FabSwingers.com forum: Hotel meets

By *tevie20241000 OP Man
4 weeks ago

Newbury

Would you meet for a blind date in hotel?

would you want to meet In the bar or reception or straight to bedroom?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Central

Regularly, the bar area is the better, safer option

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By *sWyldWoman
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I love a hotel encounter but not a blind date

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
4 weeks ago

Altrincham

I wouldn't do a blind date

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By *ndymac888Man
4 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Yeah no way I’m meeting blind.

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By *quirrel!Man
4 weeks ago

I did this twice! Both very enjoyable! Met and went to the bar first

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By *ABflirtyWoman
4 weeks ago

Norfolk Coast

Bar as i may need to do a runner , lol

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Love a hotel meet but couldn't do blind date

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By *ideshaft1971Man
4 weeks ago

Midlands

Goto start in the bar and see if you gel

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
4 weeks ago

Altrincham

I see the BF at a hotel, he comes to get me at the car park and walks me in to the hotel

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
4 weeks ago

Up North

"Love a hotel meet but couldn't do blind date "

Same, happy to do hotel bar meets but never blind.

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By *ilva69Man
4 weeks ago

stockport

The buzz you get when your phone pings with the room number

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By *quirrel!Man
4 weeks ago

"Bar as i may need to do a runner , lol

I’d be hot on your tails!

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By *oney HoneyWoman
4 weeks ago

York

Guys always so pushy wanting to “meet in the room”/ come straight to the room. Absolutely no way I’d do that… there could be no connection, could look different than photos, could be creepy…

I have ended up falling out with/ cancelling a few meets when guys won’t have a quick coffee/ social first.. probably cos they are married and too scared to be seen in public tbf

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By *egnMaxCouple
4 weeks ago

Nottingham

Got to be the bar. For cocktails. A build up of sexual tension, laughter and flirting. Then when everyone’s ready there’s nothing better than three of you heading / skipping up to the same room 💋

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By *quirrel!Man
4 weeks ago

"Got to be the bar. For cocktails. A build up of sexual tension, laughter and flirting. Then when everyone’s ready there’s nothing better than three of you heading / skipping up to the same room 💋

Safety in numbers!

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

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By *dnxyzMan
4 weeks ago

LondonX

I love a hotel meet but there must be a social first... bar, cafe, etc for a chat and flirting to take place. Then if we feel it is right, move to the room with no pressure

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
4 weeks ago

Gloucester

In the bar yes. Not going up to a room without seeing someone first.

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By *hiversMan
4 weeks ago

Dinas Powys

"In the bar yes. Not going up to a room without seeing someone first. "

This. Meet in a public space first

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By *iddenDelightsMan
4 weeks ago

Brighouse

All been straight to the bedroom. Never had any issue . Just did one last Monday in Wakefield.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
4 weeks ago

Leeds

I am too picky to do a blind date straight to the room.

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By *r Bond.Man
4 weeks ago

Moving Around the Midlands

It’s a nice fantasy but it’s a no from me

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By *ripfillMan
4 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Recently met a most lovely lady for the fourth time in a day hotel in Southampton … we both met for coffee first , then up to the room which was really good inc sofa and mini kitchen massive bed …

Delightful time spent together loved the hotel meet two person shower too ummmm

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By *mizhereMan
4 weeks ago

Thame area

Always in the bar to ensure we like each other first

No play without attraction

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By *vaRoseWoman
4 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I love meeting my partner in a hotel but don’t want a blind date.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
4 weeks ago

Leeds

"Recently met a most lovely lady for the fourth time "

So not quite a blind date !

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Have to be the bar love the social side the build up the slow seduction connection is important and that doesn’t build if it straight to the bedroom esp if you’ve never met before

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By *allySlinkyWoman
4 weeks ago

Leeds

I was once doing a medical role play with a genuine GP and I went straight to the room, but I had seen a photo of him first.

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By *alkingbobMan
4 weeks ago

Hamilton

Love hotel meets but would at least want to chat first and meet first in bar

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By *ittlebirdWoman
4 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

No to the blind date OP 👍🏻

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By *ature bi couple61Couple
4 weeks ago

Derby

With a couple

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
4 weeks ago

Reading

I would only go straight to a hotel room with someone I know well. Otherwise it would always be a chat and drink in a public space first.

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By *imply_SensualMan
4 weeks ago

Cheshire

Yes to hotel meet, there is something that feels sordid/sexy about a hotel meet.

But no to a blind date, knowing my luck Davinia would turn out to be Dave!

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By *omRachCouple
4 weeks ago

Wirral

Rach had a hotel encounter last week, not a 1st meet though

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By *emptme1993Man
4 weeks ago

manchester

Absolutely got to meet in the bar, all part of the build up as well. Flirting and touching over a couple of drinks in the bar before dragging each other up to the room and nearly getting it on in the lift. Just going straight to the room deprives you of that

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By *issmorganWoman
4 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

In the bar only first.

I'd never go to someone's room, without at least having a chat and drink.

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By *issmorganWoman
4 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Especially when I'd not seen them first, I'd want to know there was attraction before anything else.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

No I wouldn't go straight to anyone's hotel room.

I once read on here about someone who did that thinking they were meeting one man and there were several guys in the room.

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair

Nø. Åbsolutely Nøt.

I'm happy to meet women for a cocktail in a hotel bar, quite often on the back of having chatted to them for a protracted period of time.

Any woman who is prone to the folly of a blind date in this type of situation or similar spontaneity... isn't for me.

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By *ein-guyMan
4 weeks ago

East Cowes

Bar first to see how it goes. More relaxed atmosphere over a drink too

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By *erkshire8299Man
4 weeks ago

slough

Three hotel meets were arranged ...one was good...buy the other two were fake...

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By *oml and mwgcCouple
4 weeks ago

Birstall

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By *estructionDollyWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester

"Would you meet for a blind date in hotel?

would you want to meet In the bar or reception or straight to bedroom?"

Never. Wouldn't do a blind date full stop, but especially not with an expectation of sex.

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By *ewtfaceMan
4 weeks ago

Bracknell

I've done blind dates; back in the days before smart phones. We'd just been chatting via text on our old Nokias. One was a hotel meet ~ was ok, but not great success. The second, she came to my place for the night and we both had a very good time; she was sexy as fuck

Can't imagine I'd do it again; i feel if someone wants a blind date, they have something to hide.

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