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"Yeh I would agree with you normally but it was exactly the same the last time with the same person and I brushed it of as a gentleman saying not to worry etc etc And then the same again Good manners and repspect go a long way xx " Don't ignore red flags op, if they do it once, no second chances. Sorry you had this happen, some people get off on this sort of thing judging by all the threads on it. Report them to admin though. | |||
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"I don’t know about any other men / woman on here but for some reason, unknown to me you can literally be ghosted Chatted for a good while now and had arranged to meet tomorrow Meal cooked by me Today came along and the clues appeared that no reply to messages on telegram then telegram deleted then defriended here then blocked all with in 5 mins Maybe just maybe there is a genuinely decent guy at the other end of the phone. Maybe you should try and act like an adult, have some real manners, respect and when showing care be real. I would never treated people like that and I expect the same Poor show rant over 😡😡😡😡" perhaps the reality kicked in if it was a single female coming around to yours maybe arrange a social in a public place next time so there’s less pressure for both of you 🤷🏻♀️ | |||
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"Again being something that had been discussed on numerous occasions she wanted it to be at mine as she would be more comfortable than a coffee shop or restaurant xx" oh right sorry  | |||
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"Again being something that had been discussed on numerous occasions she wanted it to be at mine as she would be more comfortable than a coffee shop or restaurant xx oh right sorry "There is nothing queer as folk!!!!!🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"I understand that is frustrating but maybe they just changed their mind? " Are we going to continue justifying terrible behaviour with this excuse? | |||
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"Again being something that had been discussed on numerous occasions she wanted it to be at mine as she would be more comfortable than a coffee shop or restaurant xx" Perhaps she wasn't in the mood for sex on the day, or got her period or something and didn't like to say... | |||
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"Again being something that had been discussed on numerous occasions she wanted it to be at mine as she would be more comfortable than a coffee shop or restaurant xx Perhaps she wasn't in the mood for sex on the day, or got her period or something and didn't like to say..." Perhaps or more likely she is just very disrespectful with no manners | |||
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"I agree it's kinda rude and moreso when you have made specific plans. I've pulled out at the last min as had a change of heart - but have said so not ghosted as I do think its childish. Yes we can change our minds - no-one owes anyone - but saying so does feel kinder. Also agree tho that we can't control what others do but can only control our response, so... " agree 100% of you come on and expect to be respected like you say don’t act like your in kinder garden | |||
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"It's potentially safer to meet in a public place, which wouldn't have to be a bar or coffee shop. It's lovely that you cooked a meal but a lone woman in a man's home does have safety issues, as does consumption of what he provides for her. I'd be especially dubious if someone didn't fulfil a prior meeting. People could meet at Fab socials together, so they'll have security and be surrounded by people who understand too. " Having been here for a considerable time I have had a couple of ghosts this to me is just childish Like many have said it’s how you act after it that matters Being a real person with good manners and respect for others isn’t hard to have they just seem hard to find in some sadly | |||
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"Again being something that had been discussed on numerous occasions she wanted it to be at mine as she would be more comfortable than a coffee shop or restaurant xx" • Did you exchange voice notes/telephone calls prior to this 'date'? I would have insisted (and persisted) on meeting for a coffee in a public place. If her caveat was to meet at mine then I would say no thank you and look for closure. | |||
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"Yeh I would agree with you normally but it was exactly the same the last time with the same person and I brushed it of as a gentleman saying not to worry etc etc And then the same again Good manners and respect go a long way xx Don't ignore red flags op, if they do it once, no second chances. Sorry you had this happen, some people get off on this sort of thing judging by all the threads on it. Report them to admin though. " As above, no second chances, had a similar situation with a hotel meet recently. was blocked like the OP after a 'no show' with no explanation. Hey presto, two weeks later I'm not blocked anymore, and received a friend request. The icing on the cake was this same woman coming up and sitting next to me at a party last weekend wanting to chat  | |||
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"Don't invest too much energy in to someone before you've met them. Once you have and are certain? Sure. Before then, you don't know who you're talking to. At all. It's crap it's happened, hopefully it won't again. There'll be better fits out there." Oh I have been here a while and felt there was a bit of investment on both sides Respect and manners cost nothing xxx | |||
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"I understand that is frustrating but maybe they just changed their mind? Are we going to continue justifying terrible behaviour with this excuse? " Yeah, I think if people are making what appears to be a solid plan to meet and then changing their mind, it's flaky behaviour | |||
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"I understand that is frustrating but maybe they just changed their mind? Are we going to continue justifying terrible behaviour with this excuse? " It's fine for people to change their mind I just wish that they would actually tell me so I don't waste my free time and look for someone that actually meets. In the last 6 years the amount of people not turning up and not bothering to message to let me know is disgusting I'd never dream of messing someone about like that. | |||
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