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"Women have to message first 🤣" In fairness that worked for us.. Bum ble 😜 | |||
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"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile. " THiS is what we are really here for, something relevant to the random conversations we would like to have Oh and diplodocus, hands down, chilled, wanders round, eats and then eats some more, my spirit animal | |||
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"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile. " Could I suggest going one further and insist everyone posts a picture of them as their favourite dinosaur? You'd learn so much more about a person! Stegosaurus by the by  | |||
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"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile. " What if you are a dinosaur? | |||
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"Stricter verification on joining, without it members pictures are invisible. Aware that's not foolproof, but may reduce some spurious profiles 🤷"  | |||
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"So, in the FAQ section where it says "how do we add captions to our photos?" The answer is "unfortunately, you can't any more. This feature was lost when we moved servers in December 2008. We hope to bring it back at some point." Well, I'm still hoping. But it's been 17 years now." What caption are you going to put on your thighs pic? | |||
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"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile. What if you are a dinosaur? " Then the answer would be “me” 🤷♂️ | |||
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"Make the site modern and turn it into an app" Nooooo! I tried a couple of other apps, too Instagram-like, perfect for content creators but hard to connect otherwise. I would allow ban appeals - someone put false accusations against me, my account got suspended for 5 days and there was no way I could appeal the ban. | |||
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"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile. " Ankylosaurus... or the Iguanadon because they are giving permanent 👍 | |||
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"Women have to message first 🤣" That would be a good idea, it could stop women being harassed by hundreds of messages within minutes of joining, giving them some breathing space. And might actually make profiles more appealing if women were choosing who to message. | |||
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"The whole site needs an overhaul. I enjoy the forum, but the amount of repeated and low effort posts are grating." Yeah but then how would we know what you’ve had for dinner/tea? | |||
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"The whole site needs an overhaul. I enjoy the forum, but the amount of repeated and low effort posts are grating. Yeah but then how would we know what you’ve had for dinner/tea? " Hotdogs yesterday | |||
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"The whole site needs an overhaul. I enjoy the forum, but the amount of repeated and low effort posts are grating. Yeah but then how would we know what you’ve had for dinner/tea? Hotdogs yesterday " Even the fish were hot yesterday! | |||
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"Weekly limit on thread repetition in the forums" Check out Daft Punk's new single "Get Lucky" if you get the chance. Sound of the summer. | |||
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"I would restrict what photos people can upload. Single profiles only single pics. Couple profiles couple pics etc Would completely remove videos it’s not needed but n a contact site . This isn’t a porn site nor OF free And frankly it’s mad they have zero model releases / compliance etc like a professional content site would . I would make it once you send a message you can’t send another to same person until they reply or delete and a 30 day timer clears Auto reply for people to say no thanks not interested. So people stop moaning about messages left " Great ideas above. I'd add video verification vids, but make them an annual occurrence, so fake profiles are harder to manage. But also separate log ins for couples accounts, with something to indicate whether you're speaking to each respective person. Instead of blokes pretending to be their wives to get their kicks. | |||
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"I would restrict what photos people can upload. Single profiles only single pics. Couple profiles couple pics etc Would completely remove videos it’s not needed but n a contact site . This isn’t a porn site nor OF free And frankly it’s mad they have zero model releases / compliance etc like a professional content site would . I would make it once you send a message you can’t send another to same person until they reply or delete and a 30 day timer clears Auto reply for people to say no thanks not interested. So people stop moaning about messages left " All sensible ideas, and probably pretty easy to implement... | |||
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"Make it strictly for swingers. Too many men treat it like a hook up site, expecting quick, easy sex with no connection. Too many women treat it like a dating site, expecting love, romance and waiting for Prince charming! Of course, there has to be attraction and connection but as a part of swinging, not dating! " The site would quickly die. | |||
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"I would restrict what photos people can upload. Single profiles only single pics. Couple profiles couple pics etc Would completely remove videos it’s not needed but n a contact site . This isn’t a porn site nor OF free And frankly it’s mad they have zero model releases / compliance etc like a professional content site would . I would make it once you send a message you can’t send another to same person until they reply or delete and a 30 day timer clears Auto reply for people to say no thanks not interested. So people stop moaning about messages left " Auto reply for messaging is a great ide. | |||
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"I know its not as deep as the other but gifs and memes in the forum would be nice 🤣" Yea. Nothing better than having to scroll through countless memes and gifs to get to actual comments | |||
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"I know its not as deep as the other but gifs and memes in the forum would be nice 🤣 Yea. Nothing better than having to scroll through countless memes and gifs to get to actual comments "They could have a dedicated meme/gif section for people who like that stuff. | |||
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"More hot men who fancy fat, middle aged, lazy women who can't be arsed to dress up for sex. " You rang? | |||
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"Make it strictly for swingers. Too many men treat it like a hook up site, expecting quick, easy sex with no connection. Too many women treat it like a dating site, expecting love, romance and waiting for Prince charming! Of course, there has to be attraction and connection but as a part of swinging, not dating! " This, all swinging sites seem to be plagued by this. Want hook up? Try Tinder Want date? Match dot com | |||
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"I'd want to see some mechanism to report fake profiles. A common trick is when you catch on it's a fake profile they block you which prevents you from reporting them." No it doesn't, when you go to the page that says you're blocked there is an option to report them there. | |||
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"I would restrict what photos people can upload. Single profiles only single pics. Couple profiles couple pics etc Would completely remove videos it’s not needed but n a contact site . This isn’t a porn site nor OF free And frankly it’s mad they have zero model releases / compliance etc like a professional content site would . I would make it once you send a message you can’t send another to same person until they reply or delete and a 30 day timer clears Auto reply for people to say no thanks not interested. So people stop moaning about messages left Auto reply for messaging is a great ide." Yeah all those people able to dodge a subsequent filter is a great idea. | |||
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"More hot men who fancy fat, middle aged, lazy women who can't be arsed to dress up for sex. " More hot women who fancy short, average, middle aged men to lazy to put the communication effort in 😉 | |||
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"More hot men who fancy fat, middle aged, lazy women who can't be arsed to dress up for sex. You rang?" Who don't live miles away. | |||
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"More hot men who fancy fat, middle aged, lazy women who can't be arsed to dress up for sex. You rang? Who don't live miles away." I'll put the phone down | |||
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"More hot men who fancy fat, middle aged, lazy women who can't be arsed to dress up for sex. More hot women who fancy short, average, middle aged men to lazy to put the communication effort in 😉" I think we were made for each other, Sam. Assuming you think fat, lazy, middle aged women are hot | |||
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"I'd introduce ID verification...and an IQ test or something 🤭 - with the result being shown on one's profile 😏" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I like that. | |||
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"More hot men who fancy fat, middle aged, lazy women who can't be arsed to dress up for sex. More hot women who fancy short, average, middle aged men to lazy to put the communication effort in 😉 I think we were made for each other, Sam. Assuming you think fat, lazy, middle aged women are hot "If it's meant to be it's meant to be 😘 | |||
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"I know its not as deep as the other but gifs and memes in the forum would be nice 🤣 Yea. Nothing better than having to scroll through countless memes and gifs to get to actual comments
They could have a dedicated meme/gif section for people who like that stuff. "😂 I didn’t think that would cause combustion this morning 😜 | |||
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"I know its not as deep as the other but gifs and memes in the forum would be nice 🤣 Yea. Nothing better than having to scroll through countless memes and gifs to get to actual comments
They could have a dedicated meme/gif section for people who like that stuff.
😂 I didn’t think that would cause combustion this morning 😜"I had Facebook flashbacks! | |||
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"A checkbox pop up before sending a message that says: "I have read the profile and understand that the person/people being messaged have no obligation to read or reply to this message". Also being able to search by body type would be nice." But if people can't read profiles, they're not going to read pop up messages... | |||
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"I know its not as deep as the other but gifs and memes in the forum would be nice 🤣 Yea. Nothing better than having to scroll through countless memes and gifs to get to actual comments
They could have a dedicated meme/gif section for people who like that stuff.
😂 I didn’t think that would cause combustion this morning 😜
I had Facebook flashbacks!"Well I apologise for that lol | |||
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"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile. " Littlebird - this should be a Friday night thread! 💚 🦕 | |||
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"I'd want to see some mechanism to report fake profiles. A common trick is when you catch on it's a fake profile they block you which prevents you from reporting them." You can always report a profile when you're blocked - the profile details won't show but the button to report, block them, etc remains | |||
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"I’d have a dear Deidre section …. for any advice needed … 🙂 " 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"I’d have a dear Deidre section …. for any advice needed … 🙂 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣" Dear ThickThighs can you help me with….🤣 | |||
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"I’d have a dear Deidre section …. for any advice needed … 🙂 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Dear ThickThighs can you help me with….🤣" Why of course my child 🤣 | |||
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"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile. " Triceratops | |||
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"A red flag symbol if someone gets multiple complaints about them. Possibly associated to Ip or mac address of devices so if someone tries making a new profile the system flags it kinda like trying to use multiple profiles with same email address...." That would be way too open to abuse | |||
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"More hot men who fancy fat, middle aged, lazy women who can't be arsed to dress up for sex. " More hot women who fancy fat, middle aged, lazy men who cant be arsed to dress up for sex.  | |||
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"I don't think single profiles should be allowed to display other people. I always question consent...do these people know they are being shown on a swingers site?? " So I have thought this before, but I would go so far as to say that you should really show people not linked to the profile! | |||
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"I don't think single profiles should be allowed to display other people. I always question consent...do these people know they are being shown on a swingers site?? So I have thought this before, but I would go so far as to say that you should really show people not linked to the profile! " 💯% | |||
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"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile. " • I would choose Nora. | |||
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"I would make it compulsory to choose your favourite dinosaur and display it on your profile. " I have a favourite dinosaur dress! Will that do?? | |||
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"I don't think single profiles should be allowed to display other people. I always question consent...do these people know they are being shown on a swingers site?? So I have thought this before, but I would go so far as to say that you should really show people not linked to the profile! 💯%" This!! | |||
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"I don't think single profiles should be allowed to display other people. I always question consent...do these people know they are being shown on a swingers site?? So I have thought this before, but I would go so far as to say that you should really show people not linked to the profile! " Or at least only allow if the other people are on the site and can verify their consent | |||
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"So, in the FAQ section where it says "how do we add captions to our photos?" The answer is "unfortunately, you can't any more. This feature was lost when we moved servers in December 2008. We hope to bring it back at some point." Well, I'm still hoping. But it's been 17 years now." Just add them before posting on Fab!!!!! | |||
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"I'd want to see some mechanism to report fake profiles. A common trick is when you catch on it's a fake profile they block you which prevents you from reporting them. You can always report a profile when you're blocked - the profile details won't show but the button to report, block them, etc remains "Thinking more a little 🚩 on the profile showing they've been reported and its under review. Something to say "hey just be careful" | |||
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"Massive increase of women and couples to match the qty of men 1 to 1" If you make the site couples only with each couple being able to advocate for one single person only that would create balance. | |||
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"Simple. Paywall. Verification on joining. Annual photo verification. " Paywall?, not familiar x | |||
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"Simple. Paywall. Verification on joining. Annual photo verification. Paywall?, not familiar x" Paywall - features you only get to once you've paid (eg the current "Looked at me" feature). | |||
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"Don't know if it's been said but stopping Friends only galleries counting as having public pics... Ehat is the point of the message filter otherwise 🙄" *what | |||
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"Make the site modern and turn it into an app" Absolutely mate | |||
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"Don't know if it's been said but stopping Friends only galleries counting as having public pics... Ehat is the point of the message filter otherwise 🙄 *what" Friends only pic are only visible by friends The message filter control messages and the photos filter control that | |||
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"Make the site modern and turn it into an app Absolutely mate" How many apps do you know that involve any kind of sexual are an app than a site because legally the law in itself would be stopping it | |||
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"Don't know if it's been said but stopping Friends only galleries counting as having public pics... Ehat is the point of the message filter otherwise 🙄 *what Friends only pic are only visible by friends The message filter control messages and the photos filter control that " There is an option to block people without public pics to message but it doesn't block people with only friends pics that are not public | |||
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"Time washers on here or fakes" I used to use an egg timer and I'd be done before the chicken spoke 😂🤣 | |||
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"Women have to message first 🤣 That would be a good idea, it could stop women being harassed by hundreds of messages within minutes of joining, giving them some breathing space. And might actually make profiles more appealing if women were choosing who to message. " Unless mistaken, you can already achieve this by setting your message options to not allow single men (and/or others ) from essaging you - if you see one you like, once you’ve message them, they are free to reply to you 😊 | |||
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"Simple. Paywall. Verification on joining. Annual photo verification. Paywall?, not familiar x Paywall - features you only get to once you've paid (eg the current "Looked at me" feature). " That's already here though. Its called 'site supporter' 🤔🤷♂️ | |||
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"Don't know if it's been said but stopping Friends only galleries counting as having public pics... Ehat is the point of the message filter otherwise 🙄 *what Friends only pic are only visible by friends The message filter control messages and the photos filter control that There is an option to block people without public pics to message but it doesn't block people with only friends pics that are not public " Ahhh good suggestion admin do view the forums so hopefully you'll get your wish | |||
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"Women have to message first 🤣 That would be a good idea, it could stop women being harassed by hundreds of messages within minutes of joining, giving them some breathing space. And might actually make profiles more appealing if women were choosing who to message. Unless mistaken, you can already achieve this by setting your message options to not allow single men (and/or others ) from essaging you - if you see one you like, once you’ve message them, they are free to reply to you 😊 " I know that as have been on here long enough. But I do think it might help those who have just joined, and only start learning how to use this site. | |||
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"Don't know if it's been said but stopping Friends only galleries counting as having public pics... Ehat is the point of the message filter otherwise 🙄 *what Friends only pic are only visible by friends The message filter control messages and the photos filter control that There is an option to block people without public pics to message but it doesn't block people with only friends pics that are not public Ahhh good suggestion admin do view the forums so hopefully you'll get your wish" I mean.....I did mention it up there ^^^^^..... but there's literally an entire forum section dedicated to suggestions. So many people have ideas but don't post them in there. 🤷♂️😂😂 | |||
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"Don't know if it's been said but stopping Friends only galleries counting as having public pics... Ehat is the point of the message filter otherwise 🙄 *what Friends only pic are only visible by friends The message filter control messages and the photos filter control that There is an option to block people without public pics to message but it doesn't block people with only friends pics that are not public Ahhh good suggestion admin do view the forums so hopefully you'll get your wish I mean.....I did mention it up there ^^^^^..... but there's literally an entire forum section dedicated to suggestions. So many people have ideas but don't post them in there. 🤷♂️😂😂" 🤣😂 Users do tend to just scroll down to the bottom as I did 😂 so acts as a little reminder 😝 x | |||
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"Simple. Paywall. Verification on joining. Annual photo verification. Paywall?, not familiar x" I would put the whole site behind a paywall. A subscription service that the genuine people would happily pay. Majority of problems and fakes are on easily setup accounts, usually repeat offenders. The number online would drop dramatically but nearly all would be genuine. Just an opinion. Many will disagree. Can discuss more when we see you.. 😉 | |||
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"Simple. Paywall. Verification on joining. Annual photo verification. Paywall?, not familiar x I would put the whole site behind a paywall. A subscription service that the genuine people would happily pay. Majority of problems and fakes are on easily setup accounts, usually repeat offenders. The number online would drop dramatically but nearly all would be genuine. Just an opinion. Many will disagree. Can discuss more when we see you.. 😉" But particularly the reason why it has so many members because it is free to join so it has it's benefits and those who choose to upgrade do. Not everyone will be able to afford either | |||
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"Weekly limit on thread repetition in the forums" This. The forums are boring compared to a few years ago. | |||
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"The lack of guaranteed sex. I think if more people were having sex, they'd be a heck of a lot happier. What a win that would be for the forums. " So you're saying each female site member should agree to pleasure 10 male site members (assuming there are 10 men to every woman), in order to ensure everyone has sex? A bold strategy, but I think it could work. Either that or the men just agree to try cock at least once 🤷 | |||
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"Likes on profile updates and lines on comments in the forums" | |||
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"The lack of guaranteed sex. I think if more people were having sex, they'd be a heck of a lot happier. What a win that would be for the forums. So you're saying each female site member should agree to pleasure 10 male site members (assuming there are 10 men to every woman), in order to ensure everyone has sex? A bold strategy, but I think it could work. Either that or the men just agree to try cock at least once 🤷" Yeah that's exactly it! You understand. Everyone has sex, everyone is happier. It's a bold strategy but sometimes you have to go big or go home. I don't know if straight men will sign up to the try cock just this once line of thinking... ah sod it, adding that. | |||
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"Simple. Paywall. Verification on joining. Annual photo verification. Paywall?, not familiar x I would put the whole site behind a paywall. A subscription service that the genuine people would happily pay. Majority of problems and fakes are on easily setup accounts, usually repeat offenders. The number online would drop dramatically but nearly all would be genuine. Just an opinion. Many will disagree. Can discuss more when we see you.. 😉" People who are determined to cause problems, such as fakes, are willing to play for it - probably more so, when the rest of us are gullible and believe that the features like a paywall, make it safer and secure Dangerous people are not stupid, nor without any ability to pay. The owners have stated that it is going to be a free site. This gives us all more choice - and we should exercise due caution | |||
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"Simple. Paywall. Verification on joining. Annual photo verification. Paywall?, not familiar x I would put the whole site behind a paywall. A subscription service that the genuine people would happily pay. Majority of problems and fakes are on easily setup accounts, usually repeat offenders. The number online would drop dramatically but nearly all would be genuine. Just an opinion. Many will disagree. Can discuss more when we see you.. 😉 But particularly the reason why it has so many members because it is free to join so it has it's benefits and those who choose to upgrade do. Not everyone will be able to afford either " But that’s the point. Currently the ‘quantity’ outweighs the ‘quality’. Yes, inevitably some people will miss out but those who are in the lifestyle for the right reasons would be ok. My other points are still valid, even on a free site. Immediate verification required on joining. Annual photo verification. There are so many profiles where one partner (usually female) is no longer involved. Not knocking the site at all, made great friends here and met my wife. | |||
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"Sounds a bit extreme, but think people should have to submit a DBS check to join adult website and get into clubs. Would stop a lot of the timewasters. Would also stop sex offenders from getting in to clubs (a few years back found out a paedophile was a member of a local club)" How exactly would a DBS Check stop time wasters????? | |||
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"Women have to message first 🤣" Sod off to Bumble  | |||
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"Sounds a bit extreme, but think people should have to submit a DBS check to join adult website and get into clubs. Would stop a lot of the timewasters. Would also stop sex offenders from getting in to clubs (a few years back found out a paedophile was a member of a local club) How exactly would a DBS Check stop time wasters?????" Totally agree. I'm even on the DBD update service and I'm the biggest time waster going. | |||
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"Women have to message first 🤣 Sod off to Bumble "Laceyyyyyyy xx | |||
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"Don't know if it's been said but stopping Friends only galleries counting as having public pics... Ehat is the point of the message filter otherwise 🙄 *what Friends only pic are only visible by friends The message filter control messages and the photos filter control that There is an option to block people without public pics to message but it doesn't block people with only friends pics that are not public Ahhh good suggestion admin do view the forums so hopefully you'll get your wish I mean.....I did mention it up there ^^^^^..... but there's literally an entire forum section dedicated to suggestions. So many people have ideas but don't post them in there. 🤷♂️😂😂" I think I might have put that on that forum already, a while ago | |||
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"All the women in a 10 mile radius to be sexually attracted to me... Sorry, scratch that. All the hot women in a 10 mile radius to be sexually attracted to me" Ahem 🙋🏻♀️. I'm luke warm but the rest I could qualify for 😁. | |||
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"All the women in a 10 mile radius to be sexually attracted to me... Sorry, scratch that. All the hot women in a 10 mile radius to be sexually attracted to me Ahem 🙋🏻♀️. I'm luke warm but the rest I could qualify for 😁. " You definitely qualify for all of it  | |||
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"How about banning shit photos, we could/should have a dressed seductively..." • I agree: replace the effluent with the affluent. | |||
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"Not allowed profiles with silhouette avatars...if you create a profile, you must have a photo....secondly, you must have at least one face photo Stops the "send face photo with first message crap" ... From all the shallow wannabes " 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"Asking for a face photo within the first three messages when not volunteering your own should be punishable by stoning" Harsh... but fair | |||
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"I'd introduce ID verification...and an IQ test or something 🤭 - with the result being shown on one's profile 😏" PLEASE | |||
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"I'd give the site 'scratch and sniff' capability on the photos "OH MY FKG GOD 
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