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By *ruit OP   Woman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I have been in my new post for a bit over a month now. For the last 20 years I have worked more 1 to 1 but now in a group.

Tomorrow I get assesed as to how I work. I am shit scared being the new girl in a world of legalities I will learn over time. Everything I say and how I say it will be assesed and critqued.

I am damn nervous. Still worried I will stick out like a sore thumb and easy picking for the vultures.

Tips please.....?

Nice ones as shit scared x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Just relax. Use your experience, in all walks of life, and your knowledge of your work and it will be fine. Don't try and be something you are not as that will come across in the assessment.

Fruit, you will be fine. x

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By *ruit OP   Woman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Feckin scared. Been told they are looking down their noses at people.

I seem rich for the picking being new.

Just been emailed to be told it will be between half 10 and lunch tomorrow.

Shit shit shit lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

good luck _ruit xxx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

good luck _ruit xxx

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By *ruit OP   Woman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Thanks all x

Outfit now sorted to start me feeling right. So smart casual trousers in stone shade. Bright orange tshirt. Suit jacket withbrown pinstripes. Flat comfy shoes with touch of orange around edge and brown necklace.

So bright but comfy and smart.

Am going to remind myself I am new to the job after training. My basis has always been the same. So need to rely on my connection with the people I work with and my team I work with who is currently feeling as sick asI am. Just do my best. Do I introduce myself to them or should I just smile to acnowledge them and carry on with my task at hand to my brief. I am thinking the latter as dont want any disruption.

Will also remind myself at the end of tomorrow Ihave some naughty sexy fun to look forward too soon. Take my mind off things lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck lady.

Ben xx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You should be told if you should introduce yourself. If others are present you need to tell them that you are being observed, not them!

I would acknowledge they are there and then ignore them.

Your outfit sounds great.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Just do your best...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fruit

You are going to be fine, just be yourself, just don't take off that false leg and beat them with it x

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By *ruit OP   Woman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"Fruit

You are going to be fine, just be yourself, just don't take off that false leg and beat them with it x"

Haha...will try not to xx

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By *obnessMan
over a year ago

york

Fruit, i dont know you. Just be yourself and try to relax. You are as good as anybody and have the same right to breathe the air and feel the sun onyour face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax and im sure it will be fine...good luck x

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Exactly what Bob says, we're all human beings some people, Manu on fact fall into the bs of running the hamster wheel in this crazy corporate world. Deep breaths, relax, smile and let them see the presumably warm inner self

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Good luck. Remember, they gave you a job. Eye contact, friendly, professional, a list of your achievements so far, what you plan to do in your work in the next few months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I it will all go ok _ruit, in my line of work we are assessed monthly and briefed once a week.... Lots of legality to keep on top on!!!

Just be yourself and try and relax!

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fruit

You are going to be fine, just be yourself, just don't take off that false leg and beat them with it x

Haha...will try not to xx"

Good luck, txt and let me know you are ok x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday I had my boss and company owner with me. I got to the first meeting an hour early and I was rather nervous, which isn't like me.

BUT it all turned out just fine. It reminded me why I joined the company in the first place. All round good eggs

Good luck and even if you are nervous try and front it out would be my advice think how lucky they are to have you

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By *ruit OP   Woman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Outfit about to go on. Pray the little people do what they are supposed to and it all goes ok. It only takes one little thing to kick off to set a chain of chaos lol.

Praying for calm.

Saffie will text at lunch as then training all afternoon.

I may need shopping tomorrow lol

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By *ruit OP   Woman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Assesment done. The little people did what they needed to do and no one threw a wobbly. Assessors gave us feedback and there was no criticism. They gave us one suggestion which was good as we often do that but not today.

This afternoon was training and all went fine.

Still out shopping tomorrow tho lol.

Thanks to all for the support. Head not sore but feel the need for shopping tomorrow tho x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Well done and I'm glad it went well.

Shopping for something or anything?

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By *ruit OP   Woman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I feel a pair of shoes (evening heels) coming on and need to get a pair of long gloves for a fancy dress outfit.

Just found out we are due another assesment next week

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I feel a pair of shoes (evening heels) coming on and need to get a pair of long gloves for a fancy dress outfit.

Just found out we are due another assesment next week "

glad today went well. An assessment 1 week later seems a bit OTT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Done !! and I'm sure next week will go just fine too xxx

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By *ruit OP   Woman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"I feel a pair of shoes (evening heels) coming on and need to get a pair of long gloves for a fancy dress outfit.

Just found out we are due another assesment next week

glad today went well. An assessment 1 week later seems a bit OTT."

Different type of checks but still vital and scary for me as newbie in job.

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

wear the same outfit as it could be ur lucky one

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By *ruit OP   Woman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Lol. Good idea.

Its been one hell of a week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel a pair of shoes (evening heels) coming on and need to get a pair of long gloves for a fancy dress outfit.

Just found out we are due another assesment next week

glad today went well. An assessment 1 week later seems a bit OTT.

Different type of checks but still vital and scary for me as newbie in job."

Soz missed your first post, but would have said much the same as the others, you are an intelligent and articulate woman who has nothing to fear ... xx

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