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By *ingh89 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Hi All,

Hopefully this this right place to post and ask about this but I would like to seek advice from ladies in particular on here. Any tips or advice for a reserved and introverted Sikh male in terms of attracting and retaining the interest of women on a romantic and sexual level?

I have very little dating experience and have struggled with success on online dating apps. Advice will be very much appreciated.

TIA

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By *lcherasDreamTimeCouple
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Obviously I can't speak for all females but there's something incredibly enticing and alluring about a well dressed, well groomed Sikh man in a smart suit or wearing traditional dress.

Long shiny hair or a perfectly wrapped turban.

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Sukhmangill

Sumitbatmanhira all on tiktok are absolutely divine and have huge followings, often from incredibly thirsty middle aged women like myself! 😂

Good luck in your search.

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By *ingh89 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Obviously I can't speak for all females but there's something incredibly enticing and alluring about a well dressed, well groomed Sikh man in a smart suit or wearing traditional dress.

Long shiny hair or a perfectly wrapped turban.

Princision

Sukhmangill

Sumitbatmanhira all on tiktok are absolutely divine and have huge followings, often from incredibly thirsty middle aged women like myself! 😂

Good luck in your search.

Thanks for the reply. Yeah I'm a turbaned Sikh but also tie my hair in a bun. I think social media may portray one thing but reality shows the complete opposite from my experience anyway.

Great profile pictures by the way 👍🏽

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Dress well, be proud of whom you are, take some good pics and think about what elements of your personality make you stand out and use them to sell yourself.

Personally, I like the person and whether Sikh, Muslim or Hindu is immaterial to me. It's the person that is important

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

I honestly don't know how to answer this in terms of advice. What I will say is that all women are different so any advice you're given is unlikely to apply to all.

What kind of woman interests *you*? That's the jumping off point in my opinion. Would you be prepared to change yourself and stay changed or do you hope to attract a woman who wants who *you* are?

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By *ingh89 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I honestly don't know how to answer this in terms of advice. What I will say is that all women are different so any advice you're given is unlikely to apply to all.

What kind of woman interests *you*? That's the jumping off point in my opinion. Would you be prepared to change yourself and stay changed or do you hope to attract a woman who wants who *you* are?"

Thanks for the reply. I would been seeking the latter. However change to help me become the best version of myself is a plus.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I honestly don't know how to answer this in terms of advice. What I will say is that all women are different so any advice you're given is unlikely to apply to all.

What kind of woman interests *you*? That's the jumping off point in my opinion. Would you be prepared to change yourself and stay changed or do you hope to attract a woman who wants who *you* are?

Thanks for the reply. I would been seeking the latter. However change to help me become the best version of myself is a plus."

I always find that interesting. What do you feel is stopping you from being the best version of yourself, your introverted nature?

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By *ingh89 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I honestly don't know how to answer this in terms of advice. What I will say is that all women are different so any advice you're given is unlikely to apply to all.

What kind of woman interests *you*? That's the jumping off point in my opinion. Would you be prepared to change yourself and stay changed or do you hope to attract a woman who wants who *you* are?

Thanks for the reply. I would been seeking the latter. However change to help me become the best version of myself is a plus.

I always find that interesting. What do you feel is stopping you from being the best version of yourself, your introverted nature? "

Well I taken steps towards coming out my comfort zone - quite recently a lot of solo travelling where I have male conversation with randoms who were not convinced of being shy and introverted. Just generally women have never been interested.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

I can only go by the one picture you have up but I can see no reason that women wouldn't be interested. Are you bad at picking up signals that women are attracted to you?

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By *ingh89 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I can only go by the one picture you have up but I can see no reason that women wouldn't be interested. Are you bad at picking up signals that women are attracted to you? "

I can only go off my online dating experience which has a very extremely low/non-existant success rate. Not sure if having a turban and beard portrays the image of being to religious and not "fun". I don't openly put myself to meet and talk to women in public settings with the intention to get a date. So your last point probably yes because I have not had that exposure before.

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