on the site and can verify their consent

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By *idssissyTV/TS
3 days ago

Nr cricket ground birm

When you do a search, people you have blocked or have blocked you don't show up in the results

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By *dinSon19Man
3 days ago

Alloa

Not sure how much h of a wise idea it would be but maybe when you sign up the site should ask you to take a face picture, that wont be public, but is there and able to send. Before people say anything I know people can do this but maybe should be compulsory? That way it avoids the whole elts swap face pics, you send one, they say they like it but then refuse to send one back saying oh I dont know how to etc. I may also just be upset I got used there is that 🤣

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By *partharmonyCouple
3 days ago

Ruislip

Couples who think that pictures of the man are irrelevant.

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By *atchmoMan
3 days ago

Upminster

I'd change the location of profiles. Putting a city like London or a county like Essex is next to useless. And as for fictional locations...

Maybe have borough as a mandatory maximum size of area.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
3 days ago

Staffordshire

Our popularity lol.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 days ago

Carlisle usually

I just want a simple quote of what caused the suspension of messaging or forum use.

I still don't know what words cause message bans or cause them to reject, but a record must exist somewhere for the site to auto filter them, why can't it just tell you what word they think is against the terms and conditions so you can reframe it in the correct context? Or just some clarity on what a mod has deemed bitchy on the forums when you're not aware of actually bitching about other users 💜

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By *pthillMan
3 days ago

st shithole

Must have pictures or fuck off

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By *tsJustKateWoman
3 days ago

London


"So, in the FAQ section where it says "how do we add captions to our photos?"

The answer is "unfortunately, you can't any more. This feature was lost when we moved servers in December 2008. We hope to bring it back at some point."

Well, I'm still hoping. But it's been 17 years now."

Just add them before posting on Fab!!!!!

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By *ingsysMan
3 days ago

Scunthorpe


"I'd want to see some mechanism to report fake profiles. A common trick is when you catch on it's a fake profile they block you which prevents you from reporting them.

You can always report a profile when you're blocked - the profile details won't show but the button to report, block them, etc remains "

Thinking more a little 🚩 on the profile showing they've been reported and its under review. Something to say "hey just be careful"

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By *oelMan
3 days ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

Massive increase of women and couples to match the qty of men 1 to 1

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By *ortySwitchMan
3 days ago

london

I would like a persons sexual preference next to their username. (Straight, bi, gay etc)

In the forums I would like a way of knowing who was replied to my posts. And possibly an up / down vote button.

The ability to upload photos that don’t include a person in them,

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By *JB1954Man
3 days ago

Reading

Big one for me. When doing a search . Saved or new. On the list that is shown . Condensed bit shows if messaged, winked and yes blocked . Just icons. Would then know if worth looking . ?

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By *all me FlikWoman
2 days ago

Galaxy Far Far Away


"Massive increase of women and couples to match the qty of men 1 to 1"

If you make the site couples only with each couple being able to advocate for one single person only that would create balance.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
2 days ago

BRIDPORT

Nothing, I get along fine just as it is

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By *idssissyTV/TS
2 days ago

Nr cricket ground birm

A major reduction in profiles openingly discussing hard drugs or asking for site pass to be bought for them

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
2 days ago

Niche

A way to pin things to top of list in lots of areas like forum threads, hotlist, friends, message chats.

Bookmarking.

To link forum posts to a profile so you can green arrow directly from a profile.

Up vote/ Down vote / hide a forum thread.

A way to opt out of certain photo types. The ones that are categorised at least. Blur them.

Blur your pics for anyone you have blocked.

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By *ecky and justCouple
2 days ago

Godalming

Simple.

Paywall.

Verification on joining.

Annual photo verification.

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By *eyeYCouple
22 hours ago

Nr Leicester


"Simple.

Paywall.

Verification on joining.

Annual photo verification. "

Paywall?, not familiar x

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By *pirited obeliskMan
22 hours ago

Isle of Wight

I'd change it so the green photo verification flag is a mandatory task, and not having the option to do it or not

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By *appyOldOneMan
21 hours ago

Cinderford


"Simple.

Paywall.

Verification on joining.

Annual photo verification.

Paywall?, not familiar x"

Paywall - features you only get to once you've paid (eg the current "Looked at me" feature).

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By *ucka39Man
21 hours ago

Newcastle

More categories re photos as at times you aren't able to reach the max 5

down to ethnicity

Those who maybe single/involved

Etc etc etc

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By *riel13Woman
20 hours ago

Northampton

Don't know if it's been said but stopping Friends only galleries counting as having public pics... Ehat is the point of the message filter otherwise 🙄

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By *riel13Woman
20 hours ago

Northampton


"Don't know if it's been said but stopping Friends only galleries counting as having public pics... Ehat is the point of the message filter otherwise 🙄"

*what

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By *aul horn cockMan
20 hours ago

12 and 8


"Make the site modern and turn it into an app"

Absolutely mate

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By *ucka39Man
20 hours ago

Newcastle


"Don't know if it's been said but stopping Friends only galleries counting as having public pics... Ehat is the point of the message filter otherwise 🙄

*what"

Friends only pic are only visible by friends

The message filter control messages and the photos filter control that

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By *oppet22TV/TS
20 hours ago

huddersfield

Time washers on here or fakes

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By *ucka39Man
20 hours ago

Newcastle


"Make the site modern and turn it into an app

Absolutely mate"

How many apps do you know that involve any kind of sexual are an app than a site because legally the law in itself would be stopping it

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By *riel13Woman
20 hours ago

Northampton


"Don't know if it's been said but stopping Friends only galleries counting as having public pics... Ehat is the point of the message filter otherwise 🙄

*what

Friends only pic are only visible by friends

The message filter control messages and the photos filter control that "

There is an option to block people without public pics to message but it doesn't block people with only friends pics that are not public

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By *ucka39Man
20 hours ago

Newcastle


"Time washers on here or fakes"

I used to use an egg timer and I'd be done before the chicken spoke 😂🤣

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
20 hours ago

Chigwell


"Women have to message first 🤣

That would be a good idea, it could stop women being harassed by hundreds of messages within minutes of joining, giving them some breathing space. And might actually make profiles more appealing if women were choosing who to message. "

Unless mistaken, you can already achieve this by setting your message options to not allow single men (and/or others ) from essaging you - if you see one you like, once you’ve message them, they are free to reply to you 😊

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

20 hours ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Simple.

Paywall.

Verification on joining.

Annual photo verification.

Paywall?, not familiar x

Paywall - features you only get to once you've paid (eg the current "Looked at me" feature). "

That's already here though.

Its called 'site supporter' 🤔🤷‍♂️

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By *ucka39Man
20 hours ago

Newcastle


"Don't know if it's been said but stopping Friends only galleries counting as having public pics... Ehat is the point of the message filter otherwise 🙄

*what

Friends only pic are only visible by friends

The message filter control messages and the photos filter control that

There is an option to block people without public pics to message but it doesn't block people with only friends pics that are not public "

Ahhh good suggestion admin do view the forums so hopefully you'll get your wish

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By *iss DevilWoman
20 hours ago

Bedford


"Women have to message first 🤣

That would be a good idea, it could stop women being harassed by hundreds of messages within minutes of joining, giving them some breathing space. And might actually make profiles more appealing if women were choosing who to message.

Unless mistaken, you can already achieve this by setting your message options to not allow single men (and/or others ) from essaging you - if you see one you like, once you’ve message them, they are free to reply to you 😊 "

I know that as have been on here long enough. But I do think it might help those who have just joined, and only start learning how to use this site.

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By *abba44Man
20 hours ago

Broadstairs

Make it more gemder friendly,ie,Straight, Bi, Gay, Anorexic,Skinny,Chubby, Obese,Flat chested,Small tits,Big tits,Massive tits.Pert tits,rounded tits,saggy tits,Tucked in my waist band tits. Small nipples Large nipples,Puffy nipples.Small dick, medium dick,large dick,Horse hung, Big dick,All dick.etc

A lady might like to add vaginal sizes and flavours.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

20 hours ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Don't know if it's been said but stopping Friends only galleries counting as having public pics... Ehat is the point of the message filter otherwise 🙄

*what

Friends only pic are only visible by friends

The message filter control messages and the photos filter control that

There is an option to block people without public pics to message but it doesn't block people with only friends pics that are not public

Ahhh good suggestion admin do view the forums so hopefully you'll get your wish"

I mean.....I did mention it up there ^^^^^..... but there's literally an entire forum section dedicated to suggestions. So many people have ideas but don't post them in there. 🤷‍♂️😂😂

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By *rindnbump V2Couple
19 hours ago

Our little world of Kinky Fuckery in Durham

Sounds a bit extreme, but think people should have to submit a DBS check to join adult website and get into clubs.

Would stop a lot of the timewasters.

Would also stop sex offenders from getting in to clubs (a few years back found out a paedophile was a member of a local club)

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By *ucka39Man
18 hours ago

Newcastle


"Don't know if it's been said but stopping Friends only galleries counting as having public pics... Ehat is the point of the message filter otherwise 🙄

*what

Friends only pic are only visible by friends

The message filter control messages and the photos filter control that

There is an option to block people without public pics to message but it doesn't block people with only friends pics that are not public

Ahhh good suggestion admin do view the forums so hopefully you'll get your wish

I mean.....I did mention it up there ^^^^^..... but there's literally an entire forum section dedicated to suggestions. So many people have ideas but don't post them in there. 🤷‍♂️😂😂"

🤣😂 Users do tend to just scroll down to the bottom as I did 😂 so acts as a little reminder 😝 x

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By *offysmangoMan
18 hours ago

Colchester

Face and body pics automatically get deleted after 12 months for women and men - no exemptions lol

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By *usie pTV/TS
17 hours ago

taunton

I have not found anything better leave it alone.

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
17 hours ago

Debauchery

Set distance filters so people can’t message you out of that and an instant no thank you button which would make it so much easier to keep up with messages

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By *a LunaWoman
17 hours ago

o o OO o o

Ah where to start.

I’m not sure if it’s because I’ve been on here so long and sort of heard it all, but I’d get rid of the following:

Bedpost Olympians, otherwise known as:

• Erotic fantasists – living in a porno script only they can see

* Sexual delusionists – convinced they’re God’s gift, based on zero peer reviews

* Clit Commanders / Cock Connoisseurs – depends on their gender, obviously

* Moan collectors – thrive on imaginary soundtracks of whimpering partners

* Fingering philosophers – love to write 3 paragraph manifestos about their sexual technique

* Keyboard Casanovas – all stamina and talk online, all silence and disappointment in real life

* The Multiple Orgasm Militia™:

“She came 7 times before I even touched myself.”

Detecting a gals “squirting energy” through jeans

“I didn’t cum — I spiritually ascended”

“I came 37 times in an hour just by him looking at me”

When in reality, the only thing that has ever been turned on that much was the light switch 🫳🎤

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By *ecky and justCouple
9 hours ago

Godalming


"Simple.

Paywall.

Verification on joining.

Annual photo verification.

Paywall?, not familiar x"

I would put the whole site behind a paywall. A subscription service that the genuine people would happily pay.

Majority of problems and fakes are on easily setup accounts, usually repeat offenders.

The number online would drop dramatically but nearly all would be genuine.

Just an opinion. Many will disagree.

Can discuss more when we see you.. 😉

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By *ucka39Man
9 hours ago

Newcastle


"Simple.

Paywall.

Verification on joining.

Annual photo verification.

Paywall?, not familiar x

I would put the whole site behind a paywall. A subscription service that the genuine people would happily pay.

Majority of problems and fakes are on easily setup accounts, usually repeat offenders.

The number online would drop dramatically but nearly all would be genuine.

Just an opinion. Many will disagree.

Can discuss more when we see you.. 😉"

But particularly the reason why it has so many members because it is free to join so it has it's benefits and those who choose to upgrade do. Not everyone will be able to afford either

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By *he Happy ManMan
8 hours ago

Merseyside


"Weekly limit on thread repetition in the forums"

This. The forums are boring compared to a few years ago.

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By *onglegcoupleCouple
8 hours ago

manchester

Likes on profile updates and lines on comments in the forums

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By *eliWoman
8 hours ago

.

The lack of guaranteed sex. I think if more people were having sex, they'd be a heck of a lot happier. What a win that would be for the forums.

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By *hil most chillMan
8 hours ago

London, South East & Europe


"The lack of guaranteed sex. I think if more people were having sex, they'd be a heck of a lot happier. What a win that would be for the forums. "

So you're saying each female site member should agree to pleasure 10 male site members (assuming there are 10 men to every woman), in order to ensure everyone has sex? A bold strategy, but I think it could work.

Either that or the men just agree to try cock at least once 🤷

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By *obert RichardsMan
8 hours ago

Here nearby

Ban single males from using a couples profile x

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By *aphunterMan
8 hours ago

woking

Allow one to one live video share

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By *obert RichardsMan
7 hours ago

Here nearby


"Likes on profile updates and lines on comments in the forums"

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By *eliWoman
7 hours ago

.


"The lack of guaranteed sex. I think if more people were having sex, they'd be a heck of a lot happier. What a win that would be for the forums.

So you're saying each female site member should agree to pleasure 10 male site members (assuming there are 10 men to every woman), in order to ensure everyone has sex? A bold strategy, but I think it could work.

Either that or the men just agree to try cock at least once 🤷"

Yeah that's exactly it! You understand. Everyone has sex, everyone is happier. It's a bold strategy but sometimes you have to go big or go home.

I don't know if straight men will sign up to the try cock just this once line of thinking... ah sod it, adding that.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
7 hours ago

Central


"Simple.

Paywall.

Verification on joining.

Annual photo verification.

Paywall?, not familiar x

I would put the whole site behind a paywall. A subscription service that the genuine people would happily pay.

Majority of problems and fakes are on easily setup accounts, usually repeat offenders.

The number online would drop dramatically but nearly all would be genuine.

Just an opinion. Many will disagree.

Can discuss more when we see you.. 😉"

People who are determined to cause problems, such as fakes, are willing to play for it - probably more so, when the rest of us are gullible and believe that the features like a paywall, make it safer and secure

Dangerous people are not stupid, nor without any ability to pay.

The owners have stated that it is going to be a free site.

This gives us all more choice - and we should exercise due caution

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