FabSwingers.com forum: Do you know..

By *iss.Bella OP Woman
3 weeks ago

What it is that you're looking for? On here? In life?

If so what is it?

Or are you a fellow winger? You've no fucking clue what you want in life, on here but hope it will at some point smack you in the face?

I'm feeling kind of nosey 👑

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By *eriScotMan
3 weeks ago

Scottish Borders

"What it is that you're looking for? On here? In life?

If so what is it?

Or are you a fellow winger? You've no fucking clue what you want in life, on here but hope it will at some point smack you in the face?

In life yes but on here absolutely no fucking clue!! Hoping for that smack in the face soon 😂

I'm feeling kind of nosey 👑 "

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By *sWyldWoman
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I wing everything. Though I've never been able to wing my eyeliner

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Fake it till you make it Bella 😎

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By *iss.Bella OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"I wing everything. Though I've never been able to wing my eyeliner "

I could've written this myself

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By *iss.Bella OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"Fake it till you make it Bella 😎

I've made it this far doing just that 🤷‍♀️

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
3 weeks ago

Up North

I wing everything in life, including fab. I have no idea what i want until it smacks me in the face.

I obviously enjoy the thrill of that.

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By *emptme1993Man
3 weeks ago

manchester

I’m absolutely winging my way through life, not entirely sure how I’ve got to this point tbh

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
3 weeks ago

Bristol

"I wing everything in life, including fab. I have no idea what i want until it smacks me in the face.

I obviously enjoy the thrill of that. "

Noted 😎

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
3 weeks ago

Bristol

"Fake it till you make it Bella 😎

I've made it this far doing just that 🤷‍♀️"

Just remember, it’s not the walk of shame, it’s the stride of fucking pride 😎

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By *iss.Bella OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"I’m absolutely winging my way through life, not entirely sure how I’ve got to this point tbh "

I felt this in my soul 🙏

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By *aizyWoman
3 weeks ago

west midlands

"I wing everything in life, including fab. I have no idea what i want until it smacks me in the face.

I obviously enjoy the thrill of that. "

Same!

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By *iss.Bella OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"Fake it till you make it Bella 😎

I've made it this far doing just that 🤷‍♀️

Just remember, it’s not the walk of shame, it’s the stride of fucking pride 😎"

I've made many a stride of fucking prides in my time 😬😳

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
3 weeks ago

Bristol

"Fake it till you make it Bella 😎

I've made it this far doing just that 🤷‍♀️

Just remember, it’s not the walk of shame, it’s the stride of fucking pride 😎

I've made many a stride of fucking prides in my time 😬😳"

Even I know when to shaddap and leave something alone 😎🤫

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By *estructionDollyWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Nope. No idea. I'm just floating through life, seeing what happens.

I do kinda know what I don't want though.

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
3 weeks ago

stanley

Not at all, just seeing where the journey goes

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By *herrybakewellCouple
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We know exactly what were looking for.

We always call it our blue print....how things have happened and worked out in the past.

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By *enda83Man
3 weeks ago

newcastle

I have my plan regarding work, retirement, finances ect relationship wise I’ve chose to do nothing and see what happens but I’m ok with being alone the rest of my life if that’s the path fate has planned for me, if that’s the case I’ll just get to a certain age where body is starting to give up and end it myself on my terms

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Not a clue. I just make it up.

They say a failure to plan is a plan to fail. So going to fail. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *peedyGMan
3 weeks ago

Telford

"Nope. No idea. I'm just floating through life, seeing what happens.

I do kinda know what I don't want though. "

This is me exactly too!

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
3 weeks ago

Bristol

In all seriousness though, fuck knows! I didn’t realise as I grew older life would be such a total cluster fuck of the head! Adulting, 0/10, would not recommend

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By *olo180Man
3 weeks ago

Blackpool / London

"What it is that you're looking for? On here? In life?

If so what is it?

Or are you a fellow winger? You've no fucking clue what you want in life, on here but hope it will at some point smack you in the face?

I'm feeling kind of nosey 👑 "

Think I just want a bit of peace 🙏🏻

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By *hickthighs25Woman
3 weeks ago

Stockton

I know what i dont want ... more of a winger tbh sometimes i still dont know when it is smacking me in the face but who wants boring ey 🤷‍♀️

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By *ndymac888Man
3 weeks ago

Dumbarton

I know roughly but mostly winging the fuck out of it.

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By *lcherasDreamTimeCouple
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Absolutely winging it every step of the way.

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By *y_journeyMan
3 weeks ago

newark

You’re still here, you survived good & bad times.

Feel blessed for what you have not what you want.

Enjoy the ride, learn the lessons, do you!

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By *otguy555Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

"What it is that you're looking for? On here? In life?

If so what is it?

Or are you a fellow winger? You've no fucking clue what you want in life, on here but hope it will at some point smack you in the face?

I'm feeling kind of nosey 👑 "
i know exactly what I'm looking for. More of what I have been experiencing over the last few years xx

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By *exy RexyMan
3 weeks ago

Up North

A big pair of tits to spunk over

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By *hunky GentMan
3 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

Im here to have a few laughs,

Admire you lovely ladies in your blue underwear

And try not to piss anyone off.

2 out of 3 ain't bad. Lol

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By *lexm87Man
3 weeks ago

Various

I didn't know, I don't know, and I'm unlikely to ever know.

If anyone has an instruction manual, I'd love to see it.

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By *uperSalopian7Man
3 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Just going with the flow

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By *eordieJeansCouple
3 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

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By *eordieJeansCouple
3 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I’m just using the forums to pass the time when I’m bored. I/we don’t have any intention of meeting anyone on here ever again.

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By *uke_silverMan
3 weeks ago

London

On here, I don't know.

In life, absolutely. I guess the best word to describe what it is is freedom.

I'm surprised when people here are saying they'll wait for something to smack them in the face in life. On here, I can understand. Boobs (or any other body part) in the face are real, what's the real life equivalent?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
3 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Not a sodding clue, kinda given up if I'm honest

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By *aphunterMan
3 weeks ago

woking

“The most interesting people I know don’t know what they want to do when they are 40”

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By *antricSeeker60Man
3 weeks ago

Durham

Life and fab both have many different chapters to offer.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
3 weeks ago

Altrincham

"Do you know - What it is that you're looking for? On here? In life?

If so what is it?

Or are you a fellow winger? You've no fucking clue what you want in life, on here but hope it will at some point smack you in the face?

I'm feeling kind of nosey 👑 "

I know exactly what I'm looking for in life and on here and I'm lucky enough to have both in abundance 🥰

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
3 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"“The most interesting people I know don’t know what they want to do when they are 40”"

Sunscreen... baz lurhman

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
3 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I just want a quite life. Im sixty and fuck knows how I got to this age but a quiet life for me

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By *aryportmanMan
3 weeks ago

Whitehaven

The muffin man. . ?

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By *aphunterMan
3 weeks ago

woking

Truth is I’m happy but not 100%, I think we all dip and need picking up, life can be tough, it is a journey, you have to grab life and when you can’t or it seems too much, reach out to the world. If you can’t do that, just go outside, it does wonders. Xx

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By *ric-shawnMan
3 weeks ago

By the beach...

Fun, laughter, sunsets, full moons and big starry sky's. A hot woman with eyes to fall into and for the love of god no more toxic people in my life, apart from that I'll keep plugging away 😂

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By *iss.Bella OP Woman
3 weeks ago

It's actually refreshing to see that others wing it too 🤣 I feel a little more "normal" now 🤷‍♀️

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By *iss.Bella OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"and for the love of god no more toxic people in my life"

Yessss to this! This is the only plan I have up to now.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
3 weeks ago

Bristol

"It's actually refreshing to see that others wing it too 🤣 I feel a little more "normal" now 🤷‍♀️"

To be fair, what even is “normal”? I think there’s many of us that just wing it and see what happens, you’re far from alone

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By *iss.Bella OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"The muffin man. . ?"

NOT THE GUMDROP BUTTONS!!!

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By *ad NannaWoman
3 weeks ago

East London

I'm not looking for anything in particular. I know what I don't want.

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By *hunky GentMan
3 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"It's actually refreshing to see that others wing it too 🤣 I feel a little more "normal" now 🤷‍♀️"

Sending you a Chunky hug. Xx

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By *lix CoxMan
3 weeks ago

CF39

I dont put up with bulshit I know what I'm looking for people don't like it then eat my arse.

Or are they that hide?

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By *secondmanMan
3 weeks ago

havant

Totally, you so right. A no clue winger hoping it hits him in the face 😊

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

I know what I want and I know what I don't want.

I also have what I want, and I don't have what I don't want.

Life is good.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
3 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"I know what I want and I know what I don't want.

I also have what I want, and I don't have what I don't want.

Life is good."

Lucky you lol

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
3 weeks ago

North West

Right now I wanted chocolate and wine … so I went out and got chocolate and wine. Tomorrow is a new day!

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By *indergirlWoman
3 weeks ago

somewhere, someplace

I'm completely winging absolutely everything

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By *aphunterMan
3 weeks ago

woking

"Right now I wanted chocolate and wine … so I went out and got chocolate and wine. Tomorrow is a new day! "

I just went out and got wine too xx I blame Glastonbury 😆

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By *omeones GrumpMan
3 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

Not got the foggiest in any part of my life there day's

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By *eviant KnightMan
3 weeks ago

Norton

I thought this was going to be about the Muffin man

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By *ittlebirdWoman
3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I know what I want. Until I find it then probably change my mind 🤣

I’m just winging it OP. Have been for nearly 50 years. Life is a journey. Not a destination ☮️

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By *as7643Man
3 weeks ago

staffs

Go with the flow of it ticks all your boxes happy days 🙏

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By *di3491Man
3 weeks ago

Sandbach

I’m looking to settle down but every relationship just seems to fail and it makes me feel worthless if I’m being honest

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By *ittlebirdWoman
3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I’m looking to settle down but every relationship just seems to fail and it makes me feel worthless if I’m being honest "

I felt that. Don’t lose heart 😘

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By *di3491Man
3 weeks ago

Sandbach

I’m trying not to but I’ve not got another heartbreak stage in me I wanted to do life with my latest relationship and I think it’s all over nobody fights to make it work I give up 😔

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By *aphunterMan
3 weeks ago

woking

"I know what I want. Until I find it then probably change my mind 🤣

I’m just winging it OP. Have been for nearly 50 years. Life is a journey. Not a destination ☮️"

Exactly this x

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By *ripfillMan
3 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

I have a plan …..

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By *aphunterMan
3 weeks ago

woking

"I’m looking to settle down but every relationship just seems to fail and it makes me feel worthless if I’m being honest "

Never give up. I’ve had councilling after a long sexless marriage, I sought it to learn how to deal with the loss of my kids, as she moved a long way away. Try and think each time you are with someone is a step closer to finding your next partner. I’ll stop talking in a moment, but I remember when I was fresh out of my old home and 3 kids, into my new house, one my own, I met my bin man. I had been up all night. He said something to me that I will never forget. Which was, when you break up with someone who you loved and it stops, you will have more, but it can take till you get to the 3rd until you find the person that’s right. X

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By *ittleLiaisonsWoman
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

Looking for the penis, nothing more. I know I don't want or need a relationship and fully thrive when alone so bellends galore is all I'm looking for 🙃

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By *ub with a ChubbMan
3 weeks ago

Southwest & Cork City

"What it is that you're looking for? On here? In life?

If so what is it?

Or are you a fellow winger? You've no fucking clue what you want in life, on here but hope it will at some point smack you in the face?

I'm feeling kind of nosey 👑 "

Whoa!... That's heavy for 5.43 on a Saturday morning.

Lemme sleep on it for another 3 or 4 hours. 💤 💤💤💤💤

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By *orksBBW36Woman
3 weeks ago

Mansfield

Feel like I definitely have a good idea by now

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By *est_Yorkshire_GentMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Pretty much winging it and hoping for the best 😅

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By *rHotNottsMan
3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I want to be waking up on a mountain top in a nice warm tent drinking coffee without a care in the world, hang on I think I’ve made it

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By *hiversMan
3 weeks ago

Dinas Powys

"What it is that you're looking for? On here? In life?

If so what is it?

Or are you a fellow winger? You've no fucking clue what you want in life, on here but hope it will at some point smack you in the face?

I'm feeling kind of nosey 👑 "

Very much a winger... I'm working on the assumption that I'll know it when I find it 😬🤞

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
3 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

"What it is that you're looking for? On here? In life?

If so what is it?

I’ve never stopped looking, I’ll never stop looking for Linda.

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By *ric-shawnMan
3 weeks ago

By the beach...

Yo, I'll tell you what I want, what I really, really want

So tell me what you want, what you really, really want

I wanna, (ha) I wanna, (ha) I wanna, (ha) I wanna, (ha)

I wanna really, really, really wanna zigazig ah

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By *ung-stallionMan
3 weeks ago

northeast

Truthfully. I just want to fuck a woman over 50 😂😂

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By *sStephenPickleMan
3 weeks ago

Ends

Yeah I’m looking for something consistently regular. Couple times a month maybe.

Partners is not off the table but I’m not seeking.

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By *exyInLatinMan
3 weeks ago

Warsop

"What it is that you're looking for? On here? In life?

If so what is it?

Or are you a fellow winger? You've no fucking clue what you want in life, on here but hope it will at some point smack you in the face?

I'm feeling kind of nosey 👑 "

Feel like I swing (pun intended) between winging and over planning my life…..the winging is much more fun but it can get a bit overwhelming!!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
3 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

I wing everything always have , and pretend I know wtf im doing

There are some things I know i want though Bella 🤷🏻‍♂️

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By *ittlebirdWoman
3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I wing everything always have , and pretend I know wtf im doing

There are some things I know i want though Bella 🤷🏻‍♂️"

Custard?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
3 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

"I wing everything always have , and pretend I know wtf im doing

There are some things I know i want though Bella 🤷🏻‍♂️

Custard? "

^ She knows 😆

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
3 weeks ago

Voldsøy

I know what I want and with who I want. It's ridiculous and unattainable. So I'm winging it, like I always have. Idk how I've got this far, honestly. 🤷‍♀️

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By *adgeyMan
3 weeks ago

Bingley

"I know what I want and with who I want. It's ridiculous and unattainable. So I'm winging it, like I always have. Idk how I've got this far, honestly. 🤷‍♀️"

Don't let your partner see that ha

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
3 weeks ago

Voldsøy

"I know what I want and with who I want. It's ridiculous and unattainable. So I'm winging it, like I always have. Idk how I've got this far, honestly. 🤷‍♀️

Don't let your partner see that ha "

Actually, it was him I had in mind, mostly.

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By *adgeyMan
3 weeks ago

Bingley

"I know what I want and with who I want. It's ridiculous and unattainable. So I'm winging it, like I always have. Idk how I've got this far, honestly. 🤷‍♀️

Don't let your partner see that ha

Actually, it was him I had in mind, mostly."

Good answer ha

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By *host63Man
3 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

Someone who likes the lifestyle but also a partner.

And after years of trying realise it's likely to happen

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By *ost SockMan
3 weeks ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"What it is that you're looking for? On here? In life?

If so what is it?

Or are you a fellow winger? You've no fucking clue what you want in life, on here but hope it will at some point smack you in the face?

I'm feeling kind of nosey 👑 "

I’m still trying to decide what to do when I grow up

I was thinking of enrolling with the OU last week, but my mind raced so much trying to decide what I wanted to study so much, I gave up. Too many possibilities.

I’m 55

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By *erseykevMan
3 weeks ago

St Helier

Just want a little fun in my life!

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
3 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.

Threesomes with chubby guys, prefferably bi and foursomes with chubby couples, prefferably with guy on guy play.

Added bonus if there is a hot tub involved at some point.

Which seems really simple on paper.

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By *ant...stay...awayCouple
3 weeks ago

South Wales

I think we are looking for a holiday home in Scotland given the number of slamming couples on here from up there! 😍

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By *heoPalsnakeMan
3 weeks ago

Thirsk

I've stopped looking for anything specific. I just meander through life and drink it all in. If you're focused on one thing you miss everything else going on around you. I'm just an ape on a pretty rock, having some adventures. 🤷‍♂️

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By *anderer88Woman
3 weeks ago

essex

As my name might suggest... im absolutely winging it!

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By *oeBeansMan
3 weeks ago

Derby

I thought I knew what I wanted. But as I'm getting older, I'm finding that it's changing and I'm sorry of trying to navigate that to get to a place where I do know what I want again because winging it without any kind of plan does seem a bit scary 🙈

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By *oeBeansMan
3 weeks ago

Derby

"As my name might suggest... im absolutely winging it! "

Fancy winging it through Derby some day? 😇

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By *2000ManMan
3 weeks ago

Worthing

Here...now the sex part is out of the way just some good chat with humour along the way. In life? A life partner.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

East Sussex

I've winged my whole life and continue to. I don't generally give it a lot of thought and on the odd occasion people have asked what my 1, 5 and 10 year plans are I have no answer to give them.

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By *eliWoman
3 weeks ago

So nosey OP. The audacity.

I think I'm doing both. And really enjoying it. I'm a lot better at recognising what I don't want. And not feeling too guilty about it. Think I'm doing pretty well really.

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