Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
 | Back to forum list |
| Back to The Lounge |
| Jump to newest |  |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If she's possessive of my cock, hot, my time? No" I belong to the streets. And so does my cock | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What do you mean by possessive, OP?" possessive | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What do you mean by possessive, OP? possessive" 
I mean, are you talking about not wanting your man to go down the strippers with the lads, or being jealous of everyone they talk to? What level of possessive? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What do you mean by possessive, OP? possessive
I mean, are you talking about not wanting your man to go down the strippers with the lads, or being jealous of everyone they talk to? What level of possessive?"That’s up to you. I’m not defining it for you, you can tell me what level of it is hot or not. Btw, I don’t think a partner should have an issue with you going to see a stripper or talking to someone | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Very much depends on what you define as possessive. Trying to control what I wear, who I speak to or prevent me from going out with my mates. Most definitely not hot. However, possessive as in in a sexual primal way on occasion is very hot indeed. " Thanks for this answer | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What do you mean by possessive, OP? possessive
I mean, are you talking about not wanting your man to go down the strippers with the lads, or being jealous of everyone they talk to? What level of possessive?"Do you like the idea of your partner being yours? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 Although there's very little that I don't see as a red flag 🤷♀️🤣" You should run for FIA president | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 Although there's very little that I don't see as a red flag 🤷♀️🤣 You should run for FIA president" I second this | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What do you mean by possessive, OP? possessive
I mean, are you talking about not wanting your man to go down the strippers with the lads, or being jealous of everyone they talk to? What level of possessive?"There is no such thing as levels to possessiveness...a person is either possessive or not...possessiveness has more to do with the attitude you approach to a subject. To take your own example...your partner might not be ok with you going to a strip club...it might be a boundary within the relationship and she can approach that in a mature way ..."I'm sorry but I'm not ok with you always going to the strip club with your friends, it's just something I'm not compatible with in a relationship"... or she can be possessive about it and say "you're not going anywhere! If you go to that strip club you're gonna fucking regret it!" . Most people that are possessive will use being protective or concerned as an excuse, and that's how they manage to manipulate their partners | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What do you mean by possessive, OP? possessive
I mean, are you talking about not wanting your man to go down the strippers with the lads, or being jealous of everyone they talk to? What level of possessive?
Do you like the idea of your partner being yours? "Ohhhh that’s a whole different question to me with my BDSM head on  Yes I do. I don’t think that’s possessive, though? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What do you mean by possessive, OP? possessive
I mean, are you talking about not wanting your man to go down the strippers with the lads, or being jealous of everyone they talk to? What level of possessive?
Do you like the idea of your partner being yours? "That’s monogamy though, not possessiveness (if I’ve interpreted your comment correctly) | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Very much depends on what you define as possessive. Trying to control what I wear, who I speak to or prevent me from going out with my mates. Most definitely not hot. However, possessive as in in a sexual primal way on occasion is very hot indeed. " I should have scrolled up before answering Guess what, I agree with this! Controlling vs control which is handed over. The first is not hot, the second is very hot. It’s a fine line to tread though and you have to be careful who you’re giving control to. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Very much depends on what you define as possessive. Trying to control what I wear, who I speak to or prevent me from going out with my mates. Most definitely not hot. However, possessive as in in a sexual primal way on occasion is very hot indeed. " This is perfectly put ❤️ | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What do you mean by possessive, OP? possessive
I mean, are you talking about not wanting your man to go down the strippers with the lads, or being jealous of everyone they talk to? What level of possessive?
There is no such thing as levels to possessiveness...a person is either possessive or not...possessiveness has more to do with the attitude you approach to a subject. To take your own example...your partner might not be ok with you going to a strip club...it might be a boundary within the relationship and she can approach that in a mature way ..."I'm sorry but I'm not ok with you always going to the strip club with your friends, it's just something I'm not compatible with in a relationship"... or she can be possessive about it and say "you're not going anywhere! If you go to that strip club you're gonna fucking regret it!" . Most people that are possessive will use being protective or concerned as an excuse, and that's how they manage to manipulate their partners "It’s subjective, isn’t it? I don’t tend to think in binary, I think most people are shades of grey rather than this or that, possessive or not. I think it can stem from lack of trust or insecurity and that can lead people to behave in a possessive way. Absolutely agree that some people will justify possessive behaviour as protective in order to manipulate their partner. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What do you mean by possessive, OP? possessive
I mean, are you talking about not wanting your man to go down the strippers with the lads, or being jealous of everyone they talk to? What level of possessive?
Do you like the idea of your partner being yours?
Ohhhh that’s a whole different question to me with my BDSM head on Yes I do. I don’t think that’s possessive, though?"Totally agreed on this. I don’t think it is either x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
 ah | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What do you mean by possessive, OP? possessive
I mean, are you talking about not wanting your man to go down the strippers with the lads, or being jealous of everyone they talk to? What level of possessive?
Do you like the idea of your partner being yours?
That’s monogamy though, not possessiveness (if I’ve interpreted your comment correctly) "Nah not really. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Just to clarify, this post was also not inspired by anything to do with fab. ah "Are you sure Stephen? 😉 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Just to clarify, this post was also not inspired by anything to do with fab. ah "Still not hot to me... its iceee cold... | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Just to clarify, this post was also not inspired by anything to do with fab. ah
Are you sure Stephen? 😉"Not really actually | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Just to clarify, this post was also not inspired by anything to do with fab. ah
Are you sure Stephen? 😉
Not really actually"I mean… it definitely had something to do with Fab for me… | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If she's possessive of my cock, hot, my time? No I belong to the streets. And so does my cock " Lol! Yo is soooo gangsta! 🤣 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Post new Message to Thread |
| back to top |  |
