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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

When is it ok - if ever - to break a promise? Intention is ever so light-hearted but you can reply in a serious manner without being shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When is it ok - if ever - to break a promise? Intention is ever so light-hearted but you can reply in a serious manner without being shot"

If the circumstances surrounding said promise warrant it And it doesnt hurt or maim the promised one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never make a promise I can't keep.. Wether it be to family, friends or swinging friends

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Promises are comfort to a fool...

I don't make promises as I don't want to break them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If when you made the promise it was heartfelt and thought possible to follow through, and if unforeseen circumstances prevented you from keeping it

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Similar thoughts from you guys so far - nobody wants to disappoint and I include myelf here. I try not to promise anything I cannot keep either and this was always really important when I raised my children. But it is still important to me as it is about trust.

Mind you, I promised myself something a week ago and I broke my own promise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never promised you a Rose Garden...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Promises are comfort to a fool...

I don't make promises as I don't want to break them."

I was just about to type this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never promised you a Rose Garden... "

I beg your pardon ?? lol

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I never promised you a Rose Garden... "
Damn!!! How about a chilled rose?;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes life changes and so you dont have a choice.

Never promise the kids/grand kids anything you are not 100% sure of keeping though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess when it becomes the kinder gesture….

For instance a mother promising her child the doctors needle won’t hurt…

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Sometimes life changes and so you dont have a choice.

Never promise the kids/grand kids anything you are not 100% sure of keeping though."
Actually I dont have enough thumbs to support this!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I guess when it becomes the kinder gesture….

For instance a mother promising her child the doctors needle won’t hurt…

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A nurse did that to one of mine when he was 4 - I have a healthy respect for the profession but she lied to him and he had a needle phobia for many many years.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Only time i have ever broke a promise is when the circumstances are beyond my control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also try not to make promises.... just in case. There can always be a good reason fr breaking one though. I told my niece I would take her out for the day.... we made a date, my Dad was taken into hospital to be cut almost in half to have a cancerous tumour and kidney taken out on that day as they had a cancellation...... even at 8, my niece knew I wasnt just fobbing her off with an excuse as to why I couldnt take her out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all break promises, regardless of what we claim.

Its the sincerity behind the gesture and the concern for the promised party that matter in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never promised you a Rose Garden... Damn!!! How about a chilled rose?;-)"

I promise you a coffee and chat or rose and chat in the summer xx

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I never promised you a Rose Garden... Damn!!! How about a chilled rose?;-)

I promise you a coffee and chat or rose and chat in the summer xx "
It is a deal - signed and sealed xx

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I also try not to make promises.... just in case. There can always be a good reason fr breaking one though. I told my niece I would take her out for the day.... we made a date, my Dad was taken into hospital to be cut almost in half to have a cancerous tumour and kidney taken out on that day as they had a cancellation...... even at 8, my niece knew I wasnt just fobbing her off with an excuse as to why I couldnt take her out "

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"We all break promises, regardless of what we claim.

Its the sincerity behind the gesture and the concern for the promised party that matter in the end. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never promised you a Rose Garden... Damn!!! How about a chilled rose?;-)"

Would love one.. Can it be shudder free though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never promised you a Rose Garden... "

Love that song!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"When is it ok - if ever - to break a promise? Intention is ever so light-hearted but you can reply in a serious manner without being shot"

As the saying goes; 'The road to hell is paved with good intentions.'

I try never to make promises unless I am certain I can keep them. I'm almost manic about it. Most of the time I say, 'I can't promise, but I will do my best'.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"When is it ok - if ever - to break a promise? Intention is ever so light-hearted but you can reply in a serious manner without being shot

As the saying goes; 'The road to hell is paved with good intentions.'

I try never to make promises unless I am certain I can keep them. I'm almost manic about it. Most of the time I say, 'I can't promise, but I will do my best'."

same here especially to my kids

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

who is this rose garden

i have seen a lady garden or two on here x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

who is this rose garden

i have seen a lady garden or two on here x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I promise means nothing until it is delivered.

I take promises seriously so don't make them lightly and seldom break them. Don't make them if you don't mean them.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Similar thoughts from you guys so far - nobody wants to disappoint and I include myelf here. I try not to promise anything I cannot keep either and this was always really important when I raised my children. But it is still important to me as it is about trust.

Mind you, I promised myself something a week ago and I broke my own promise "

Oh do tell......x

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