FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies what makes a man instantly attractive to you

By *cLovin2 OP Man
52 weeks ago

London

So following on from the thread about turn offs for women, I think it's only fair to tell us blokes what does turn you on, or make you interested in a guy.

Ladies take the floor...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
52 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

Loves animals

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
52 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

If he’s funny, and extra marks if he finds me funny

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By *ad NannaWoman
52 weeks ago

East London

His face and clothing.

I can quickly go off someone when they open their mouth though.

Especially if it's to shove a banana in sideways (IYKYK)

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By *cLovin2 OP Man
52 weeks ago

London

"His face and clothing.

I can quickly go off someone when they open their mouth though.

Especially if it's to shove a banana in sideways (IYKYK)"

Nanna, us guys gotta eat...

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
52 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Being passionate about something. People who can make me gigglesnort. Likes all of me and not just the convenient selection of orifices 💜

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By *ougarsilkWoman
52 weeks ago

Pleasure heaven

His eyes and teeth. If he can make me laugh. Plus certain accents like London, Glaswegian or Scouse can add to the attractiveness

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By *avecooper69Man
52 weeks ago

Benfleet

Lol gigglesnort is a brilliant description x

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
52 weeks ago

Cambs

Self aware, passionate about something (doesn't matter what particularly) men who listen and kindness being apparent.

All top tier for me.

Inky and kinky doesn't hurt either ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Sense of humour

Confidence

Kind to animals

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
52 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Lol gigglesnort is a brilliant description x"

It's the only word I can think of for the reaction to those sharp little bits of humour that really catch you out.

Not a polite chuckle at a staged joke, or a laugh to diffuse awkwardness. Just that genuine fuck that got me kind of funny 💜

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By *infullyObedientWoman
52 weeks ago

Woodley

Eyes that smile when he does.

Eye contact

Sense of humour

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By *eliWoman
52 weeks ago

I don't think I've ever instantly been attracted to a man. Do people know instantly if they fancy someone or not? Attraction for me is complicated and wanes/grows in an odd fashion.

But things that make me more interested in a man?

When they're kind to people. Interact with people (not just those they want to have sex with) with kindness and good humour. That genuine good nature is 👌.

The passionate thing has been covered above by other posters - that's a big yes. I end up daydreaming about what it would be like to be the recipient of that passion. In a similar vein - dorky/nerdiness.

Oh and I like when men open up. Are open with me. I don't mean tell me your deepest, darkest secrets before your penis is inside me. It's more... when people are aware they're flawed, they're comfortable with owning that. When I can discuss topics and feel I can be open.

Men who are good communicators are instantly a little bit hotter.

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By *cLovin2 OP Man
52 weeks ago

London

"I don't think I've ever instantly been attracted to a man. Do people know instantly if they fancy someone or not? Attraction for me is complicated and wanes/grows in an odd fashion.

But things that make me more interested in a man?

When they're kind to people. Interact with people (not just those they want to have sex with) with kindness and good humour. That genuine good nature is 👌.

Men who are good communicators are instantly a little bit hotter."

Meli the ex is buried in the garden, hang on

we talking about the same thing here

I know what you mean.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
52 weeks ago

Northwest

After the initial attraction the sense of humour, emotional intelligence/good communication and great thighs 🍭

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By *he free SpiritsCouple
52 weeks ago

South Staffordshire

I'm old fashioned,like a gentleman with a sense of humour and a bit of cheekiness. Shy guys are intriguing, the mystery behind it all.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
52 weeks ago

Castlebar

Humour, sarcasm, cheeky 😈

Can't resist 🥵

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

One that knows how to hold a conversation and treats a woman with respect

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By *agic.MMan
52 weeks ago

Kent/London

Common!...Has to be stretch marks 🤭

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Sarcasm and the lowest form of wit ... bit like me ... but does it for me everytime 👋 oh and what he said ⬆️ 🤣

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
52 weeks ago

Niche

Chemistry doesn't really have a recipe.

Matching my effort and enthusiasm, hitting the sweet spot of doing enough to be engaging but not too much that feels creepy.

Some things just flow and fit right.

Humour and depth are very hot.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
52 weeks ago

cardiff

Erect nipples

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By *haosAfterDarkCouple
52 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

Makes me laugh,has a genuine smile that reaches his eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"One that knows how to hold a conversation and treats a woman with respect "

Oh also eyes and hands

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
52 weeks ago

Carlisle

The ability to make me belly laugh and can make me giggle throughout the day.

Who accepts me for me and all my quirks. Extra points if he finds them cute or cutely annoying.

Someone who I am compatible with. Someone I can strike up a conversation with about anything and it's fun, thought provoking or just interesting. Or someone I can be silent with doing whatever and it doesn't feel awkward.

So basically I have just described the Mr. Obviously some of these you find out as you go along, but that's how I tend to fancy someone. It's isn't a lust at first sight thing, it's more how the person/friendship grows and you get to know someone.

That's for me anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Being able to take a roasting, but also giving as good as they get. Not much to ask is it 🤷‍♀️

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Being able to take a roasting, but also giving as good as they get. Not much to ask is it 🤷‍♀️"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I second that notion!!!

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By *rPunxMan
52 weeks ago

Hull

"Being able to take a roasting, but also giving as good as they get. Not much to ask is it 🤷‍♀️"
spit roasting???

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
52 weeks ago

Reading

Voice sometimes

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By *vaRoseWoman
52 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Biggest one first is eyes

Attitude

Brain - got to love a nerd

Hands

Collarbones

Hips

Thighs

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By *eliWoman
52 weeks ago

"Voice sometimes"

Oh voice is a good one. Some men sound like velvet. Fuckable, smooth velvet I want to dr*pe myself in and wank over constantly.

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By *ighlandCooWoman
52 weeks ago

Chesterfield

"Self aware, passionate about something (doesn't matter what particularly) men who listen and kindness being apparent.

All top tier for me.

Inky and kinky doesn't hurt either ha ha

Inky and Kinky - Love that!

Also agree with everything you've said.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
52 weeks ago

West Bromwich

Money always makes a man look hot lol x

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By *ighlandCooWoman
52 weeks ago

Chesterfield

"Voice sometimes

Oh voice is a good one. Some men sound like velvet. Fuckable, smooth velvet I want to dr*pe myself in and wank over constantly."

Oh yes! An Irish accent does this for me....🥵🥵 Could listen to it all day and has me instantly horny 🤣

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By *hunky GentMan
52 weeks ago

Market Deeping

"Voice sometimes

Oh voice is a good one. Some men sound like velvet. Fuckable, smooth velvet I want to dr*pe myself in and wank over constantly.

Oh yes! An Irish accent does this for me....🥵🥵 Could listen to it all day and has me instantly horny 🤣 "

Arrrrh, to be sure.

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By *eroLondonMan
52 weeks ago

Mayfair

"One that knows how to hold a conversation and treats a woman with respect "

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As opposed to those who only know how to hold a cock in front of women who are circumspect. 🙂

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By *ister SmoothMan
52 weeks ago

Bramhall

"Voice sometimes

Oh voice is a good one. Some men sound like velvet. Fuckable, smooth velvet I want to dr*pe myself in and wank over constantly.

Oh yes! An Irish accent does this for me....🥵🥵 Could listen to it all day and has me instantly horny 🤣 "

Did someone say Irish accent..

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By *riel13Woman
52 weeks ago

Northampton

I don't know!

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By *hortieWoman
52 weeks ago

Northampton/south coast

Locs add a +3 to their skill tree for me.

That's pretty much the only skill buff I notice, tbh.

Outside that... I'm fucking hard work to pin down.

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By *exyInLatinMan
52 weeks ago

Warsop

Nice voices are an under appreciated quality in a person I think, men and women that is!

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Voice sometimes

Oh voice is a good one. Some men sound like velvet. Fuckable, smooth velvet I want to dr*pe myself in and wank over constantly.

Oh yes! An Irish accent does this for me....🥵🥵 Could listen to it all day and has me instantly horny 🤣

Did someone say Irish accent..

Irish accents

100% agree with this!!

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By *parkle1974Woman
52 weeks ago

Leeds

Someone who shows genuine interest x

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
52 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

I was hopping to read something simple I could adopt. 😏

C’mon, help a guy out. 🙏

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By *ighlandCooWoman
52 weeks ago

Chesterfield

"Voice sometimes

Oh voice is a good one. Some men sound like velvet. Fuckable, smooth velvet I want to dr*pe myself in and wank over constantly.

Oh yes! An Irish accent does this for me....🥵🥵 Could listen to it all day and has me instantly horny 🤣

Did someone say Irish accent..

It drives me wild 😆

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By *uri00620Woman
52 weeks ago

Croydon

A lot of the above but also good with children, so is fun around them and makes them laugh. I thought this even before I having a child.

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By *cLovin2 OP Man
52 weeks ago

London

"Voice sometimes

Oh voice is a good one. Some men sound like velvet. Fuckable, smooth velvet I want to dr*pe myself in and wank over constantly.

Oh yes! An Irish accent does this for me....🥵🥵 Could listen to it all day and has me instantly horny 🤣 "

How about a Pakistani accent, but I'll shut up and put Mrs brown's boys on the telly?

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
52 weeks ago

Newcastle

Confidence, someone with a twinkle in their eye, someone naturally really funny, scouse accents, nice aftershave.

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By *ally1212Man
52 weeks ago

York

Eye contact is definitely the one for me along with a cheeky grin

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