FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting tips

By *tevie20241000 OP Man
over a year ago

Newbury

Im meeting a lady later today, she's invited me over to her house to play.

We've messaged and shared pics,but not spoken, im feeling nervous and excited, any tips for a 1st meet?

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By *eird_With_a_BeardMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Don't get to worked up over it. Relax, chat, go with the flow and see what happens. Dont have any preconceptions unless they've already been discussed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak to her. Phone or video. BEFORE you go to meet her.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Take some flowers and be on time. You're lucky for a woman to invite you to her house when she's never met you.

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By *tevie20241000 OP Man
over a year ago

Newbury

"Take some flowers and be on time. You're lucky for a woman to invite you to her house when she's never met you. "
Great idea, thank you

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Im meeting a lady later today, she's invited me over to her house to play.

We've messaged and shared pics,but not spoken, im feeling nervous and excited, any tips for a 1st meet?"

That fact you've not spoken screams "BEWARE!!!" but, it's not dissimilar to my very first meet via this site many moons ago. That was shite btw, on my part and hers, no compatibility. I hope yours is genuine and more funner that mine 🤞🏾

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Speak to her. Phone or video. BEFORE you go to meet her. "

This op, there's not many women who will invite a total stranger over to their home, first meet.

Make sure she is who she claims to be first.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How far will you need to travel ?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Speak to her. Phone or video. BEFORE you go to meet her. "

Listen to Glow. She knows.

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By *ndymac888Man
over a year ago

Dumbarton

Don’t forget condoms 😉, been there and to be honest it helped break the ice and have a laugh.

Sometimes it’s just important to start the physical intimacy without any pressure, you can worry about the fantasy stuff down the line.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

Flowers and sparkly rose wine is generally well received and nice ice breaker.

Just relax.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Try to relax, ask her if she'd like to share a (non alcoholic)drink first to break the ice.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't appreciate flowers. A bottle of wine maybe as a gift for the hostess but flowers are way too personal *in my opinion* for a first meet.

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Don't forget to let us all know how you got on.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
over a year ago

In fair Verona.

We've messaged and shared pics,but not spoken, im feeling nervous and excited, any tips for a 1st meet?"

Brush your teeth.

Don’t talk about your ex girlfriend.

Look at her eyes when she talks, not her cleavage.

If it’s just nsa/hookup sex, jive it your all, she might like it and invite you again.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Im meeting a lady later today, she's invited me over to her house to play.

We've messaged and shared pics,but not spoken, im feeling nervous and excited, any tips for a 1st meet?"

I would be feeling nervous too because if you haven't spoken how do you know this is not a male you have been messaging and sending pics to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be purple aki

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember sex is consent ….

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Market Deeping

Have a 'tactical'

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Im meeting a lady later today, she's invited me over to her house to play.

We've messaged and shared pics,but not spoken, im feeling nervous and excited, any tips for a 1st meet?"

How did it go? Was she real?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enquiring minds want to know OP…

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
over a year ago

Chester

How did it go? 🤔

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Take some flowers and be on time. You're lucky for a woman to invite you to her house when she's never met you. "

This^^^ not sure there's many women who invite strangers off Fab straight to their house

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I hope afterwards you still had your phone, wallet and car keys !

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Speak and don't go to an unknown strangers house.

But a holes a hole for most guys on here, so......

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Hes not been back on here for 16 hours, either it was amazing and he is recovering or still there.... or we should be worried!

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Have zero expectations

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Take some flowers and be on time. You're lucky for a woman to invite you to her house when she's never met you.

This^^^ not sure there's many women who invite strangers off Fab straight to their house

I think you'd be surprised.

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By *exyInLatinMan
over a year ago

Warsop

Had the OP been back on? Are we now witnesses to a murder? 🤣

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By *ighlandCooWoman
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Take some flowers and be on time. You're lucky for a woman to invite you to her house when she's never met you. "

Flowers??

Oh no, I'd feel weird if a guy from Fab gave me flowers on a first meet.

This isn't a date....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could be purple aki "

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *exyInLatinMan
over a year ago

Warsop

"Take some flowers and be on time. You're lucky for a woman to invite you to her house when she's never met you.

Flowers??

Oh no, I'd feel weird if a guy from Fab gave me flowers on a first meet.

This isn't a date...."

Better he has a wank first so hes primed to go for a while

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By *tevie20241000 OP Man
over a year ago

Newbury

She was exactly as the photos she’d shared. I did try phoning her to check the address and where to park, but she replied by text.

I was nervous but I did find the excitement fun, especially when she opened the door wearing a very sexy dress.

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By *enda83Man
over a year ago

north

"Im meeting a lady later today, she's invited me over to her house to play.

We've messaged and shared pics,but not spoken, im feeling nervous and excited, any tips for a 1st meet?"

Show up d*unk

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"She was exactly as the photos she’d shared. I did try phoning her to check the address and where to park, but she replied by text.

I was nervous but I did find the excitement fun, especially when she opened the door wearing a very sexy dress.

You hit the jackpot there

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By *allySlinkyWoman
52 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm looking forward to reading her verification

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By *igblackchocolateMan
52 weeks ago

London,Essex &Birms

Observe your surroundings and make sure there’s proof she’s a real person

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By *enelope2UWoman
52 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"Take some flowers and be on time. You're lucky for a woman to invite you to her house when she's never met you.

Flowers??

Oh no, I'd feel weird if a guy from Fab gave me flowers on a first meet.

This isn't a date....

Better he has a wank first so hes primed to go for a while

Lol she'd probably prefer he tick up condom in and money in the table too..it's fab so self respect isn't required

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By *oastal1968Man
52 weeks ago

London/Stafford

"Im meeting a lady later today, she's invited me over to her house to play.

We've messaged and shared pics,but not spoken, im feeling nervous and excited, any tips for a 1st meet?"

Send me instead.

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By *ighlandCooWoman
52 weeks ago

Chesterfield

"Take some flowers and be on time. You're lucky for a woman to invite you to her house when she's never met you.

Flowers??

Oh no, I'd feel weird if a guy from Fab gave me flowers on a first meet.

This isn't a date....

Better he has a wank first so hes primed to go for a while

Yes! That's a better option

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