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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was brought up well.

I was taught to have respect and never shit on my own doorstep.

In the last week I've seen posts about people getting hurt on here.

I'm here to meet people with the same interests that I have and become friends, but not to date.

Now whilst there is no place for monumental fucktards that think it's ok to be arseholes, I DO think people might be getting this site confused with a dating site?

$0.02

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was brought up well.

I was taught to have respect and never shit on my own doorstep.

In the last week I've seen posts about people getting hurt on here.

I'm here to meet people with the same interests that I have and become friends, but not to date.

Now whilst there is no place for monumental fucktards that think it's ok to be arseholes, I DO think people might be getting this site confused with a dating site?

$0.02

"

Well said The downfall is you cant expect everyone to behave or to have the same morals or principals as you

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

to op I get compleatly what you saying but on the other hand im on the other end of the spectrum ie im not arse if mrs blade an I meet any1 an if we did it would only be a single fem for mrs. so bearing that in mind should I be here as all I do is flert on here an have a giggle ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was brought up well.

I was taught to have respect and never shit on my own doorstep.

In the last week I've seen posts about people getting hurt on here.

I'm here to meet people with the same interests that I have and become friends, but not to date.

Now whilst there is no place for monumental fucktards that think it's ok to be arseholes, I DO think people might be getting this site confused with a dating site?

$0.02

"

I'm still looking for the question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is brought up well and respectful to you maybe asshole and rude to someone else.

Just the way the world works

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

If your question is "do some people confuse NSA with dating?" then maybe.

I think, as in all things, you just don't know what's going to happen when you meet another person. You can mitigate as much as possible. You can control what you do but you can't control what they do or how they feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was brought up well.

I was taught to have respect and never shit on my own doorstep.

In the last week I've seen posts about people getting hurt on here.

I'm here to meet people with the same interests that I have and become friends, but not to date.

Now whilst there is no place for monumental fucktards that think it's ok to be arseholes, I DO think people might be getting this site confused with a dating site?

$0.02

"

Although I get what your saying about the dating site phenomenon ,,,,, I guess the same could be said about people who simply view this as a sex site….!.

I’ve always been of the opinion this is a profile based contact site for swingers…… and being as swingers come in all the shape, in all the sizes, and all the colours…

I don’t feel qualified to question anyone else’s agenda or motive for joining…

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I was brought up well.

I was taught to have respect and never shit on my own doorstep.

In the last week I've seen posts about people getting hurt on here.

I'm here to meet people with the same interests that I have and become friends, but not to date.

Now whilst there is no place for monumental fucktards that think it's ok to be arseholes, I DO think people might be getting this site confused with a dating site?

$0.02

"

works that way for some

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I guess the same could be said about people who simply view this as a sex site….!.

"

No that's not what I'm saying.

What I'm saying is, I'm digging a grave for myself with this thread right.

What I'm saying is, friends yeah...dating not really.

Although, it could happen if I meet someone really nice off of here.

The question is: How do people view this site?

I view as a site to meet people with a mutual interest and be friends etc..etc..not dating per se.

That's what I'm saying.

Ben

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is this a bad thread?

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By *obnessMan
over a year ago

york

No, its an ok thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a bad thread? "

Not at all.... It's a good thread, just different people will have different opinions....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Not at all.... It's a good thread, just different people will have different opinions.... "

I bought it up because there was two threads today almost identically getting hurt.

Arseholes doing the hurting nonetheless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not at all.... It's a good thread, just different people will have different opinions....

I bought it up because there was two threads today almost identically getting hurt.

Arseholes doing the hurting nonetheless."

Yep get where your coming from!

We only use the site to make friends and have fun, I don't think luke would like it if I started using it as a dating site

But different people use the site for different things!! But good thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a bad thread? "

haha,,,,, no it's not a bad thread....

I can only answer for myself.... and that is to say,,,,,

I look on Fabswingers simply as a profile based contact site that allows me the opportunity to seek out or be found by people who potentially match what I've put on my profile.....

I don't mind if anyone else views it differently and I don't mind how they use their profile to match their own expectations.

It's a big site and I embrace the diversity...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was brought up well.

I was taught to have respect and never shit on my own doorstep.

In the last week I've seen posts about people getting hurt on here.

I'm here to meet people with the same interests that I have and become friends, but not to date.

Now whilst there is no place for monumental fucktards that think it's ok to be arseholes, I DO think people might be getting this site confused with a dating site?

$0.02

I'm still looking for the question? "

it was the last sentence that ended with a question mark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isnt that 4d ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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it was the last sentence that ended with a question mark "

Yeah, I typed that out on my phone at work that's why.

Anyway fook it.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Is this a bad thread? "

ben move away from the shovel an quickly run away lolol

im messing with you mate your not digging holes

also no its not a bad thread its got ppl talking an thinking that's what the games all about an my post up there wasn't a dig my point was only different people different strokes each to their own an live an let live

now come on fabers group hug lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a great thread !

Yes there are people who get hurt ...... Simply because they look for more than it is , which is your point .

If people wanna dating site , join one .

We see fab as a swinging site where we can meet like minded people who enjoy NSA sex .

We have made some great friends , but are yet to have a date !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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ben move away from the shovel an quickly run away lolol

im messing with you mate your not digging holes

"

I fucking do muahaha! I knew there was the potential for the boomerang to smack in the face, but there was two threads today involving seemingly nice people getting fucked around.


"Simply because they look for more than it is , which is your point .

If people wanna dating site , join one .

We see fab as a swinging site where we can meet like minded people who enjoy NSA sex .

We have made some great friends , but are yet to have a date !!!

"

Yeah that's it. That's my point.

/Ben's out of thread now.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


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ben move away from the shovel an quickly run away lolol

im messing with you mate your not digging holes

I fucking do muahaha! I knew there was the potential for the boomerang to smack in the face, but there was two threads today involving seemingly nice people getting fucked around.

Simply because they look for more than it is , which is your point .

If people wanna dating site , join one .

We see fab as a swinging site where we can meet like minded people who enjoy NSA sex .

We have made some great friends , but are yet to have a date !!!

Yeah that's it. That's my point.

/Ben's out of thread now."

your always gona get em an most often it little ppl having a go at some 1 to make them selves look more interesting..... sad as fuck but its humans for ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean as well OP

Whilst it does seem to be accepted initially as no strings attached sex, the speed and amount of single women who suddenly have couples accounts leads me to think that some kind of relationship is being sought rather than the few hours of sex that the firstessage initially bargained for.

Now yes I agree that people can find love here or anywhere, but there seems to be a lot of people finding love.

Women start off single but then within a few months talk of a other half gradually appears.

I believe the men are keen on this initially because they have regular sex and gain access to further swinging opportunities like clubs and parties. Eventually they want to experience new ladies because they didn't really want a relationship in the first place, and they start messaging others or put a bit more effort into other women and thereby the single lady gets hurt.

Of course this is general and doesn't apply to all, but it's my opinion that it's a pretty good example of what's happening

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth


"I know what you mean as well OP

Whilst it does seem to be accepted initially as no strings attached sex, the speed and amount of single women who suddenly have couples accounts leads me to think that some kind of relationship is being sought rather than the few hours of sex that the firstessage initially bargained for.

Now yes I agree that people can find love here or anywhere, but there seems to be a lot of people finding love.

Women start off single but then within a few months talk of a other half gradually appears.

I believe the men are keen on this initially because they have regular sex and gain access to further swinging opportunities like clubs and parties. Eventually they want to experience new ladies because they didn't really want a relationship in the first place, and they start messaging others or put a bit more effort into other women and thereby the single lady gets hurt.

Of course this is general and doesn't apply to all, but it's my opinion that it's a pretty good example of what's happening "

Dammit! 9 times out of 10 I read a thread, think of what I am sure is the perfect reasoned and sensible answer, and lo and behold, Fabio's already posted it. Here we are on the tenth out of ten and you got there before me Iconic Well put Ma'am!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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your always gona get em an most often it little ppl having a go at some 1 to make them selves look more interesting..... sad as fuck but its humans for ya "

So true.

Fucktards opinions are like assholes...usually shitty and stink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its to have fun post shit on the forums and maybe have a meet or two

But some will get too involved i think its just good to keep sight of the bigger picture...most guys on here don't want to date..if it happens then cool but best not to read into things or leave yourself open .

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