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By *tevie20241000 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Newbury

When planning a hotel meet with someone new, how long do you plan to stay?

Do you come prepared with an overnight bag?

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By *ungandMan
5 weeks ago

daveyhulme

I enjoy overnights but really enjoy the day rooms

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
5 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

2 hours at most usually.

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By *viatrixWoman
5 weeks ago

Redhill

I don’t stay overnight unless it’s my fwb - and even then we leave at stupid o clock because of work 😭😭😭😭

If it’s someone I’ve met socially a couple of times and then we’re meeting in a hotel, 2-3 hrs or so.

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By *uttley 30Man
5 weeks ago

london

If a first meet prob 2 - 3 hours or so

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By *orkawayalotMan
5 weeks ago

love sex

Till av shot me load

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By *sWyldWoman
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I love a cheeky day room .

Ideally I want all day. Laughter, chat, epic rounds of sex through the day and snacks..they matter.

Anything less than 4 hours isn't worth shaving my legs for

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair

It's a two-fold answer from me:

1. Overnight, coupled with cocktails, coquettish behaviour on the banquette, some food, bedroom theatrics and brunch in the morning.

2. From noon until late evening (preceded by brunch beforehand) and then a sexually-charged thespian performance between the sheets until twilight.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
5 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

I book an hour, and still have e time for a shower.

Joking aside, it would be for a night. If I’m hoping to spend more time than that, I’d be hoping for something more than just a sexy hookup. If someone e asked me for more than a night, I’d ask what their intentions were. (A relationship maybe?)

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Central

1st meets I plan an hour or two, as it's an unknown experience. You can extend, if it's right but I aim to manage expectations, as I don't want an unknown in my room for the night, arriving and expecting to move in

I expect to stay the night but it's my sacred space

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By *sStephenPickleMan
5 weeks ago

Ends

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

20 minutes in a broom cupboard, and you don't even have to check in. 😁

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

I do them if I’m staying at a hotel anyway. Keep it to a fuck n go. Simples.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"When planning a hotel meet with someone new, how long do you plan to stay?

Do you come prepared with an overnight bag?"

I don’t plan them with someone new OP. I always have a social first. Who knows who they are really and whether we actually fancy each other until we meet? 🤷‍♂️

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By *aizyWoman
5 weeks ago

west midlands


"20 minutes in a broom cupboard, and you don't even have to check in. 😁"

And we wouldn't have to find parking for our brooms, lets do this Davina 🧙‍♀️🧹

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London


"20 minutes in a broom cupboard, and you don't even have to check in. 😁"

God you’re huge!

No, sorry that’s the mop handle. Fuck you’re wet.

No, sorry that’s Flash Spray and Wipe

Spray and Wipe eh? You saucy minx.

No it’s a deterg…mop handle you say?

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By *weetWithATw1stWoman
5 weeks ago

MiddleofMyStreet

couple hours tops i think xx

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By *el111Man
5 weeks ago

Essex/London

Dayuse - great website. Normally 10 am - 4/5pm. Fit in as many rounds as possible

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
5 weeks ago

Reading

It depends on the person, for someone new then a couple of hours but for an fwb or long term partner, then as long as possible. One meet was 3 nights in which we hardly left the hotel room.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
5 weeks ago

Markfield

I had a lovely daytime meet very recently which was about 3 hours and I stayed over once he left as it was near work and convenient. I’ve had a dayuse thing which was awesome and about 4 hours. Best yet was the early checkin at Travelodge so we got there for 12 and we left about half five that evening as neither of us like sleepovers and we each had things to be getting on with that evening. Early on in my time on fab I spent two nights with a young man in a sort of motel in pocklington but I realised I really don’t want that kind of set up so now the only person I stay over with is primary FWB.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
5 weeks ago

Reading

3 or 4 hours on a daymeet

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
5 weeks ago

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Depends on how much the car park is charging.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"20 minutes in a broom cupboard, and you don't even have to check in. 😁

And we wouldn't have to find parking for our brooms, lets do this Davina 🧙‍♀️🧹"

Broom! Broom! Let's goooooo! 😝🧹🧹

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"20 minutes in a broom cupboard, and you don't even have to check in. 😁

God you’re huge!

No, sorry that’s the mop handle. Fuck you’re wet.

No, sorry that’s Flash Spray and Wipe

Spray and Wipe eh? You saucy minx.

No it’s a deterg…mop handle you say? "

I always pick a broom cupboard with a light. Or turn on my phone torch 😜

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