FabSwingers.com forum: Have you ever cheated on a partner?

By *osephSamuel90 OP Man
4 weeks ago

Warfield

Have you ever been unfaithful? And did they find out? Were you caught in the act?

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
4 weeks ago

Aberdeen

No, I've never been unfaithful. Cheating isn't in my character. I'd just end it if it wasn't working.

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
4 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle

What would constitute cheating or would that be another forum??

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
4 weeks ago

Altrincham

"Have you ever cheated on a partner? - Have you ever been unfaithful? And did they find out? Were you caught in the act?"

I have cheated on every partner I have ever been with, hubby now of 24yrs was the result of an affair but I haven't ever been unfaithful to him and I'm now in this fantastic position of him giving me his consent for me to have a BF (his idea too!)

I'm a lucky girl with a hubby and a BF

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By *ndymac888Man
4 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Nope

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By *osephSamuel90 OP Man
4 weeks ago

Warfield

"What would constitute cheating or would that be another forum??"

Anything sexual. Don't think I'd count a kiss

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By *peedyGMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

Nope never have

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By *issmorganWoman
4 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

No I haven't and wouldn't.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

When I was much younger and didn't know how to end a relationship I did it once.

Felt fucking awful. Suddenly worked out how to break up with the guy I was seeing immediately, it was tactless and messy, but it was done. Didn't ever tell him about the cheating, because the only thing he'd gain from the knowledge was pain, without an intent to continue the relationship telling him would only have been me seeking an alleviation of guilt. Guilt that I deserved to feel.

Before I knew about poly I kept the majority of my relationships after that one casual. These days I have serious relationships, but with full consent to have other relationships 💜

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By *ools and the brainCouple
4 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Not a chance in hell.

I'm ( Mr) am a pretty difficult person to live with and the chances of finding anyone with the patience jools has is practically zero so I'm not going to fuck up the best thing ever to happen to me just for a quick shag elsewhere.

We are not perfect individuals but as a couple we are perfect for each other.

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By *enfalMan
4 weeks ago

West Yorkshire

Cheated for over 15 years to have different experiences I can’t get at home ! No she doesn’t know !

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
4 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle

"What would constitute cheating or would that be another forum??

Anything sexual. Don't think I'd count a kiss"

What about a cheeky finger??

Just joking- I wouldn't have the guts and I'd feel awful!

How people have affairs for years really blows my mind!

I'd be a nervous wreck!

Each to their own though I suppose!

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

Emotional cheating, yes. Physical cheating, no

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
4 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle

"Emotional cheating, yes. Physical cheating, no"

Would being on here chatting and not meeting be emotional cheating?

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
4 weeks ago

Norwich

"Not a chance in hell.

We are not perfect individuals but as a couple we are perfect for each other."

Love this answer.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

"Emotional cheating, yes. Physical cheating, no

Would being on here chatting and not meeting be emotional cheating? "

It probably depends on what you and your partner define cheating as? You could be okay with your boundaries and they might not agree.

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By *orphia2003Woman
4 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Sadly yes, once. During a long distance relationship. I admitted right away.

I'm not proud of what I did, but I have to live with it.

She split with me. Subsequently discovered she had been shagging a mutual friend for months.

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
4 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

Nope, never

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By *hickthighs25Woman
4 weeks ago

Stockton

Nope i havnt not judging anyonr but had it done to me and it was an awful feeling

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By *abluesbabyMan
4 weeks ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London

No, never.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
4 weeks ago

Bolton

"Not a chance in hell.

We are not perfect individuals but as a couple we are perfect for each other."

Love this

Mrs

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By *partharmonyCouple
4 weeks ago

Ruislip

Sort of. My former wife told me I wouldn't get sex with her so I might as well get it somewhere else, and gave me full consent to go out and get it. I didn't tell her about any specific encounters. It was just agreed that it was OK with her.

A couple of years later as the relationship deteriorated, I continued but I suspect she thought I wasn't doing it any more even though she had never told me not to.

The one day she asked me and I told her the truth. She accused me of infidelity. Was it? You tell me. I just know by that point she was such a horrible person to me I didn't really care what she thought. Luke

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By *urry BlokeMan
4 weeks ago

Yes, I've cheated and I've been cheated on

Neither are great experiences

Having openness and trust in a relationship was a bit of a game changer for me

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
4 weeks ago

Gloucester

No never. I am lucky my fella is happy for me to play solo and I am happy for him to as well

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By *izandpaulCouple
4 weeks ago

merseyside

No, never.

But don't judge others who do.

I would assume many of the single men we have met are married, what they do is their business.

We will not tolerate men who speak badly of their wives at meets, would just walk away.

Only experienced this type of behaviour once or twice in many years swinging.

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By *ucka39Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

Nope and never flirt text with someone else whilst in a relationship

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