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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

after my dating disaster this lunch time, I think I need a boost and some fun, so do I get straight back on the horse and get myself another vanilla date pronto or revert back to old ways and arrange a fab meet???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab meet will probably quicker and easier to arrange with less pressure too xx

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

I would check out both options but not let your lunch time disaster put you off .. we all have them from time to time but some goods ones will come along .. wish you all the best

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

depends what you want really. if you want a shag then fab, if you want a date then dating site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have to be honest, fab meet is more appealing atm...where are all the nice men in my area??!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would arrange a fab meet just so he thought of what the lunch time date missed out makes you smile

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"after my dating disaster this lunch time, I think I need a boost and some fun, so do I get straight back on the horse and get myself another vanilla date pronto or revert back to old ways and arrange a fab meet???"

Fab will give you an immediate boost...which may help the vanilla thing...

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Fab works for me too x

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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago

north wales / chester

Vote for fab from me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to be honest, fab meet is more appealing atm...where are all the nice men in my area??!! "

How about a fab social?

Best of both worlds - no pressure to play and yet you can still enjoy the flanter and get away with being a little more 'risque' with the conversation!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

fab is winning atm so it seems....now, where did I put my Basques???

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I have to be honest, fab meet is more appealing atm...where are all the nice men in my area??!!

How about a fab social?

Best of both worlds - no pressure to play and yet you can still enjoy the flanter and get away with being a little more 'risque' with the conversation!! "

Flanter???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to be honest, fab meet is more appealing atm...where are all the nice men in my area??!!

How about a fab social?

Best of both worlds - no pressure to play and yet you can still enjoy the flanter and get away with being a little more 'risque' with the conversation!! "

you are just full of ideas aren't you?! good shout!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to be honest, fab meet is more appealing atm...where are all the nice men in my area??!!

How about a fab social?

Best of both worlds - no pressure to play and yet you can still enjoy the flanter and get away with being a little more 'risque' with the conversation!!

Flanter??? "

It's an amalgamation of 'flirting' and 'banter'!

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I have to be honest, fab meet is more appealing atm...where are all the nice men in my area??!!

How about a fab social?

Best of both worlds - no pressure to play and yet you can still enjoy the flanter and get away with being a little more 'risque' with the conversation!!

Flanter???

It's an amalgamation of 'flirting' and 'banter'!

"

I have written that down....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had many disastrous dates in the past, don't give up though I now found my soul mate in bambam and actually met him off this site as a single fem vanilla guys don't do it for me.. good luck in finding the one though xxx pebbles x

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

dont think I could go back now an I really don't class myself as that experienced but im sure I couldn't go back

sorry about your date an best of luck what you choose will be right for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab meet if you can actually find a gen

one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to be honest, fab meet is more appealing atm...where are all the nice men in my area??!!

How about a fab social?

Best of both worlds - no pressure to play and yet you can still enjoy the flanter and get away with being a little more 'risque' with the conversation!!

Flanter???

It's an amalgamation of 'flirting' and 'banter'!

I have written that down.... "

I've always been suprised no one's ever questioned my use of Flanter in my profile!

So congratulations on being the first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after my dating disaster this lunch time, I think I need a boost and some fun, so do I get straight back on the horse and get myself another vanilla date pronto or revert back to old ways and arrange a fab meet???"

Why was date a disaster?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the "meet today" has gone up....let's see what happens...

wish sone of you lovely forumites were closer!

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I have to be honest, fab meet is more appealing atm...where are all the nice men in my area??!!

How about a fab social?

Best of both worlds - no pressure to play and yet you can still enjoy the flanter and get away with being a little more 'risque' with the conversation!!

Flanter???

It's an amalgamation of 'flirting' and 'banter'!

I have written that down....

I've always been suprised no one's ever questioned my use of Flanter in my profile!

So congratulations on being the first! "

Your profile takes a bit of reading and with all those visual stimulants, one should be forgiven for not picking up on flanter.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"after my dating disaster this lunch time, I think I need a boost and some fun, so do I get straight back on the horse and get myself another vanilla date pronto or revert back to old ways and arrange a fab meet???

Why was date a disaster? "

he was a tosser, arrogant, was clearly only interested cos I have big boobs, I left halfway through my drink...that bad

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

ooohh dear ,can i ask tho what is a

vanilla meet ??

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I have to be honest, fab meet is more appealing atm...where are all the nice men in my area??!!

How about a fab social?

Best of both worlds - no pressure to play and yet you can still enjoy the flanter and get away with being a little more 'risque' with the conversation!!

Flanter???

It's an amalgamation of 'flirting' and 'banter'!

I have written that down....

I've always been suprised no one's ever questioned my use of Flanter in my profile!

So congratulations on being the first! "

I cheated and Googled it first time I read your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after my dating disaster this lunch time, I think I need a boost and some fun, so do I get straight back on the horse and get myself another vanilla date pronto or revert back to old ways and arrange a fab meet???

Why was date a disaster?

he was a tosser, arrogant, was clearly only interested cos I have big boobs, I left halfway through my drink...that bad "

Oh dear. Nah if he really wasnt for you then no problem in making your excuses and leaving. Did you speak to him on phone beforehand? I can tell if I am going to get on with someone after a phone conversation

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"after my dating disaster this lunch time, I think I need a boost and some fun, so do I get straight back on the horse and get myself another vanilla date pronto or revert back to old ways and arrange a fab meet???"

Which one will give you the most pleasure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the fab option you know why you're both there and what you are both ultimately after.

A vanilla date comes with greater pressure and expectations

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"after my dating disaster this lunch time, I think I need a boost and some fun, so do I get straight back on the horse and get myself another vanilla date pronto or revert back to old ways and arrange a fab meet???

Which one will give you the most pleasure? "

either with the right person...fab is much easier to arrange at short notice though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"after my dating disaster this lunch time, I think I need a boost and some fun, so do I get straight back on the horse and get myself another vanilla date pronto or revert back to old ways and arrange a fab meet???

Why was date a disaster?

he was a tosser, arrogant, was clearly only interested cos I have big boobs, I left halfway through my drink...that bad

Oh dear. Nah if he really wasnt for you then no problem in making your excuses and leaving. Did you speak to him on phone beforehand? I can tell if I am going to get on with someone after a phone conversation "

was set up by a friend

who has been told off quite monumentally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am going with Fab social, as good fun, no pressure at all to play either.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"after my dating disaster this lunch time, I think I need a boost and some fun, so do I get straight back on the horse and get myself another vanilla date pronto or revert back to old ways and arrange a fab meet???

Which one will give you the most pleasure?

either with the right person...fab is much easier to arrange at short notice though "

Go for Fab social and enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ooohh dear ,can i ask tho what is a

vanilla meet ??"

Vanilla is the name swingers give to non swingers

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