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By *ontystash OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Is it just me this happens too but when a close friend of yours starts seeing someone you don't hear or see there ass for dust until it goes tits up or am I being selfish ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not getting the question. Please explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe it's a blokes thing?

When any of my gf/bf's start a relationship we keep in touch, we just have more stuffs to talk about

swingers weddings are usually a fab party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah think its quite common. Pretty pathetic really but then it depends how close we were originally and whether I consider home a friend to begin with

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Do you mean proper friends or people you meet off here?

I have to say proper friends I would never ditch (and I include some of the friends I havemade ooff here in this category)

However people I had casual sex with and very little connection with otherwise I have lost touch with as I am no longer looking to have sex with them.

I think you need to clarify what group you belong in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me this happens too but when a close friend of yours starts seeing someone you don't hear or see there ass for dust until it goes tits up or am I being selfish ?????"

I have more female friends than male friends... The times I have had vanilla dates I have distanced myself from female friends through fear of jealousy lol

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By *ontystash OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

No sorry I mean a good close friend I knock about with and chat too they have started dating now so don't bother with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say give him some space, and be there when he finds time.

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By *ontystash OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'd say give him some space, and be there when he finds time. "

Will do thanks

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Is it just me this happens too but when a close friend of yours starts seeing someone you don't hear or see there ass for dust until it goes tits up or am I being selfish ?????"
It happens a lot, people cant seem to balance the two especially when there's a new love in their life.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Is it just me this happens too but when a close friend of yours starts seeing someone you don't hear or see there ass for dust until it goes tits up or am I being selfish ?????"

I d say give them a bit of space - often things will settle a bit after the "honeymoon" period and your friend will be grateful for that space. It happens whena single becomes a couple - it is not selfish as such, just a different focus for the time being. That said it should not completely cut you out. Maybe send a text and just say you hope she is enjoying life and that it is great to see that?

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By *ontystash OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Thank you both for your advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you both for your advice "
nope when I started seeing my now wife we only met at w/ends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me this happens too but when a close friend of yours starts seeing someone you don't hear or see there ass for dust until it goes tits up or am I being selfish ?????"
just think of the fun when they invite you over for a 3 some

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By *ontystash OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Is it just me this happens too but when a close friend of yours starts seeing someone you don't hear or see there ass for dust until it goes tits up or am I being selfish ????? just think of the fun when they invite you over for a 3 some "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the lure of 'NRE' - its intoxicating and makes you forget everything else; a short term co-dependent addiction!

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